Build Better Dads

Ramon weatherall Sr

 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.Be that man.—THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:1. How to invest2. How to budget3. How to defend a purchase4. The difference between calculated risk and hope5. That money is a tool — not a goal—THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Write two lists.LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about moneyLIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my sonThat second list is your legacy.—WATCH NEXT:🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM

  1. 4d ago ·  Video

    Jails Are Full Of People Who Were Only Talked To

    On this episode of Build Better Dads, host Ramon Weatherall and guest Speak Rock have an honest, unfiltered conversation about spanking, discipline, communication, accountability, and the difference between parenting your child and trying to be their friend. They discuss whether children can be raised without spanking, why different children require different approaches, how a father’s role changes as children mature, and what can happen when parents fail to establish boundaries. This conversation does not support child abuse. It examines reasonable parental discipline, correction, communication, consequences, and the responsibility fathers have to prepare their children for the real world. What do you think? Can parents discipline effectively without spanking—and should a parent be a friend while their child is still growing up? Share your perspective in the comments. Subscribe to Build Better Dads for honest conversations about fatherhood, discipline, family leadership, parenting, and raising responsible children. 0:00 Cold Open 0:32 Can Spanking Damage the Future Relationship? 1:30 Speak Rock Responds 2:55 Parent First, Friend Later 4:00 The Animal Kingdom Discipline Analogy 6:35 A Father’s Discipline and Accountability 9:03 Can You Raise Children Without Spanking? 11:31 Different Children Need Different Approaches 12:12 Fathers Must Know Which Buttons to Push 13:00 Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People 14:04 The Limits of Only Talking 14:17 Friend at 10 or Friend at 30? 16:00 Speak Rock’s Grandfather and Childhood 17:05 Growing Up and Releasing Resentment 17:54 The Only Time Ramon Heard His Father Cry 21:09 Discipline Is Not Child Abuse 22:09 The Hamburger Video 23:36 What Happens When Parents Enable Disrespect? 28:04 The Closing Lesson for Parents Build Better Dads, Ramon Weatherall, Speak Rock, spanking children, should parents spank their children, spanking debate, parenting discipline, fatherhood advice, parenting boys, raising responsible children, child discipline, gentle parenting debate, parenting without spanking, consequences for children, fathers and sons, Black fatherhood, involved fathers, parenting boundaries, parent versus friend, friend at 10 or friend at 30, communication with children, child accountability, respectful parenting, raising disciplined children, parenting podcast, fatherhood podcast, family leadership, breaking generational cycles, adult children and parents Support the show

  2. Aug 24 ·  Video

    Should Your Adult Child Pay Rent to Live

    # Should Your Adult Child Pay Rent to Live at Home? Should your adult child pay rent while living at home? The better question is whether your arrangement is helping them build independence—or helping them avoid it. In this video, we look beyond simply collecting rent. A few hundred dollars each month does not automatically prepare a grown child for life on their own. The goal should be to teach them how to budget, pay bills, save for their own place, and take responsibility for their future. You’ll learn: - Why charging rent by itself may not build independence - How living at home can become a launchpad instead of a comfort zone - Why saving toward an apartment or home may be more valuable than collecting money without a plan - How parents can teach budgeting, bills, and personal responsibility - The questions every parent should ask before deciding whether an adult child stays for free, pays rent, saves money, or moves out ## Chapters 00:00 Should your adult child pay rent? 00:05 The question parents should really ask 00:17 Why paying rent is not enough 00:32 Helping them save for their own home 00:38 Rent without responsibility 00:47 Preparing them for bills and independence 01:00 Helping versus enabling 01:15 The question parents must ask themselves 01:24 Free, rent, savings, or moving out? 01:47 Build Better Dads The goal is not merely to get money from your adult child. It is to help them become capable of supporting themselves. What arrangement do you believe best helps an adult child become independent? Share your perspective in the comments. Subscribe to Build Better Dads for practical conversations about fatherhood, leadership, responsibility, and raising capable adults. #Fatherhood #ParentingAdultChildren #AdultChildren #ParentingAdvice #BuildBetterDads #FinancialResponsibility #Independence Support the show

  3. Aug 9 ·  Video

    I Became a Dad Without Knowing How to Be a Man..

