Cases & Cocktails

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Cases & Cocktails is your go-to weekly podcast for raw, real, and revealing conversations about family law. Hosted by Bryan & Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm, this video and audio podcast brings you expert insights, firsthand experiences, and the untold stories behind high-stakes family law cases. From judges and attorneys to former clients and industry experts, Cases & Cocktails invites a diverse lineup of guests to break down complex legal battles, parental alienation, child custody disputes, and high-conflict divorces—all over a cocktail (or two). Whether you’re facing a legal challenge, working in the legal field, or just fascinated by the drama and dynamics of family law, this podcast serves up valuable insights with a personal touch. 🎙️ New episodes drop every week! Tune in, pour yourself a drink, and join the conversation.

  1. 3d ago

    When Kids Don't Want to Visit the Other Parent: A Guide for Texas Co-Parents - Ep 91

    One of the most emotionally challenging situations divorced parents face is when a child suddenly says they don't want to visit the other parent. Is it a sign of a serious problem, or is it simply a child struggling with change? In Episode 91 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston discuss how parents should respond when children resist visitation and why the answer isn't always as straightforward as it seems.  Over a Peach Pineapple Margarita, the conversation focuses on helping parents distinguish between normal childhood emotions and situations that may require legal or professional intervention. Not Every Objection Means Something Is Wrong Bryan explains that children, like adults, naturally resist change. Sometimes a child doesn't want to leave one home simply because they're comfortable where they are, have plans with friends, or don't want to interrupt an activity. Those feelings, while real, don't necessarily indicate that the other parent has done anything wrong.  The Egglestons stress the importance of separating ordinary childhood reluctance from legitimate concerns involving abuse or safety. If a parent truly believes a child's health or welfare is at risk, they should seek immediate legal and professional guidance. However, absent a genuine safety concern, parents should be careful not to assume that every complaint signals a larger problem.  Avoid Reinforcing the Child's Resistance One of the biggest mistakes parents can make is unintentionally validating a child's refusal to visit the other parent. Janice explains that apologizing to a child for having to follow a court-ordered possession schedule or suggesting they only have to go because "the judge says so" can reinforce the child's negative feelings and create unnecessary conflict between the child and the other parent. Instead, parents should calmly acknowledge the child's emotions while encouraging them to maintain their relationship with both parents.  Children Need Resilience A central theme of the episode is teaching children how to handle discomfort. Bryan notes that children who are allowed to avoid every uncomfortable situation may struggle later in life. Whether it's sharing a bedroom, adjusting to different household rules, or simply sleeping in a different bed, these everyday challenges help build resilience and emotional maturity. Parents should avoid treating minor inconveniences as reasons to disrupt court-ordered parenting time.  Communication Between Co-Parents Matters Rather than blaming one another, Bryan and Janice encourage parents to communicate openly about concerns their children express. If a child complains about something at the other parent's home, the goal should not be to criticize or accuse. Instead, parents should share the information respectfully and work together to determine whether the issue requires attention or is simply part of normal childhood adjustment. Effective co-parenting often begins with honest, solution-focused conversations.  Good Parenting and Good Litigation Are Not Always the Same The episode also highlights an important reality: parenting decisions and litigation strategy do not always align. Bryan and Janice explain that while attorneys provide legal guidance, parents must sometimes balance legal advice with what they believe is best for their child. The key is maintaining communication with your attorney so legal strategy can adapt when parenting priorities change.  The Takeaway Episode 91 reminds parents that co-parenting is rarely easy, but consistency, communication, and confidence go a long way. When there are no legitimate safety concerns, encouraging children to maintain healthy relationships with both parents helps build resilience while supporting long-term emotional well-being. By approaching these situations with patience and cooperation, parents place themselves in the best position to support their children—and, if necessary, demonstrate to the court that they have acted in their child's best interests.  Questions About Child Custody or Co-Parenting in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps parents navigate child custody disputes, possession schedules, and high-conflict family law matters with practical guidance and experienced advocacy. 📞 Learn more at The Eggleston Law Firm

