Build Your Edge

Jeremy Burns

Build Your Edge is for ambitious people in tech who want to keep growing in how they think, lead, and deliver. Each week, Jeremy Burns talks with people who’ve built their edge: leaders, founders, creators, and coaches who’ve done the work, learned the hard lessons, and come away sharper. Every episode delivers something you can use straight away; a mindset shift, a proven strategy, or a practical tool to help you lead better, move faster, and make an impact. The show runs on three simple principles: • Audience first – every guest brings real value, not self-promotion. • Clarity and focus – one clear topic, explored in depth. • Action over talk – every episode comes with a free digital download so you can put what you’ve learned into practice. If you’re serious about levelling up in your work and career, Build Your Edge will show you how.

  1. How to Have Difficult Conversations Before They Blow Up

    1d ago

    How to Have Difficult Conversations Before They Blow Up

    How do you have difficult conversations without damaging relationships? In this episode of Build Your Edge, Jeremy sits down with Tom Day, Partner at PA Consulting, to explore how leaders, managers, and team members can tackle difficult conversations with confidence, empathy, and clarity. Whether you’re giving difficult feedback, addressing poor performance, resolving workplace conflict, speaking to a client, or handling challenging conversations at home, Tom shares a practical framework for knowing when to speak up, how to prepare, and why waiting almost always makes things worse. Tom explains why he believes all conflict starts with a lack of communication, how honesty builds trust rather than destroys it, and why the best leaders don’t avoid uncomfortable conversations. They prepare for them. You’ll also discover Tom’s Manual of Me and Manual of Us frameworks, simple tools that help teams understand each other’s working styles, reduce misunderstandings, and prevent conflict before it starts. In this episode you’ll learn: • How to have difficult conversations at work • Why people avoid conflict and difficult feedback • How to prepare before an important conversation • How to give honest feedback without damaging trust • Why clarity creates stronger teams and better leaders • How to build psychological safety through communication How the Manual of Me and Manual of Us frameworks help create high-performing teamsDownload Tom’s Manual of Me and Manual of Us templates at: https://buildyouredge.org/downloads #Leadership #Management #Communication #DifficultConversations #ConflictResolution #LeadershipSkills #PeopleManagement #Teamwork #PsychologicalSafety #BuildYourEdge #TomDay

    55 min
  2. Engineers Who Communicate, Win

    May 26

    Engineers Who Communicate, Win

    Technical people are often brilliant at solving problems, but not always at explaining them. In this episode, Jeremy sits down with Ben Pearce, a former Microsoft leader, founder of Elevated You, and host of the Tech World Human Skills podcast, to explore why communication has become one of the most important skills in modern technical careers. Ben spent more than a decade leading technical teams at Microsoft before realising that many engineers, architects, and technical leaders were being held back by one thing: their ability to communicate ideas clearly to other people. Together, Jeremy and Ben unpack: Why technical teams struggle to influence stakeholdersThe common communication mistakes engineers makeHow to explain complex ideas without dumbing them downWhy emotion and storytelling matter in technical conversationsHow communication impacts promotions, leadership, and career growthBen’s AOREN framework for structuring clearer, more persuasive communicationThis isn’t about becoming a motivational speaker or “salesperson”. It’s about learning how to communicate technical ideas in a way that people understand, remember, and act on. Whether you are explaining architecture decisions, presenting to leadership, working with customers, or trying to get buy-in from your team, this episode is packed with practical advice you can apply immediately. If you have ever felt frustrated that your ideas are not landing the way they should, this episode is for you.

    58 min
  3. Burnout Happens Gradually... Then Suddenly

    Mar 10

    Burnout Happens Gradually... Then Suddenly

    Burnout rarely arrives overnight. For many leaders, it builds quietly over time, until one day it suddenly becomes impossible to ignore. In this episode, Jeremy speaks with Andy Skipper, CEO and Founder of CTO Craft, about why burnout is so common among CTOs and senior technology leaders, how it develops gradually, and what happens when leaders finally hit the wall. Andy shares his own experience of burning out early in his CTO career and the PTSD-like symptoms that followed after leaving the role. Together, they explore how the pressure of startup environments, unclear expectations, and the transition from engineer to leader can slowly push people toward exhaustion, self-doubt, and cynicism. They discuss how to recognise the warning signs in yourself and others, why burnout can spread through teams and organisations if left unchecked, and what practical steps leaders and companies can take to prevent it. Andy also introduces a simple four-stage approach to dealing with burnout: recognising it earlytaking immediate actionchanging the conditions that caused itbuilding a healthier long-term environmentIf you’re a CTO, engineering leader, founder, or ambitious technologist who feels close to the edge — or you simply want to build a sustainable career without sacrificing your health — this episode offers practical insight and reassurance from someone who has been through it and now helps thousands of leaders find their way back.

    59 min

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Build Your Edge is for ambitious people in tech who want to keep growing in how they think, lead, and deliver. Each week, Jeremy Burns talks with people who’ve built their edge: leaders, founders, creators, and coaches who’ve done the work, learned the hard lessons, and come away sharper. Every episode delivers something you can use straight away; a mindset shift, a proven strategy, or a practical tool to help you lead better, move faster, and make an impact. The show runs on three simple principles: • Audience first – every guest brings real value, not self-promotion. • Clarity and focus – one clear topic, explored in depth. • Action over talk – every episode comes with a free digital download so you can put what you’ve learned into practice. If you’re serious about levelling up in your work and career, Build Your Edge will show you how.