Closeness

Tari Mannello
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The Closeness Podcast Most of us never received a real education in intimacy. We fumbled through hints, copied what we saw, and settled into the same tired routines — until connection quietly faded and desire became a negotiation. An ask. An exchange for doing favors or cleaning house. It does not have to be that way. The Closeness Podcast is hosted by Tari, Southern California’s #1-rated relationship coach and intimacy coach. Each episode takes you deep into the subjects most people are too uncomfortable to talk about — and too afraid to ask about. Seduction. Touch. Desire. Emotional connection. The gap between the sex you’re having and the sex you both actually want. Women want a partner who knows how to lead, read her and take action. The Closeness podcast teaches you how. Whether you’re looking to reignite chemistry that’s gone cold, build genuine closeness from the ground up, or finally understand how to flirt, seduce, and connect with real confidence — Tari breaks it all down with wisdom, humor, and zero judgment. Practical. Actionable. The kind of advice that actually works in real life. You’re leaving a lot on the table. This is how you stop. Tune in. Listen closely. Discover what’s possible. For coaching sessions in person or virtually, visit closeness.com

  1. 15 Signs She's Sexually Satisfied - How to Know if She's Well Loved

    1D AGO

    15 Signs She's Sexually Satisfied - How to Know if She's Well Loved

    Signs a woman is sexually satisfied go far beyond what most men understand — and most men are never taught what to look for. In this episode, Tari from Closeness breaks down 15 specific indicators that tell you exactly how she’s experiencing you, sexually and emotionally. A well-loved, well-sexed woman is not something you can manufacture overnight. It takes presence, focus, skill, and a genuine care for her experience. When those things come together, she responds in ways that are unmistakable — if you know what you’re looking for. In this episode you’ll learn the 15 signs a woman is sexually satisfied, including full surrender, physical generosity, initiation, obsession, and the kind of openness that only comes from real trust and connection. These signs aren’t just about sex. They’re about the quality of your intimacy, your presence, and the container you create for her. This is not a manipulation guide. These signs are a mirror — a way to honestly assess where you are and what’s possible when you show up fully for your partner. If you’re not seeing these signs, that’s important information too. Tari walks you through what each one means, why it matters, and how to understand what your woman is communicating through her body, her behavior, and her desire. Visit closeness.com to book a session or strategy call.

    28 min
  2. Does being submissive to a man actually get a woman what she wants? A Closeness Podcast

    2D AGO

    Does being submissive to a man actually get a woman what she wants? A Closeness Podcast

    Closeness

    16 min
  3. The Sexual Skill Gap - Navigating male sexual inexperience, years later

    APR 15

    The Sexual Skill Gap - Navigating male sexual inexperience, years later

    Closeness

    32 min
  4. 81

    JAN 29

    81

    Most men experience a breakup as something that happens suddenly — a conversation that blindsides them, a decision that seems to arrive from nowhere. The truth is almost always more complicated. By the time a woman says the words out loud, she has typically been living with that decision for months. Sometimes years. In this episode, Tari from Closeness breaks down one of the most painful and misunderstood dynamics in long-term relationships: the slow, silent exit. What it looks like from her side. What it feels like from his. And why the gap between those two experiences causes so much devastation. This episode covers the four most common reasons couples break up — infidelity, abuse, codependency, and growing apart — and then goes deep on the fourth, which is by far the most nuanced and the least discussed. What happens when two people are good together in almost every way, but one partner — usually the woman — has quietly outgrown the relationship sexually and emotionally, and doesn't know how to say it without blowing everything up? Tari addresses both sides directly. For women: why staying silent to avoid hurting your partner is not the kindness it feels like, and what it actually costs both of you. For men: why chasing harder when she pulls away almost never works, what to do instead, and how to find your footing when the ground disappears beneath you. This is also an honest conversation about how women process differently — why a man can be blindsided by something his partner has been sitting with for years, and why that gap in awareness isn't a character flaw on either side. It's a pattern. And once you see it, you can't unsee it. Whether you're in the middle of this right now, watching it happen slowly, or just want to understand how relationships actually unravel — this episode will give you real clarity, not platitudes. Visit closeness.com to work with Tari directly, join the private Telegram group, or explore the full video library.

