Carlene + Jaime

Carlene + Jaime
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She's a teacher, and he's a pastor. We've been married for over ten years and learned a few things about life, marriage, family, children, and church. It hasn't been easy, but we love talking about our experiences. Thank you for sharing our space with us

  1. I Can't Take It Anymore! | How to Argue Without Destroying Your Marriage

    1D AGO

    I Can't Take It Anymore! | How to Argue Without Destroying Your Marriage

    You love each other — but why does every argument feel like a battle? In this episode, we break down why couples fight the way they do and what to do about it. We explore the two conflict personalities that exist in every relationship — The Processor (needs to talk it out) and The Regulator (needs space to think) — and why understanding which one you and your spouse are changes everything. We dig into John Gottman's 4 Horsemen that predict relationship breakdown: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. And we get honest about our own conflict styles and what we had to learn early in our marriage — starting with something as simple as washing dishes. We also walk you through two practical tools you can start using today: The Timeout Agreement (a structured pause with built-in accountability) and The Translation Method (reframing what your partner is really saying to de-escalate fast). If your arguments keep going in circles, if silence lasts for days, or if you're feeling emotionally unsafe to speak — this episode is for you. Take our Couples Survey — link in the show notes. Marriage Webinar coming soon — stay connected for details. We're Carlene + Jaime, your mentors for the messy middle.

    29 min
  2. Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem—Unspoken Love Languages Are. 💔❤️

    FEB 14

    Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem—Unspoken Love Languages Are. 💔❤️

    In this episode of the Carlene + Jaime Podcast, we explore why Valentine’s Day often leads to disappointment and how understanding your partner’s love language can change the way couples experience love, connection, and expectations. Whether you’re married, dating, or preparing for future relationships, this conversation will help you communicate your needs clearly and love each other better—without resentment.

    20 min
  3. The Shift that Shifted Us Pt. 2

    10/26/2025

    The Shift that Shifted Us Pt. 2

    We're back with Part 2, and this time we're diving into our move FROM Texas TO Atlanta—and why this move changed everything for us! 🏡💕Carlene and Jaime get vulnerable about what it means to make a move as a true partnership, starting completely over with jobs and salaries, and how asking for help and building community saved our marriage during the transition.In This Episode We Talk About:Why this Atlanta move was different—it was OUR move, not just Jaime'sStarting over from scratch with new jobs and taking salary hitsThe financial pressure of rebuilding our careers in a new cityHow we stayed committed to each other when everything felt uncertain The power of asking for help (and why pride almost stopped us)How our community and friends in Atlanta showed up for usWhy surrounding yourself with like-minded people is NON-NEGOTIABLE Building a support system that actually supports your marriageWhat "being a team" really looks like during major transitionsIf you're in a season of starting over, navigating career changes as a couple, or learning to receive help—this episode is for you.CONNECT WITH US:Instagram: CarlenePlusJaimeTikTok: CarlenePlusJaimeYoutube: ‪@CarleneplusJaime‬ Email: CarleneplusJaime‪@gmail.com‬ #MovingToAtlanta #MarriageAdvice #YoungCouples #RelocationTips #StartingOver #CareerChange #MarriagePodcast #AtlantaLife #CoupleGoals #AskingForHelp #CommunityMatters #ParentingPodcast #Part2

    46 min
  4. The Shift that Shifted Us

    10/21/2025

    The Shift that Shifted Us

    In this episode, we're getting real about our big move to Texas with two toddlers and how it completely transformed our marriage! 🏡✨ Carlene and Jaime open up about the challenges, unexpected blessings, and hard-won lessons from relocating our family to the Lone Star State. If you're a young couple considering a major move—especially with little ones—this episode is for you!In This Episode We Talk About:Why we decided to move to Texas with our two toddlersThe biggest challenges we faced in our marriage during the transition How the move brought us closer (and the moments it tested us!)Practical advice for couples planning a big relocation with kidsWhat we wish we'd known before making the moveTips for maintaining connection during major life changesWhether you're thinking about moving to Texas, relocating to a new state with young children, or just navigating big life changes as a couple, we hope our story encourages and equips you!#MovingToTexas #MarriageAdvice #YoungCouples #ParentingToddlers #RelocationTips #TexasLife #MarriagePodcast #FamilyMove #CoupleGoals #parentingpodcast

