Coaching Confidential

Vimla Gulabani & Lisa DiMatteo

This is a podcast that takes you directly into a real life, unscripted life coaching session. Be a fly on the wall and listen to a conversation you don't normally get access to hearing. After each session, two professional coaches take you behind the scenes of the session deconstructing what came up for both the client AND the coach. Your hosts are; Lisa DiMatteo, PCC & Vimla Gulabani, PCC (PCC stands for Professional Certified Coach - a designation from coaches governing body, the ICF or International Coach Federation.

  1. Episode 24: The emotional landscape of job loss & career transition

    02/18/2025

    Episode 24: The emotional landscape of job loss & career transition

    Send us a text In Episode 24 of the Coaching Confidential Podcast, we feature a conversation with our client Chris Rohrig. Chris comes to the podcast ready to look at a part of his recent job loss experience most of us are happy to avoid. In this session our coach, Vimla sets an extremely supportive scaffolding that we'll break down for you after the session. If you're a coach, aspiring coach, or just "coaching curious," you'll hear what professional coaching competencies we could spot in this session. And for everyone, we offer a skill to practice in your day to day life. If you've ever lost of job, or care about someone who has just lost a job - hearing this episode may unlock a way you can support yourSelf or someone else through their loss. When you listen we hope you'll enjoy hearing Chris reflect and 'extract' the gold from this loss that is critical to finding his next opportunity. Let us know what you think... Referenced in this episode Episode 19: How to get better at decision making featuring The Coaching Confidential Podcast client & partner Emilie Reid of Seasonal Intentions Episode 14: Teach, learn, love with Edwin Vega #jobloss #laidoff #unemployed #loss #transition #whatsnext #opentowork #whoishiring #whatnow #coaching #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #humanresources #ICF #InternationalCoachFederation #Emotions #JobLoss #Networking #Identity #Relationships #Loss #Transition #Coaching #Closure #Fear #Shame #Loneliness #Excitement #Affirmations #Purpose #Belonging #Curiosity #Teamwork #Culture #Mission #Social #JobSearch #Crew #Foundation #Joy #Unemployment #Layoff #Career #HR #Podcast #CoachingConfidential #MentalHealth #Wellbeing #WorkLife #CareerTransition #JobHunt #NewBeginnings #SelfDiscovery #Motivation #Inspiration #Resilience #Growth #Change #Opportunity #FutureOfWork #WorkCulture #Leadership #Collaboration #Community #Connection #Belonging #MeaningfulWork #CareerJourney #opentowork #jobs #interview #cv #hiring #recruit #career #joblisting #jobhunt Check out our sponsor www.seasonalintentions.com  If you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US. If you'd like to share what listening was like for you, DROP A LINE. We'd love to hear you! Follow us on Instagram. Follow us on Facebook. Follow us on LinkedIn. #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #coaching #podcast

    1h 7m
  2. Episode 23: Reevaluating Productivity Strategies: Setting Realistic Goals and Managing Distractions

    11/09/2024

    Episode 23: Reevaluating Productivity Strategies: Setting Realistic Goals and Managing Distractions

    Send us a text In our latest episode of The Coaching Confidential Podcast, we sit with our client Shalani to explore the challenges of maintaining productivity in a remote work environment. Listen as Shalani, an experienced professional working in Corporate America, gets coaching on recalibrating her goals and creating a more focused work routine. Inside this episode there are great insights for anyone looking to boost their productivity! #CareerDevelopment #ProductivityHacks #ProductivityCoaching An essential takeaway from the session is the importance of setting achievable goals. Shalini outlines her primary targets, which include revenue benchmarks and client acquisition, emphasizing the aim to achieve at least 75% of these goals. The conversation highlights a common challenge: the allure of over-ambition. Both Shalani, and her coach, Vimla reflect on the fine line between setting high goals and setting oneself up for frustration and stress. As the session wraps up, both Shalani reflects on the insights gained and enthusiasm for applying these strategies in their daily routines. They agree to check in after a month to assess progress and discuss further adjustments. For those listening with a coaches ear, be sure to tune into the post session wrap up where your hosts, Lisa & Vimla discuss some of the ICF competencies obvious in this session. Check out our sponsor www.seasonalintentions.com  If you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US. If you'd like to share what listening was like for you, DROP A LINE. We'd love to hear you! Follow us on Instagram. Follow us on Facebook. Follow us on LinkedIn. #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #coaching #podcast

