Bringing Hope Home

Schaffer Ministries
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Welcome to Bringing Hope Home with Bryce and Colette Schaffer! We're pastors, authors, and a couple who've been married for nearly 30 years, and we're here to help you build a peaceful, Christ-centered home. Each week, we dive into real talk about marriage, parenting, and family life from a biblical perspective. Whether you're newlyweds finding your way, parents in the thick of it, or a couple working to reconnect, we're bringing practical wisdom, honest conversations, and hope-filled encouragement straight to your earbuds. We believe your home can be your peaceful sanctuary - and we're here to help you create it, one episode at a time. Bring hope home to your life today!

  1. 9H AGO

    Don't Let Toxic Relationships Steal Your Future | Recognizing & Navigating Toxicity God's Way

    Are toxic relationships quietly keeping you — and your marriage — from the future God has planned? In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer tackle one of the most common and painful struggles they've encountered in 20 years of pastoring: the damaging effects of toxic people in our lives, and how to navigate those relationships without compromising your peace, your faith, or your future. Drawing from Ephesians 1:17–18, Psalm 1, Proverbs 12:16, and Isaiah 54, Bryce and Colette walk you through how to identify what's truly toxic (versus what's simply growing pains in a relationship), how to recognize the toxic cycle before it repeats again, and what practical, Spirit-led steps you can take to protect your home and your heart. Whether you're in a struggling marriage, navigating a difficult friendship or family relationship, or you're dating and something feels off — this honest and encouraging conversation will give you the biblical lens and the practical tools you need to move forward with clarity and confidence. Bring hope home to your life today. 🏡 Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

    25 min

  2. JAN 26

    When Your Child Is Being Bullied: Biblical Wisdom and Practical Steps for Christian Parents

    Is your child suffering in silence? Practical help for parents of bullied children. One in five students experiences bullying—but the real number is likely higher, because many kids never tell their parents what's happening. If your child is coming home quieter, reluctant to go to school, or showing signs of withdrawing, this episode is for you. Bryce and Colette Schaffer have walked through bullying with their own three children, witnessed it countless times as teachers and coaches, and counseled families through it as pastors. They bring raw honesty about their own kids' experiences in a small-town school and share both biblical truth and practical wisdom for helping your child navigate this painful season. In this episode, you'll discover: Warning signs your child might be facing bullying (even when they're not talking about it)How to stay calm and be the steady presence your child needsBuilding your child's identity and worth in Christ—not in others' opinionsThe balance between protecting your child and avoiding helicopter parentingAnswering hard theological questions: "Why would God let this happen?"Specific strategies for verbal bullying, physical bullying, and cyberbullyingWhen to involve teachers, principals, or authoritiesWhy "hurting people hurt people"—and what that means for your responseScripture prayers to speak over your childHow God can redeem even the most painful seasonsKey truth: Your child's worth isn't defined by what the bully says—it's anchored in what God says. "You are fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:14). "God is close to the brokenhearted" (Psalm 34:18). Whether your child is in elementary school, middle school, or high school, whether they're dealing with classroom bullies or cyberbullying, this episode will equip you with both the spiritual foundation and practical tools to help them walk through this valley—with God's strength and your steady support. You are not alone. God sees. God grieves. And God will walk with you through this. 📖 FREE DOWNLOAD: Scripture Prayers for Bullied Children  Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

