Building Thinkers: Accessible Blueprints for Learning & Life

Tracy Clark

Building Thinkers is based on the realization that there is exponential potential in the things we build, from mindsets and behaviors, to resumes and meal-plans, but sometimes insights and impact seem out of reach or overly complex. In the Building Thinkers podcast we will explore a wide range of topics (business, education, organization, habits, therapy, finances, research to name a few) unpacking the design, strategy, and details behind the things we build to create accessible blueprints for you to explore and apply to your own learning and life. There is no limit to what you can learn.

  1. 3d ago

    What Your Employees Are Carrying That You Can’t See

    ***Content Warning*** Before we begin, this episode contains discussion of mental health and suicide. If you're struggling, please reach out to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988. Some losses split your life into a before and an after, and this conversation is about what it actually looks like to keep living anyway. This week, I sit down with Cristie North, a longtime mortgage industry leader and founder of the Taylor Hagan Memorial Foundation, who lost her son, Taylor, to suicide in 2017. She speaks from nearly a decade of turning unimaginable pain into meaningful work at the intersection of grief, leadership, and healing. Together, we explore how prevention often begins with something much simpler and more human than people realize: creating spaces where people feel safe enough to be honest, vulnerable, and truly heard before their pain becomes isolation. We also talk about leadership in a way I think many people need right now, in a season when we're rethinking what good leadership even looks like. Cristie shares how losing Taylor changed the way she leads, teaching her that empathy, vulnerability, and connection are not "soft skills,” they are essential to trust, innovation, and lasting impact. One of the most meaningful parts of our conversation is around the idea of "collateral beauty," the unexpected depth, perspective, and compassion that can emerge through suffering without minimizing the loss itself. Key Takeaways: Prevention starts long before a crisis; it starts with the kind of presence you build every day. Results are the output, and the heart is what actually drives them. When a leader admits they’re not at their best, it doesn’t erode trust; it builds it. The goal isn’t to get over what you’re carrying, it’s to learn to carry it in a way that doesn’t break you. Being truly seen by people who understand your loss is what transforms grief. There’s a difference between being hopeful and being intentional about hope. One is passive, the other is a choice. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:37 Cristie’s story and the foundation 03:15 What prevention actually looks like 05:37 Leadership with heart 10:47 Supporting employees through grief 15:30 The role of vulnerability in leadership 18:30 What to do with the parts of life we never asked to carry 21:32 How to ask for help and find hope again 24:34 Collateral beauty in loss 28:07 Living your best life after loss 31:32 If you’re struggling, here are resources to help Resources Mentioned: Taylor Hagen Memorial Foundation NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) American Foundation for Suicide Prevention All There Is Podcast by Anderson Cooper Companioning the Bereaved by Alan Wolfelt Option B by Sheryl Sandberg The Wisdom of the Bullfrog by Admiral William McCraven Turn the Ship Around by L. David Marquet Connect with Cristie: Taylor Hagen Memorial Foundation: https://thmemorialfoundation.org/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristie-north-59a3419/  Connect with Me: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyannclark08/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buildingthinkers/  Blueprint for Thought: https://building-thinkers.kit.com/24cdc43dcf  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    34 min
  2. May 22

    Why AI Feels Fast But Doesn't Feel Easier

    If you've been using AI tools and quietly wondering whether they're actually saving you time, or whether you're just doing the same work in a different order, this conversation is for you.  I sat down with Max Kirchoff, a principal technologist and product-focused engineer who writes about the intersection of humans and machines on his Substack, Human of the Loop. What I love about Max is that he's not afraid to say most of us have been getting AI wrong, not because the tools aren't powerful, but because we keep bolting them onto the way we already work instead of pausing to rethink the work itself.  We get into the four layers of work and where AI actually pays off, why "building trust with AI" is the wrong frame, and what leaders are missing when they chase efficiency instead of growth. If you've been feeling the dissonance between how fast AI lets you start things and how the work itself doesn't always feel easier, you're going to find a lot here. Key Takeaways: AI doesn’t fail because the tools are weak; it fails when you bolt it onto workflows you haven’t rethought. Most people apply AI at the task level; the real leverage is at the workflow layer and above. You can’t build trust with an LLM the way you build it with a person. The shift that’s making everyone anxious isn’t AI itself. Leaders who chase AI for efficiency miss the bigger opportunity: growth. Adoption follows the leader. If you want your team to learn AI, demonstrate that you’re learning it too. The most underrated skill in the AI era is curiosity. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:46 Who is Max Kirchoff? 03:00 What “human in the loop” actually means 05:15 How to navigate AI tools effectively 10:37 Why you can’t trust AI the way you trust a person 15:48 The 4 layers of work 19:22 How to spot assumptions running your workflow 22:40 The evolution of programming languages and abstraction layers 28:31 The shift that’s making everyone anxious 29:36 What leaders keep getting wrong about AI adoption 31:39 Investing in human skills for AI integration 33:28 Why “let them fail” is an AI strategy 37:36 Curiosity as the self-starter skill 41:21 If only people knew… 42:35 Where to find Max Resources Mentioned: AI Broke the Rhythm of Work High Output Management by Andrew Grove Claude AI Model ChatGPT by OpenAI Perplexity Search Engine Connect with Max: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maxkirchoff/  Human of the Loop Substack: https://www.humanoftheloop.com/ Connect with Me: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyannclark08/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buildingthinkers/  Building Thinkers Newsletter: https://building-thinkers.kit.com/24cdc43dcf  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    44 min
  3. May 8