    When Kids Don't Want to Visit the Other Parent: A Guide for Texas Co-Parents - Ep 91

  2. Aug 28

    Winning the War, Not Every Battle: Strategy in Texas Family Law Litigation - Ep 90

    When emotions run high during a divorce or custody dispute, it can be tempting to take every disagreement straight to the courtroom. But is winning today's argument actually helping you achieve your long-term goal? In Episode 90 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston discuss the importance of strategy in Texas family law litigation and why knowing when not to fight can sometimes be just as important as knowing when to go to court. Over a Watermelon Tequila Agua Fresca, the hosts explain why successful litigation requires looking beyond today's conflict and keeping your focus on the bigger picture. Don't Lose Sight of the Ultimate Goal Divorce and custody litigation can last months—or even years. During that time, parents may encounter missed exchanges, communication problems, violations of agreements, and countless other frustrations. Bryan explains that every case should have priorities and an overall strategy. Those priorities may evolve, but reacting emotionally to every incident can consume valuable time, money, and energy without necessarily moving the case toward the desired outcome. Play Chess, Not Checkers One of the central themes of Episode 90 is simple: think several moves ahead. There are absolutely situations where filing a motion or appearing before a judge is necessary. But filing something doesn't always mean the case must ultimately be argued in court. If negotiations can achieve the desired result without risking an unpredictable ruling, accepting that resolution may be the smarter strategic decision. As Bryan puts it, winning one battle isn't worth much if it causes you to lose the larger war. Sometimes the Best Win Happens Outside the Courtroom Clients understandably hire litigators expecting them to fight. However, much of the work that ultimately determines a case's outcome happens long before anyone enters the courtroom. Attorneys may spend months documenting behavior, gathering evidence, changing narratives, negotiating, and positioning a client for the strongest possible result. Going to court prematurely can expose strategy, increase costs, or introduce unnecessary uncertainty. Sometimes getting everything you wanted through negotiation is a bigger victory than asking a judge to decide. Show the Court You Tried to Co-Parent The episode also explores how seemingly small incidents can become important when viewed as part of a larger pattern. One late custody exchange may not justify immediate litigation. Repeated problems, combined with documented attempts to communicate and find solutions, can tell a very different story. For parents seeking greater decision-making authority, demonstrating a genuine effort to co-parent can matter. The goal isn't simply documenting what the other parent did wrong—it's also showing what you did to try to make the situation work. "The Principle" Can Be Expensive Bryan warns clients about fighting simply because "it's the principle." Those battles aren't only expensive financially. They consume emotional energy, time, and what the hosts describe as litigation capital. Constantly returning to court can also affect how the parties and their conflict are perceived. Maintaining perspective—and finding healthy outlets outside the litigation—can make it easier to separate an emotional reaction from a decision that actually advances the case. The Takeaway Episode 90 offers an important reminder for anyone involved in a high-conflict divorce or custody case: not every fight needs to become a court battle. Successful family law litigation requires clear goals, patience, documentation, communication with your attorney, and a strategy built around the result you ultimately want. Your goals may change along the way, but keeping your attorney informed allows the legal strategy to change with them. Sometimes the strongest move isn't fighting harder. It's knowing which fight actually matters. Facing a High-Conflict Divorce or Custody Case in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm helps clients throughout Central Texas navigate complex divorce, custody, and high-conflict family law litigation. A strategic approach can help you focus your resources on the issues that matter most for your family and your future. Learn more at lonestarlawfirm.com.