    This episode explores the core lessons fathers want to pass on to their children, emphasizing the importance of intentional parenting and life skills. It highlights common themes like preparation for real-world challenges, financial literacy, patience, and meaningful conversations.  keywords fatherhood, parenting, life lessons, financial literacy, patience, communication, personal growth, generational change  key  topics Fathers' common concerns about their children's future The importance of teaching life skills like money, mechanics, and patience The role of conversations in fatherhood How to make children more prepared for life's challenges The concept of leaving a better next generation  takeaways Fathers are primarily concerned with preparing their children for real-world challenges. Meaningful conversations are more impactful than material gifts. Teaching patience and deferred gratification is crucial for children's development. Financial literacy is often neglected but essential for independence.  Every generation has the opportunity to improve on the previous one.  sound bites "You can't protect them forever" "Money and taxes are crucial life skills" "Conversations matter more than trips or gifts" Chapters 00:00 Introduction: What Fathers Really Want for Their Sons 02:02 The Common Fear: Preparing Sons for the Real World 04:00 Lessons on Money and Financial Literacy 05:26 The Importance of Mechanics and Practical Skills 06:51 Patience and Deferred Gratification 07:48 The Power of Conversations Over Material Gifts 08:46 Leaving a Better Next Generation 09:44 Your Personal Lessons and Next Steps Please like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one Support the show

  4. Jul 27 ·  Video

    When Your Son Disrespects You In Public — Do This Instead

    This episode explores a transformative approach for fathers to understand their sons' behavior, shifting from a perspective of control to one of empathy and leadership. Learn how to see beneath disrespect and foster stronger connections. Key Topics Changing the perspective on disrespect Understanding what children are really trying to communicate The importance of patience and listening Shifting from punishment to correction Building emotional intelligence in children The role of ego in parenting conflicts The power of waiting and discipline Seeing your child as a person, not just a behavior The importance of empathy and connection Takeaways Disrespect often signals a child can't express what they're feeling. Seeing beneath disrespect can transform your relationship. Patience and listening are more effective than immediate punishment. Waiting before addressing behavior increases respect and understanding. Parents should see their children as individuals with feelings, not just behaviors to control. Sound Bites "When you do that, you're missing the signals." "Find out what's really going on beneath the disrespect." "Your son is asking to be seen, don't miss it." Chapters 00:00 The moment of realization in parenting 00:16 Understanding your child's behavior as a cry for help 01:14 The common mistake: Seeing disrespect only as defiance 02:24 Signals children send when they can't express themselves 03:56 The importance of empathy and putting yourself in your child's shoes 05:09 Recognizing that children are not perfect and have struggles 07:03 The power of asking 'What's really going on?' 09:14 Moving from loud reactions to leadership and understanding 12:12 The discipline of waiting and its importance 14:11 Correcting behavior by understanding what's underneath 16:46 Shifting from punishment driven by ego to standard setting 18:28 Helping children develop emotional resilience and self-awareness 20:34 The importance of seeing your child to truly connect Support the show

  5. Jul 16 ·  Video

    Good Men Destroy Themselves Trying to Save Everyone

    In this episode, we explore the complexities of family relationships, marriage, and personal boundaries. Our guests share heartfelt insights on when to let go, the importance of vows, and maintaining mental health amidst family challenges.  keywords family relationships, marriage, boundaries, mental health, personal growth, fatherhood, respect, family dynamics  key  topics Family boundaries and when to let go The importance of marriage vows and commitment Balancing family loyalty with personal health The impact of disrespect and how to address it Managing relationships with adult children and aging parents  takeaways You are not everyone's God; set boundaries to protect your mental health. Marriage vows should be the guiding principle in family conflicts. Respect in relationships is crucial; disrespect can destroy families. Letting go of toxic family relationships is sometimes necessary for peace. Communication and boundaries are key to healthy family dynamics.  guest  name Speak Rock Titles When to Let Go of Family Ties: A Spiritual and Practical Guide Marriage Vows and Family Loyalty: What Really Matters  sound bites "When we say family, let's be specific." "Your wife just became your everything." "Your wife is supposed to come first." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Family Boundaries and Personal Growth 02:12 The Spiritual Perspective on Leaving Family to Build Your Own 03:28 Marriage as a Sacred Union and Its Implications 05:23 Prioritizing Your Spouse Over Extended Family 08:22 Respecting the Marriage Vows and Family Loyalty 10:22 The Role of Respect and Boundaries in Family Relationships 13:13 The Importance of Self-Respect and Not Playing God 15:36 Managing Worry and Stress About Family Members 17:59 The Dangers of Neglecting Mental and Emotional Health 20:11 Healthy Relationships with Aging Parents 23:35 Deciding When to Walk Away from Toxic Relationships 26:16 The Power of Respect and Self-Respect in Family Life 29:12 Marriage in the Context of Life’s Challenges 32:58 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Fathers 33:13 Closing Remarks and Future Topics  resources Build Better Dads Podcast - https://buildbetterdads.com TikTok Meme on Family Priorities - https://www.tiktok.com Biblical Perspective on Family - https://biblehub.com Pivot Podcast with JR Smith - https://thepivot.com  guest links https://www.tiktok.com/@speakroc?_r=1&_t=ZP-983tz9JWzQF  like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one Support the show

