In this Valentine's Day collaboration with A Novel Affair Romance Bookstore, Nins & Arns discuss two completely different novels—a contemporary romance and a Vietnam War novel—that somehow arrive at the exact same conclusion about self-love, healing, and forgiveness. First, Nins dives into How to End a Love Story by Yulin Kuang, a romance about grief, guilt, vulnerability, self-worth, and the fear of being truly known by another person. Then, Arns explores The Women by Kristin Hannah, a bestselling historical fiction novel following an army nurse during the Vietnam War as she navigates trauma, friendship, resilience, PTSD, and the difficult journey of rebuilding a life after war. Though completely different premises, both books ultimately ask the same question: How do we learn to love ourselves after heartbreak? In this episode, we discuss: • How to End a Love Story by Yulin Kuang • The Women by Kristin Hannah • Romance novels and contemporary fiction • Historical fiction and the Vietnam War • Grief, trauma, healing, and self-forgiveness • PTSD and mental health representation • Friendship, resilience, and emotional recovery • Book recommendations that made us cry • Valentine's Day reading recommendations • Self-love and personal growth If you love emotional books, book club discussions, literary deep dives, BookTok favorites, romance novels, or stories that stay with you long after the final page, this episode is for you. Content warning: trauma, grief & loss, death from suicide, violence, mental health issues, PTSD 0:00 - Preview 0:32 - Intro 1:57 - Vday collab with A Novel Affair Romance Bookshop 4:25 - Follow us on socials :') 5:10 - Nins: How to End a Love Story by Yulin Kuang (Yung's rec) 36:45 - Arns: The Women by Kristin Hannah (Julie's rec) 1:12:27 - Outro Referenced in this episode: A Novel Affair Romance Bookstore in Los Altos, CAHow to End a Love Story by Yulin KuangYulin Kuang's website"Writer-director Yulin Kuang on getting things done" on The Creative IndependentThe Women by Kristin HannahJoin the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at hello@brbcryingpodcast.com. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.