    What the World Actually Needs From You

    The world doesn't need more information. It needs more conscious humans, and this conversation with Mentor Dida might be the most important one I've had on this show.  Mentor is a Kosovo war survivor turned global changemaker who co-founded three nonprofits, led movements at Arizona State University, and now works with Ashoka, the world's pioneer network of social entrepreneurs, to help individuals and communities find the power inside themselves to create real change.  In this episode, we get into why inner transformation is the foundation of everything, leadership, innovation, community, and society itself, and why developing the "I" matters far more than upgrading your iPhone. You'll hear us talk about what it actually looks like to build meaningful community from the ground up, why our obsession with scaling solutions is getting in the way of starting locally, and what it means to move from back porch to front porch, literally and figuratively.  If you've ever felt the tension between striving to make a big impact and wondering whether the small, human moments right in front of you are enough, this episode will sit with you. Mentor left me with a question I'm still turning over: what kind of human do you need to become for your future to thrive? Key Takeaways: Why emotional regulation is the skill no one taught you but everyone needs How the labels you wear might be limiting the life you can live Why changing your neighborhood might matter more than changing the world What most impactful social entrepreneurs know that most leaders don’t The simple shift that could make communities actually feel human again Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 01:50 Mentor’s journey and background 05:53 Where to begin if you want to be a change maker 09:28 Who are you without all the labels? 13:53 The difference between doing and being the change 15:18 Lessons from social entrepreneurs 16:45 How one person’s inner work changes everything 19:51 Building community connections 24:46 Interdependence in times of crisis 31:01 Are we measuring the wrong things in education? 34:00 Creating spaces for human connection 40:05 The power of identity and the collective intelligence 43:08 Outro Resources Mentioned: Ashoka - https://www.ashoka.org/  Blueprints for Thought: https://building-thinkers.kit.com/24cdc43dcf Connect with Mentor: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mdida/  Website: https://mentordida.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mentordida/  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    45 min
  4. Apr 24

    Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Anxiety

    If you've ever felt like slowing down is somehow dangerous, this episode is for you.  I sat down with Tati Garcia, therapist, anxiety specialist, and the voice behind the Coping Calmly with Tati podcast, to talk about something I think a lot of high-achieving women are quietly dealing with but rarely name out loud: high-functioning anxiety. We get into why perfectionism and that constant sense of urgency aren't just personality traits, they're learned patterns with real emotional roots.  Tati shares her own journey navigating these patterns, and what it actually looks like to build a life where rest isn't a reward, it's part of the work. If you're someone who's always on to the next thing before you've even acknowledged what you just accomplished, this one will hit close to home. Key Takeaways: High-functioning anxiety often leads to feelings of being behind despite accomplishments. Perfectionism can manifest as all-or-nothing thinking, leading to self-criticism. Societal expectations can reinforce overworking and perfectionist tendencies. Ambition is not inherently negative, but it should be balanced with self-care. Setting clear boundaries can alleviate the pressure of urgency. Rest is essential for mental health and should not be viewed as unproductive. Negative thought patterns can be shifted by recognizing their impact on well-being. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:14 Where perfectionism actually comes from 05:34 The hidden driver behind high-functioning anxiety 10:37 Why everything feels so urgent 14:27 When ambition becomes a trap 18:54 Finding balance without killing your drive 23:58 Passive vs. active rest: which one works best for you? 28:48 Decoupling your worth from your output 32:08 What anxiety regulation actually looks like in real life 41:42 If only people knew this about high-functioning anxiety 42:54 Outro Resources Mentioned: Take Tati’s quiz: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/high-functioning-anxiety-quiz/  Connect with Tati: Website: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/  Podcast: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/podcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CalmlyCoping/featured  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatianaglpc  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    45 min
  5. Apr 10

    How to Build a Flourishing Life: Insights from Harvard's Human Flourishing Project

