Chiseled - We're all a work in progress - with Rob Commodari

Robert Commodari

The Chiseled podcast, hosted by Rob Commodari, is a biweekly show dedicated to fostering personal growth and self-awareness. Through candid conversations with guests from diverse backgrounds—including entrepreneurs, spiritual leaders, and individuals who have overcome significant challenges—Rob explores how life's experiences shape us into the people we are meant to be. The podcast emphasizes that we are all works in progress, continually being "chiseled" by our experiences to live our fullest lives. Launched in 2021, Chiseled delves into themes such as resilience, transformation, faith, and the pursuit of purpose. Rob's approach is deeply personal and spiritually grounded, often reflecting on how divine guidance influences our journeys. Each episode offers listeners insights and inspiration to embrace their own paths of growth and self-discovery.

  1. 2D AGO

    Chiseled Ep 116 - Beating Stress, Self-Doubt, & Fear - Jim Poole - NuCalm

    Growing up in New York, Jim Poole wrestled, played football, and earned two black belts in martial arts. The downside? A lifetime of head injuries. “I was hospitalized 14 times with concussions,” Jim recalls. “And I was probably knocked unconscious 20–30 times without going to the hospital.” Despite the damage, Jim graduated with honors from two universities and became a successful entrepreneur. Years later, while exploring his next startup, fate intervened. He met Dr. Blake Holloway, a neurologist and inventor who gave him life-changing news. “He said, ‘Jim, you have traumatic brain injury. When you turn 50, you won’t be able to tie your shoes.’” That was in 2009. Rather than succumb to fear, Jim tried Dr. Holloway’s creation — a technology designed to calm the brain and help it heal. What started as a personal test became a shared mission. Dr. Holloway told him, “I’ll keep you healthy if you make me wealthy.” Jim accepted. He became CEO, chairman, and president of NuCalm, a neuroscience company that developed a first-of-its-kind system to slow brain waves, improve recovery, and optimize focus. Originally a $6,000 medical-grade device used by doctors and even in surgeries instead of anesthesia, NuCalm evolved into a mobile app in 2021 — making this groundbreaking technology available to everyone. “Now things have gotten a lot easier,” Jim said. “We’re not where we should be, but I’m not sure where we were supposed to be anyway.” Curious if it works? A quick search reveals countless unsolicited reviews describing profound calm, clarity, and mental reset. As someone who battles the same daily struggles — overthinking, overworking, and an inability to fully rest — I was intrigued. Whether you believe in the science or not, you’ll be fascinated hearing Jim explain how the brain evolves, adapts, and heals. As he says, “You’re never going to get bored in brain science.” You won’t be bored listening to this episode either — and I promise, you’ll walk away with more questions than answers. 🎧 Tune in to this week’s Chiseled and join me on a journey into the mind.

    1h 8m
  2. 4D AGO

    Chiseled Ep 70 - Why the Best are the Best - Kevin Eastman

    If you know anything about me, you know I love words. I'm an avid reader, a public speaker, and a burgeoning author. Mybook, Better Than You Think, is a study of some of my favorite words and how they shape us and our relationships. I am not alone in this love of language, which is why I really enjoyed my interview with Kevin Eastman for this week's episode of Chiseled. Eastman is the former assistant coach of the 2008 NBA champion Boston Celtics. He is also the former assistant coach and vice president of operations for the L.A. Clippers. He has worked with the likes of Kevin Garnett, Kobe Bryant, Lebron James, Paul Pierce, and many others. You may know Kevin as the Amazon best-selling author of Whythe Best Are the Best: 25 Powerful Words That Impact, Inspire, and Define Champions. This was one of my favorite reads over the last year. In this week's podcast, Kevin describes some of the words that motivate him, among them "truth" and "preparation." He offers great insight into the meaning of "humility" and "curiosity." These words are just a few of the many that champion athletes internalize and live by. They are also guideposts for us to use to live with purpose. Kevin packs a ton of incredible insights into our fast-paced discussion. This episode is dripping with remarkable stories of how successful athletes, coaches, and others learn and succeed. It's no accident that he found so many of the people he interviewed use the same vocabulary repeatedly. I'm blessed to have had the opportunity to interview Kevin and I really appreciate all he shared. As a professional speaker, Kevin can be booked at kevineastman.net. You can also discover moregreat bits of wisdom from Kevin on his X (Twitter) handle, @kevineastman.

