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Ramon weatherall Sr

 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.Be that man.—THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:1. How to invest2. How to budget3. How to defend a purchase4. The difference between calculated risk and hope5. That money is a tool — not a goal—THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Write two lists.LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about moneyLIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my sonThat second list is your legacy.—WATCH NEXT:🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM

  1. 1d ago ·  Video

    I asked 77 Dads What Their Father Never Taught Them?

    This episode explores the core lessons fathers want to pass on to their children, emphasizing the importance of intentional parenting and life skills. It highlights common themes like preparation for real-world challenges, financial literacy, patience, and meaningful conversations.  keywords fatherhood, parenting, life lessons, financial literacy, patience, communication, personal growth, generational change  key  topics Fathers' common concerns about their children's future The importance of teaching life skills like money, mechanics, and patience The role of conversations in fatherhood How to make children more prepared for life's challenges The concept of leaving a better next generation  takeaways Fathers are primarily concerned with preparing their children for real-world challenges. Meaningful conversations are more impactful than material gifts. Teaching patience and deferred gratification is crucial for children's development. Financial literacy is often neglected but essential for independence.  Every generation has the opportunity to improve on the previous one.  sound bites "You can't protect them forever" "Money and taxes are crucial life skills" "Conversations matter more than trips or gifts" Chapters 00:00 Introduction: What Fathers Really Want for Their Sons 02:02 The Common Fear: Preparing Sons for the Real World 04:00 Lessons on Money and Financial Literacy 05:26 The Importance of Mechanics and Practical Skills 06:51 Patience and Deferred Gratification 07:48 The Power of Conversations Over Material Gifts 08:46 Leaving a Better Next Generation 09:44 Your Personal Lessons and Next Steps Please like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one Support the show

  2. Jul 27 ·  Video

    When Your Son Disrespects You In Public — Do This Instead

    This episode explores a transformative approach for fathers to understand their sons' behavior, shifting from a perspective of control to one of empathy and leadership. Learn how to see beneath disrespect and foster stronger connections. Key Topics Changing the perspective on disrespect Understanding what children are really trying to communicate The importance of patience and listening Shifting from punishment to correction Building emotional intelligence in children The role of ego in parenting conflicts The power of waiting and discipline Seeing your child as a person, not just a behavior The importance of empathy and connection Takeaways Disrespect often signals a child can't express what they're feeling. Seeing beneath disrespect can transform your relationship. Patience and listening are more effective than immediate punishment. Waiting before addressing behavior increases respect and understanding. Parents should see their children as individuals with feelings, not just behaviors to control. Sound Bites "When you do that, you're missing the signals." "Find out what's really going on beneath the disrespect." "Your son is asking to be seen, don't miss it." Chapters 00:00 The moment of realization in parenting 00:16 Understanding your child's behavior as a cry for help 01:14 The common mistake: Seeing disrespect only as defiance 02:24 Signals children send when they can't express themselves 03:56 The importance of empathy and putting yourself in your child's shoes 05:09 Recognizing that children are not perfect and have struggles 07:03 The power of asking 'What's really going on?' 09:14 Moving from loud reactions to leadership and understanding 12:12 The discipline of waiting and its importance 14:11 Correcting behavior by understanding what's underneath 16:46 Shifting from punishment driven by ego to standard setting 18:28 Helping children develop emotional resilience and self-awareness 20:34 The importance of seeing your child to truly connect Support the show

  3. Jul 16 ·  Video

    Good Men Destroy Themselves Trying to Save Everyone

    In this episode, we explore the complexities of family relationships, marriage, and personal boundaries. Our guests share heartfelt insights on when to let go, the importance of vows, and maintaining mental health amidst family challenges.  keywords family relationships, marriage, boundaries, mental health, personal growth, fatherhood, respect, family dynamics  key  topics Family boundaries and when to let go The importance of marriage vows and commitment Balancing family loyalty with personal health The impact of disrespect and how to address it Managing relationships with adult children and aging parents  takeaways You are not everyone's God; set boundaries to protect your mental health. Marriage vows should be the guiding principle in family conflicts. Respect in relationships is crucial; disrespect can destroy families. Letting go of toxic family relationships is sometimes necessary for peace. Communication and boundaries are key to healthy family dynamics.  guest  name Speak Rock Titles When to Let Go of Family Ties: A Spiritual and Practical Guide Marriage Vows and Family Loyalty: What Really Matters  sound bites "When we say family, let's be specific." "Your wife just became your everything." "Your wife is supposed to come first." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Family Boundaries and Personal Growth 02:12 The Spiritual Perspective on Leaving Family to Build Your Own 03:28 Marriage as a Sacred Union and Its Implications 05:23 Prioritizing Your Spouse Over Extended Family 08:22 Respecting the Marriage Vows and Family Loyalty 10:22 The Role of Respect and Boundaries in Family Relationships 13:13 The Importance of Self-Respect and Not Playing God 15:36 Managing Worry and Stress About Family Members 17:59 The Dangers of Neglecting Mental and Emotional Health 20:11 Healthy Relationships with Aging Parents 23:35 Deciding When to Walk Away from Toxic Relationships 26:16 The Power of Respect and Self-Respect in Family Life 29:12 Marriage in the Context of Life’s Challenges 32:58 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Fathers 33:13 Closing Remarks and Future Topics  resources Build Better Dads Podcast - https://buildbetterdads.com TikTok Meme on Family Priorities - https://www.tiktok.com Biblical Perspective on Family - https://biblehub.com Pivot Podcast with JR Smith - https://thepivot.com  guest links https://www.tiktok.com/@speakroc?_r=1&_t=ZP-983tz9JWzQF  like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one Support the show