    41 min
  5. Why Men Sometimes Say No: Exploring Emotional Needs, Sexual Anxiety, and Communication

    09/05/2025

    Why Men Sometimes Say No: Exploring Emotional Needs, Sexual Anxiety, and Communication

    In this raw and honest episode of Carlene plus Jaime, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked topics in relationships: what happens when HE’s the one saying no to intimacy.💔 What We Cover:• The emotional impact when traditional gender roles flip• Breaking down the myths around male desire and consent• How rejection affects women in ways we rarely discuss• Communication strategies for navigating sexual mismatches• Building understanding and empathy in intimate partnershipsThis vulnerable conversation challenges assumptions about desire, rejection, and gender dynamics in modern relationships. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this episode offers insights that could transform how you think about intimacy and communication.

    35 min
  6. "I'm Too Tired" - What She's Really Saying (And How to Hear It)

    08/20/2025

    "I'm Too Tired" - What She's Really Saying (And How to Hear It)

    When she says "I'm too tired" - it's probably not what you think. In this raw and honest conversation, Carlene and Jaime dive deep into one of the most misunderstood dynamics in marriage. What's really happening when your wife says she's too tired for intimacy? Spoiler alert: it's rarely about physical exhaustion.This episode pulls back the curtain on the emotional, mental, and relational factors that impact a woman's desire for connection. From invisible mental loads to feeling unseen in the relationship, Carlene and Jaime explore the deeper truths behind "I'm too tired" - and more importantly, how couples can bridge this gap with understanding and compassion.Whether you're the spouse saying "I'm too tired" or the one hearing it, this episode offers practical insights and real solutions for creating the kind of intimacy that goes beyond the bedroom. Because when couples understand each other's perspectives, everything changes.We are the marriage mentors for the messy middle - where real relationships get real solutions.Perfect for couples ready to move past surface-level conversations and dive into what really matters.

    47 min

  7. 08/09/2025

    Why 90% of Couples Skip This One Thing That Prevents Breakups

    🔥 The shocking truth about what's actually breaking relationships apart...Most couples think they need grand gestures, expensive therapy, or perfect communication to save their relationship. But the real relationship killer?Leaving connection to chance.In this episode, we reveal the ONE thing that 90% of couples completely skip - and it's costing them their relationship. We're talking about intentional couple care planning, and why creating a "couple care menu" might be the most important thing you do for your relationship this year.🎯 What You'll Learn:The #1 reason couples drift apart (it's not what you think)How to create your own couple care menu in under 10 minutesWhy spontaneity is actually killing your connection25+ couple care ideas for any budget, time, or energy levelThe difference between couples who thrive vs. couples who surviveABOUT US:We're Carlene and Jaime, and we've been married for 17 years. After nearly losing our own relationship to the "roommate trap," we discovered the power of intentional couple care. Now we help couples reconnect and build relationships that actually last.💬 LET'S CONNECT:What's one thing from your couple care menu that you want to try this week? Drop it in the comments below! We read every single one and often feature your stories in future videos.

    36 min
  8. The Lost Art of Caring: How Couples Can Reconnect and Stay Connected

    08/03/2025

    The Lost Art of Caring: How Couples Can Reconnect and Stay Connected

    Is your relationship running on autopilot?In this episode, we’re breaking down what Couple Care really means — and why it’s the secret ingredient most couples are missing.We’re sharing:🌿 What “Couple Care” actually is (it’s more than just date night)🙏🏾 How to invite God into the daily rhythm of your relationship💛 3 easy practices that build connection, trust, and joy🎉 Plus: How to start your own “Couple Care Menu” todayWhether your marriage feels disconnected or just in need of a tune-up, this episode is your reminder that love needs tending.🔔 Subscribe for more faith-based encouragement, practical tools, and real talk to help you build a marriage that lasts.

    34 min
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She's a teacher, and he's a pastor. We've been married for over ten years and learned a few things about life, marriage, family, children, and church. It hasn't been easy, but we love talking about our experiences. Thank you for sharing our space with us

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  • Creator
    Carlene + Jaime
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    40
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Carlene + Jaime
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