Building Forward

Paul Oneid and Joey Szatmary
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Building Forward explores personal growth through identity, struggle, and shared experience. Just two dudes talking openly about what it takes to develop as men—mentally, emotionally, physically and professionally by accepting reality, learning from setbacks, and committing to forward progress together. Built, not promised. Earned over time.

  1. 8h ago

    Episode 29 - Your Role As A Parent | Building Forward

    In this episode, Paul and Joey get into the difference between what you tell your kids and what they actually absorb, the implicit stuff. We cover why safety has to exist before any hard conversation can happen, Paul's own childhood pattern of hiding how he felt until he met Olivia, and the letters he's already writing to a daughter who hasn't been born yet. We also talk about community as the most valuable thing in business right now, and why consistency between who you are on camera and who you are at home is the whole game.CHAPTERS00:00 Catch-Up And A Busy Season04:56 Safety Before Hard Conversations11:13 A Daughter, And Childhood Roots20:45 Community Is The Next Five Years29:22 Letters To My Unborn Daughter43:00 Setting The Example, Staying RealWHAT YOU'LL LEARN→ Why safety, not agreement, is what makes hard conversations possible→ The difference between what you tell your kids and what they actually absorb→ How reparenting works, and why you can't skip your own childhood to show up for someone else's→ Why community costs nothing to build and pays out for years→ What it means to let your kids see the same person on camera and at homeCONNECTPaul → @pauloneid on InstagramJoey → @joeyszatmary on InstagramReal time, real conversations with real people building forward.#BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #BuildingForwardPodcast #PaulOneidPodcast #CoachingMentorship #FatherhoodForMen #ParentingPodcast

  2. Sep 11

    Episode 28 - Life, Death And The Seasons In Between | Building Forward

    In this episode, Paul and Joey catch up after two weeks off, and it turns out those two weeks were anything but quiet. Joey welcomed his second son, Grayson, in a delivery that turned scary fast: a cord wrapped around his neck three times and three minutes without oxygen. Paul lost his 11 year old dog Stella that same week, and the two of them talk through what it actually looks like to stay regulated when two opposite emergencies hit in the same month. If you've ever wondered how to hold it together when life doesn't ask for permission, start here. CHAPTERS 00:00 Two Weeks Off And Family Of Four 04:18 Stella, Jellyfish, And Bad Luck 11:27 Grayson's Wild Arrival 28:32 The Fear Of Loving Someone This Much 33:06 Complete Control Over Yourself 46:28 Asking For Help And The Next Season WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → Why "be okay with stress, then move to action" beats trying to eliminate stress before you perform → How a 3 minute NICU scare and losing a dog in the same week forced Paul and Joey to compartmentalize without shutting down → The dials and switches framework for deciding what gets scaled up and down each season of your life → Why catastrophizing on purpose can be a planning tool instead of just anxiety → The jump most coaches miss: turning coaching into a repeatable product before trying to scale it CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #BuildingForwardPodcast #PaulOneidPodcast #OnlineCoachingBusiness #CoachingMentorship #FitnessEntrepreneur

  3. Sep 4

    Episode 27 - Solo Q&A with Paul | Building Forward

    Joey's off for 2 weeks with his newborn, so this one's me alone with a camera and a list of questions I've been sitting on. We lost our girl Stella last week, and that loss set up the rest of the episode: what you actually control, where acceptance stops and giving up starts, and why the action you take is sometimes to pull back on purpose. I get into anger as rocket fuel and the fatigue debt it charges you, why I hold zero expectations for anyone but myself, and the moment I admitted I didn't want to build CCU on my own. If you're grinding hard and the needle isn't moving, start here. CHAPTERS 00:00 Flying Solo This Week 00:50 Losing Stella 08:00 Acceptance Or Giving Up 17:45 When To Stop Grinding 20:10 Rocket Fuel And Fatigue Debt 25:50 Partners, Beliefs, And The 50K WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → How to tell a conscious pull-back from quitting, and why the difference is the choice itself → The 3-layer audit to run before you spend money on blood work → Why anger works like a credit card and intrinsic motivation works like cash flow → How to hold a standard for yourself without holding expectations for anyone else → What to check for value alignment before you hand a partner a piece of your business CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #RadicalAcceptance #IntrinsicMotivation #StrengthCoaching #CoachingPodcast #FitnessEntrepreneur

  4. Sep 2

    Episode 26 - Paul's Going To Be A Daddy! | Building Forward

    Paul and Olivia are expecting, Joey's second is due any day, and Paul just ran 53 kilometers in 95 degree heat with 91% humidity. This one covers what changes when the decisions stop being yours alone, how Paul audits his anxiety instead of sitting in it, and the reframe that let him walk away from powerlifting without ever feeling like he quit. We close on why variety is the thing that actually buys you longevity, and why most people shrink their training repertoire without noticing. CHAPTERS 00:00 Two Babies And One Big Secret 12:30 Presence, Plans, And Anxiety 17:00 The Pride That Beats Every PR 24:45 53 Kilometers In 95 Degree Heat 39:30 I Didn't Quit, I Finished 55:00 Dogma, Nuance, And Longevity WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → How Paul audits the things he's anxious about and builds a plan instead of sitting in the worry → The full cooling strategy for racing in 95 degree heat: ice bandana, frozen bottles, palm cooling, shirt rotation → Why cramping shows up right where your longest previous run ended, and what to do about it → The difference between quitting a sport and finishing it, and how to tell which one you're doing → Why your training repertoire shrinks over time and how that quietly costs you longevity CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #BuildingForwardPodcast #CoachingPodcast #StrengthCoaching #OnlineCoachingBusiness #PowerliftingCoach

