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Hot sex, intimacy, relationships, rejection and pain. We're passionate about these subjects yet often know the least about them, particularly as it pertains to the opposite sex. In our private lives, we are often secretive and then we expect our partners to not only read our minds, but to also know how to handle all intimate situations. We want to experience hot sex and closeness but we want it on our terms, often forgetting that our partner might show and need love differently. It's treacherous territory but it doesn't have to be. Every few weeks, join Tari as he sensually unravels the most complex intimate subjects in an arousing yet classy, sensual and intelligent, easy to understand format. If you want to have better sex on a level you never dreamed possible, if you want to get out of pain, if you want to learn the do's and don'ts of sexual interaction and intimacy, this podcast is a must.

Simply tune in and take action to dramatically and immediately increase the quality of your intimate life. In person and online Closeness Coaching is available on our website www.getcloseness.com. If this podcast has inspired you, please donate to our Patreon at www.patreon.com/closeness

Closeness Tari Mannello

    • Sexuality
    • 5.0 • 58 Ratings

Hot sex, intimacy, relationships, rejection and pain. We're passionate about these subjects yet often know the least about them, particularly as it pertains to the opposite sex. In our private lives, we are often secretive and then we expect our partners to not only read our minds, but to also know how to handle all intimate situations. We want to experience hot sex and closeness but we want it on our terms, often forgetting that our partner might show and need love differently. It's treacherous territory but it doesn't have to be. Every few weeks, join Tari as he sensually unravels the most complex intimate subjects in an arousing yet classy, sensual and intelligent, easy to understand format. If you want to have better sex on a level you never dreamed possible, if you want to get out of pain, if you want to learn the do's and don'ts of sexual interaction and intimacy, this podcast is a must.

Simply tune in and take action to dramatically and immediately increase the quality of your intimate life. In person and online Closeness Coaching is available on our website www.getcloseness.com. If this podcast has inspired you, please donate to our Patreon at www.patreon.com/closeness

    How to properly handle a breakup...before it happens Part 1

    How to properly handle a breakup...before it happens Part 1

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Ghosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!

    Ghosting and Blocking and Curving Oh My!

    It’s one of the most detrimental behavior patterns of our generation. Here’s everything you need to know to recognize it, avoid it and if you are afflicted with this disease, how to cure it. CHAPTERS:0:00 What is ghosting?2:25 Why do people ghost? 6:25 When does emotional involvement begin?10:17 Preliminaries and disclaimers13:15 Having to make backup plans 14:41 Taking our own insecurities out on others15:16 The most important sentence when it comes to dating16:45 Runaway brides19:58 Understanding the devastating effects of ghosting 24:15 Why ghosting makes you someone who can’t be trusted25:05 Why you being uncomfortable is not as important as you think 26:35 Examples of being uncomfortable30:50 Do you ghost when your finances are involved 34:35 More emotional effects of ghosting41:46 Stop pretending you don’t want hurt the other person 43:34 Curving46:01 Blocking 48:05 The one key you need to understand boundaries 50:15 Ghosting causes hostility 56:02 Fear of Missing Out (FOMO)57:55 Why you NEED to care about what others think about you1:00:35 One guiding principle 1:01:54 When you do need to set a boundary. Story time1:05:50 Why you need understanding when someone ghosts1:09:19 Another story about someone who gave different reasons for breaking it off1:14:16 The perils of changing your mind 1:21:22 Secrets to being rejected 1:24:25 An exceptional example of asking for understanding 1:26:20 A woman’s sensitivity to tone and intensity 1:27:24 More on healthy boundaries 1:28:51 Do the other persons feelings really matter? 1:32:52 Why if your’e involved with someone, it’s your obligation to be a custodian of their emotions1:35:15 Why it’s risky to ask for understanding if you are being rejected1:38:24 We MUST learn how to reject and be rejected responsibly 1:39:40 Tying it all together



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    • 1 hr 41 min
    How to Create Hot Sexual Chemistry from Nothing

    How to Create Hot Sexual Chemistry from Nothing

    What’s your definition of hot passionate chemistry? Do you believe that it’s just “there or it isn’t?” In this episode we will put that myth to an end. 