    26 min

  5. JAN 23

    5 things to think about before having sex with a woman

    While there are women who do enjoy sex with no strings attached, most women in relationships are tolerating their love life from their partner. Here are a few things to consider.

    12 min
  6. You’re a Highly Sexual Woman. So Why Aren’t You Getting What You Want?”

    05/27/2025

    You’re a Highly Sexual Woman. So Why Aren’t You Getting What You Want?”

    The title speaks for itself. Please enjoy. Are you a highly sexual woman who has never quite gotten the sex you actually want? You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault. In this episode, Tari from Closeness introduces the concept of the highly sexual woman, or HSW — a woman whose sexual nature is intense, real, and largely hidden. Not because she’s repressed or broken, but because the men in her life were never equipped to bring it out of her. A highly sexual woman doesn’t always look the part. She may present as calm, composed, even reserved. But underneath that exterior is a craving for intense, passionate, deeply connected sex that most men never get close to unlocking. Her desire often lives in fantasy, in private, unexpressed — sometimes for years. Sometimes for decades. In this episode you’ll learn what defines a highly sexual woman, why her sexuality often stays dormant in long-term relationships, and what it actually takes for a man to bring it out. Tari breaks down why good men often unintentionally suppress a woman’s sexuality, how a highly sexual woman responds to masculine presence and intensity, and why most couples never reach the level of sexual connection that’s actually possible for them. This episode is for the women who know there’s more — and for the men who want to give it to them. If you recognize yourself here, know that your sexuality is not something to be ashamed of, managed, or hidden. It’s something to be met. Tari works with highly sexual women and their partners to create the kind of sexual experience that most people only fantasize about. Visit closeness.com to book a session or strategy call.

    20 min

  7. 05/26/2025

    Interview: Is it possible to have an unforgettable One Night Stand?

    It's been a while since we've posted an interview style format so we're bringing it backwith a bang! (So to speak) For regular listeners who are used to relationship oriented sexual material, don't worry there will still be plenty of that in future episodes. But for today's guest, Venus is here explore how to make a one night stand a special and fun experience. Closeness also posts videos on all social media platforms. Follow us on YouTube: YouTube.com/closeness X and Instagram: @closenesscoach TikTok: @IntimacyCoaching Chapters: 0:00 Closeness is now on all social media platforms with videos and shorts 1:55 Introduction to Venus 7:43 Defining what exactly a One Night Stand is 10:55 Does she actually like them 12:45 Is people pleasing an inherently female trait? 14:19 Do you feel obligated to partake? 15:51 Do you like ONS? 16:25 The Kiss tells you everything 18:00 Other ways to tell it will be good 20:18 Is it all about a feeling or attraction or both? 21:38 What to avoid and what does it take to make a great one night stand? 25:27 Reasons why you may not want to do it 28:10 How to know if someone is going to be good or not? 30:48 Not all touch should be taken as an advance 32:55 there are two kinds of great one night stands 33:53 What is the recipe for men? 35:06 When there are fireworks on the dance floor 37:36 What women need to do to prepare for an ONS 40:06 Don't be selfish! 41:14 How do you have a passionate ONS that is connected 42:50 Final thoughts and summing up! Photography by: Dominik Malik

    46 min

  8. 11/14/2024

    What happens long-term when you deprive a woman of sex, intimacy and closeness?