    23 min

  3. JAN 19

    When Depression Hits Your Marriage: A Pastor's Guide to Hope and Healing

    One in five adults will experience mental illness this year—including Christians, pastors, and people of faith. Yet depression remains one of the most silent struggles in marriage, especially in Christian circles where we're often afraid to admit we need help. In this vulnerable and practical episode, Bryce and Colette Schaffer tackle depression head-on, sharing their own experiences with postpartum depression, teenage struggles, and supporting congregation members through mental health challenges. As pastors with nearly 20 years of ministry experience, they've walked alongside countless couples through this darkness—and they're here to tell you: seeking help isn't weakness. In this episode, you'll discover:  ✓ The real difference between sadness and clinical depression  ✓ Warning signs that your spouse may be struggling (changes in sleep, isolation, loss of interest)  ✓ Why depression often has both physical and spiritual components ✓ What NOT to say when your spouse opens up ("Just pray more" or "Others have it worse")  ✓ How to validate your spouse's feelings without trying to "fix" everything immediately  ✓ Why isolation is the enemy's tactic—and why staying connected to church matters  ✓ When it's time to encourage professional help or medication  ✓ How to have regular "check-ins" that create safety for honest conversations Bryce and Colette remind us that Jesus said "Come to me, all who are weary"—not "wait until you're all cleaned up." Depression isn't a spiritual failure; it's often a chemical imbalance that requires both faith and professional treatment. Your spouse needs you to be present, patient, and willing to walk through this marathon—not offer quick-fix solutions. If you're the one struggling, please hear this: You are not alone. You are not weak. You are valued and valuable. God's mercies are new every morning, and there is hope for healing. 🆘 CRISIS RESOURCES: If you or someone you love is having suicidal thoughts, please call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline immediately. Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

    26 min

  4. JAN 12

    From Goals to Habits: Building Daily Rhythms That Strengthen Your Marriage

    Turn Your Marriage Goals into Reality with Intentional Habits You've set goals for your marriage and family—that's the first step. But goals without habits are just wishes on paper. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer show you how to create the daily rhythms and habits that'll actually get you where you want to go. Building on last week's conversation about setting goals together as a couple, this week dives into the practical "how-to" of making those dreams a reality. Because when both of you are pulling in the same direction with consistent habits, that's when real transformation happens. What You'll Learn: The power of rhythm in your marriage (and why it's like a golf swing or basketball play—momentum matters!) How to use willpower strategically to build lasting habits (spoiler: it takes 21 days, and you can start today) Four essential habit categories every strong marriage needs: Connection habits: Daily check-ins, date nights, and tech-free timeSpiritual habits: Praying together, reading Scripture, and seeking God as a coupleConflict resolution habits: Healthy communication and fighting fairKindness habits: Small acts of service that fill up your spouse's emotional bankPractical strategies for making new habits stick, including tracking progress, using environmental cues, and giving yourself grace Why "progress over perfection" is the secret to long-term growth in your marriage Perfect for: Couples wanting to strengthen their marriageNewlyweds building their foundationStruggling marriages seeking practical helpParents trying to create better rhythms at homeAnyone who's set goals but struggles with follow-throughResources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

    26 min

  5. JAN 5

    How to Set Goals Together as a Couple: Financial, Spiritual & Marriage Goals for 2026

    Are you and your spouse walking together in unity, or are you headed in different directions? In this episode, Colette and Bryce Schaffer share how to set meaningful goals together as a couple—covering finances, spiritual growth, and your marriage itself. The Schaffers walk you through practical steps to create a unified vision for your relationship in 2026. Learn how to align your priorities, support each other's dreams, honor God with your resources, and make your home the peaceful sanctuary it was meant to be. Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, goal setting together can transform how you communicate, dream, and build your future. When you agree to walk together (Amos 3:3), God can do exceedingly abundantly beyond what you imagine. KEY TOPICS DISCUSSED: Setting financial goals and creating a budget that honors GodDeveloping spiritual growth goals as a coupleAligning your family prioritiesScheduling intentional couple time to protect your marriageBalancing individual goals with shared couple goalsRESOURCES MENTIONED: Marriage Builders Course - A comprehensive marriage curriculum to help you build a strong foundation  Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products Don't just set goals individually this year—set them together. Your marriage will be stronger, your home will be more peaceful, and you'll walk in the unity God designed for you. Bring hope home to your life today!