  5. Aug 14

    Episode 25 - Relationships, Training and Modern Masculinity | Building Forward

    Paul and Joey open the mailbag. This one runs through balancing a relationship with hard training and a fat loss phase, what modern masculinity looks like when you're a husband and a father, and how to actually manage recovery when you're stacking 12 sessions into a week. Paul gets into why he challenges his clients' beliefs but never questions their values, and Joey makes the case for being the inconvenience at your own brother's wedding. If you've ever felt the pull between the plan and the people you love, start here. CHAPTERS 00:00 Recovery Weeks And Date Days 10:20 Training, Dieting, And Your Partner 21:40 When Your Partner Feels Insecure 34:20 What Modern Masculinity Means Now 48:10 Recovery Takes Time 53:40 Dieting Versus Performance WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → Why your partner has to support the training even when they'll never understand it → How to run a fat loss phase without making the whole room cater to you → The high-low sequencing Paul uses to fit 12 to 14 sessions into a week → Why sauna, cold plunge, and red light are stressors, and what actually drives recovery → What to say when your partner's insecurity shows up while you're getting leaner CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #BuildingForwardPodcast #CoachingPodcast #OnlineCoachingBusiness #StrengthCoaching #NutritionCoaching

  6. Aug 7

    Episode 24 - What's Your "Why?" | Building Forward

    In this episode, Paul and Joey get into the four questions Paul runs before any big decision, why setting completion as your only goal keeps you from quitting, and what happens when your identity is still tied to a performance metric that has an expiry date. We talk about finding your why sooner, giving yourself credit for what you've already survived, and the difference between validation you actually need and yes-men telling you what you want to hear. If you make decisions from the immediate future and skip the distant one, start here. CHAPTERS 00:00 Completion Over The Clock 05:08 When Identity Outlives Performance 12:21 Finding Your Why Sooner 27:12 Life Is Long, Stop Speed-Running 41:31 The 4 Questions Before Any Decision 56:24 Why I Won't Let You Quit WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → The four questions to run before any big decision: the ultimate goal, what you'll give up, what you won't, and how it changes your life → Why making completion your only goal protects you from quitting when the day gets hard → How to tell the validation you actually need from yes-men telling you what you want to hear → Why training for the worst case scenario is the fastest way to thrive in it CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #BuildingForwardPodcast #CoachingPodcast #OnlineCoachingBusiness #CoachingMentorship #FitnessBusiness

  7. Jul 31

    Episode 23 - What the Heck?! ft. Jon Heck | Building Forward

    Jon Heck was a projected NFL draft pick who walked away from football to build a life he actually chose. In this one, Paul and Joey get into that decision with him, plus the accidental way he built his coaching business, the therapist question that stopped him cold, and why success always sends you a bill in time. If you've ever wondered when you'll finally feel like you've made it, or how to take real time off without feeling like you're falling behind, start here. CHAPTERS 00:00 Being a dad 05:16 Walking Away From Football 16:07 The Business He Built By Accident 36:19 When Will You Have Made It? 58:26 Periodization Shall Set You Free WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → Why leaving a sure thing can be the most rational decision you make → How to build a business by being yourself instead of chasing a playbook → The therapist question that exposes whether your goals have a finish line → How to take real time off without breaking your consistency → Why your training stays non-negotiable even when the business feels louder CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #JonHeck #HammerAndChisel #OnlineCoachingBusiness #StrengthCoaching #CostOfSuccess

  8. Jul 24

    Episode 22 - Paul's Trail Race And Feeling Proud

    Three days before his first mountain 30K, Paul tweaked his lower back on a Hatfield squat and could barely stand up straight. He flew to California anyway, ran nine miles straight up a canyon, cramped the whole way down, and still finished under 4 hours. In this one, Paul and Joey break down the whole race: the McKenzie protocol that got his back moving in 3 days, why a bigger and more muscular athlete has to fuel and hydrate differently, the training shifts that come with going from powerlifter to trail runner, and the thing that blindsided him at the finish line. If you've ever wondered whether the discomfort is worth it, start here. CHAPTERS 00:00 The Injury Three Days Out 06:26 Nine Miles Straight Up 09:43 Why A Powerlifter Started Running 25:54 Training Like A Lifter Who Runs 41:15 Fueling A Bigger Engine 54:43 The Pride You Have To Earn WHAT YOU'LL LEARN → How the McKenzie protocol and a few glute drills turned a locked-up lower back into a race-ready one in 3 days → Why a bigger, more muscular athlete cramps and bonks differently, and how to fuel and hydrate for it → The training shift from powerlifting to endurance: low volume, isometrics, and movements that expose your weak points → Why cramping is a calcium problem as much as a sodium one → The kind of discomfort that actually creates pride, and why it took Paul 36 years to feel it CONNECT Paul → @pauloneid on Instagram Joey → @joeyszatmary on Instagram Real time, real conversations with real people building forward. #BuildingForward #PaulOneid #JoeySzatmary #BuildingForwardPodcast #PaulOneidPodcast #HybridAthlete #StrengthAndConditioning #PowerliftingCoach

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Building Forward explores personal growth through identity, struggle, and shared experience. Just two dudes talking openly about what it takes to develop as men—mentally, emotionally, physically and professionally by accepting reality, learning from setbacks, and committing to forward progress together. Built, not promised. Earned over time.

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  • Creator
    Paul Oneid and Joey Szatmary
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Paul Oneid and Joey Szatmary
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    Building Forward