Broken Fathers Podcast

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The Broken Fathers Podcast, founded by Australian veteran Jared "Purcy" Purcell, provides a platform for fathers to share their struggles, expose flaws in Australia’s outdated Family Court system, and advocate for change.Purcy decided to create a podcast to establish a platform where fathers can feel comfortable to share there horrific experiences about the outdated Family Court system of Australia. He intends to lay bare the twisted system, by sharing the experiences of other broken fathers; to heal, to learn, and to raise awareness to end this injustice against men.Jared’s a proud father, who has been completely broken by his experiences with the outdated Family Court system.Good and loving fathers should never have to fight strangers in court, for the basic right to be a part of, and parent their own children.

  1. Episode 34 - Adrian Perez - I don't even know what my Daughter's look like ?

    Jun 30

    Episode 34 - Adrian Perez - I don't even know what my Daughter's look like ?

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 34 Guest - Adrian Perez In one of our most confronting and emotionally powerful episodes, Adrian Perez shares the unimaginable reality of being separated from his daughters through parental alienation. With remarkable honesty and vulnerability, he recounts the events that led to losing contact with his children and the profound grief that comes from missing years of their lives. Adrian speaks openly about the emotional rollercoaster of navigating the family court system, the financial and psychological toll it has taken on him, and the heartbreaking moments of watching precious milestones pass by from a distance. He reflects on the feelings of helplessness, isolation, and despair that so many parents experience when they are denied meaningful contact with their children, while also discussing the importance of maintaining hope in the face of overwhelming adversity. Throughout our conversation, Adrian highlights the long-term consequences that parental alienation and high-conflict family disputes can have—not only on parents but, more importantly, on children. He shares the coping strategies that have helped him continue moving forward, the lessons he has learned through his journey, and why he believes awareness, reform, and open conversations are essential to protecting families. This episode isn't simply about one father's heartbreaking story. It's a conversation about resilience, unconditional love, mental health, and the enduring bond between a parent and child. Adrian's courage in sharing his experience sheds light on an issue that often remains hidden behind closed doors and offers hope to others who may be walking a similar path. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, legal professional, mental health practitioner, or someone wanting to better understand the human impact of family separation, this episode is both thought-provoking and deeply moving. It serves as a powerful reminder that every family has a story, and every child deserves the opportunity to have healthy, loving relationships with the important people in their lives whenever it is safe to do so. In this episode, we discuss: Adrian's journey through parental alienation and family separation.The emotional, financial, and psychological impact of prolonged court proceedings.The devastating effects of losing contact with his daughters.The importance of resilience, mental health, and finding purpose through adversity.Why greater awareness and meaningful conversations around parental alienation matter.Adrian's message of hope for parents facing similar challenges.Support the show

    2h 49m
  2. Episode 33 - Benson Tan & Collette Farron - When Protection Orders Become "Family Court Weapons"

    Jun 10

    Episode 33 - Benson Tan & Collette Farron - When Protection Orders Become "Family Court Weapons"

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 33 Guest - Benson Tan & Collette Farron For years, Benson stayed silent. Not because he had nothing to say, but because he was silenced. Now, after years of court battles, separation from his daughters, false allegations, legal proceedings, and a relentless fight to remain part of their lives, he is sharing his story publicly for the very first time. From being best friends since the mid-90s, to creating two beautiful daughters together through IVF, life took a path no one could have imagined. What started as an amicable co-parenting relationship after his wife had multiple affairs eventually turned into a nightmare. Following an incident where his ex-wife assaulted his partner, a DVO was put in place on him, communication was cut off, and a father was suddenly unable to see or speak to his children. After years of fighting, consent orders were finally reached, offering hope that a meaningful relationship with his daughters could be rebuilt. But the battle didn’t end there. Constant allegations, ongoing court appearances, and repeated attempts to stop contact took their toll. After years of emotional, financial, and legal exhaustion, he reached a point where he simply couldn’t keep fighting. This is the story of a father who never wanted to walk away but was worn down by a system and a process that seemed determined to keep him away. When the legal battles ended, the emotional impact remained. This episode isn’t just about one father. It’s about the cost of family breakdown, the challenges of navigating complex legal systems, and the resilience it takes to keep showing up when every door seems closed. After years of staying silent, he’s ready to share his experience. This is his story. Support the show

