Cinderella Chats

Cinderella Field

It’s REAL Life. REAL Love. REAL Relationships. Woman-to-Woman conversations. Cinderella Field, chats with her friend and co-host, Sandy Hunter as they share openly and spill the tea about the challenges, unexpected life events and life lessons learned while trying hard to get it right in today’s crazy, chaotic mixed-up world. It’s a collection of LIFE LESSONS learned the HEART way. Single life, career, faith, dating. marriage, mom life, divorce, politics and more… Sharing truth-telling, eye-opening, thought-provoking insight every Tuesday. Come join us.

  1. 08/05/2025

    Marriage's Sacred Bonds and Modern Challenges

    What do a Coldplay concert and a Kiss Cam incident have in common with marriage, infidelity, and repentance? This unexpected event sparked a wave of public dialogue on morality and ethics, becoming a cautionary tale about the consequences of selfish acts. Join us as we navigate these waters, examining how workplaces can become breeding grounds for affairs, and reflecting on societal expectations of fidelity, even touching on views from controversial figures. We delve into how moments of public scrutiny can serve as powerful reminders of the moral and ethical standards that hold our personal and familial lives in balance. Through candid discussions, we explore the intricate dynamics of marriage, monogamy, and the spiritual significance behind these unions. We'll challenge the notion that staying in a monogamous relationship is often more about comfort than conviction and compare marriage to the profound spiritual bond of Christ and the Church. By addressing the challenges of free will and human imperfection within marriage, we highlight the necessity for unconditional love and commitment. Additionally, we ponder the implications of AI and technology on relationships, referencing the insights from Misty and Peter Phillip's new book "Upskill or Die," as we encourage both men and women to buy their book that will help prepare us for the future dynamics and the complexities that AI will bring into our social interactions. Finally, we tackle the heavy impact of marital infidelity and divorce, especially on children, husbands and wives that are left behind and the effects it has on future generations. Understanding the profound ripple effects of divorce, we're reminded of the significance of commitment and shared values in sustaining marriages. The episode culminates with a reflection on the power of God's grace and the importance of spiritual preparedness, urging listeners to embrace a genuine relationship with God. Amidst challenges and trials, we affirm the strength found in obedience and faith, encouraging couples to trust in God's transformative power over their relationships, with hope that miracles may unfold

    38 min
  2. 06/16/2025

    Love, Loss, and New Beginnings

    Can you find the strength to forgive yourself after life's toughest battles? Join us for an inspiring conversation with our special guest, Jenny, as she shares her remarkable journey from heartbreak to healing after a divorce and abortion. Her story is a testament to resilience and faith, as she navigates the complex world of dating as a single parent, bravely confronting her past and discovering solace in self-forgiveness. As we explore the challenges many women face post-divorce, we’ll discuss the financial and emotional hurdles that come with single parenthood and an often unfair legal system. From the loyalty of pets to the struggles of military divorces, we highlight the vital role of community and faith in overcoming adversity. Our conversation is driven by a commitment to advocating for marriage and divorce reform, inspired by real-life experiences and the strength found in shared stories. In a chapter dedicated to empowerment, we delve into the impact of community support and shared beliefs in building strong relationships. Highlighting the work of Dr. Christine Bacon, we discuss her mission to save one million marriages and the legislative challenges faced in pushing for marriage reform.  As we wrap up, we celebrate the connections fostered through Cinderella Chats and express our heartfelt gratitude to Jenny for her courage and honesty. Connect with us on social media and subscribe for more meaningful conversations about life, love, and relationships.

    38 min
  3. 06/10/2025

    Timeless Teachings on Love and Faith

    Marilyn Monroe's misunderstood legacy and the enduring power of faith and marriage take center stage in our latest episode. Picture this: a newly redecorated studio adorned with nods to iconic figures like Monroe and Cinderella, setting the perfect ambiance for a profound conversation. We navigate through the complexities of family and marriage in today's world, sharing personal stories and biblical wisdom to explore why these institutions remain vital despite societal shifts. Our reflections on Marilyn Monroe open a window into the challenges she faced, offering a lens to understand the pressures of her era and how they resonate today. We journey deeper into the essence of marriage, drawing from the Bible to emphasize roles, faithfulness, and the power of unconditional love. From the teachings of Proverbs and Song of Solomon, we underscore the necessity of emotional and spiritual presence to keep love alive amidst modern temptations like dating apps, followed by divorce other social media temptations. The tale of Hosea offers poignant insights into divine commands and human choice, revealing divorce's misalignment with God's intentions. As we unpack these themes, a consistent message emerges: selfless love and commitment are the bedrock for overcoming societal challenges and fostering relationships that stand the test of time. Join us in this thoughtful exchange, as we champion the timeless values that fortify family and faith.