    For a sexual woman, or a woman who enjoys regular sex, nothing feels more devastating than being deprived of intimacy, closeness, and the feeling of being desired. In long-term relationships, this scenario is more common than many realize and can lead to her disconnecting, shutting down and even feeling deeply resentmentful. In this episode, we explore what you can do if you've been neglecting your partner ins this department. The Pain of Feeling Undesired When a woman feels rejected sexually, it’s not just about the lack of physical intimacy—it’s about the emotional toll it takes on her feeling unwanted. She may begin to question her worth, her attractiveness, and even the relationship itself. A hug and a peck hello won't be enough to salvage it.  Meaningful actions and effort are needed to make her feel truly wanted but more so in the sensual and sexual sense. The Initiation Paradox Many men struggle to initiate intimacy, while many women hesitate to take the lead for fear of being judged or feeling rejected themselves. This “initiation paradox” creates a frustrating stalemate that slowly erodes sexual connection. A woman’s sexual expression often mirrors what her partner inspires in her; if she feels ignored or undesired, her sensuality can wither. To move things forward, it’s essential to break this cycle by understanding her emotional needs and taking intentional steps to get that chemistry back. Questions to Ask Yourself If intimacy has stalled in your relationship, it’s time for some tough self-reflection. Effort is sometimes too strong of word, but are you putting in the effort or energy to make her feel desired? Are you addressing your own low libido or other barriers to connection? If you’re in a sexless or low-sex relationship, ask yourself whether this is a dealbreaker—or if you’re willing to put in the work to change the dynamic. Recognize that women still crave intimacy and fantasize about passion, even if the spark has dimmed in their own relationship. This emotionally charged episode goes deep into the challenges of intimacy deprivation and offers actionable advice for reigniting connection and restoring balance. Ready to Come Closer? Listen now for insights on how to overcome mismatched libidos, rebuild desire, and create a more fulfilling relationship. Visit Closeness.com for more resources on intimacy and connection.  Are you ready to come closer?  CHAPTERS 0:00 Introduction 5:12 Disperate sex drives and libidos 8:35 Why can't women just initiate themselves? 9:35 Female Nature 12:27 No man wants a starfish. No woman wants someone who doesn't desire her 13:14 The initiation paradox 14:55 Words vs Actions 16:26 Men find it hard to initiate when 19:06 For things to work, women need to offer these secret ingredients 23:42 Mens false promises? 24:40 This is how it looks when a woman feels undesired 25:52 A hug and kiss is not the bare minimum 26:50 Damage control due to lack of promises 30:32 For men with low sex drives / libidos 38:00 If you can't imagine the previous recommendations, ask yourself these hard questions 44:30 Is lack of sex a deal breaker for you or your partner? 47:45 Understanding mens issue with too much consent 51:41 Understanding why your wife doesn't initiate now even though she used to 53:00 A woman is only as sexual as you will allow or inspire her to be 54:10 Even in a sexless marriage, women still fantasize and want sex and intimacy 57:20 How to get help with this right now 58:44 Outro

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The Closeness Podcast Most of us never received a real education in intimacy. We fumbled through hints, copied what we saw, and settled into the same tired routines — until connection quietly faded and desire became a negotiation. An ask. An exchange for doing favors or cleaning house. It does not have to be that way. The Closeness Podcast is hosted by Tari, Southern California’s #1-rated relationship coach and intimacy coach. Each episode takes you deep into the subjects most people are too uncomfortable to talk about — and too afraid to ask about. Seduction. Touch. Desire. Emotional connection. The gap between the sex you’re having and the sex you both actually want. Women want a partner who knows how to lead, read her and take action. The Closeness podcast teaches you how. Whether you’re looking to reignite chemistry that’s gone cold, build genuine closeness from the ground up, or finally understand how to flirt, seduce, and connect with real confidence — Tari breaks it all down with wisdom, humor, and zero judgment. Practical. Actionable. The kind of advice that actually works in real life. You’re leaving a lot on the table. This is how you stop. Tune in. Listen closely. Discover what’s possible. For coaching sessions in person or virtually, visit closeness.com

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  • Creator
    Tari Mannello
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    84
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2016 Closeness
  • Show Website
    Closeness

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