    49 min
  3. Episode 21: Embracing Uncertainty: The Power of Taking Action Without All the Answers

    04/01/2024

    Episode 21: Embracing Uncertainty: The Power of Taking Action Without All the Answers

    Send us a text !!!UPDATE: Our client Veronica did the thing. She made a podcast. And HERE is the link to "How to take care of yourSelf" available wherever you listen to podcasts.!!! In  episode 21 of the Coaching Confidential podcast, host Lisa DiMatteo welcomes Veronica Wolff Casey, a clinical ayurvedic medical practitioner and ayurvedic yoga therapist. Veronica shares her journey and expertise in natural health and well-being, discussing her mission to educate and empower people to live their best lives. The coaching conversation revolves around Veronica's desire to launch a podcast and the challenges she faces in getting started. Lisa helps Veronica explore what is holding her back. By the end of the session, Veronica gains clarity on her podcast's mission, and realizes that she doesn't need to know all the answers to begin her podcasting journey. Resources mentioned in this episode include: Veronica Wolff-Casey's Ayurveda & Yoga HQ Dr. Mona Warner's Book "Ayurveda's 3 Pillars of Health" More about the coaching session: The session highlights the importance of embracing uncertainty and taking action, even without knowing all the answers, a highly relatable topic for these modern times. One of the key insights that emerges from the session is the idea that Veronica doesn't necessarily need to know what is holding her back in order to take action. Lisa challenges Veronica's belief that she must have all the answers before starting her podcast, suggesting that sometimes the knowing comes in the doing. This notion challenges Veronica's tendency to seek certainty and pushes her to embrace the uncertainty of starting a podcast without all the answers. As the coaching session progresses, Veronica gains clarity on her podcast's mission and format. She articulates her desire to educate and empower people to live their best lives through ayurveda, yoga, food, and other modalities she has studied throughout her life. Veronica's mission is to simplify these often esoteric concepts and make them accessible to a wider audience, breaking down barriers and ensuring that anyone can understand and benefit from this knowledge. Throughout the coaching session, Veronica's fear of rejection emerges as a significant barrier to launching her podcast. She worries about putting in time and effort only to have no one listen or engage with her content. This fear is rooted in a deep desire to make a meaningful impact and serve her community. Veronica's dedication to helping others and her commitment to providing valuable content drives her fear of n Check out our sponsor www.seasonalintentions.com  If you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US. If you'd like to share what listening was like for you, DROP A LINE. We'd love to hear you! Follow us on Instagram. Follow us on Facebook. Follow us on LinkedIn. #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #coaching #podcast

    54 min
  4. Episode 20: Coaching is not to solve your problems: A conversation with coach educator Shannon Kelly

    11/13/2023

    Episode 20: Coaching is not to solve your problems: A conversation with coach educator Shannon Kelly

    Send us a text In episode 20 of @thecoachingconfidentialpodcast, we host a conversation with a well known coach & coach educator for the Co-Active Training Institute, Shannon Kelly. Shannon discusses the essence of coaching, which is not about problem-solving but rather about unlearning and opening up to curiosity. She emphasizes the importance of deep listening and creating a space for clients to hear themselves. While problems may be discussed in coaching sessions, the focus is on the person and their inner resources. Shannon also highlights the role of the coach in managing their own problem-solving tendencies and staying present in the moment. Coaching is a transformative process that empowers individuals to tap into their best selves and live a fulfilling life. Key Takeaways: Coaching is about unlearning problem-solving and opening up to curiosity.Deep listening allows clients to relax and hear themselves.The coach's role is to point the listening towards the best parts of the client.Coaching is an improvisational process that unfolds in the present moment.The coach helps clients tap into their naturally creative, resourceful, and whole selves. Quotes: "Coaching is about unlearning problem-solving and opening up to wild curiosity." - Shannon"Deep listening allows the person to relax and actually hear themselves." - Shannon"Coaching is rerouting people and reintroducing the best parts of themselves." - Shannon"The coach's role is to point the listening towards the best parts of the client." - Shannon"Coaching is an improvisational unfolding of two people who are present." - Shannon Check out our sponsor www.seasonalintentions.com  If you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US. If you'd like to share what listening was like for you, DROP A LINE. We'd love to hear you! Follow us on Instagram. Follow us on Facebook. Follow us on LinkedIn. #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #coaching #podcast