    Winning the War, Not Every Battle: Strategy in Texas Family Law Litigation - Ep 90

  3. Aug 23

    Special Needs Children in Texas Custody Cases: Planning for Care, Support, and the Future -Ep 89

    Divorce and child custody cases are challenging for any family, but when a child has special needs, the decisions parents make can carry even greater consequences. In Episode 89 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston discuss how Texas custody cases involving special-needs children require extra planning for medical care, education, parenting schedules, and long-term financial support. Over a classic Gin and Tonic, the hosts explore why these families often need a more detailed roadmap than a traditional custody order may provide. Medical and Educational Decisions Matter "Special needs" covers a broad spectrum—from a child who needs a 504 plan at school to someone who may require lifelong care. As those needs increase, decisions surrounding education, medical treatment, therapy, and psychological care can become increasingly important. Texas custody orders establish parental rights and duties, but Bryan and Janice explain that deciding who has final decision-making authority can be particularly important in these cases. Parents may disagree about specialists, treatment plans, medications, or educational accommodations. When co-parenting is already high conflict, requiring agreement on every decision can potentially lead families back to court. Creating a Parenting Plan Around the Child For some children with special needs, consistency and routine are essential. Therapy appointments, medical visits, meals, sleep schedules, and other daily routines may directly affect a child's behavior and well-being. That means a standard possession schedule may not address everything a family needs. Parents should consider transportation to appointments, communication with providers, at-home therapies, and how important routines will continue between households. The Importance of Medical Professionals Doctors, therapists, educators, and other professionals can become important voices in contested custody cases. Courts may consider recommendations from treating professionals when parents disagree about a child's care. Bryan and Janice explain that challenging an existing treatment recommendation can be difficult and may require another qualified expert to explain why an alternative approach would better serve the child. Communication is equally important. A child may have a pediatrician, neurologist, behavioral therapist, speech therapist, occupational therapist, and school professionals involved at the same time. Keeping both parents informed can help prevent misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict. Child Support May Continue Beyond Age 18 One of the most significant issues discussed in Episode 89 is support for an adult child with a disability. Typically, Texas child support ends when certain statutory conditions are met around adulthood and high school completion. However, Bryan and Janice explain that when a child requires substantial care because of a qualifying disability, support may potentially continue beyond the traditional endpoint. The child's needs and the parents' financial circumstances can also affect the amount of support the court considers. For families facing lifelong care, they should address these financial considerations early rather than treat them as an afterthought. The Takeaway Episode 89 highlights why custody cases involving special needs children require careful, individualized planning. Medical decisions, educational accommodations, therapy schedules, finances, and long-term care may all need attention. Most importantly, parents should understand the rights and responsibilities contained in their custody orders before agreeing to them. Creating a clear roadmap today can help provide greater stability for a child tomorrow. Questions About Custody or Support for a Special Needs Child in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps families navigate complex child custody, support, and high-conflict family law matters with experienced guidance and strategic planning. Learn more at lonestarlawfirm.com.

    Special Needs Children in Texas Custody Cases: Planning for Care, Support, and the Future -Ep 89

  4. Aug 15

    School Supplies, Child Support, and Co-Parenting: Who Pays for Back-to-School Expenses in Texas? - Ep 88

