Broken for Better

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Building authentic marriages and strengthening families for everyday life. Wherever you are in your marriage journey, we want to walk alongside you. Our desire is to see vulnerable and honest relationships capable of facing the highs and lows together. Do you have the right tools to strengthen your relationship now and in the future?

  1. JAN 29

    New Year, Same Baggage? Here’s the Fix

    In this conversation, Kurt and Denette discuss the importance of not carrying past wounds into new seasons of life, particularly in relationships. They explore how unresolved issues can linger and affect emotional intimacy, emphasizing the need for open communication and intentional healing. The discussion highlights practical tools for addressing pain points, the significance of scheduled repair time, and the understanding that conflict can lead to growth in relationships.Takeaways:New years don't fix old wounds; new rhythms do.Unresolved issues often stem from buried emotions.Communication is essential for healing in relationships.Sarcasm can be a harmful way to deflect pain.Scheduled repair time is crucial for addressing issues.Intentionality in relationships leads to better outcomes.It's important to express what hurt and what is needed.Conflict can be a pathway to deeper connection.Healing requires planning and effort.We can love deeply and still need to work on our relationship.Want more information about personal marriage coaching? Connect with Kurt and Denette at: https://www.brokenforbetter.com/coaching00:00Navigating Past Wounds05:11Understanding Unresolved Issues11:15The Importance of Communication16:45Intentional Healing in Relationships22:26Embracing Conflict for GrowthAll the links - stay in touch:https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo

    24 min

  2. JAN 15

    Can Change Really Happen in Marriage? (How to Start—Even If You’ve Tried Before)

    Can a marriage really change… or do couples just learn to cope?In this episode, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette unpack what real change looks like over time and why it’s usually not one big moment, but small, consistent choices made with humility and intentionality. You’ll hear practical tools you can start using right away especially if you feel stuck in the same arguments, discouraged by slow progress, or unsure where to begin. We also talk about why celebrating “small wins” matters more than you think, and how a growth mindset can rebuild hope in your relationship. Drop a comment: What’s one small change you’re willing to try this week? Want more information about personal marriage coaching? Connect with Kurt and Denette at: https://www.brokenforbetter.com/coaching Want to give financially?https://deka.gives/broken-for-betterAll the links - stay in touch:https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo

    18 min

  3. 11/13/2025

    From Surviving to Thriving: An Inside Look Inside Marriage Coaching | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    In this episode, Kurt and Denette Schaer discusses the power of marriage coaching, sharing personal experiences and insights into how coaching can help couples navigate various stages of their relationship. From addressing fears and misconceptions about coaching to exploring the benefits of having a supportive guide, Kurt and Denette chat about the importance of investing in relationships before reaching a crisis point. The conversation also touches on the challenges of vulnerability, the role of coaches in empowering couples, and the journey towards achieving a thriving partnership. Takeaways: Coaching can help individuals and couples navigate their relationships more effectively. Fear of the unknown often prevents people from seeking coaching or counseling. Many people feel they should know how to manage relationships without help, which is unrealistic. Asking for help in relationships is often seen as a sign of weakness, but it's actually a strength. Coaching provides tools and strategies to improve communication and emotional intimacy. It's important to find a coach who resonates with you and your situation.Investing in relationships early can prevent crises later on. The coaching process involves understanding individual struggles and providing actionable tools. Vulnerability in coaching can lead to significant breakthroughs in relationships. Everyone, regardless of their relationship status, can benefit from coaching. Chapters: 00:00 Reconnecting and Reflecting on the Journey 01:29 Understanding Coaching: The Need and the Fear 11:16 Who Needs Coaching? Everyone! 18:45 The Coaching Process: What to Expect 27:42 Investing in Relationships: The Long-Term Benefits All the links - stay in touch Want to give financially?

    28 min

  4. 10/23/2025

    Healing After Betrayal: Our Journey to Redemption | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    Join Kurt and Denette as they share their deeply personal journey through infidelity, broken trust, emotional healing and what it looked like to get there. Discover how they navigated one the darkest chapters of their marriage before child loss, to find hope and redemption. This candid conversation offers insights and tools for couples facing similar challenges. All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better Timestamps: Infidelity and Broken Trust: 00:44 Discussing Hard Subjects: 02:39 Hope and Clarity: 04:15 Emotional Healing and Connection: 20:18 Shame and Guilt: 22:56 Unspoken Tensions: 28:24 On the Other Side: 36:47 Building Trust: 54:10 #MarriageHealing #TrustRebuilding #HopeInMarriage

    1h 2m

  5. 06/26/2025

    What Turns Him On (& Off) In Marriage

    What really lights him up in marriage—and what shuts him down completely? In this eye-opening episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to hygiene and affection, we’re getting real about what creates connection—and what kills it. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned spouses, this conversation will help you better understand the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways intimacy is built—or broken. Tune in for honest insights, relatable stories, and a few surprises along the way.

    25 min

  6. 06/12/2025

    What Turns Her On (& Off) In Marriage

    What really lights her up in marriage—and what shuts her down completely? In this eye-opening episode on the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to playfulness and affection, we’re getting real about what creates connection—and what kills it. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned spouses, this conversation will help you better understand the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways intimacy is built—or broken. Tune in for honest insights, relatable stories, and a few surprises along the way.

    22 min

  7. 05/15/2025

    Beyond the Hashtag: Real Relationship Goals

    In this episode, we’re going beyond the hashtag and digging into what real relationship goals actually look like... the kind you can’t capture in a cute photo or a viral post. We talk about the deep work of building a relationship rooted in patience, respect, trust, and true friendship. If you're tired of the highlight reel and ready for the real thing, this one's for you.

    23 min

  8. 05/01/2025

    10 Marriage Game-Changers That Made Us Stronger | Broken for Better Podcast

    In this episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, Kurt and Denette Schaer share 10 powerful, practical ways that transformed and strengthened their marriage over their 28 years together. 💍Whether you're newly married, facing challenges, or simply wanting to deepen your connection, these game-changing tips will equip you with real, everyday tools to love and serve your spouse better.Marriage is a journey — and small intentional shifts can create a lifetime of lasting love.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a comment with your favorite takeaway!

    22 min
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Building authentic marriages and strengthening families for everyday life. Wherever you are in your marriage journey, we want to walk alongside you. Our desire is to see vulnerable and honest relationships capable of facing the highs and lows together. Do you have the right tools to strengthen your relationship now and in the future?

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  • Creator
    Broken for Better
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    63
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