    38 min
  4. 04/29/2025

    Commitment and Faith in Today's Marriages

    Can the age-old institution of marriage survive in today's rapidly evolving society? Join Cinderella Field and Sandy Hunter as they unravel the intriguing decline of marriage rates, especially in Oklahoma, and question whether fear of divorce and financial considerations are reshaping the way we view this union. We take a closer look at the growing trend of cohabitation before marriage and challenge the notion by examining statistics that hint at a higher likelihood of divorce. Delve into personal stories that reveal the emotional and financial implications of divorce and discuss how modern couples might prioritize practical benefits over romantic ideals. We also reflect on biblical teachings, particularly from Mark 10:1-12, to understand marriage beyond a mere contract and convenience. Commitment is not just a word; it's the foundation of a lasting marriage. Cinderella and Sandy shed light on the necessity of building a marriage rooted in shared faith and beliefs, stressing the dangers of being unequally yoked. Communication and mutual accountability emerge as critical elements in sustaining a healthy relationship, with prayer and genuine dedication to one's partner and faith providing a solid bedrock. This exploration into the spiritual side of marriage as a covenant with God offers valuable insights into nurturing a commitment that withstands the challenges of time. Preparing for marriage is more than just a checklist. We discuss the essential role of premarital preparation and the importance of having open and honest discussions about expectations, roles, and future goals. As we navigate the labyrinth of marriage counseling, we highlight the challenges posed by differing religious beliefs and the impact of societal norms on personal convictions. With a focus on education, mentorship, and the need for post-divorce counseling, we advocate for restoration and reconciliation as central to a fulfilling marital journey. This episode promises a comprehensive exploration of the many facets of marriage, offering guidance and wisdom for anyone facing the path of lifelong partnership.

    36 min
  5. 04/15/2025

    Heartache to Advocacy: Beverly Willett's Journey Through Divorce and the Power of Marriage

    Join us on Cinderella Chats as we embark on the exploration of life, love, and relationships with our guest Beverly Willett, an entertainment attorney, writer, and author with an extraordinary life journey. Beverly shares her experiences growing up in a small Maryland town as the granddaughter of a Southern Baptist minister, witnessing the strength of family bonds and the rarity of divorce in her community. Her path took an unexpected turn when she moved to New York City, where she fell in love, married, and eventually faced a challenging and prolonged divorce. Beverly's story is one of resilience, as she navigated single motherhood and emerged as a passionate advocate for marriage and divorce reform. Listen in as we discuss the complexities of marriage and modern relationships, reflecting on how cultural narratives, like the Cinderella fairy tale, shape our expectations of finding a perfect partner. We address the contrast between romantic ideals and the realities of relationships that require effort and resilience. We also examine the impact of modern work ethics and instant gratification on personal and professional lives, among men and women today emphasizing the need to confront hardships head-on for personal growth and wisdom. We conclude with an exploration of marriage's role in personal and societal well-being. The conversation underscores the importance of commitment, the generational healing potential of marriage, and the significance of role models for young couples. Through candid discussions on the pain of divorce, family dynamics, and the benefits of marriage, we aim to inspire a culture that values enduring partnerships, marriages that last a lifetime. We invite you to join our conversation and share your thoughts on life, love, and relationships with us.  Call 918.200.9364 to leave a comment or a question.

    47 min
  6. 04/08/2025

    The Challenge of Upholding Family Values

    Are traditional family values under threat, or have they simply evolved? Join us as we explore the unsettling decline in marriage rates, the rise of cohabitation, and the growing number of fatherless homes. With a bold call for the establishment of a "family czar" in government, we delve into the historical and biblical significance of family as the foundation of society. We discuss the profound effects of trauma and addiction on personal relationships, highlighting the urgent need to preserve and strengthen family structures for the betterment of our communities and our world. Through this lens of faith and morality, the conversation sheds light on the shifting societal norms that challenge the way we perceive family and marriage. Infidelity—an undeniable challenge in modern relationships—demands our attention as we navigate its complex consequences. Personal stories and reflections reveal how ego and temptation can unravel family bonds, impacting everyone involved, especially children. We discuss the moral and ethical responsibilities placed on women in these situations, and express our concern over society's drift from foundational values like those in the Ten Commandments. As we advocate for accountability and restoration, we also look forward to a thought-provoking conversation with Beverly Willett on Tuesday, April 15th asking the timely question: "Why get married?" Join us on this journey to reinforce the importance of family as we confront and address the challenges of modern life.

    24 min

Ratings & Reviews

4.3
out of 5
6 Ratings

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It’s REAL Life. REAL Love. REAL Relationships. Woman-to-Woman conversations. Cinderella Field, chats with her friend and co-host, Sandy Hunter as they share openly and spill the tea about the challenges, unexpected life events and life lessons learned while trying hard to get it right in today’s crazy, chaotic mixed-up world. It’s a collection of LIFE LESSONS learned the HEART way. Single life, career, faith, dating. marriage, mom life, divorce, politics and more… Sharing truth-telling, eye-opening, thought-provoking insight every Tuesday. Come join us.