Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

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    Coming Out at 47: Graham | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott meets Graham who shares what it was like to come out at the age of 47 after years of hiding who he was. Married with two children, he spent decades wrestling with fear, shame and the worry that telling the truth would cost him the people he loved most. Then, on one day in July 2000, everything changed.Graham talks candidly about the moment he realised he could no longer live a lie, the surprising reactions from family and friends, the relief that followed, and why he believes "the most difficult person I had to come out to was myself." He also reflects on catastrophising, the fear of rejection, finding love later in life, and why he says, "You are the same person as you were yesterday before you came out." If you've ever questioned whether it's too late to live authentically, Graham's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to be yourself.If this conversation resonated with you, remember: you are not alone. If you'd like to hear more from Graham, make sure you listen to the companion episode, Chaps Out Culture.If you enjoyed this episode, please like, rate, review and share the podcast, because it really helps more people find these conversations. And please subscribe or follow Chaps Out wherever you tune in.And if you grew up in the UK or Ireland and would like to share your coming out later in life story on the podcast, you can email me at chapsout@gmail.com. Thanks again for listening to Chaps Out. And as always, take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #ComingOut #ComingOutStory #LGBTQ #Gay #LaterInLife #Authenticity #MentalHealth #ChapsOut #Podcast #personalstory Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 47: Graham | CHAPS OUT
  2. -4 дн. ·  Бонусный контент

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve recommends...

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Steve, who shares some of his LGBTQ+ cultural highlights.He chooses the film 4th Man Out and TV series Big Boys. While each tells a very different story, both celebrate friendship, identity and the courage to embrace who you are. Whether it's navigating university life, coming out or redefining masculinity, these two recommendations remind us that growing up is rarely straightforward- but it's always worth the journey. Join us as we explore two funny, moving and uplifting queer coming-of-age stories that prove there's no single path from boys to men. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5 star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out the full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #LGBTQ #QueerCulture #Podcast #ChapsOut #LGBTQPodcast #QueerVoices #RepresentationMatters #4thManOut #BigBoys #LGBTQStories #LGBTQHistory #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow #QueerMedia #LGBTQCommunity #InclusiveVoices Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve recommends...
  3. 14 июл.

    Coming Out at 40: Steve | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by Steve who shares his coming out story. Steve spent over 30 years hiding who he really was. Growing up in the UK during the 1980s, he convinced himself that if anyone discovered he was gay, he would lose everything. It wasn't until he was 40 that he found the courage to tell his wife, his children, his parents and the people closest to him. Steve shares the fear, shame and hope that shaped his journey, and why he now says, "My head was my biggest demon." This is a powerful conversation about coming out later in life, overcoming fear, and discovering that the reality was very different from the one he'd imagined. If you're questioning your own path, or supporting someone on theirs, Steve's story is one you won't forget. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 40: Steve | CHAPS OUT
  4. 7 июл.

    Coming Out at 46: Garry | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by guest, Garry who shares his story of coming out at 46 after spending more than 30 years hiding his sexuality. Growing up during Section 28, he believed he had to suppress who he really was, leading him to marry, raise a family and struggle with his mental health for decades. Garry reflects on the difficult consequences of finally telling the truth, taking full responsibility for the hurt his decisions caused while explaining why he felt unable to live authentically for so long. He speaks candidly about losing friends, rebuilding relationships, finding love, and discovering that life can begin again later in life. His powerful message is one of hope: "I've lost friends. I've lost family. But I've gained friends who've become family." If you're navigating your own coming out journey, supporting someone who is, or simply interested in a moving story of courage, accountability and self-acceptance, this conversation is not to be missed. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach those who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ And don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests return to recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 46: Garry | CHAPS OUT
  5. 3 июл. ·  Бонусный контент

    Chaps Out Culture: Mark Foster recommends..

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott welcomes back World Champion swimmer Mark Foster, one of Britain's most celebrated athletes, for a warm and nostalgic conversation about the LGBTQ+ culture that has shaped and inspired them. Together, they discuss music that defined their youth, including Soft Cell, while reflecting on the enduring power of 1980s pop and its connection to identity and memory. Mark also shares his love for the acclaimed drama, This Is Us. He also mentions his new autobiography, My Double Life. This episode offers a nostalgic look at the sounds, stories and experiences from growing up in Essex. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5 star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out Mark's full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #MarkFoster #WorldChampionSwimmer #Olympian #LGBTQPodcast #GayPodcast #LGBTQCulture #ComingOut #80sMusic #SoftCell #MyDoubleLife #ThisIsUs #PodcastInterview #ChapsOutCulture Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Chaps Out Culture: Mark Foster recommends..
  6. 30 июн.

    Coming Out in Public at 47: Mark Foster | CHAPS OUT

    In this powerful episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by six-time world champion and former world record-breaking swimmer Mark Foster to discuss his new book, “My Double Life” (Bloomsbury- out July 2nd 2026) and talk about the story behind the medals. Growing up in Essex, becoming one of Britain's greatest swimmers and spending decades in the public eye, Mark reveals why he didn't come out publicly until the age of 47, the loneliness that came with success, and the freedom he found in finally being himself. From inventing a girlfriend to hiding a long-term relationship, Mark speaks candidly about the pressures of elite sport, the fear of being seen, and the moving support he received from his mother. He shares the extraordinary words from a psychologist who told him, "You didn't win Olympic gold because you didn't want to be seen", and explains why, in his own words, "The longer you hold onto a secret, the bigger and bigger it becomes." This is a conversation about identity, masculinity, growing up in Britain in the 1970s and 80s, and why it's never too late to live authentically. Whether you know Mark Foster from the swimming pool, Strictly Come Dancing or his broadcasting career, this is the most personal side of one of Britain's most recognisable sportsmen. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach those who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ And don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests return to recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #MarkFoster #Swimming #Olympics #ComingOut #ChapsOut #LGBTQ #WorldRecord #MentalHealth #BritishSwimming #MyDoubleLife #autobiography Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out in Public at 47: Mark Foster | CHAPS OUT

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