    As children head back to school, many divorced and separated parents ask the same question: Does child support pay for school supplies, clothes, and other back-to-school expenses? In Episode 88 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston discuss one of the most common misunderstandings in Texas family law—what child support actually covers and how parents can avoid unnecessary conflict over everyday expenses.  Over a refreshing Cucumber Margarita made with tequila, cucumber, agave, lime, and a Tajín rim, the hosts explain why communication—not conflict—is often the best solution.  Child Support Doesn't Come With Spending Rules Many parents who pay child support assume those payments should be used specifically for school supplies, clothes, or other child-related purchases. Bryan and Janice explain that Texas law generally doesn't require the receiving parent to account for how child support is spent. Instead, child support is intended to help provide for the child's overall needs, including housing, food, clothing, and other living expenses.  That often surprises parents who expect detailed accounting of every dollar. Splitting Every Expense Isn't Always Practical Some parents agree to split all child-related expenses equally. While that may sound fair in theory, the hosts explain that it often becomes difficult in practice. Tracking receipts, requesting reimbursement, and disagreeing over what should or should not be reimbursed can quickly create frustration. Differences in spending habits, financial priorities, and communication styles can make even simple purchases a source of conflict.  Without strong communication and trust, these arrangements can become more complicated than helpful. Choose Your Battles Carefully Bryan emphasizes that not every disagreement is worth taking to court. Litigating disputes over school clothes, shoes, or supplies can easily cost more in attorneys' fees than the amount in dispute. Before pursuing legal action, parents should consider whether the financial and emotional costs outweigh the benefit.  Whenever possible, resolving these issues through conversation is often the better path. Communication Is the Key to Successful Co-Parenting Throughout the episode, Janice encourages parents not to assume the worst about the other parent. Instead of immediately believing someone acted unfairly or intentionally created conflict, parents should communicate openly, explain their concerns, and discuss future expectations. A simple conversation about budgets, timing, or anticipated expenses can often prevent misunderstandings before they escalate.  Create Positive Memories With Your Children One of Bryan's most memorable points is that parents should focus less on "keeping score" and more on creating meaningful experiences with their children. When a child asks for new baseball cleats, school supplies, or equipment for an activity, Bryan encourages parents to see those moments as opportunities to create memories rather than as arguments over reimbursement. Supporting a child's interests often has far greater long-term value than debating who should pay for the purchase.  The Takeaway Episode 88 reminds parents that child support is only one part of raising a child after divorce. School expenses, activities, and unexpected costs will continue throughout childhood, and no court order can anticipate every situation. The strongest co-parenting relationships are built on communication, flexibility, and a shared commitment to putting children first. When disagreements arise, focusing on practical solutions instead of conflict often benefits everyone—especially the child. Questions About Child Support or Co-Parenting in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps parents navigate child support, custody disputes, parenting plans, and other complex family law matters with practical guidance and experienced representation.

    School Supplies, Child Support, and Co-Parenting: Who Pays for Back-to-School Expenses in Texas? - Ep 88

  5. Aug 8

    Back-to-School Custody Disputes in Texas: Who Decides Where a Child Goes to School? - Ep 87

    As summer comes to an end, many divorced and separated parents face an important question: Who gets to decide where the children go to school? In Episode 87 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston discuss the back-to-school issues that commonly lead to litigation, including school choice, extracurricular activities, and the importance of understanding your Texas custody order.  Over a refreshing Watermelon Margarita made with tequila, watermelon, and agave, the conversation explores why this time of year often brings an increase in family law disputes.  School Choice Starts with Your Court Order Many parents assume the parent with primary custody automatically decides where a child attends school. Bryan explains that while this was often true in the past, modern Texas custody orders frequently address school enrollment differently. Some orders assign the decision to one parent, while others require the parents to agree.  The challenge comes when an order requires mutual agreement but provides no solution if the parents cannot agree. In those situations, the only option may be returning to court for a judge to decide.  There Is No Perfect Formula The episode examines several ideas families sometimes propose, such as choosing the school with the highest state ranking or using arbitration when disagreements arise. Bryan and Janice explain that school rankings rarely tell the whole story. Factors such as a child's academic needs, extracurricular opportunities, special education resources, commute times, and overall fit may be far more important than a numerical ranking. Every child is different, and no single formula works for every family.  Private School Brings Additional Challenges When one parent wants private school and the other prefers public school, financial considerations often become part of the dispute. Unless both parents agree, courts are generally reluctant to require private school tuition—especially if one parent cannot afford the added expense. Parents requesting private school should be prepared to explain why it benefits the child and how those costs will be handled.  Extracurricular Activities Can Create Conflict Back-to-school disagreements often extend beyond the classroom. Travel sports, music programs, clubs, and other activities require time, transportation, and money. If activities occur during both parents' possession periods, disagreements over scheduling and expenses can quickly become contentious.  Bryan and Janice emphasize that when parents cannot cooperate, children are often the ones who miss opportunities. Communicating early and planning ahead can prevent many of these conflicts. Put the Child First Throughout the discussion, the hosts return to one central principle: decisions should focus on what is best for the child—not what creates leverage between parents. Whether choosing a school or deciding on extracurricular activities, successful co-parenting requires communication, flexibility, and a willingness to work together whenever possible. When agreement cannot be reached, understanding your custody order and seeking legal guidance early can help avoid unnecessary litigation.  The Takeaway Episode 87 reminds parents that back-to-school season is about more than buying supplies—it is also a time to review custody orders, discuss school plans, and resolve disagreements before classes begin. Planning ahead and keeping the child's best interests at the center of every decision can help families avoid unnecessary conflict and create a smoother start to the school year. Questions About Child Custody, School Choice, or Parenting Plans in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps parents navigate custody disputes, parenting plans, and other complex family law matters with experienced guidance and practical solutions.