  4. Jul 2 ·  Video

    My Father Never Taught Me This About Money

    Summary In this video, Ramon shares five crucial money lessons his father never taught him, emphasizing the importance of financial education for the next generation. He discusses investing, budgeting, defending purchases, calculating risk, and understanding money as a tool. Keywords money lessons, financial education, investing, budgeting, risk management, money as a tool, generational cycle, financial literacy, personal finance, wealth building Key Topics The importance of teaching children about money Five lessons about money that were not taught by previous generations The role of investing, budgeting, and risk calculation in financial literacy The concept of money as a tool for achieving needs and goals Breaking the cycle of financial ignorance across generations Takeaways Teach your children to invest early, before their first job. Budget with your kids by showing them how to subtract expenses from income. Teach children to defend their purchases by asking if it will pay them back, is for family security, or if they've saved for it. Calculate risk carefully and understand the difference between hope and calculated risk. Money is a tool for exchange, needs, and building wealth, not just earning. Sound Bites "Most important things are God and money." "Money is just an exchange of value." "Make your dollars work, don't just earn them." Chapters 00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Financial Illiteracy 02:19 The Five Lessons on Money Management 04:48 Investing: A Skill for the Next Generation 06:52 Budgeting Basics: Teaching Financial Responsibility 08:50 Defending Purchases: Making Smart Choices 09:39 Understanding Risk: Calculated vs. Hope 11:36 Money as a Tool: Shaping Financial Futures Support the show

  5. Jun 21 ·  Video

    I Asked My 10 Yr Old About Money His Answer Floored Me!

    In this heartfelt episode, a father shares a candid conversation with his 10-year-old son about money, teaching valuable lessons on financial literacy, behavior, and the importance of intentional parenting. Discover how early money talks shape future generations and practical tips for parents.  keywords financial literacy, parenting, money lessons, kids and money, investing, saving, family finance, fatherhood, money mindset, wealth building  key  topics The importance of discussing money with children from a young age How parents' behavior influences kids' money mindset Practical questions to ask kids about money and values The role of investing and saving in financial education The impact of parental financial habits on children’s future  takeaways Kids learn more from observation than words, so parents must model good financial behavior. Starting money conversations early can shape a child's financial future. Teaching kids about saving, investing, and spending is crucial from a young age. Parents should intentionally correct and model healthy money habits. The way parents handle money sets the foundation for their children’s financial success  sound bites "Making it, like investing it, how to get it." "Investing is the best thing to do with your money." "Most people don't want a million dollars, they want to spend it." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: A Father’s Reflection on Money and Parenting 00:26 The Impact of Parental Money Habits on Kids 01:04 Talking to Kids About Money from a Young Age 01:58 Questions to Ask Your Kids About Money 02:59 What Does Money Mean to You? A Conversation with a 10-Year-Old 04:13 What Would You Do with $100? Insights from a Child 05:06 Do We Have Enough Money? A Child’s Perspective 07:05 Modeling Financial Behavior for Kids 08:15 Lessons Learned from a Child’s Honest Answers 09:59 Are Rich People Happier? A Child’s View 11:48 The Importance of Investing Early 12:28 Advice for Kids About Money 14:02 The Reality of Making Money and Wealth 15:08 The Power of Observation in Teaching Money Values 17:59 Changing the Money Playbook on Purpose 19:08 A Father’s Challenge for Father’s Day Support the show

