As a survivor of betrayal, infidelity, trauma, and emotional abuse, I Chose In to doing the hard work necessary to see through the manipulation, deceit, and lies that came from being the spouse of an addict. I had to accept that this was my life. The only way to heal was to go through the pain, to see it clear, and work through it. Today, I help others find their way from feeling shattered and hopeless to strong and empowered. You are not alone. You are not the only one that is experiencing these types of things. There is absolutely healing and happiness ahead IF you do what is required to get there. I am the Author of Cutting Ties -Healing from Betrayal Trauma as the Spouse of an Addict. As you read it you will find I don’t shy away from the real raw painful truth. My podcast is no different. We can only become something more if we see the truth with clear eyes and be willing to “CHOOSE IN” to doing the hard work. I’m excited to share everything I know with all of you. -Roxanne Kennedy Granata
Episode 51 CHOOSE IN to Continued Change and Growth
Excitement is brewing as I go over all the things I want to share with you and all that is coming! New empowering tools and tips.
Episode 50: Your Mind Will Grow Whatever You Plant
We’ve got to change what we are putting in our mind so we can create new pathways and beliefs if we want our life to improve and receive our desired outcome.
Episode 49: Learning How and How Not to Save a Person from Themselves
We want so badly to save our partner or family member from themselves and their choices. It doesn’t work like we want. We end up losing ourself and our sanity when we exhaust everything on their behalf. But there is a way to offer love, tools, and everything, in a way that heals us and helps us get stronger.
Episode 48: God is Offering to Save You if You Let Him
I was a witness to a domestic violence situation and I acted. God brought safety right to her front door and offered a way to be saved. What’s on your front porch showing you how to be saved, change, take action, etc? Are you letting God show you how to be saved? And are you taking it?
Episode 47: Taking Back Trauma Holidays and Turning Them into Love
I took back Valentines Day. Trauma will no longer own me or any other date that brings up past trauma experiences. I teach you a technique to raise your vibration to shift your heart and mind and change the way you view the outcomes of the future.
Episode 46: Rejecting Shame
Noticing the shame we carry and feel when we are happy, sad, or being treated poorly will help us learn how to reject it. We will not allow it to have place in us anymore. Shame robs us of feeling good enough and tells us lies about who we are and what are true situation is. We are busting through shame in this episode to find even more healing.
I read Roxanne’s book when I was in the beginning of the worst of the betrayal trauma. Her book helped me to find the courage and strength to find healing for ME, no matter what my husband chose. Sadly, I was guided to take the same path as Roxanne and have been divorced now for 9 months. Whether you are in the beginning, middle, or end of your own personal healing, this podcast is so helpful and encouraging. I have listened to multiple episodes more than once and always find something new I need to hear! Thank you for sharing your story Roxanne and for reminding us all that we will get through it if we choose to do the work! My prayer is to find someone that is willing to do the work as well! 💙
Roxanne gets it!
Roxanne gets it! These podcasts are absolutely spot on! I’ve just started listening and have been recommending and sharing links to them with the betrayed spouses in the various groups I belong to. If you’re looking for help in healing, check them out!
Real experiences with real solutions. It’s raw. It’s real. Roxanne offers hope regardless
Of what you are going through in your relationship.