  6. Jul 2 ·  Video

    My Father Never Taught Me This About Money

    Summary In this video, Ramon shares five crucial money lessons his father never taught him, emphasizing the importance of financial education for the next generation. He discusses investing, budgeting, defending purchases, calculating risk, and understanding money as a tool. Keywords money lessons, financial education, investing, budgeting, risk management, money as a tool, generational cycle, financial literacy, personal finance, wealth building Key Topics The importance of teaching children about money Five lessons about money that were not taught by previous generations The role of investing, budgeting, and risk calculation in financial literacy The concept of money as a tool for achieving needs and goals Breaking the cycle of financial ignorance across generations Takeaways Teach your children to invest early, before their first job. Budget with your kids by showing them how to subtract expenses from income. Teach children to defend their purchases by asking if it will pay them back, is for family security, or if they've saved for it. Calculate risk carefully and understand the difference between hope and calculated risk. Money is a tool for exchange, needs, and building wealth, not just earning. Sound Bites "Most important things are God and money." "Money is just an exchange of value." "Make your dollars work, don't just earn them." Chapters 00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Financial Illiteracy 02:19 The Five Lessons on Money Management 04:48 Investing: A Skill for the Next Generation 06:52 Budgeting Basics: Teaching Financial Responsibility 08:50 Defending Purchases: Making Smart Choices 09:39 Understanding Risk: Calculated vs. Hope 11:36 Money as a Tool: Shaping Financial Futures Support the show

  7. Jun 21 ·  Video

    I Asked My 10 Yr Old About Money His Answer Floored Me!

    In this heartfelt episode, a father shares a candid conversation with his 10-year-old son about money, teaching valuable lessons on financial literacy, behavior, and the importance of intentional parenting. Discover how early money talks shape future generations and practical tips for parents.  keywords financial literacy, parenting, money lessons, kids and money, investing, saving, family finance, fatherhood, money mindset, wealth building  key  topics The importance of discussing money with children from a young age How parents' behavior influences kids' money mindset Practical questions to ask kids about money and values The role of investing and saving in financial education The impact of parental financial habits on children’s future  takeaways Kids learn more from observation than words, so parents must model good financial behavior. Starting money conversations early can shape a child's financial future. Teaching kids about saving, investing, and spending is crucial from a young age. Parents should intentionally correct and model healthy money habits. The way parents handle money sets the foundation for their children’s financial success  sound bites "Making it, like investing it, how to get it." "Investing is the best thing to do with your money." "Most people don't want a million dollars, they want to spend it." Chapters 00:00 Introduction: A Father’s Reflection on Money and Parenting 00:26 The Impact of Parental Money Habits on Kids 01:04 Talking to Kids About Money from a Young Age 01:58 Questions to Ask Your Kids About Money 02:59 What Does Money Mean to You? A Conversation with a 10-Year-Old 04:13 What Would You Do with $100? Insights from a Child 05:06 Do We Have Enough Money? A Child’s Perspective 07:05 Modeling Financial Behavior for Kids 08:15 Lessons Learned from a Child’s Honest Answers 09:59 Are Rich People Happier? A Child’s View 11:48 The Importance of Investing Early 12:28 Advice for Kids About Money 14:02 The Reality of Making Money and Wealth 15:08 The Power of Observation in Teaching Money Values 17:59 Changing the Money Playbook on Purpose 19:08 A Father’s Challenge for Father’s Day Support the show

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 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.Be that man.—THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:1. How to invest2. How to budget3. How to defend a purchase4. The difference between calculated risk and hope5. That money is a tool — not a goal—THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Write two lists.LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about moneyLIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my sonThat second list is your legacy.—WATCH NEXT:🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM

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