    Back-to-School Custody Disputes in Texas: Who Decides Where a Child Goes to School? - Ep 87

  6. Aug 1

    Representing Yourself in a Texas Divorce: Lessons from a Pro Se Success Story - Ep 86

    Not everyone going through a divorce can hire an attorney. For many Texans, financial circumstances or unique situations lead them to represent themselves in court. In Episode 86 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston welcome Crystal Lowy, who shares her remarkable experience successfully navigating a contested Texas family law case as a pro se litigant—someone who represented herself throughout the legal process.  While Bryan makes it clear that hiring an experienced family law attorney is always the preferred path, Crystal's story offers valuable lessons about preparation, resilience, and maintaining composure during one of life's most difficult experiences. When Representing Yourself Becomes the Only Option Crystal explains that representing herself wasn't necessarily her first choice. Circumstances surrounding her case and conflicts with potential legal representation left her with limited options. Rather than giving up, she committed herself to learning the Texas family court process one step at a time.  Her story serves as a reminder that while self-representation is challenging, preparation and education can make a significant difference. Preparing Like a Professional One of the biggest takeaways from the episode is the amount of work Crystal invested before ever stepping into a courtroom. She researched Texas family law resources, consulted with attorneys when possible, studied court procedures, organized exhibits, and carefully prepared for hearings. She also used technology responsibly to help organize information while verifying everything through reliable legal resources.  Bryan notes that this level of preparation mirrors what experienced attorneys do every day when building a case for their clients. Managing Emotions During Family Court Family law cases are emotionally exhausting, and Crystal emphasizes that protecting her mental and emotional health became just as important as preparing legal documents. She focused on improving sleep, reducing stress, limiting unnecessary stimulation, strengthening her faith, and intentionally calming her nervous system before court appearances. That preparation allowed her to remain composed—even during aggressive cross-examination.  Bryan explains that judges often evaluate not only what someone says, but how they present themselves throughout the hearing. Helpful Resources for Parents Crystal also shares practical resources that helped her navigate the process, including: OurFamilyWizard for organized co-parent communication. Texas Law Help for court forms and procedural guidance.  Consultations with experienced family law attorneys to better understand the legal process before hearings. While these tools cannot replace legal representation, they can help parents stay organized and better understand the process. Presentation Matters in Court One topic that surprises many people is how much professionalism matters inside the courtroom. Bryan and Crystal discuss everything from dressing appropriately for hearings to staying calm when answering questions. Simple details—such as organized documents, professional attire, and measured responses—can help demonstrate credibility and preparedness.  The Takeaway Episode 86 highlights that family law cases require much more than simply filing paperwork. Whether you hire an attorney or must represent yourself, preparation, organization, emotional control, and understanding the court process are critical to presenting your case effectively. Crystal's journey demonstrates incredible perseverance, while also reinforcing why experienced legal guidance can be invaluable during a Texas divorce or child custody case. Need Help with a Texas Divorce or Child Custody Case? The Eggleston Law Firm helps families across Central Texas navigate divorce, child custody, temporary orders, high-conflict family law matters, and complex litigation. If you're facing a difficult family law situation, having experienced legal guidance can make all the difference.

