Cocoon After Dark

Quincy Tessaverne

There’s a certain kind of story we only tell in the dark. The kind that lingers. The kind we’ve carried in silence. The kind that needs soft lighting, no interruptions, and someone who won’t flinch. Welcome to Cocoon After Dark—I’mQuincy Tessaverne, and this is a space for truth-telling that’s tender, textured, and unapologetically queer. Each week, we sit with voices—mostly Black, brown, LGBTQ+—who’ve lived through things that don’t always fit into polite conversation. We talk identity, pleasure, boundaries, grief, reinvention, and the moments that changed everything. This isn’t small talk. It’s soul talk. So take what you need. Leave what you don’t. And listen with your whole body.

  1. JAN 28

    From Courtroom to Couch: The Bravo-Loving, Book-Hoarding Attorney Alexis James

    Send us a text Navigating Justice: A Queer Attorney's Journey with Alexis James Join host Quincy from the Cocoon After Dark podcast as she interviews Alexis James, a queer attorney with a rich background in law and education. In this thought-provoking episode, Alexis opens up about her journey through the legal system, the personal toll of combating systemic injustice, and the challenges of maintaining hope and integrity in a detached world. Discover heartfelt stories of family law cases, reflections on the current socio-political climate, and the transformative power of community. Tune in for an inspiring conversation packed with insights, resilience, and the fight for justice. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:43 Weekend Highlights and Personal Interests 03:19 Realizations About the Legal System 06:47 Navigating Law School Challenges 07:52 Changes in the Queer Community 12:45 The Harsh Realities of Practicing Law 20:15 Pivoting Careers and Finding New Passions 23:39 Reflections on Current Social Issues 27:53 Pride Events and Safety Concerns 33:14 Experiencing Pride Events 34:46 Safety Concerns in America 35:55 Personal Reflections on Safety 37:46 Losing Friends Over Politics 40:48 The Class War and Social Issues 46:32 The Power of Love and Relationships 49:15 Meeting My Wife 56:01 Coping Mechanisms and Hobbies 01:00:12 Final Thoughts and Farewell Insta: https://www.instagram.com/thisisprideandpractice/ Support the show https://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

    1h 5m
  2. 12/25/2025

    Shattering Ceilings: Kathy Barron on Propelling Women Podcasters Forward

    Send us a text In this engaging episode of Cocoon After Dark, we welcome Kathy Barron, a witty and resilient writer, editor, and the driving force behind 'Women Who Sarcast' and 'Women Who Podcast.' Together, we delve into Kathy's journey through humor and sarcasm as tools of survival and connection in a world that often misunderstands both. From her early days of adventure and sports to her impactful contributions through magazine and podcasting, Kathy shares the layers of humor, heart, and defiance. We also touch on the power of storytelling, the challenges faced by independent women podcasters, and the importance of community and resilience in today's political climate. Tune in to discover how complexity and wit can be a profound form of grace. 00:00 Introduction to Cocoon After Dark 00:17 Meet Kathy Baron: The Woman Behind the Wit 01:12 Kathy's Journey: From New York to Podcasting 04:11 The Role of Sarcasm in Kathy's Life 09:47 The Birth of the Magazine 13:11 Challenges and Triumphs in Podcasting 24:01 Supporting the Next Generation 28:34 Reflecting on Childhood and Parental Influence 29:27 Visibility and Representation in Schools 33:57 Challenges and Support for the Trans Community 42:47 Podcasting and Community Building 44:43 Women Who Podcast Magazine 49:45 Future of Podcasting and Collaboration 53:21 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections Insta: https://www.instagram.com/womenwhopodcastmagazine/ and: https://www.instagram.com/womenwhosarcast/ Support the show https://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

    1h 1m
  3. 12/17/2025

    Not a Man. Not a Woman. Beyond the Binary with Joy Matthews

    Send us a text In this episode of 'Cocoon,' we sit down with Joy Matthews, a black queer health educator and volunteer coordinator at Together for Mental Wellbeing in the UK. Joy shares their journey of navigating complex relationships with their family, overcoming trauma, and redefining their mental health. They discuss the importance of community care, empathy, and a holistic approach to mental wellbeing. Joy reflects on their identity, experiences of dysmorphia, and the importance of staying true to oneself amidst societal pressures. Join us for an enlightening conversation about resilience, self-discovery, and the transformative power of care. 00:00 Introduction to Joy Matthews 01:34 Joy's Relationship with Parents 02:12 Overcoming Childhood Trauma 03:37 Navigating Mental Health and Identity 05:29 Reconnecting with Family 11:12 Stereotypes and Self-Discovery 14:08 Gender Identity and Body Image 24:07 Challenges in the Mental Health System 26:41 Daily Work and Mental Health Coaching 33:43 Facing Fears and Social Conventions 34:17 Understanding and Empathy in Trans Experiences 34:54 Personal Reflections and Advice to Younger Self 37:17 Family Acceptance and Personal Identity 39:31 Spirituality and Mental Health Journey 42:44 Embracing Opportunities and Personal Growth 54:07 Navigating Relationships and Social Perceptions 59:29 Closing Thoughts and Final Reflections Support the show https://linktr.ee/CocoonAfterDark

    1h 1m

Ratings & Reviews

3.7
out of 5
3 Ratings

About

There’s a certain kind of story we only tell in the dark. The kind that lingers. The kind we’ve carried in silence. The kind that needs soft lighting, no interruptions, and someone who won’t flinch. Welcome to Cocoon After Dark—I’mQuincy Tessaverne, and this is a space for truth-telling that’s tender, textured, and unapologetically queer. Each week, we sit with voices—mostly Black, brown, LGBTQ+—who’ve lived through things that don’t always fit into polite conversation. We talk identity, pleasure, boundaries, grief, reinvention, and the moments that changed everything. This isn’t small talk. It’s soul talk. So take what you need. Leave what you don’t. And listen with your whole body.