    We’ll explore over twenty concepts including: 

    – How to have naturally good chemistry with everyone around you

    -Is chemistry for men inevitable or bound to happen regardless of what happens?

    -How many kinds of chemistry are there? 

    -How to have good chemistry by “allowing it” to happen and letting yourself go there

    -How we constantly shut ourselves down and turn away love when it comes from the wrong people 

    -Why there will always be people who you aren’t going to have chemistry with 

    -Why context is everything 

    -How to chemistry from your past to create chemistry in your now

    -How to bring forward intimacy from your previous relationships to allow good chemistry to flourish in new ones 

    -How touch and eye contact play into chemistry 

    -Why saying, I’m just not feeling it, doesn’t cut it

    -Why thinking that good chemistry just happens is flawed 
     

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    • 1 hr 21 min
    Interview with a stripper, escort, cam girl and sugar baby

    Interview with a stripper, escort, cam girl and sugar baby

    If you’ve ever secretly wondered what it’s like to be involved in the sex industry, you’re in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, If you’ve ever secretly wondered what it’s like to be involved in the sex industry, you’re in for a big treat. Heather has done it all: camming, modeling, dancing, “sugaring” or being a sugar baby, and more. Subscribe and tune in as she spills story after story in this very detailed and intimate account of Heather’s life as a sex worker. It’s guaranteed to satisfy your innermost curiosities and take you on a wild adventure.
     
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    • 1 hr 15 min
    Kauai: A sensual meditation

    Kauai: A sensual meditation

    In this unprecedented time of worry and concern regarding COVID-19 (or coronavirus), this is our corona-free offering to soothe you and help you relax: a sensual meditation to listen to again and again, anytime you need it. Think of it as a rampage of appreciation. We won’t reveal much, but make sure you’re in a comfortable and relaxing place before you listen. Fifteen minutes is just the right amount to help shift your focus without demanding too much of your time.
     

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    • 24 min
    How to properly have sex with a man

    How to properly have sex with a man

    Countless Closeness episodes focus on how to pleasure a woman, but what can you do to take care of your man? Put down your magazine and let’s get deep. Sure, we can talk about how to go down and how to arch your back, but what about the stuff everyone is afraid to talk about?

     
    Let’s get closer:
     
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    • 1 hr 17 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
58 Ratings

58 Ratings

Jadex1 ,

Cant’ Recommend Enough! Great Resource!

If you happen to be single, Tari can still be a great resource for you. His coaching sessions gave me a comfortable and safe space to talk about what was happening in my dating life, as well as what I thought I did wrong or right.

Sometimes in dating, I tend to get nervous or anxious, and I wanted to have someone to talk to and process all of that with.

I also wanted to be better when it came to moving things to the bedroom. That’s another thing Tari has helped me with. He offers a ton of great resources both in person and online. One being the well known Closeness podcast, which I can’t promote enough! It’s a great way to learn how to be a better person and how to deeply connect with another human.  

He has a lot of knowledge and experience that can help someone transform and grow through any stage of life. When I’m in a committed relationship, I plan to go back to Tari to get some tutorials on presence and intimate sexual practices that i can use together with my partner.

Purple Haired Katie ,

Tari the Wonderful!!

I absolutely love this podcast!! It is well thought out, insightful and Tari’s sultry voice is intoxicating to listen to. I enjoy the topics being covered and the openness of his language. The topics and Tari’s insight help me gain a deeper understanding of intimacy and communication. I feel everyone could benefit from this podcast, and the world would be a far better place if more people embodied this level of understanding in relationships. Thank you 🙏

Iuliana F. ,

Happy Listening!!!

WOW!!! If you need to get help in person that's fully tailored to your own individual needs, Tari is very easy to contact and he is extremely prompt, professional and compassionate. Tari is the personification of "common sense" and nowadays common sense is not so common. Seeing him in person makes a world of difference. Then there is the podcast. I enjoy it immensely! It's extremely easy to find yourself immersed in listening to Tari! He covers universally relevant subjects so directly and in such a down to earth, compassionate manner. He has a fresh, simple and elegant approach to human relationships and beyond. Everyone can find help or learn something new by listening to the Closeness Podcast. I hope I have ignited your curiosity to either contact Tari directly for Closeness Coaching or at the very least to tune in right away! Happy listening!

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