    2h 12m
  3. Episode 32 - Leana Carter - DV CONNECT ARE ANTI-MEN

    May 14

    Episode 32 - Leana Carter - DV CONNECT ARE ANTI-MEN

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 31 Guest - Leana Carter In this week's episode, I speak with Leana Carter (a pseudonym used to protect her identity), who worked for DV Connect for over five years. With her voice altered for safety, Leana reveals the internal operations of the organization and discusses what she describes as a significant gender bias. While DV Connect’s mission is to provide safety, transport, and crisis support for Queenslanders, Leana highlights several concerns regarding equality and workplace culture: * Operational Discrepancies: The women’s crisis line operates 24/7, while the men’s line is only available from 9:00 AM to midnight. * Training and Gender Lens: Leana discusses the employee training manual, which she claims focuses exclusively on a female-centric "gender lens." She explains that staff are trained from recognizing men as victims and that challenging this perspective can lead to termination. * Internal Culture: The episode covers allegations of a "man-hating" culture, illegal "perp checks" on personal acquaintances, and high employee turnover. * Funding and KPIs: We discuss how the organization meets specific quotas to maintain funding requirements. * Triage and Procedures: Leana explains the three-tier system—from the initial 10-minute screening call to phone-based intake and finally shelter placement—and the challenges involving male children over the age of 12. * System Manipulation and Misconduct: The conversation touches on how the system is exploited for payouts through Victims Assist QLD (VAQ), as well as allegations of a serious drug culture within the office. She references one case where one woman got paid $100,000 on year. * Dug Culture: Leana talks about the bad Drug culture that happens in the office. There is a serious cocaine problem not only being used but also being dealt. This episode offers a candid look at the government narrative that only women can be victims and the reality behind the scenes of the so called "Equality" of DV. Support the show

    1h 32m
  4. Episode 31 - Len Jessop - It is Not a Broken System "ALETHOPHOBIA"

    May 14

    Episode 31 - Len Jessop - It is Not a Broken System "ALETHOPHOBIA"

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 31 Guest - Len Jessop & his partner Angela  On this episode I am joined by author of A Lethal Phobia, Len Jessop, and his partner Angela — who wrote the foreword to the book. Len is a father who has not seen his children in nearly three years. His love for them has never waned, his door remains open to them forever, and he is so proud of them both. Shaped by a stoic father and a mother with a heart of gold, Len's personal story is one of sacrifice, resilience, and defiant endurance. We also find time to talk about rugby league. In this conversation we cover the domestic violence industry and the uncomfortable truth that deaths are rising despite record funding. We discuss a peculiar and largely unknown Queensland law that Len believes represents a genuine risk to anyone accused under it. We talk about how compliance, self preservation, and institutional preservation consistently appear to take precedence over uncomfortable facts — and why those who challenge the accepted narrative so rarely find institutional support for doing so. We talk about the designed machine — Len's argument that the system is not broken but functioning exactly as intended. His criticism is directed at systems and institutions rather than individuals — and that distinction matters. We discuss perception versus reality — and the framework Len developed for getting closer to truth. Base Reality plus Context plus Cui Bono. He talks about choosing life when the darkness was at its deepest and why he believes nobody should throw away their ticket. This is an honest, evidence based, and at times confronting conversation about a system that affects far more families than most Australians realise. His book — A Lethal Phobia — is available now at alethophobia.com. Support the show

    2h 50m
  5. Episode 29 - Rodney Joyce - I Paid Child Support Consistently for 24 Years

    Apr 12

    Episode 29 - Rodney Joyce - I Paid Child Support Consistently for 24 Years

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 29 Guest - Rodney Joyce On this episode, I am joined by Rodney Joyce, a 57-year-old father of three from Ballina. Rodney shares the deeply personal story of fighting for his children and the struggles with mediation. After separating from his first partner when his daughter was 4 years old, Rodney found co-parenting manageable until his daughter turned eight and contact was abruptly cut off. He describes his experience with mediation and explains why he found the process ineffective for his situation. He recalls the heartbreaking experience of waiting for his daughter on Christmas Day, only to be told she would not be coming. After meeting his second partner, they welcomed a son a year later. However, challenges soon emerged within the relationship. Rodney discusses these difficulties, including a traumatic assault that resulted in a police-issued protection order for his safety. He also details the subsequent legal battle in the NSW Children’s Court involving fabricated allegations.  Rodney opens up about a difficult event where he received a letter claiming he had abducted his son. This situation unfortunately resulted in Rodney’s family having to drive his son to the airport to hand him over to his ex-partner. On a lighter note, Rodney also shares his experiences with his lawyer, jokingly referencing the character "Dennis Denuto" from the 1997 Australian film, The Castle. Furthermore, Rodney touches on his 24-year journey of paying child support, the sacrifices he made to provide for his daughter, and his subsequent fight to recover funds owed to him.  Today, Rodney has been happily married for 17 years. He is grateful to have all three of his children in his life and credits his beloved staffy, who was by his side for 17 years, for helping him through his darkest times. Support the show

