Mentally STRONG with Dr. B

Cristi Bundukamara
  • 4.6 (5)
  • Mental Health
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About Dr. B Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, Ed.D., PMHNP has been a psychiatric nurse practitioner since 2000, gaining extensive experience over the last several decades. Her medical career began as an Army Medic before attending nursing school and receiving a master’s degree as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner at Florida International University (FIU). She went on to receive a doctorate in Education at Nova Southeastern University. From there, she launched the first Mentally STRONG Clinic in Colorado Springs, CO which is committed to access and serves over 7,000 patients. Today, when she’s not at the clinic attending to her patients, Dr. B dedicates a large portion of her time to speaking about mental strength, sharing her proprietary Mentally STRONG Method, and providing tips for developing mental strength.

  1. 2d ago

    Beyond Grit: How to Build Capacity, Organize Thoughts & Choose Clarity with Dr. B

    For years, many of us believe that showing up means using every ounce of grit we have to keep pushing forward. But grit alone just keeps you holding your breath, waiting for the next storm to pass. Real strength isn't about enduring constant overwhelm; it's learning a repeatable system to organize your thoughts, protect your energy, and actively make space for joy and clarity. In this episode, Dr. B breaks down why grit isn't the whole picture when navigating grief and trauma, and how moving beyond survival mode requires a structured system. Learn how to transition from endless rumination to real clarity using the Think, Organize, Choose framework. In This Episode: The Limits of Grit: Why relying solely on endurance leads to chronic overwhelmBuilding Real Capacity: Moving past survival mode to create room for clarity and joySystematic Problem Solving: Facing overwhelming moments with a structured mental frameworkThe 3-Step Method: Implementing Think, Organize, Choose to sort internal noise and make confident choicesEpisode Timestamps: 0:00 — Why Grit Isn't the Whole Picture2:14 — Grief, Trauma, and Becoming a Strength Expert4:16 — Building Capacity Beyond Just Survival5:44 — Facing Overwhelming Moments with a System8:32 — Introducing THINK, ORGANIZE, CHOOSE10:44 — Moving from Ruminating to Real Clarity12:34 — Sorting Emotional Energy and Internal Noise15:32 — Choosing with Confidence in Real LifeResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingBook a Call: Work Directly with Dr. BJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  2. 5d ago

    Real Bravery, Cognitive Capacity & Peak Performance: The Mentally STRONG Method

    Real bravery is not the absence of fear—it is knowing exactly why you are afraid and systematically organizing your mental load to make effective choices under pressure. Built specifically for high-performing leaders, the Mentally STRONG Method provides a cognitive framework to increase mental capacity, sharpen focus, and maintain peak performance regardless of the circumstances. In this episode, Dr. B breaks down why traditional positive thinking falls short and demonstrates how to utilize thought mapping and the three-step framework—Think, Organize, Choose—to navigate cognitive capacity limits and unlock genuine mental strength. In This Episode: Redefining Bravery: Organizing fear and mental load to make intentional, effective choicesThe Limits of Positive Thinking: Why surface-level optimism fails under high-pressure scenariosThe 3-Step Framework: Implementing Think, Organize, and Choose for enhanced mental clarityThought Mapping for Leadership: Increasing cognitive capacity and achieving peak executive performanceEpisode Timestamps: 0:00 — What Real Bravery Requires2:06 — Navigating the Capacity Limit6:00 — Why Thinking Positive Fails7:16 — Building the Mentally STRONG Method8:40 — THINK. ORGANIZE. CHOOSE. Explained10:08 — Thought Mapping for Clarity13:48 — Increasing Capacity and Peak Performance15:19 — The 20-Year Fire That Built the SystemResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingBook a Call: Work Directly with Dr. BJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  3. Sep 14

    Maintaining Internal Calm, Breaking Reactive Patterns & The Mentally STRONG Method

