21 episodes

This is a podcast that takes you directly into a real life, unscripted life coaching session. Be a fly on the wall and listen to a conversation you don't normally get access to hearing. After each session, two professional coaches take you behind the scenes of the session deconstructing what came up for both the client AND the coach. Your hosts are; Lisa DiMatteo, PCC & Vimla Gulabani, PCC (PCC stands for Professional Certified Coach - a designation from coaches governing body, the ICF or International Coach Federation.

Coaching Confidential Vimla Gulabani & Lisa DiMatteo

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    • 5.0 • 3 Ratings

This is a podcast that takes you directly into a real life, unscripted life coaching session. Be a fly on the wall and listen to a conversation you don't normally get access to hearing. After each session, two professional coaches take you behind the scenes of the session deconstructing what came up for both the client AND the coach. Your hosts are; Lisa DiMatteo, PCC & Vimla Gulabani, PCC (PCC stands for Professional Certified Coach - a designation from coaches governing body, the ICF or International Coach Federation.

    Embracing Uncertainty: The Power of Taking Action Without All the Answers

    Embracing Uncertainty: The Power of Taking Action Without All the Answers

    In  episode 21 of the Coaching Confidential podcast, host Lisa DiMatteo welcomes Veronica Wolff Casey, a clinical ayurvedic medical practitioner and ayurvedic yoga therapist. Veronica shares her journey and expertise in natural health and well-being, discussing her mission to educate and empower people to live their best lives. The coaching conversation revolves around Veronica's desire to launch a podcast and the challenges she faces in getting started. Lisa helps Veronica explore what is holding her back. By the end of the session, Veronica gains clarity on her podcast's mission, and realizes that she doesn't need to know all the answers to begin her podcasting journey.

    Resources mentioned in this episode include:
    Veronica Wolff-Casey's Ayurveda & Yoga HQ
    Dr. Mona Warner's Book "Ayurveda's 3 Pillars of Health"

    More about the coaching session:
    The session highlights the importance of embracing uncertainty and taking action, even without knowing all the answers, a highly relatable topic for these modern times.

    One of the key insights that emerges from the session is the idea that Veronica doesn't necessarily need to know what is holding her back in order to take action. Lisa challenges Veronica's belief that she must have all the answers before starting her podcast, suggesting that sometimes the knowing comes in the doing. This notion challenges Veronica's tendency to seek certainty and pushes her to embrace the uncertainty of starting a podcast without all the answers.

    As the coaching session progresses, Veronica gains clarity on her podcast's mission and format. She articulates her desire to educate and empower people to live their best lives through ayurveda, yoga, food, and other modalities she has studied throughout her life. Veronica's mission is to simplify these often esoteric concepts and make them accessible to a wider audience, breaking down barriers and ensuring that anyone can understand and benefit from this knowledge.

    Throughout the coaching session, Veronica's fear of rejection emerges as a significant barrier to launching her podcast. She worries about putting in time and effort only to have no one listen or engage with her content. This fear is rooted in a deep desire to make a meaningful impact and serve her community. Veronica's dedication to helping others and her commitment to providing valuable content drives her fear of not being able to meet these expectations.

    However, Lisa reframes this fear by highlighting the potential positive outcome of people loving Veronica's podcast. She encourages Veronica to consider the possibility that her podcast could resonate with listeners and create a meaningful impact. This reframing helps Veronica recognize that the fear of success is also present, as it would bring a new level of responsibility and commitment to consistently delivering valuable content.

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    • 53 min
    Episode 20: Coaching is not to solve your problems: A conversation with coach educator Shannon Kelly

    Episode 20: Coaching is not to solve your problems: A conversation with coach educator Shannon Kelly

    In episode 20 of @thecoachingconfidentialpodcast, we host a conversation with a well known coach & coach educator for the Co-Active Training Institute, Shannon Kelly.

    Shannon discusses the essence of coaching, which is not about problem-solving but rather about unlearning and opening up to curiosity. She emphasizes the importance of deep listening and creating a space for clients to hear themselves. While problems may be discussed in coaching sessions, the focus is on the person and their inner resources. Shannon also highlights the role of the coach in managing their own problem-solving tendencies and staying present in the moment. Coaching is a transformative process that empowers individuals to tap into their best selves and live a fulfilling life.

    Key Takeaways:
    Coaching is about unlearning problem-solving and opening up to curiosity.Deep listening allows clients to relax and hear themselves.The coach's role is to point the listening towards the best parts of the client.Coaching is an improvisational process that unfolds in the present moment.The coach helps clients tap into their naturally creative, resourceful, and whole selves.

    Quotes:
    "Coaching is about unlearning problem-solving and opening up to wild curiosity." - Shannon"Deep listening allows the person to relax and actually hear themselves." - Shannon"Coaching is rerouting people and reintroducing the best parts of themselves." - Shannon"The coach's role is to point the listening towards the best parts of the client." - Shannon"Coaching is an improvisational unfolding of two people who are present." - ShannonIf you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US.