    What does it mean for humans to flourish? Not just to be happy, not just to check the boxes of a good life, but to genuinely thrive across every dimension of what it means to be a person? That's the question Harvard researchers and their collaborators have been rigorously pursuing, and the early findings are challenging some of our deepest assumptions. When the Global Flourishing Study, a landmark longitudinal project surveying over 220,000 people across 22 countries, released its first wave of data, what emerged wasn't what anyone predicted. The wealthiest, most developed nations weren't leading. Indonesia topped the composite flourishing score. Japan, a major economic power, ranked among the lowest. Young people's well-being globally has compressed from a U-curve into something closer to a J. And one of the strongest predictors of later-life flourishing? Whether a young person attended religious services, across every major religion studied. In this episode, I'm joined by Reece Brown, Associate Director of Impact at the Harvard Human Flourishing Program. Reece came to this work through an unlikely path: from investment analysis to research assistant to Arthur Brooks at the Harvard Kennedy School's Leadership and Happiness Laboratory, and now sits at the intersection of rigorous science and real-world application, working to translate what the research reveals into something that people, institutions, and policymakers can use. We get into what flourishing means across its five (and really six) domains, why the satisfaction dilemma keeps even successful people feeling stuck, how measurement shifts when you move from the individual to the population level, what the Global Flourishing Study is and how it differs from the World Happiness Report, and what the data is showing us about meaning, community, forgiveness, and love. That last one is where Reece takes us, and the research behind it is anything but soft. Across every project at the program, from forgiveness workbooks built on cognitive behavioral therapy to academic flourishing surveys to emerging work on AI and human thriving, the same thread runs through: love, connection, and community are measurable, researched, and far more within reach than most of us assume. Key Takeaways: Flourishing is defined by five domains: happiness, health, meaning, character, and relationships. Measuring flourishing involves psychometric assessments and surveys. Data signals that young people's happiness is declining globally, indicating a need for intervention. Love and connection are essential for human flourishing. The importance of community in fostering individual flourishing. Behavioral change is challenging but necessary for achieving happiness. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 05:22 What does “flourishing” mean? 08:42 How to measure human flourishing 19:03 Current status of the Human Flourishing Program 26:51 Insights from the Global Flourishing Study 29:27 The impact of childhood adversity   31:18 Exploring spiritual dimensions in flourishing 36:08 Community and connection in flourishing  37:27 The science of forgiveness 42:11 Bridging research and practical impact 51:57 The power of love in flourishing 53:45 Outro Resources Mentioned: How Children Succeed by Paul Tough The Coddling of the American Mind by Jonathan Haidt Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday The Human Flourishing Program Harvard’s Global Forgiveness Movement Connect with Reece: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reece-brown/

    55 min
  6. Mar 27

    A Tough Season Doesn’t Mean You're Failing

    What if the hardest season of your life is actually your launchpad? I’m so excited to share today’s episode with you because we’re unpacking what it really means to handle hard better. My guest, Eileen Suarez, is a transformation and mindset coach who works with high-achieving women navigating big life and career transitions. She helps women go from stuck to unstoppable using brain-based strategies that rewire how you think, act, and tell your story. We dive into how to reframe rejection, move through fear, and embrace failure as a growth opportunity. Eileen shares actionable ways to harness your strengths, build confidence through action, and use human connection (even in a world dominated by tech) to propel yourself forward.  If you’ve ever wondered how to take the leap during a career shift, navigate uncertainty, or make big changes without losing yourself, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways: Failure should be viewed as a growth opportunity, not a setback. Embracing hard experiences can lead to personal growth and resilience. Networking and human connection are vital in times of change. Understanding and utilizing one's strengths can enhance job satisfaction and engagement. It's important to prepare for potential career changes in advance. Taking small steps can help overcome fear and self-sabotage. Community and support are essential for navigating transitions.  Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:57 How to reframe rejection 03:49 Growth in disguise 08:33 The role of AI in careers  11:40 Networking that actually moves you forward 15:19 Confidence comes from action, not comfort 17:52 Eileen’s layoff to liftoff story 20:25 Facing fear without freezing 23:35 Small steps that lead to big change 24:22 Discovering what truly drives you 25:06 Leveraging strengths to make goals reality 26:12 Intentional moves that create momentum 28:28 Wrapping up Resources Mentioned: Take the Gallup CliftonStrengths! Intelligent Failure by Amy Edmundson Download your Blueprint for Thought Connect with Eileen: Website: https://peakconfidencegroup.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileensuarez1/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eileensuarez.coachsulting/  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    29 min
  7. Mar 13