    2h 20m
  6. Episode 26 - Alex Johnson - The Truth about Child Support

    Mar 5

    Episode 26 - Alex Johnson - The Truth about Child Support

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 26 Guest - Alex Johnson In this week’s episode, I am joined by Alex Johnson, a long-term employee at Child Support. Please note that to protect my guest's identity, I have changed their name and altered their voice. When I announced this interview and asked for your input, I received over 500 questions across all platforms. I am pleased to share that we managed to cover nearly 80% of the topics you requested.  During our conversation, my guest agrees that the Child Support formula needs to be updated. They explain that the agency can typically only backdate three months of arrears, extending to nine months only under special circumstances. We also discuss a wide range of topics, including: - ART & TRIP (Tax Return Intercept Process) Centrelink payments and domestic violence exemptions - Maximum income thresholds ($232,843.00) - The six formulas used in an assessment - Section 106A - Staff burnout and the training provided when mistakes occur - The backlog of objections and Change of Assessments (COA) - 28-day time frame for objections - Why court orders can be "rinse and repeat" & how to avoid wasting time - The impact of withholding children without justification - Business rules and regular care - Understaffing and resource shortages within the CSA - The Telecommunications Act regarding recording calls - Debt offsets and late penalty fees (and where those fees go) - Why the CSA will not pause payments - How payments adjust when a child turns 18 - The challenges of working within the agency - MTAWE (Male Total Average Weekly Earnings) in child support assessments - Garnishing / freezing accounts - Different departments in child support - Paying parent vs Receiving Parent - Private arrangements - Family court issues vs Child Support Issues - Overdue child support / Departure Prohibition Orders (DPO) - Reporting income (Incrementally) - CSA staff receive intense 12 weeks initial training package If you are struggling to navigate the child support system, this is an episode you don't want to miss. We cover a wide range of topics, and it is likely that any questions or queries you have will be answered in this discussion. Support the show

    3h 4m
  7. Episode 28 - Thomas Haxby - CCTV caught my Ex and her friends setting me up for False DV

    Mar 4

    Episode 28 - Thomas Haxby - CCTV caught my Ex and her friends setting me up for False DV

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 28 Guest - Thomas Haxby On this episode, we are joined by Thomas Haxby, father of one. Originally from Nottingham in the UK, Thomas moved to Australia with his parents and two sisters at the age of four. Only a year later, he was diagnosed with the rare condition Perthes disease, and was told he would need to rely on his mind—not his body—throughout life. Through discipline, resilience, and an unbreakable mindset, Thomas proved every prediction wrong. He went on to build a career as a trainer, mentor, and role model for youth and men today. Thomas spent roughly twelve years with his former partner—his best friend, his companion, and the mother of his child. Life changed quickly. One moment they were together on the Gold Coast, planning their next family holiday; shortly after returning home, the relationship ended. What followed was a 14‑month legal battle involving property settlement and custody of his daughter. Thomas speaks openly about the reality many men face in family law. His message is clear:   If you conduct yourself with integrity, stay disciplined, treat every interaction as if it will be reviewed in court, and think three steps ahead, men can achieve fair outcomes. Thomas secured 50/50 custody and retained his property—through patience, preparation, and allowing the other side to make their own mistakes. Throughout the process, meditation and a strong partnership with his lawyer became essential. Thomas entered mediation with complete confidence, backed by documentation, evidence, and emotional control. Within ten minutes, 50/50 care was granted—a result he had fought for relentlessly. His advice to men is simple and powerful:   - Document everything.   - Stay cool, calm, collected, and calculated.   - Work with a lawyer you genuinely connect with—don’t just hire the first name you find.   - Do your research, build your case, and protect your character at all costs. Thomas shares this story not for sympathy, but for awareness. Throughout the process, attempts were made to break him, provoke him, and drag him out of character. But he refused to slip. He was fighting for his daughter, his business, and his livelihood—and he was never going to be defeated. Support the show

    1h 57m
  8. Episode 27 - Robie & Olivia Hay - I'm Restricted From Contacting My Kids Until They're 18

    Feb 27

    Episode 27 - Robie & Olivia Hay - I'm Restricted From Contacting My Kids Until They're 18

    Send us Fan Mail Episode 27 Guest - Robbie & Olivia Hay In this episode we meet Robbie and Olivia Hay. Robbie was brought up by his single dad with holiday visits to his mum. After leaving school for work at aged 16, he shortly after met his now ex-partner (the mother of his children). Cracks were there from the beginning but being so young and already surrounded by other fractured relationships Robbie thought this to be normal. Robbie tells us about his experience as a victim of domestic violence, love bombing, bread crumbing and going through withholding abuse. After the birth of his 2 children, in 2014 and 2021, he officially split from the mother of his children and shortly after met Olivia, now his wife. Since their meeting his ex-partner did everything in her power to cause turmoil in their relationship and also withheld the children.  Despite engaging with the Family Court system in hopes of establishing a healthy co-parenting arrangement, Robbie describes a highly complex and frustrating legal process. Following a four-day trial—during which he was permitted to respond to claims but unable to present his own evidence—a No Contact order was issued. Consequently, Robbie is restricted from contacting his children until they reach the age of 18. This heartbreaking story is one of many with a similar formula: another father who trusted a system that, instead of protecting families, has left children fatherless. Support the show

    4h 2m
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The Broken Fathers Podcast, founded by Australian veteran Jared "Purcy" Purcell, provides a platform for fathers to share their struggles, expose flaws in Australia’s outdated Family Court system, and advocate for change.Purcy decided to create a podcast to establish a platform where fathers can feel comfortable to share there horrific experiences about the outdated Family Court system of Australia. He intends to lay bare the twisted system, by sharing the experiences of other broken fathers; to heal, to learn, and to raise awareness to end this injustice against men.Jared’s a proud father, who has been completely broken by his experiences with the outdated Family Court system.Good and loving fathers should never have to fight strangers in court, for the basic right to be a part of, and parent their own children.

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  • Creator
    Purcy
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Broken Fathers Podcast
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    Broken Fathers Podcast

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