The Financially Free Woman Podcast

Sharon Singh Sidhu
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  • Entrepreneurship
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Financial independence, built through career and income of your own. This show is for women tired of their corporate role, burnt out, or starting over after a job loss. Direct conversations about money, career, and building a life you don't need anyone's permission for. I spent thirty years in corporate HR. I also spent years trying to build a business that would set me free - it never made me rich. What actually built my financial independence was a career I managed on purpose, plus money I made outside of it. sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com

  1. 1d ago

    Why Your Financial Plan Isn't the Problem

    I did everything right. Model employee. Said yes to everything. Made sure everyone was happy with me. I still got let go. That’s when I realized a job doesn’t give me financial security. If I can’t control whether I keep my job, what can I actually control? This episode is the answer I’ve been building for almost 10 years. I walk through the exact 8 steps I use with myself, and with the women I coach to go from financially dependent to financially secure. Most of it you already know how to do. Making the plan isn’t the hard part. It’s step 5 most people get stuck on and I’ll tell you exactly why. You’ll also hear how I went from depending on one salary to becoming the primary earner, repaying a six-figure business debt, and building a business on the side without the “just don’t get emotional about money” personal finance advice that never worked for me. Listen if: * You’ve made a financial plan before and still didn’t follow through * You’re tired of advice that tells you to just “be logical” about money * You want to know what actually happens after step 4 Ready to build this for yourself? If depending on one salary isn’t where you want to stay, CLICK HERE to book a call with me. You’ll tell me why you want to build financial independence, what you’ve done so far, and what’s getting in your way. I’ll share what I’d do or not do if I were you. You decide if you want to work together to help you reach your goals faster. CLICK HERE to book your call. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    Why Your Financial Plan Isn't the Problem

  2. Aug 8

    193. Where Will You Be in 5 Years If Nothing Changes?

    In this episode, I talk about a pattern I keep seeing. Women looking for financial security know they must have incomes outside their job. But knowing isn’t doing. Most are still waiting for the “right time.” I share why the time to start doesn’t mean you must take a big, dramatic leap. You don’t need dedicated blocks of time available before you can start. And why starting now is about laying a foundation rather than becoming an overnight success. I share how I started 20 years ago, when my kids were little, I was the primary earner with a mortgage and bills to pay. Each decade was a different season of life that required different priorities. Now, in my 50s, with my kids heading off to university, I’m finally in ramp-up mode. And I’m glad I started decades before I needed to. What we cover: * The real reason “knowing” doesn’t turn into “doing” * Why you don’t need huge chunks of time to start building income outside your job * My decade-by-decade approach which involved exploring in my 30s, shaping in my 40s, ramping up in my 50s * The pockets-of-time system I use to fit business building into a full life * The one question to ask yourself when “now” doesn’t feel like the right time * Why starting now is about laying groundwork, not chasing instant results Building income outside your job is like networking. You want to start before you desperately need it. Ready to talk about what this could look like for you? CLICK HERE to book a call. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    193. Where Will You Be in 5 Years If Nothing Changes?

  3. Aug 2

    192. Why the 'Best' Coach Isn't Always the Right Coach

    Ever paid a well-known coach for advice and something about it just felt wrong, but you couldn’t say why? That happened to me this week. I engaged a coach at the level I wanted to be at. The coach said: “Something feels off here. It feels like (the thing I was doing to grow my business) might be a distraction.” I sat with it for a week. I felt like I was doing it all wrong. But then realized that wasn’t true. The coach’s advice was built on assumptions about my life that weren’t accurate. In this episode, I share: * Why a strategy can work perfectly for someone else and still be wrong for you * The 4 questions to ask before you follow anyone’s advice on growing income outside your job * Why “you’re doing it wrong” often really means “this isn’t matched to your real life” * Why there’s no one right way to build financial independence — and what that actually looks like for three different women * My own answer to why I’m staying employed right now, and the math behind that choice The 4 questions to ask before you follow any strategy: * Do you actually enjoy the platform or method you’d be using? * Does your real, current time realistically allow for it? * Does it align with what you actually want in your life, not what you think you should want? * Does it use skills and experience you already have or does it need a second, unrelated skill set? If a strategy isn’t hitting all four, it doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It means the strategy isn’t matched to your life yet. Ready to figure out what’s right for you?Book a call: https://calendly.com/sharonsinghsidhu/callOn the call: you’ll share your situation and where you want to get to. I will tell you what I’d do in your shoes. If you want help getting there faster, we can talk about working together. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    192. Why the 'Best' Coach Isn't Always the Right Coach

