Bringing Hope Home

Schaffer Ministries
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Welcome to Bringing Hope Home with Bryce and Colette Schaffer! We're pastors, authors, and a couple who've been married for nearly 30 years, and we're here to help you build a peaceful, Christ-centered home. Each week, we dive into real talk about marriage, parenting, and family life from a biblical perspective. Whether you're newlyweds finding your way, parents in the thick of it, or a couple working to reconnect, we're bringing practical wisdom, honest conversations, and hope-filled encouragement straight to your earbuds. We believe your home can be your peaceful sanctuary - and we're here to help you create it, one episode at a time. Bring hope home to your life today!

  1. 1d ago

    True Freedom vs. False Freedom: The Lie That's Wrecking Christian Marriages

    Send a question or topic you want to hear What if the "freedom" you're chasing is actually a trap — and the boundaries you're resisting are actually your protection? In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer unpack the difference between true freedom in Christ and the false freedom the world (and the enemy) keeps selling us — and how that lie quietly shows up in marriage, parenting, and everyday life. Tracing the pattern from the Garden of Eden to the prodigal son, Bryce and Colette show how false freedom always promises more but delivers less. They dig into Romans 6 (slave to sin or slave to righteousness), Galatians 5 (standing fast in liberty), and John 10:10 — and offer practical ways to identify the "yokes" quietly stealing your peace, your joy, and your marriage. In this episode: Why the enemy's oldest trick is convincing us God's boundaries are a cageThe prodigal son and the real cost of freedom apart from GodWhy boundaries are protection, not punishmentThree freedoms found in Christ — and what they mean for your marriageHow to recognize what you're "yoked" to and reclaim true libertyWhether you're newly married, raising a family, or fighting to save a marriage on the brink, this conversation will challenge what you believe about freedom — and point you back to the peace, joy, and liberty God intended for your home all along. Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and if this episode encourages you, please rate, review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  2. Aug 31

    Why Families Fall Apart — And the Biblical Path to Healing a Broken Home

    Send a question or topic you want to hear Is your family struggling? You're not alone. Research shows 70-80% of Americans consider their family dysfunctional — but what does "normal" even look like? In this episode, Bryce and Colette Schaffer explore what causes families to fall apart, from anger and pride to compartmentalized faith, and trace it all the way back to the very first family — Adam and Eve — and one of the Bible's most heartbreaking examples, King David. You'll walk away with practical, biblical steps for healing: how to recognize the enemy's footholds before they take root, why forgiveness and truth have to come before restoration, and how weaving God into your marriage like a three-strand cord (Ecclesiastes 4:9-13) changes everything. Bryce and Colette also share how to find godly counsel that actually moves you forward, and a simple rhythm — using "the firsts" of your year, month, and week — to keep your family aligned and growing instead of drifting. Whatever season your family is in, this episode offers hope, truth, and a clear next step. Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  3. Aug 24

    Is There a Right Time to Get Married or Have Kids? Biblical Timing for Marriage & Family

    Send a question or topic you want to hear What's the "right" age to get married? To have kids? Research says 27, with three-plus years of dating — but pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer aren't so sure a number tells the whole story. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette (married 31 years, pastors for 20) tackle one of the most common questions couples bring to them: when is the right time for marriage, kids, or a major life step? They walk through six practical questions — emotional readiness, capacity for change, desire for growth, shifting responsibilities, and counting the cost — plus the one factor that matters more than any of them: God's timing. Pulling from their own story of marrying young and weathering plenty of critics along the way, Bryce and Colette share how leaning on Colossians 3:15 — being led by peace, not feelings or circumstances — has carried their marriage for three decades. Whether you're dating, engaged, newly married, or wondering if it's time to grow your family, this episode will help you trade the pressure of a timeline for the peace of God's plan. If this episode speaks to you, subscribe to Bringing Hope Home, share it with a friend, and take our free "How Healthy Is Your Marriage?" quiz to see where your marriage stands today. Ready to go deeper? Check out our Marriage Builders course, built to help you build your marriage on a firm foundation from the ground up. Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  4. Aug 17

    Is That God or Just You? How to Hear the Voice of the Holy Spirit

    Send a question or topic you want to hear How do you know if what you're hearing is the Holy Spirit, your own thoughts, or something else entirely? In this episode, Pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer unpack how to recognize and grow in your ability to hear the Holy Spirit's voice — a skill every believer can develop with practice. You'll learn who the Holy Spirit is (John 14, John 16, Ephesians 1:13), why He never contradicts Scripture, and how to test the spirits according to 1 John 4:1-3. Bryce and Colette walk through the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:16-23), why peace acts as your "umpire" in decision-making (Colossians 3:15), and why guarding your heart — not just following it — is the biblical path forward (Proverbs 4:23). Whether you're new to your faith or have walked with God for decades, this episode offers practical, biblical tools for discernment in everyday life, marriage, and parenting. Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  5. Aug 10