  6. Jun 18 ·  Video

    Broke Dad or Wealthy Dad? Pass or Fail

    Title: Broke Dad or Wealthy Dad? Pass or Fail Hook: In this episode, discover the three key reasons why a purchase should pass or fail, helping you build discipline and make smarter financial decisions. Learn practical steps to avoid impulse buys and plan your spending wisely. Key Topics:   The three reasons a purchase is justified: pays you back, protects your family, and is planned and budgeted  Why factors like a hard week or sales should not justify buying unnecessary items  How to implement a 10-second rule to pause before making impulsive purchases  The importance of discipline and tracking where your money goes to achieve financial independence  Practical tips for saving and investing instead of impulsive spending  Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to the three reasons purchases should pass or fail 00:26 - Explanation of why a purchase pays you back 00:55 - The importance of protecting your family's essential needs 01:25 - Planning and budgeting for expenses and purchases 01:55 - Common reasons purchases fail: hard week, sale, and entitlement 02:24 - Why hardship isn't a valid excuse for impulsive buying 02:50 - The trap of buying on sale and how to redirect funds 03:20 - The "I deserve it" mentality and its pitfalls 04:04 - Using a 10-second pause to prevent impulsive purchases 04:34 - The discipline needed to avoid debt and unnecessary spending 05:18 - The importance of tracking your spending and asking, "Why shouldn't I buy this?" 06:15 - Recap and final thoughts on making smarter financial choicesResources & Links:   Financial Planning Tools  Book: The Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel    Support the show

  7. Jun 11 ·  Video

    The Question I Started Asking After The Bank Trip To The Bank

    This episode explores how working dads can take control of their finances by questioning their spending habits, avoiding common pitfalls, and adopting discipline to build wealth and reduce debt. Please like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one Use this simple question to manage debt and stop overspending for good. Learn a practical framework to evaluate every purchase before you swipe your card. Most of us fall into the trap of impulse buying when we see a sale or feel financial stress. This video breaks down a decision-making process inspired by real-life observation to help you distinguish between a purchase that sets you back and one that actually moves your finances forward. We explore how to tell if an expense protects your family, pays you back, or fits into your actual plan. Beyond just stopping the drain on your wallet, we look at the math behind how your money grows over time. By applying these budgeting tips, you shift from reactive spending to intentional wealth building. Mastering these financial habits is the most reliable way to secure your future, and it starts with asking yourself one specific question before every transaction. Key Topics Questioning purchases before buying The myth that it takes money to make money The importance of profits over expenses Three reasons to justify spending: payback, protection, planning The 10-second pause before spending Sound Bites "Working dads bleed that kind of money every year." "Wait ten seconds before making a purchase." "Discipline is the key to financial success." Chapters 00:00 The Question That Changed Everything 04:45 Understanding Spending Triggers 09:58 The Discipline of Financial Decisions Subscribe for weekly personal finance breakdowns, and comment below with the one item you regret buying most this year. Support the show

  8. Jun 3 ·  Video

    "My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"

    This video emphasizes the importance of building a financial legacy, protecting assets, and making intentional money decisions. It shares personal stories about scams targeting the elderly, lessons from a father's financial mistakes, and strategies for working dads to secure their future.  keywords financial legacy, investing, money management, fatherhood, scams, debt payoff, financial planning, legacy building, personal finance, wealth protection  key  topics Building a financial legacy Protecting assets from scams and impulsive spending Creating a financial mission with clear destination and defense strategies  takeaways A financial mission has three parts: destination, defense, and building. Ask yourself, 'Why shouldn't I be stopped from buying this?' to curb impulsive spending. Invest only in things that are making money, avoid risky ventures without proven returns. Teach your children about money to break generational patterns. Build something for your family that lasts beyond your lifetime. "Income without a mission disappears every time." "Your money should work for you, not just you for money." "Make your risks calculated, not reckless." Chapters 00:00 The Financial Reality of Working Dads 05:06 Building a Financial Mission 09:58 Learning from Our Fathers' Mistakes  resources The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J. Stanley - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1591845334 Investopedia - https://www.investopedia.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Simple-Path-Wealth-financial-independence/dp/1533667926 https://www.amazon.com/Little-Book-Common-Sense-Investing/dp/1119404509 https://www.youtube.com/@UCPGFNkRJd0YpzUlfQCy6gzg  This video is a crucial guide for working dads striving for a paid-off life and a thriving family legacy. We explore essential financial planning strategies and the importance of investing early for future generations. By focusing on financial literacy and personal development, dads can ensure a lasting impact. Support the show

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 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.Be that man.—THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:1. How to invest2. How to budget3. How to defend a purchase4. The difference between calculated risk and hope5. That money is a tool — not a goal—THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Write two lists.LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about moneyLIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my sonThat second list is your legacy.—WATCH NEXT:🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM

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