Brandon The Dom

Brandon The Dom
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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.

  1. 6D AGO

    BDSM Q&A: Biting, Dominant Power, Self Worth as Men, and Practicing Asserting Wants

    In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from sent to me and from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:26) - Q1: Making Biting Less Painful (06:39) - Q2: Dominant Power vs Responsibility (10:03) - Q3: Worth as a Man (14:31) - Q4: Practicing Asserting Wants ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:▶️ March Q&A: https://youtu.be/OdcQpmAIYVI▶️ Feburary Q&A: https://youtu.be/A2UV9c1aaIM📖 Illusion of Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/illusion-of-control📖 C**k Worship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/c**k-worship📖 Service Top: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-top📖 Sexual Performance Anxiety: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety📖 Pain Kinks: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink

    22 min

  2. APR 29

    Tantric Breathing for Sex: A Simple Tool for Deeper Intimacy and Pleasure

    Looking to deepen your intimacy and enhance pleasure? Discover the power of tantric breathing techniques and learn how to connect with your partner on a whole new level through mindful breathwork. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:14) - What is Tantric Breathing? (01:09) - Why Engage in Tantric Breathing for Sex? (03:47) - Spiritual Influences (07:15) - How to use Tantric Breathing for Sex (10:29) - Types of Breathwork (13:24) - Breathing to decrease arousal (17:09) - Breathing to increase arousal (19:17) - Breathing to maintain arousal (21:28) - Special Practices ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Breathwork Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-breathing📖 Performance Anxiety: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety📖 Tantric Eye Gazing: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing📖 Tantric Touch: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Tantric Sex Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex📖 Lasting Longer in Bed: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/how-to-last-longer-during-sex

    29 min

  3. APR 29

    C**k Worship: 10 Principles to Worship Your Man

    Are you curious about c**k worship and why it can be so deeply erotic and healing? This video explores what c**k worship is, why it works, and how to practice it with presence and devotion for enhanced intimacy and sexual healing. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (01:02) - What Is C**k Worship? (04:17) - Why Engage in C**k Worship? (08:34) - How to Engage in C**k Worship (09:08) - Principle 1: This Is for Him (10:08) - Principle 2: Completely Own Your Experience (11:17) - Principle 3: Talk Ahead of Time (12:07) - Principle 4: Curate a Worship Space (14:05) - Principle 5: Slow Down (14:58) - Principle 6: Cover Every Inch (15:49) - Principle 7: Praise Him (17:44) - Principle 8: Use a Variety of Stimulation (19:22) - Principle 9: Keep Eye Contact (19:45) - Principle 10: Finish How He Wants (20:40) - How to Receive C**k Worship ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Worship Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/c**k-worship📖 Sexual Performance Anxiety: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexual-performance-anxiety📖 Praise Kink: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink📖 Cockwarming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming

    25 min

  4. APR 29

    Why Grief Can Kill—or Intensify—Your Sexual Desire

    What happens when grief changes your relationship with sex in ways you don’t expect? This video explores how loss impacts desire, intimacy, and erotic identity, helping you understand your shifting sexuality, release shame, and navigate sex with compassion during times of grief. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (01:46) - How Does Our Sexuality Naturally Change? (05:25) - The 5 Stages of Grief (08:34) - How Does Grief Affect Your Sex Life? (12:09) - How to Navigate Sex During Grief (14:05) - Sitting With Intense Emotions (19:08) - Communicate With Your Partners (21:15) - Don’t Feel Guilty Asking for Help (23:04) - This Too Shall Pass ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Grief Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/grief📖 Sexless Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations

    26 min

  5. APR 29

    Stop Believing the Illusion of Total Control

    What if the control you think you have in a D/s relationship is nothing more than an illusion? Explore how dominance is built—not through force or perfection, but through intention, consent, self-mastery, and real control. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (01:16) - Why Would Someone Give Over Control? (03:28) - Why Would Someone Want Control? (06:38) - The Illusion of Control (08:55) - Step 1: Master Yourself Before You Master Another (12:57) - Step 2: Ask for Control (15:05) - Step 3: Start Small, Show Competency, & Build Trust (16:05) - Step 4: Ask for More Control (or Let Them Ask to Give It) (17:01) - Step 5: Give Back Control When You Abuse It (18:07) - Step 1: Submit from a Secure Place (19:50) - Step 2: Know Your Yeses and Nos (22:25) - Step 3: Determine What Might Feel Good to Give Over (27:57) - Step 4: Start Small & Build Trust ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Control Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/illusion-of-control📖 Dom/sub relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust📖 How to Be a Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/how-to-be-a-dom

    31 min

  6. MAR 31

    BDSM Q&A: Intense Sexual Feelings, Dom Drop, Truth About 24/7 Dynamics, Communication in BDSM

    In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from the Red Room Forums and YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:24) - Q1: Dealing With Intense Sexual Feelings (04:00) - Q2: Dom Drop (08:38) - Q3: Truth About 24/7 Dynamics (16:24) - Q4: Why So Much Communication in BDSM ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace📖 Traits of a Good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant▶️ Feburary Q&A: https://youtu.be/A2UV9c1aaIM

    22 min

  7. MAR 31

    The Submission That Isn't: Identifying Topping from the Bottom

    ‍Are you struggling with topping from the bottom in your D/s dynamic? Learn what topping from the bottom really means, why it happens, and how Dominants and submissives can rebuild trust, improve communication, and create deeper, more satisfying power exchange relationships. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:16) - What Is Topping From the Bottom? (03:32) - What Isn’t Topping From the Bottom (07:06) - Topping From the Bottom vs. Bratting (08:13) - Why Do Submissives Top From the Bottom? (15:59) - How to Address Topping From the Bottom (16:27) - What the Dom Can Do (24:54) - What the Submissive Can Do ---FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Topping Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/topping-from-the-bottom📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer📖 BDSM Scene Crafting : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-scene📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support 📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust 📖 Boundaries & Limits: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits 📖  Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations📖 Power Exchange: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/power-exchange📖 Submissive Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-mindset

    39 min

  8. MAR 31

    Tantric Touch: More Than Just a Pleasurable Massage

    Want to deepen intimacy and pleasure through touch? Tantric Touch enhances connection with intentional, mindful techniques for sensual intimacy, deeper bonding, and  experiencing pleasure beyond goal-driven sex. ---👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching--- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:--- FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:🔥 Touch Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-touch📖 Tantric Eye Gazing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-eye-gazing📖 Tantric Breathing for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-breathing📖 Tantric Sex Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex📖 Tantric Yoni Massage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/yoni-massage

    17 min
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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.

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  • Creator
    Brandon The Dom
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    73
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Brandon The Dom
  • Show Website
    Brandon The Dom

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