    It is one thing to hold it together in front of the world, but another to maintain internal calm behind closed doors. After navigating profound loss, Dr. B shares why you cannot simply throw away the heavy pieces of your story, but instead must learn a deliberate method to organize your reality, stop reacting to triggers, and protect your peace. This episode breaks down how to step out of reactive decision-making, unpack emotional burdens, and implement the three-step framework—Think, Organize, Choose—to reclaim clarity, joy, and emotional stability. In This Episode: Staying Calm in Chaos: Maintaining internal peace when stepping into high-stress home environmentsBreaking Reactive Choices: Moving away from automatic reactions to emotional triggersThe 3-Step Framework: Implementing Think, Organize, and Choose for mental clarityReclaiming Capacity: Unpacking emotional weights to make space for genuine joyEpisode Timestamps: 0:00 — What It Really Means to Stay Calm in Chaos0:44 — When Corporate Success Meets Family Stress1:24 — Breaking the Pattern of Reactive Choices2:19 — How to Achieve Real Clarity of Thought3:05 — Unpacking the Uncomfortable Weights We Carry4:06 — Step-by-Step: THINK. ORGANIZE. CHOOSE.5:07 — Reclaiming Your True Capacity for Joy and AbundanceResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingBook a Call: Work Directly with Dr. BJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  4. Sep 12

    Structural Grief, Stored Trauma & The Mental Health Flywheel: Dr. B's Healing Strategy

    As a psychiatric nurse practitioner for over 25 years, Dr. B had all the academic knowledge and coping mechanisms in the book. However, navigating profound loss, family health trials, and the weight of traumatic grief revealed that conventional approaches often miss the mark on true healing. Rather than masking problems with positive psychology or mistaking talk therapy for resilience, building genuine mental strength requires a structured framework. In this episode, Dr. B breaks down the exact strategy that became her safety net during her lowest points. She explains the difference between structural grief and stored trauma, why traditional talk therapy can sometimes fuel emotional burnout, and how to apply a three-step flywheel Think, Organize, and Choose to process your past and move forward. In This Episode: Structural Grief vs. Stored Trauma: Understanding how deep emotional pain impacts the mind and bodyThe Limits of Traditional Approaches: Why positive psychology and unguided talk therapy can exacerbate burnoutThe 3-Step Mental Health Flywheel: Implementing the Think, Organize, and Choose frameworkMoving Beyond Survival Mode: Reorganizing your past to make aligned, intentional life choicesResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage grief, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  5. Sep 10

    Overcoming the "Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop" Feeling, Sobriety & Facing Grief: Mary Going’s Story

    When everything in your life finally goes right, do you find yourself waiting for something to go wrong? In this deeply honest conversation, Dr. B sits down with Mary Going, founder of Bicycle Accounting, to discuss her 22-year journey of sobriety, confronting cumulative trauma, and processing the deep discomfort with reality that often drives the urge to escape. Together, they unpack what it truly means to stop fighting your past, face grief head-on, and step out of a victim mindset so you can finally feel safe, successful, and grounded in your own story. In This Episode: The Fear of Happiness: Why good times can trigger anxiety and hypervigilanceCumulative Trauma & Recovery: Overcoming the urge to escape and facing realityStepping Out of the Victim Mindset: Reclaiming agency and personal power after past hardshipDaily Momentum: Practical habits to cultivate safety and emotional stabilityResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Mary Going: Mary Going is the founder of Bicycle Accounting, an entrepreneur, and an advocate for mental health and addiction recovery. Drawing from over two decades of sobriety, she shares insights on personal accountability, business growth, and overcoming trauma. About Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  6. Sep 8

    Overcoming Caregiver Burnout, Toxic Resilience & Chronic Depression: Pam Sandler’s Story

    When we go through heavy trauma or the continuous, exhausting cycle of caretaking, people love to throw clichés at us claiming "everything happens for a reason" or "this will just make you stronger." But the truth is, we all have an absolute breaking point. In this episode, Dr. B sits down with architect Pam Sandler to talk about the raw reality of chronic depression, severe anxiety, and what it really feels like to be forced into survival mode for years. Pam opens up about the deep, compounding grief of raising special needs children, navigating missed milestones, and carrying profound personal loss. Together, they explore why toxic resilience fails us, how childhood trauma shapes our inner critics, and the critical importance of building a psychological safety net before reaching complete burnout. In This Episode: The Reality of Caregiver Burnout: Navigating survival mode when supporting family members with special needsDebunking Toxic Resilience: Why clichés fail us and how to acknowledge true emotional limitsChildhood Conditioning & Inner Critics: How early experiences influence how we process adult stressBuilding a Psychological Safety Net: Practical ways to prevent total emotional and physical collapseResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Pam Sandler: Pam Sandler is an architect, mother, and advocate for caregiver mental health. Drawing from her personal journey of navigating chronic depression while balancing professional demands and family caregiving, she speaks openly about mental health, resilience, and removing the stigma around burnout. About Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  7. Sep 6