    51 min
  5. Episode 19: How to get better at decision making

    08/15/2023

    Episode 19: How to get better at decision making

    Send us a text Decision making isn't always easy even when we think it's supposed to be. In this engaging session, Vimla coaches Emilie, a dynamic entrepreneur and yoga instructor at Seasonal Intentions.  Emilie is looking to get clarity that will help her make a decision  impacting her career, family and finances. From a place of uncertainty, Emilie emerges clear, reconnecting with important elements of herself that are her surest guides toward 'the right' decision. If you've ever struggled to make a decision you're likely to get a lot from this episode.   Our client Emilie Reid is an entrepreneur and the founder of Seasonal Intentions, an online business that focuses on Ayurvedic-inspired yoga and seasonal living. She is also a part-time teacher at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Massachusetts. Key Takeaways: Starting Point and Desired Outcome: The session began with Emily's question about when to invest in continuing education. Her desired outcome was to gain clarity, rather than making an immediate decision.Defining Clarity: Vimla skillfully helped Emily identify how she would know when she was clear about her decision. This involved connecting with the feeling in her body as an indicator of clarity.Reflective Exploration: The conversation revolved around walking metaphorically through a labyrinth, circling the topic of continuing education, and exploring different energies and perspectives.Empowered Decision-Making: The session focused on the process of decision-making and choosing the energy from which decisions are made.Outcome: Clarity and Process: The primary outcome was not a definitive decision but rather the process of gaining clarity through self-awareness and exploration.Quotes: "I want time to integrate. I want time to actually feel the effects, I want time to experience." - Emilie"I feel like I'm coming around again, kind of like in my previous life... I'm a little bit like, why do I need this certification?" - Emilie"I want less scattered, more integration, more wholeness." - Emilie Check out our sponsor www.seasonalintentions.com  If you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US. If you'd like to share what listening was like for you, DROP A LINE. We'd love to hear you! Follow us on Instagram. Follow us on Facebook. Follow us on LinkedIn. #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #coaching #podcast

    49 min
  6. Episode 18: What flavor is *YOUR* pie in the sky?

    06/15/2023

    Episode 18: What flavor is *YOUR* pie in the sky?

    Send us a text In episode 18 our client Ammarah arrives to her first-ever coaching session completely open to whatever the process might uncover for her and no defined topic.  In this episode you'll hear this deeply thoughtful, fast paced, dynamic tech professional begin the session with nothing clear in mind and leave the session with an actual drawing of a BIG, audacious goal. A goal that is a deeply resonant portrait of a 'pie in the sky' dream she holds AND some concrete steps to walk toward it. This session investigates what really matters to Ammarah. It happens  fluidly. Like a playful invitation to resonance, energy and vitality. She dives into the impact she wants to have in her work and life; the social causes and communities, and what she wants for herself.  If you feel like there is something inside you that you don't have the language for but an energy is calling you - you may be inspired by the way this session brings language and the client's own images to life via the coaching process. #dreambig #lifegoals #values #coaching #newtocoaching Get to know Ammarah Ahmed on LinkedIn or Growth Mentor   Check out our sponsor www.seasonalintentions.com  If you would like to sample coaching for yourSelf, CONTACT US. If you'd like to share what listening was like for you, DROP A LINE. We'd love to hear you! Follow us on Instagram. Follow us on Facebook. Follow us on LinkedIn. #thecoachingconfidentialpodcast #coaching #podcast

    43 min

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This is a podcast that takes you directly into a real life, unscripted life coaching session. Be a fly on the wall and listen to a conversation you don't normally get access to hearing. After each session, two professional coaches take you behind the scenes of the session deconstructing what came up for both the client AND the coach. Your hosts are; Lisa DiMatteo, PCC & Vimla Gulabani, PCC (PCC stands for Professional Certified Coach - a designation from coaches governing body, the ICF or International Coach Federation.