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    • 50 min
    Episode 19: How to get better at decision making

    Episode 19: How to get better at decision making

    Decision making isn't always easy even when we think it's supposed to be. In this engaging session, Vimla coaches Emilie, a dynamic entrepreneur and yoga instructor at Seasonal Intentions.  Emilie is looking to get clarity that will help her make a decision  impacting her career, family and finances.
    From a place of uncertainty, Emilie emerges clear, reconnecting with important elements of herself that are her surest guides toward 'the right' decision.

    If you've ever struggled to make a decision you're likely to get a lot from this episode.
     
    Our client Emilie Reid is an entrepreneur and the founder of Seasonal Intentions, an online business that focuses on Ayurvedic-inspired yoga and seasonal living. She is also a part-time teacher at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Massachusetts.

    Key Takeaways:
    Starting Point and Desired Outcome: The session began with Emily's question about when to invest in continuing education. Her desired outcome was to gain clarity, rather than making an immediate decision.Defining Clarity: Vimla skillfully helped Emily identify how she would know when she was clear about her decision. This involved connecting with the feeling in her body as an indicator of clarity.Reflective Exploration: The conversation revolved around walking metaphorically through a labyrinth, circling the topic of continuing education, and exploring different energies and perspectives.Empowered Decision-Making: The session focused on the process of decision-making and choosing the energy from which decisions are made.Outcome: Clarity and Process: The primary outcome was not a definitive decision but rather the process of gaining clarity through self-awareness and exploration.Quotes:
    "I want time to integrate. I want time to actually feel the effects, I want time to experience." - Emilie"I feel like I'm coming around again, kind of like in my previous life... I'm a little bit like, why do I need this certification?" - Emilie"I want less scattered, more integration, more wholeness." - EmilieIf you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US.

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    • 48 min
    Episode 18: What flavor is *YOUR* pie in the sky?

    Episode 18: What flavor is *YOUR* pie in the sky?

    In episode 18 our client Ammarah arrives to her first-ever coaching session completely open to whatever the process might uncover for her and no defined topic. 

    In this episode you'll hear this deeply thoughtful, fast paced, dynamic tech professional begin the session with nothing clear in mind and leave the session with an actual drawing of a BIG, audacious goal. A goal that is a deeply resonant portrait of a 'pie in the sky' dream she holds AND some concrete steps to walk toward it.

    This session investigates what really matters to Ammarah. It happens  fluidly. Like a playful invitation to resonance, energy and vitality. She dives into the impact she wants to have in her work and life; the social causes and communities, and what she wants for herself. 

    If you feel like there is something inside you that you don't have the language for but an energy is calling you - you may be inspired by the way this session brings language and the client's own images to life via the coaching process.

    #dreambig #lifegoals #values #coaching #newtocoaching

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    • 41 min
    Episode 17: (self) Judgment causing energy leaks

    Episode 17: (self) Judgment causing energy leaks

    In episode 17 of the Coaching Confidential Podcast we present a session with Jan Taylor of Get Lively Health and Fitness.  Jan is a successful business owner who has built her brand on her vitality. In this session Jan brings a desire to shift the relationship she has with her energy. In this powerful session you'll hear Jan bring a deep level of self awareness, lots of curiosity, and a heap of courage to this session where coach and client spiral down the path of 'relationship with...' and land on judgment.

    So many of us are plagued by our own judgment and lose a lot of energy to this. What if we could take this energy back and use it for something that really matters to us?

    In this episode you'll also hear Jan come up with some ideas that will support shifting her relationship with judgment - which will in turn support a shift in her relationship with her energy.

    If you struggle with judgment this episode may be one you want to hear.

    #innercritic #judgment #roadblocks #curiosity #courage #energy #relationshipwithself #coachingconfidentialpodcast 




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    • 1 hr 6 min
    Episode 16: Are you parenting intentionally?

    Episode 16: Are you parenting intentionally?

    In this episode, Vimla coaches Zarrina. The session starts out one place but through the skillful, gentle invitation to get into action *on the spot*, lands in another place.

    This session explores parenting, desire to be different, experimentation in the moment, and ends with a realization on the clients behalf that the coach isn't actually privy to.

    We will explore the skills Vimla as the coach embodied including; self management, inviting action as experimentation, deep presence & connection,  and evoking awareness.
    If you are a parent, you may want to hear to hear this.If you are a coach, you may be inspired by this.If you are curious about coaching, you will learn how little time and information a coach needs to bring a client where they want to be by the end of a session.Zarrina Allieva is co-active coach & podcaster. Her podcast is called Beyond One Lens. You can follow this podcast on instagram.
    #parenting #change #compassion #reconnecting #kids #children #relationship #experimentation #action #presence #realization #exploration #deeplistening 


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    • 36 min

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Very insightful

Love being a fly on the wall for these coaching sessions. Helps make it more accessible. Thank you!

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