    Reprogramming Your Mind for Success, Overcoming Early Anxiety & Young Entrepreneurship: Julissa Bruzon’s Story

    When you look at someone experiencing massive success at a young age, it’s easy to assume they have it all figured out. But behind the business metrics is often a very real, exhausting battle with anxiety, self-doubt, and the pressure to perform. In this episode, Dr. B sits down with 22-year-old Julissa Bruzon to discuss what it actually takes to reprogram your mind for success when your own thoughts are telling you to give up. Julissa shares her journey—from wearing a heart monitor for severe anxiety at age 14 to managing major strategic partnerships in private equity. Together, they unpack how to navigate early 20s transitions, handle generational expectations, and shift your mindset from "I can't do this" to "How can I do this?" without relying on toxic positivity. In This Episode: Behind Young Success: The hidden mental health struggles of early high achieversRewiring Your Mindset: Shifting internal dialogue from limitation to problem-solvingOvercoming Severe Anxiety: Moving from panic and physical symptoms to executive leadershipNavigating Young Adulthood: Managing generational pressure and identity shifts in your twentiesResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Julissa Bruzon: Julissa Bruzon is a 22-year-old entrepreneur and strategic partnership manager working in private equity. Having overcome severe childhood anxiety, she uses her platform to advocate for mental health awareness, mindset reprogramming, and authentic leadership for young professionals. About Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

  8. Sep 4

    Chemical Imbalance vs. Survival Response: Navigating C-PTSD, Bipolar & Self-Agency

    Have you ever looked at the anxiety, depression, or chaos in your mind and wondered if it’s a chemical imbalance or a survival response to what you’ve been through? In this Q&A episode, Dr. B addresses a letter from a high-functioning survivor navigating complex PTSD (C-PTSD), Bipolar 1, and Borderline traits to demonstrate how to claim self-agency over a complex mental health journey. This conversation explores how to use the Mentally STRONG Method to separate psychological trauma from biological components, process triggers without resorting to isolation, and release somatic trauma to step forward with self-confidence. In This Episode: Chemical Imbalance vs. Survival Response: Distinguishing biological factors from trauma responsesNavigating Complex Diagnoses: Frameworks for handling C-PTSD, Bipolar 1, and Borderline traitsOvercoming Isolation: Practical tools to handle triggers instead of avoiding social spacesSomatic Healing: Releasing physical trauma stored in the body to regain agencyResources & Links Mentioned: Free Live Training: Register for the Free Mentally STRONG TrainingJoin the Mission: Sign up for our mailing listOfficial Website: Mentally STRONGAbout Your Host: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara (Ed.D, PMHNP-BC) is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with a Doctorate in Healthcare Education. Having navigated profound personal trials, Dr. B created the Mentally STRONG Method to help individuals process trauma, manage complex diagnoses, and build lasting resilience. Connect with Dr. B & Mentally STRONG: Facebook: Dr. Cristi BundukamaraInstagram: @cristibundukamaraYouTube: Dr. B Mentally STRONG

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About Dr. B Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, Ed.D., PMHNP has been a psychiatric nurse practitioner since 2000, gaining extensive experience over the last several decades. Her medical career began as an Army Medic before attending nursing school and receiving a master’s degree as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner at Florida International University (FIU). She went on to receive a doctorate in Education at Nova Southeastern University. From there, she launched the first Mentally STRONG Clinic in Colorado Springs, CO which is committed to access and serves over 7,000 patients. Today, when she’s not at the clinic attending to her patients, Dr. B dedicates a large portion of her time to speaking about mental strength, sharing her proprietary Mentally STRONG Method, and providing tips for developing mental strength.

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  • Creator
    Cristi Bundukamara
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    291
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Cristi Bundukamara
  • Show Website
    Mentally STRONG with Dr. B

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