Calming Waters

Sarah Fultz

Welcome to the podcast where we dive deep into life’s ebbs and flows with a perfect blend of expert advice and heartfelt conversations. I’m your host, Sarah, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and owner of Calming Waters Wellness. Think of this space as a cozy chat with a close friend, where we explore everything from mental health tips to navigating everyday challenges. So, grab a cup of your favorite drink, get comfortable, and let’s ride the waves together.

Episodes

  1. 08/08/2024

    The Mental Equivalent of a Pop-Tart

    In this episode, Sarah and Trevor discuss Trevor's tendency to watch the first season of shows but struggle to continue watching subsequent seasons. They explore the possible therapeutic reasons behind this behavior, including ADHD, anxiety, and the comfort of nostalgia. They also discuss the impact of the abundance of streaming services and media on our attention spans. The conversation then shifts to a discussion of the movie Inside Out and its portrayal of emotions and the importance of emotional intelligence. Sarah emphasizes the need to teach emotional intelligence and boundaries to children from a young age. Takeaways Watching the first season of shows but struggling to continue watching subsequent seasons can be influenced by factors such as ADHD, anxiety, and the comfort of nostalgia. The abundance of streaming services and media can contribute to shorter attention spans and a constant need for dopamine boosts. Emotional intelligence is not innate and needs to be taught from a young age. The movie Inside Out provides a helpful tool for discussing emotions and emotional intelligence with children. Boundaries are important and should be taught to children early on to prevent issues with emotional regulation in adulthood. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 00:18 The Phenomenon of Starting TV Shows But Not Finishing Them 02:21 The Influence of ADHD, Anxiety, and Media Options 06:08 Prioritizing Self-Care and Finding Balance 08:27 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence and Inside Out 12:58 Teaching Emotional Intelligence from a Young Age Keywords TV shows, seasons, ADHD, anxiety, nostalgia, streaming services, media, attention span, Inside Out, emotions, emotional intelligence, boundaries

    17 min
  2. 08/08/2024

    Navigating the Challenges and Benefits of Long-Distance Relationships

    In this conversation, Sarah and Trevor discuss their experience with long-distance relationships. Sarah, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares her expertise and personal insights. They talk about the challenges and benefits of being in a long-distance relationship, the importance of communication and growth, and the impact of COVID-19 on their relationship. They also touch on the topic of different therapeutic practices and the concept of being an expert therapist. Takeaways Long-distance relationships can be challenging but can also strengthen a couple's bond if both partners are committed and willing to communicate effectively. Being in a long-distance relationship requires independence and interdependence, where both partners rely on each other but also have their own lives. Fighting and disagreements are normal in relationships and can be healthy if approached with fair fighting rules and a willingness to work through problems. Long-distance relationships can accelerate the growth and maturity of a relationship, as partners have to navigate challenges and communicate effectively. It's important to be with a partner who supports your individual growth and is willing to navigate life's changes together. COVID-19 had both positive and negative impacts on their relationship, as it brought them physically closer but also introduced new challenges. Sarah's therapeutic approach is eclectic, incorporating various theories and techniques to create a personalized experience for each client. Becoming an expert therapist involves extensive training, certifications, and hours of work in specific areas of focus. Chapters 00:00 Technical Difficulties and Funny clip 00:48 Introducing the Podcast 01:19 Sarah's Expertise as a Therapist 02:17 Different Types of Therapy and Expertise 04:14 Sarah's Experience with Sexual Assault Response Team 07:36 Introduction to Long-Distance Relationships 17:30 The Importance of Communication and Fighting in Long-Distance Relationships 21:47 Personal Growth and Independence in Long-Distance Relationships 25:21 The Impact of COVID-19 on Long-Distance Relationships 31:29 Closing Remarks and Invitation to Join the Conversation Keywords long-distance relationships, communication, growth, challenges, benefits, COVID-19, therapeutic practices, expert therapist

    32 min

About

Welcome to the podcast where we dive deep into life’s ebbs and flows with a perfect blend of expert advice and heartfelt conversations. I’m your host, Sarah, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and owner of Calming Waters Wellness. Think of this space as a cozy chat with a close friend, where we explore everything from mental health tips to navigating everyday challenges. So, grab a cup of your favorite drink, get comfortable, and let’s ride the waves together.