    Deepening Your Roots as a Couple: What Research Says About Connected Marriages

    Send a question or topic you want to hear Marriages don't drift apart overnight — they drift one disconnected day at a time. In this episode, Bryce and Colette Schaffer explore a 2024 Wheatley Institute study comparing high-connecting couples to low-connecting couples, revealing the specific habits and virtues that make the biggest difference in a marriage. Discover the four relationship habits — time together, acts of kindness, forgiveness, and relationship maintenance — along with the three marital virtues of commitment, other-centeredness, and compassion that set thriving marriages apart. Bryce and Colette get personal, sharing real stories from over 30 years of marriage, including lessons learned about sarcasm and communication, navigating seasons of low intimacy, sharing the load as a team, and why serving together in ministry deepened their own connection. If you're ready to deepen your roots as a couple — whether you're newly married or feeling distant after years together — this episode offers practical, Scripture-centered steps to help your marriage flourish through every season of life. Bryce and Colette Schaffer are pastors of New Hope Church in Timber Lake, SD, with over 20 years in ministry together. They are the creators of the Marriage Builders course and authors of several books on marriage and navigating life's hardest seasons through faith. Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  6. Aug 3

    Biblical Masculinity & Femininity: God's Design for Men and Women in Marriage

    Send a question or topic you want to hear What does the Bible really say about being a godly man or a godly woman? In this episode, Pastors Bryce and Colette Schaffer take on one of the most talked-about topics in marriage and culture today: biblical masculinity and femininity. Using Galatians 3:28 as their starting point, they show why God's design for men and women was never about a hierarchy of worth, but about complementary roles rooted in love and purpose. They explore the Proverbs 31 woman and Lydia from Acts 16 as examples of biblical femininity — women who were wise, capable, business-minded, and deeply devoted to bringing Christ into their homes. Then Bryce shares what biblical masculinity looks like in light of Ephesians 5 and 1 Peter: sacrificial love, servant leadership, covering, and being a watchman for the family. Bryce and Colette also dig into what "submission" really means (hint: it's not what you think), and close with a powerful reminder of everything Jesus wasn't — weak, prideful, passive, emotionless, or isolated — as the model for how both men and women are called to live. If you've ever felt confused, frustrated, or even a little defensive about "gender roles" in marriage, this episode offers clarity, grace, and hope for your home. 🏠 Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  7. Jul 20

    10 Ways to Pray for Your Kids | Christian Parenting & Prayer | Part 2

    Send a question or topic you want to hear You don't need the perfect words to pray for your kids — you just need to start. In this episode, Bryce and Colette Schaffer walk through 10 practical, Scripture-rooted ways to pray over your children, building on last week's episode about praying for your spouse. From praying for your child's heart and mind, to protection, faith, giftings, future spouse, friendships, wisdom for you as a parent, the fruit of the Spirit, godly courage, and their needs in the moment — this episode gives you a real, usable framework you can pray through this week and come back to for years. You'll also hear key Scriptures to anchor your prayers: Proverbs 3:5-6, 1 Peter 5:7, and Matthew 6:33. Whether your kids are toddlers or adults, whether they're yours by birth or the kids in your church, neighborhood, or classroom — every child needs someone praying for them. Let this be your starting point. Bryce and Colette are pastors of New Hope Church in Timber Lake, SD with over 20 years in ministry. Have a topic you'd like covered? Email hello@schafferministries.com. Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

  8. Jul 13

    How to Pray for Your Spouse: 5 Prayers Every Marriage Needs (Prayer Series, Part 1)

    Send a question or topic you want to hear Do you know what to actually pray for your spouse — beyond "bless them, Lord"? In Part 1 of our Prayer series, Bryce and Colette Schaffer walk through five specific ways to cover your husband or wife in prayer: their heart, their mind, their health and safety, their concerns, and their God-given purpose. They also unpack the difference between a wishful "I hope" and biblical hope — a confident, earnest expectation rooted in scripture like Jeremiah 29:11 — and why praying from fear short-circuits faith. You'll hear how to pray scripture over your spouse (Ephesians 1 & 3, 2 Corinthians 10:3-5, Psalm 91, Romans 8), why keeping a prayer journal matters, and how praying in the Holy Spirit helps when you simply don't know what to say. If you're ready to move your marriage from surviving to thriving, start here — with prayer. Grab a pen, take notes, and bring hope home to your life today. Next week: How to Pray for Your Children (Prayer Series, Part 2). Resources: Schafferministries.com How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz Follow us on Instagram Join our monthly newsletter Check out our books and products

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Welcome to Bringing Hope Home with Bryce and Colette Schaffer! We're pastors, authors, and a couple who've been married for nearly 30 years, and we're here to help you build a peaceful, Christ-centered home. Each week, we dive into real talk about marriage, parenting, and family life from a biblical perspective. Whether you're newlyweds finding your way, parents in the thick of it, or a couple working to reconnect, we're bringing practical wisdom, honest conversations, and hope-filled encouragement straight to your earbuds. We believe your home can be your peaceful sanctuary - and we're here to help you create it, one episode at a time. Bring hope home to your life today!

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  • Creator
    Schaffer Ministries
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    188
  • Rating
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    © 2026 Bringing Hope Home
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