    45 min
  3. 6D AGO

    Chiseled Ep 59 - Overwhelming Odds -John O_Leary

    As a 9-year-old, Missouri native John O'Leary wasnearly killed while playing with fire. Burned on 100 percent of his body with89 percent covered in third-degree burns, John was not expected to live thefirst night.  But then something happened, call it a miracle. Through thepower of countless people all striving to keep John alive, not to mention thewell wishes from near and far, including President Ronald Reagan, Pope JohnPaul II, sports announcer Jack Buck, NHL star Gino Cavallini and the entire St.Louis Blues hockey team, John pulled through.  But that's just John's origin story. John survived, but hefelt lost trying to fit in. Throughout his youth, he would try to be likeeveryone else by taking big risks, whether physical feats, drinking, or otherextreme behavior. "Anything someone else would do I would do even biggerand better to prove that I was ordinary," he said. "I wasn'tchiseled, I was bandaged. I was just raft with lies and a mask."  At age 28 while working construction, John was asked to sharethe story of how he was burned — and he said "yes" for the firsttime. So, he spoke to a Girl Scout troop of three.  "I did a lousy job. I was not even paid with a box ofSamoas," he joked.  But one of the girl's fathers asked John to speak at hisRotary Club. That grew to another speaking gig and then more and more speakingengagements, not to mention two books, including the Number 1 bestseller,"On Fire, The Seven Choices to Ignite a Radically Inspired Life,"which has sold 250,000 copies and been translated into 12 languages. "I'm not afraid of the scars anymore," John said."By saying 'yes' to others, I began to realize the dignity of my ownstory." Over the years, John has spoken publicly 2,500 times andreached several million people to reveal "what happens when we allowourselves to be used for something bigger than ourselves."  I am so inspired by John, not only because of the greatbaseball stories he shares about Jack Buck and the dozens of signed baseballshe received, but also because John embodies the principles of faith, healing,and dedication to purpose.  John shares his story and the lessons he's learned in thisweek's episode of Chiseled. If you'd like to reach John, you can do soon one of his two websites, JohnOLearyInspires.com and readinawe.com, whichwill also give you the opportunity to take the 21-day challenge to spark inspiration, meaning, and joy. Check it out and enjoy this episode of Chiseled.

    1 hr
  4. OCT 1

    Chiseled Ep 71 The Faithful Agent - Garrett Maroon

    Real estate agent Garrett Maroon has never made a cold call,hosted an open house, or bought a lead. He started in real estate in 2014 with just 40 people in his referral database and has since built a business on relationships and referrals only, doing very well selling 550 homes in under nine years. But about seven years after starting his career, Garrett felt that he was dancing around a subject he really wanted to discuss — his faith. So the Newport News, Virginia-based agent began talking about it with other realtors and even clients, and found that connecting his faith to his work could be wildly successful. Garrett turned his faith into a successful business model. He operates the "Faithful Agent," a real estate business and a coaching company of the same name. He hosts a podcast with his buddy Tyler Wilson, runs a large Facebook community, and last year began holding faith-based business conferences for agents. He is also publishing a book on his faithful agent strategy. "We want to be a place ... where a Christian can say, 'I need to gettrained in my business but I want it to come from someone who has the same mentality as I do with this eternal perspective, with Christ in mind,'" he said.   Garrett told me that he wants to make sure that people understand he's not using his faith to try to make a buck. "At the end of the day, for me, as a Christian, my job is to first andforemost honor the Lord." I recorded my interview with Garrett a while back. He is afast-talker and extremely animated about his goals, which he is rapidly achieving. I firmly believe that Garrett, a husband and father of four young children, is going to have great success in his endeavors, and after you hear this episode of Chiseled, you will too.    Interested in learning more about Garrett? You can check out his website or email him at garrett@faithfulagent.com.

    38 min
  5. SEP 27

    Chiseled Ep 115 - Faith, Fire, and the Chisel: A Conversation with Brian Buffini

    I couldn’t be more honored to welcome today’s guest on Chiseled: Brian Buffini. For more than 20 years, Brian has been a coach to me, a role model, a guide in my faith journey — and an all-around good guy. He’s someone I deeply admire, and I’m humbled he agreed to join me on this episode. You’ve probably heard me mention Brian before: he’s the founder of Buffini & Company, the largest business coaching company in North America — not bad for an Irishman who came to America at 19 with nothing but determination. His journey hasn’t been easy. Just weeks after committing his life to faith, Brian survived a near-fatal motorcycle accident that required 13 surgeries and two years of recovery. Yet he says he’d do it all again, because it set him on the path that shaped his family, his career, and his calling. As a young real estate agent, Brian rejected the “find ’em, fleece ’em, and forget ’em” approach that was common in the industry. Instead, he built his business like a country doctor — caring for clients, serving their needs, and building lifelong relationships. That relationship-first model grew into a coaching system that has now impacted millions of people around the world. In this conversation, Brian shares the faith, resilience, and perspective that shaped him — and why he believes greatness begins with service. You’ll hear wisdom, humor, and stories that continue to inspire me after two decades of learning from him. I hope you enjoy this powerful exchange. And if you want to learn more about business coaching with Brian Buffini, I’d be happy to share more or you can also go to BuffiniandCompany.com  You can also watch episodes of "Chiseled" on my YouTube channel. Go to https://www.youtube.com/rcommodari to subscribe. Thanks you!