    Representing Yourself in a Texas Divorce: Lessons from a Pro Se Success Story - Ep 86

  7. Jul 25

    Military Divorce in Texas: Why Experience Matters More Than You Think - Ep 85

    Military divorces involve far more than dividing property and determining custody. They require navigating federal regulations, military retirement systems, deployment issues, and benefits that can dramatically affect a family's future. In Episode 85 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston welcome Jillian French, a Texas attorney who regularly teaches and advises other lawyers on military divorce issues, to discuss why these cases require specialized knowledge and careful planning.  Over a Pineapple Cosmopolitan, the conversation highlights the unique challenges military families face and why working with an attorney who understands military law can make a significant difference. Military Divorce Is More Than a Typical Divorce While many aspects of military divorce follow Texas family law, Jillian explains that military cases often require attorneys to navigate both state law and federal regulations. Retirement benefits, military records, deployment issues, and federal agencies like the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS) all introduce complexities that don't exist in civilian divorces.  Even experienced family law attorneys frequently seek guidance from military law specialists because regulations are updated regularly and require ongoing education. Deployment Doesn't Always Stop a Divorce One common misconception is that a deployment automatically pauses a divorce or custody case. Jillian explains that while the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) can provide important protections, every situation is different. Courts must balance the rights of deployed service members with the need to protect children, preserve assets, or address urgent legal issues. In some situations, waiting simply isn't an option.  When deployments are anticipated, proactive planning and temporary court orders can help preserve parenting rights and minimize future conflict. Military Retirement Benefits Continue to Evolve The episode also explores changes to the military's retirement system, including the transition from the traditional pension model to the Blended Retirement System (BRS). These changes create new questions during divorce, particularly when determining how retention bonuses and retirement benefits should be characterized as community or separate property. Because many of these issues are still developing, attorneys and courts often must interpret evolving regulations alongside Texas property laws.  Experience Matters When Federal Rules Apply Bryan and Jillian emphasize that military divorces frequently involve procedures unfamiliar to many family law attorneys. Obtaining military records, preparing division orders, addressing DFAS requirements, and calculating military retirement benefits all require specialized knowledge. Even something as routine as subpoenaing records from a military installation follows different rules than a typical Texas case.  Missing one detail can delay a case or affect valuable benefits for years to come. Planning Ahead Protects Your Future Whether dealing with deployment schedules, military retirement, custody, or benefits, one theme remained consistent throughout the episode: early planning leads to better outcomes. By working with experienced counsel before issues arise, military families can better protect their finances, preserve parenting time, and avoid preventable legal complications. The Takeaway Episode 85 reminds military families that not all divorces are created equal. Military service brings unique legal challenges that require attorneys who understand both Texas family law and the federal regulations governing military benefits. With knowledgeable guidance and proactive planning, service members and their spouses can navigate even the most complex military divorce with greater confidence and clarity. Need Help With a Military Divorce or Custody Case in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, helps military members and their families navigate divorce, child custody, military retirement, and complex family law matters. Whether you're preparing for deployment or dividing military benefits, our team provides experienced legal guidance every step of the way. 📞 Learn more at The Eggleston Law Firm

    Military Divorce in Texas: Why Experience Matters More Than You Think - Ep 85

  8. Jul 18

    Military Divorce in Texas: What Service Members Need to Know Before Deployment - Ep 84