    27 min

  6. 12/22/2025

    Love: The Greatest Gift for Your Marriage This Christmas | Advent Series

    This Christmas season, discover how God's unconditional love through Jesus can transform your marriage and family life. In this Advent series episode on LOVE, pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer unpack the true meaning of biblical love and how it applies to your everyday relationships. Drawing from John 3:16 , they share practical wisdom on showing love through giving, forgiveness, quality time, and acts of service. In This Episode: Why God's love is the ultimate example of unconditional givingHow to show love in your spouse's love languageThe power of pre-emptive forgiveness during stressful seasonsBreaking free from phone distractions to be truly presentTrading material gifts for meaningful promises to each otherWhy your presence is more valuable than your presentsWhether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this episode offers hope and practical tools to cultivate a more loving, peaceful home. Perfect for couples navigating the busy holiday season or seeking to reconnect with each other and God. Note: No episode next week as we celebrate Christmas with family. Happy Holidays! Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

    15 min

  7. 12/15/2025

    Finding Joy Beyond Happiness: Recognizing God's Blessings in Marriage & Everyday Life

    Are you rushing through life, focused on the next task while missing the joy right in front of you? In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer explore the transformative power of biblical joy—and why it's so much more than temporary happiness. As part of their Advent series, Bryce and Colette share how joy gives us the strength to keep going, even during life's most overwhelming seasons. They discuss the difference between living in dread and living in anticipation of God's goodness, and offer practical wisdom for recognizing where God is showing up in your marriage, parenting, and daily life. From the power of praise reports to the importance of journaling small victories, this conversation will help you shift your perspective and cultivate the joy-filled, peaceful home you've been longing for. Whether you're facing marriage challenges, parenting struggles, or just the busyness of everyday life, this episode offers biblical encouragement and practical tools to help you slow down and embrace the blessings all around you. What You'll Learn: The biblical meaning of joy and why it's essential for marriage and family lifeHow to practice gratitude and recognize God's presence in small momentsWhy praise reports are just as important as prayer requestsThe danger of living in the past or future instead of being presentPractical ways to break the cycle of dread and embrace anticipationBryce and Colette Schaffer are pastors of New Hope Church in Timber Lake, South Dakota, and have been married for 30 years. They're the creators of Marriage Builders, a comprehensive marriage curriculum, and authors of multiple books including "God Is Bigger" and "Planted." Through their ministry, they've helped countless couples strengthen their marriages and create peaceful, Christ-centered homes.

    15 min

  8. 12/08/2025

    Finding Peace: How to Overcome Unforgiveness This Christmas | Advent Series

    Is unforgiveness stealing your peace this holiday season? In week two of our Advent series, Bryce and Colette Schaffer dive deep into the biblical concept of peace and why the Prince of Peace came to bring wholeness (Shalom) to your life, marriage, and home. If you're struggling with past hurts, dreading family gatherings, or feeling the weight of bitterness toward your spouse or family members, this episode offers hope and practical solutions rooted in Scripture. What You'll Learn: The difference between worldly peace and biblical peace (Shalom)How unforgiveness acts like a scorching sun that eventually destroys youWhy forgiveness is essential for YOUR freedom, not just the other person'sPractical strategies for handling difficult family dynamics during ChristmasHow to set healthy boundaries while still experiencing reconciliationWays to minimize holiday drama and create the peaceful sanctuary your home should beBryce and Colette share powerful analogies—from dripping buckets to blazing heat—that illustrate how holding onto unforgiveness weighs you down and poisons your relationships. They also provide actionable steps to release those hurts to God and gear up for peace instead of tension. Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this episode will equip you with biblical truth and pastoral wisdom to experience true, lasting peace this Christmas and beyond. Scriptures Referenced: John 16:33, Mark 11:25, Mark 4 Connect with us: hello@schafferministries.com Website: https://www.schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage Quiz: https://www.schafferministries.com/quiz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bringing_hope_home/?next=%2Fdirect%2Finbox%2F Bring hope home to your life today!

    19 min
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Welcome to Bringing Hope Home with Bryce and Colette Schaffer! We're pastors, authors, and a couple who've been married for nearly 30 years, and we're here to help you build a peaceful, Christ-centered home. Each week, we dive into real talk about marriage, parenting, and family life from a biblical perspective. Whether you're newlyweds finding your way, parents in the thick of it, or a couple working to reconnect, we're bringing practical wisdom, honest conversations, and hope-filled encouragement straight to your earbuds. We believe your home can be your peaceful sanctuary - and we're here to help you create it, one episode at a time. Bring hope home to your life today!

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  • Creator
    Schaffer Ministries
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    161
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Bringing Hope Home
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