    53 min
  6. SEP 20

    Chiseled Ep 72 - Five guys on a podcast

    Many of you have been listening to Chiseled since I started podcasting in 2021. I love interviewing new people and hearing what they have to say. I hope you have found some useful insights from my guests on personal and professional growth. Most of all, I hope the podcast has entertained you. Turns out podcasting has brought me closer to an already strongband of brothers. In this week's Chiseled, I talk to four of my buddies in real estate who also have a taste for the mic and have launched their own shows. We're not making a lot of money from these labors of love, butthe return on investment has been enormous. Not only have we found our voices, but we've learned several profound lessons.   "Your compensation is directly impacted to how well youserve people and how many people you serve," said Louisville, Kentucky's Mike Gandolfo, who co-hosts the Horse Racing Happy Hour. "If I can help other people win, I'm winning," saidBrad Noll, who explains how to become a great communicator.   The five of us had several laughs discussing our adventures inpodcasting. Hopefully, the conversation will make you laugh too and perhaps even help you eliminate any hesitation that may be holding you back from pursuing a creative outlet of your own.   Interested in checking out my friends' podcasts? You can findthem here: The Horse Racing Happy Hour hosted by Mike Gandolfo. Student of the Game hostedby Brad Noll. Inspire Campfire hosted by Scott Wurtzbacher. The Karl Miller Show hosted by Karl Miller. Meantime, enjoy the five guys (not the burger joint) on this episode of Chiseled.

    1h 11m
  7. SEP 16

    Chiseled Ep 73 - Finding Happy - Chad Kneller

    When Chad Kneller was in his 20s, he “was all about sex, drugs, and rock and roll.” Laser-focused on being a singer in a rock band, Kneller figured life ends at age 27, just as it did for a host of famous musicians who burned hot and diedyoung. Through the lens of that existentialism, Chad drank too much, partied too hard, and ignored basic rules of society. Eventually, the warrants piled up and Chad found himself doing a coupletwo-week stints in jail. During one of those sojourns, he picked up a Bible and read it cover to cover. He then approached the prison minister. “I said, ‘Hey, I got some questions,’ and he didn't know I have three hours’ worth of questions. He answered them all. Andthat was the beginning of a new life for me,” he said. Upon his release, Chad returned to his new girlfriend and the two set upon a path of finding their future together. A marriage, two military stints, and three kids later, Chad and his wife are nowserial entrepreneurs. Chad has also published a book called Finding Happy, which seeks to help people, especially young people, getbeyond the intensity of their emotions and gain context to get through the most difficult seasons of their lives. “I feel like if someone would have given me a booklike that when I was in my early 20s I could have saved a whole lot of time. I wouldn't have wasted almost a decade after that.” Finding Happy has received great reviews and Chad says he’s even been told it saved one person’s life, a true win if ever there was one. It was a pleasure talking to Chad and I know his chiseling is going to continue to help others. If you want to reach Chad, hisemail is findinghappy1@gmail.com or you can check him out on all his social media channels @chadkneller or on his website.

    41 min
  8. SEP 13

    Chiseled Ep 114 - Escaping Your Self-Imposed Prison - Fazeena Haniff

    Fazeena Haniff was just seven years old when she witnessed her three-year-old cousin killed by a drunk driver. Visiting family in New York City for her birthday, she ended up attending a funeral instead of a celebration. The pain of the event was immediately suppressed in a family that tended to hide its emotions, so Fazeena never got to process the guilty feeling that she was to blame for the accident. That is, until nearly 30 years later when she found herself miserable in a failing marriage and re-traumatized by an incident while driving her own car. "I clearly had been holding onto this for how many decades, and it's playing a part in my marriage, and it's blocked me my entire life," she said. "I literally would self-sabotage myself to punish myself." Having been in a self-imposed prison, Fazeena, who is now a communications and leadership coach, finally got the help she needed. She used training in neurolinguistic programming to learn how to process trauma and disconnect the tragedy from her thoughts about herself. She now uses that technique and others to help her clients recognize how their own traumas are holding them back. Fazeena is very candid and transparent, and her level of self-awareness is admirable. I think you will find her story and the lessons she learned about forgiveness to be highly recognizable and maybe even helpful. If you're moved by her story — or any of my guests on Chiseled — I welcome your feedback. In the meantime, I hope you enjoy this week's episode.

    39 min

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The Chiseled podcast, hosted by Rob Commodari, is a biweekly show dedicated to fostering personal growth and self-awareness. Through candid conversations with guests from diverse backgrounds—including entrepreneurs, spiritual leaders, and individuals who have overcome significant challenges—Rob explores how life's experiences shape us into the people we are meant to be. The podcast emphasizes that we are all works in progress, continually being "chiseled" by our experiences to live our fullest lives. Launched in 2021, Chiseled delves into themes such as resilience, transformation, faith, and the pursuit of purpose. Rob's approach is deeply personal and spiritually grounded, often reflecting on how divine guidance influences our journeys. Each episode offers listeners insights and inspiration to embrace their own paths of growth and self-discovery.

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