    Military families face unique challenges, and those challenges can become even more complex when divorce or child custody issues arise. In Episode 84 of Cases & Cocktails, Bryan and Janice Eggleston are joined by Emily Landeros, an attorney with extensive experience in family law and Child Protective Services, to discuss the legal nuances of military divorce in Texas and how service members can protect themselves and their families before deployment.  Over a Blueberry Vodka Lemonade, the conversation highlights practical steps military parents can take to avoid common legal and financial pitfalls while serving their country. Military Divorces Have Unique Challenges While military divorces generally follow the same legal framework as other Texas divorces, they often involve additional issues that civilian families never encounter. Frequent relocations, deployments, long-distance parenting, and military benefits all require careful planning. Emily explains that custody arrangements may need to account for deployments, interstate travel, and extended periods away from home, making customized parenting plans especially important.  What Happens if You're Deployed During a Divorce? One of the biggest concerns for service members is being served with divorce papers while deployed. Bryan and Emily discuss the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA), which may allow deployed service members to request a temporary stay of civil proceedings. This protection gives military members time to obtain legal representation and participate in their case without compromising their military responsibilities.  Even with these protections, the advice is clear: contact an experienced family law attorney as soon as possible. Waiting too long can make protecting your rights much more difficult. Temporary Orders Protect Everyone The episode emphasizes the importance of obtaining temporary court orders before deployment whenever possible. These orders can address:  Temporary custody arrangements  Parenting time during deployment  Electronic communication with children  Child support obligations  Designating a trusted family member to exercise visitation when permitted by law Having clear court orders in place reduces uncertainty and helps maintain stability for children while a parent is serving overseas.  Child Support in Military Cases Military child support calculations can differ from civilian cases. In addition to regular military pay, courts may also consider certain military allowances when calculating a service member's net resources. Understanding how these benefits are treated is essential to ensuring child support is calculated correctly under Texas law.  Protect Your Finances Before Deployment One of the most practical discussions in the episode involves financial planning. Bryan shares examples of service members who granted broad access to bank accounts before deployment, only to return home and discover their savings had disappeared. Emily recommends planning carefully before deployment and limiting financial access whenever possible. Whether the individual is married or unmarried, taking proactive steps to safeguard accounts can prevent significant financial hardship later.  Don't Wait Until It's Too Late Perhaps the biggest takeaway from Episode 84 is that timing matters. If divorce or custody issues seem likely and deployment is approaching, waiting until after deployment may leave service members with fewer options and greater legal challenges. Planning ahead allows attorneys to secure temporary orders, protect parental rights, and create a strategy before military obligations limit a parent's ability to participate in court proceedings. The Takeaway Military service already demands tremendous sacrifice. When divorce or custody disputes arise, having a legal plan in place before deployment can help protect both your family and your future. Episode 84 reminds military parents that preparation is one of the most effective tools they have. Early legal guidance can help minimize conflict, preserve parental relationships, and avoid costly mistakes while serving overseas. Questions About Military Divorce or Child Custody in Texas? The Eggleston Law Firm in Spicewood, Texas, represents military members and their families in divorce, custody, and complex family law matters. Whether you're preparing for deployment or navigating an active case, our team provides strategic guidance tailored to your unique circumstances.

    Military Divorce in Texas: What Service Members Need to Know Before Deployment - Ep 84
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Cases & Cocktails is your go-to weekly podcast for raw, real, and revealing conversations about family law. Hosted by Bryan & Janice Eggleston of The Eggleston Law Firm, this video and audio podcast brings you expert insights, firsthand experiences, and the untold stories behind high-stakes family law cases. From judges and attorneys to former clients and industry experts, Cases & Cocktails invites a diverse lineup of guests to break down complex legal battles, parental alienation, child custody disputes, and high-conflict divorces—all over a cocktail (or two). Whether you’re facing a legal challenge, working in the legal field, or just fascinated by the drama and dynamics of family law, this podcast serves up valuable insights with a personal touch. 🎙️ New episodes drop every week! Tune in, pour yourself a drink, and join the conversation.

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    The Eggleston Law Firm
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    89
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