    Why Successful People Still Feel Stressed About Money

    If money feels heavier than it should, this conversation will change how you carry it. I’m sitting down with Priya Malani, founder of Stash Wealth, a financial advisor who works with high-earning millennials and helps them build real systems (not just budgets) that actually support the life they want. She’s seen behind the curtain of how smart, ambitious people handle money… and where they quietly sabotage themselves. We’re unpacking the stories you’ve absorbed about money and how those narratives are shaping your financial behavior, whether you realize it or not. If you’ve ever felt financially “behind,” anxious about investing, confused about credit cards, or unsure what wealth even means for you, we go straight at it. You’ll walk away understanding why mindset matters just as much as math, how automation creates freedom (not restriction), and why money is a tool, not a moral scorecard. Priya breaks down how to think about credit cards strategically instead of emotionally, and what it actually means to define wealth on your own terms. This isn’t about hustling harder or cutting lattes. It’s about building a financial foundation that supports the life you’re designing, intentionally, confidently, and without quiet panic running the show. Key Takeaways: Automation can simplify financial management and reduce stress. Understanding the difference between saving and investing is crucial for wealth building. Emergency funds should be viewed as a first line of defense, not the only line. Financial planning is not just for the wealthy; it is for everyone. Defining what 'rich' means to you is essential for setting financial goals. Financial anxiety can be addressed through education and support. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 03:01 The stories we tell ourselves about money 08:18 Automating your finances for freedom 09:24 Building systems that actually stick 11:41 Why credit cards can be your ally 12:19 The role of emergency funds 15:30 Budgeting is broken, here’s why 18:14 Tackling financial anxiety head-on 20:58 What does wealth really mean? 21:37 Designing a life that feels rich 22:17 Financial resources 23:24 Outro Resources Mentioned: What Every High-Achieving Woman Should Know About Money I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi Connect with Priya: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itspriyamalani/  Website: https://www.stashwealth.com/  The F Word Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5DjMQM98nj8yJobhxCJsmf?si=6f79219f95a249fa  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    24 min
  8. Feb 27

    Who Are You Without the Title?

    What if feeling stuck isn’t a personal failure… but a signal that the system you’re operating in no longer fits who you’re becoming? I’m joined by Laura Peterson, a leader who lives at the intersection of strategy, culture, and human behavior. Her work centers on designing systems that actually function in the real world. Not theory. Not buzzwords. Real frameworks that grow leaders, strengthen culture, and drive meaningful outcomes while honoring how people actually develop and make decisions. She moves fluidly between data, design, and dialogue, helping leaders recognize patterns, ask sharper questions, and navigate uncertainty with confidence. In our conversation, we explore what it really means to feel stuck, especially when your identity has been built around achievement, performance, or a title. We talk about the fawn response and how it can quietly shape leadership behavior. We dig into self-trust, reinvention, and the deeper questions that surface during seasons of change: What does success mean now? What kind of leader do I want to be? How do I move forward when the future feels unclear? Laura brings both systems-level thinking and emotional intelligence to this discussion. She understands that transformation isn’t just personal, it’s structural. Whether you’re building a company of one or leading across continents, the patterns you operate in matter. Key Takeaways: Recognizing signals of being stuck is crucial for growth. Your essence is different from your job title. Reconnecting with your essence can lead to clarity. Self-trust is essential for personal and professional growth. Emotions provide valuable information about our state. We should focus on learning and teaching, not just titles. Creating a habitat for others to flourish is key to impact. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 04:05 Identifying signals of being stuck 06:47 Escaping vs. facing your discomfort 09:52 The importance of essence vs. job title 11:55 When your job shapes your sense of self 14:52 Rebuilding trust in yourself, step by step 17:14 The trust equation: are you self-serving or self-honoring? 25:45 The Acorn and the Tree: a new perspective on growth 27:58 Designing a space where others can thrive 32:10 The emotional journey back to yourself 35:20 Tapping into intuition and how to go deeper 36:22 Outro Resources Mentioned: https://drdianahill.com/  https://www.rhythmofregulation.com/  Connect with Laura: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurapetersonhr/  Connect with Me: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyannclark08/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buildingthinkers/  Building Thinkers Newsletter: https://building-thinkers.kit.com/24cdc43dcf  More About Building Thinkers:  I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.

    37 min

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Building Thinkers is based on the realization that there is exponential potential in the things we build, from mindsets and behaviors, to resumes and meal-plans, but sometimes insights and impact seem out of reach or overly complex. In the Building Thinkers podcast we will explore a wide range of topics (business, education, organization, habits, therapy, finances, research to name a few) unpacking the design, strategy, and details behind the things we build to create accessible blueprints for you to explore and apply to your own learning and life. There is no limit to what you can learn.