  4. Jul 25

    191. I Don't Have More Time Than You. I Have a Different System.

    In this episode: * Why “not enough time” is real — and why time is also a man-made concept, backed by the actual physics of time dilation and special relativity * What I learned from Lee Kuan Yew’s autobiography, and from watching F1 drivers like Lewis Hamilton (my son’s a competitive go-kart racer and F1 enthusiast) about how the busiest people still make room for what matters * Parkinson’s Law: why work expands to fill the time you give it — and the real story of how I went from a shower-thought idea to a launched paid Substack tier in under two days, working full-time * Why “good enough, shipped” beats “perfect, someday” — and why that’s not the same as sloppy work * The default career path assumption nobody says out loud: that one employer is the only way to earn more money * Why I think of my career as an asset — skills, experience, and relationships that belong to me, not just my employer * The real difference between “extra work” and doing the same thing you already enjoy, for pay — my example: coaching a colleague on an unpaid lunch break vs. coaching a paid client on the same call * Why you don’t need another certification before you start — you just need to be a few steps ahead of someone else * How I “interview” potential employers for autonomy and time flexibility — my two non-negotiables — and why I can only do that because I have income outside my job * The reframe: not job OR business. Job AND business. How to find where they overlap. Mentioned in this episode: * The Ultimate Guide to Build Financial Independence — usually paid-subscriber only, free to claim: Subscribe for the weekly newsletter: This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    191. I Don't Have More Time Than You. I Have a Different System.

  5. Apr 12

    190: The decision that made me feel sick (and why I still did it)

    In this episode, I share a recent decision that made me feel physically uncomfortable — investing in a mastermind for my business. As a working mom and primary provider, decisions about money are never just about the money. They come with responsibility, trade-offs, and doubt. But this decision brought up something deeper. Not just whether it would work — but whether I was willing to take a chance on myself again, especially after past attempts didn’t always go the way I expected. In this episode, I talk about: why fear doesn’t always mean you’re making the wrong decisionwhat it really means to believe in yourself again without much proofhow building a business alongside a job creates optionsthe role of self-awareness in making better decisionsThis episode is for women who are building something beyond their job, while managing the responsibilities of work and family. Resources CLICK HERE to sign up to get the notes and updated when new episodes are out.  This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    190: The decision that made me feel sick (and why I still did it)

  6. Apr 4

    189. Why I Chose the Harder Path

    Most women don’t design their careers. They default into them. Climb the ladder. Stay for stability. Do what’s expected. And then one day, it stops working. In this episode, I share why I chose to build a business while keeping my job — even though it’s harder. Not because it’s ideal. But because the alternatives were unacceptable to me. I talk about: why “stability” isn’t always safewhat keeps you going when motivation runs outand a simpler way to think about designing a career that actually supports your life This is part of my weekly Career Design Notes where I share how I’m thinking about career, money, and building something on the side as a working mom. Subscribe to get the full notes here: https://sharonsinghsidhu.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    189. Why I Chose the Harder Path

  7. Mar 22

    188: Breaking the Cycle of Financial Anxiety: A Step Towards Resilience

    In this episode, I break down what I mean by financial resilience - moving from fear, panic, and anxiety around money to feeling calm, clearheaded, confident, and empowered even before you've achieved your financial goals.  I share why the first step to financial resilience is awareness. On the practical side, this means getting organized and knowing where your money is coming and going. More importantly, and less discussed, on the psychological side, observing your money behaviors and the patterns behind them.  I introduce the idea of “money disorders” (avoidance, worship, and relational issues) and how early experiences and financial flashpoints can shape how you react to money.  I share the power of pausing to self-soothe, including simple techniques like breathing, mindful practices, movement, and more empowering self-talk to help you get better at overcoming money challenges and make a simple, doable plan instead of reacting from anxiety and fear. If you've tried all the money tactics like saving, budgeting, investing, planning and still anxious about money, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned Follow me on LinkedIn for regular posts about building financial resilienceSign up to my newsletter to get updated when new podcasts are available This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    188: Breaking the Cycle of Financial Anxiety: A Step Towards Resilience

  8. Mar 15

    187: Finding Financial Certainty In Uncertain Times

    I’m back after taking a break to reflect on where I want to take the podcast and I’m recommitting to a core theme I don’t see discussed enough in personal finance: financial resilience—the internal ability to stay calm and make clear decisions when money situations change.  With rising costs and uncertainty around jobs and business, I want to help you find more financial certainty by building resilience from the inside, not just focusing on tactics like budgeting or investing.  I share my story of starting a cafe that closed after four years and left us with six-figure debt, returning to my HR career, and becoming my family’s primary provider.  Drawing on decades in HR and my own fear and money avoidance, I explain why uncertainty is unavoidable and preview next episode’s first steps to build resilience. Resources Mentioned Connect with me on LinkedIn.Get updated when new episodes are released. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com/subscribe

    187: Finding Financial Certainty In Uncertain Times
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Financial independence, built through career and income of your own. This show is for women tired of their corporate role, burnt out, or starting over after a job loss. Direct conversations about money, career, and building a life you don't need anyone's permission for. I spent thirty years in corporate HR. I also spent years trying to build a business that would set me free - it never made me rich. What actually built my financial independence was a career I managed on purpose, plus money I made outside of it. sharonsinghsidhu.substack.com

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