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We talk about coffee, brewing,drinking, etc. We also talk about couples and cuddles stuff. This is not a relationship primer. What works for us, may not work for you.We dont fit into just one category.

  1. 5D AGO

    Coffee and Cuddles S4 Ep 3 Swipe Right

    We apologize for the audio issue. It sounded like a good recording. Some pc gremlins had a field day with the post-production. After trying to fix it, we are unable to make it better. We will do better next episode. In this episode of Coffee and Cuddles, Craig and Anna dive deep into the world of modern dating. From the "three-second rule" of swiping on apps like Tinder and Bumble to the more detailed, old-school profiles of Match.com and eHarmony, they explore how we connect in a digital age. They share personal stories about their own "honest from the start" beginning in Second Life and recount the chaotic, nerve-wracking story of the first time they finally met in person at the airport. The Evolution of Dating: A look at the pros and cons of instant-match apps versus the more thoughtful "computer dating" of the past.  Real-Life Chemistry: Why meeting "in the wild" at work or school often feels more organic than a screen, despite the smaller dating pool. Honesty vs. "Perfection": Craig and Anna discuss why they never use the word "perfect" and the dangers of lying on your profile just to get a date. The Puppy Family Reunion: A quick recap of their recent day spent at the local park with five of McCoy’s siblings and a whole cast of new dog friends. The "Swipe Right" Game: Craig and Anna play a round of "what-if" questions, revealing their biggest profile red flags (looking at you, expensive eyewear and smoking!) and what emojis would best describe each other. Airport Adventures: The hilarious and stressful story of Craig picking up Anna at a major international airport and immediately asking her for directions the moment they pulled away from the curb. First Impressions Matter: You never get a second chance to make one, whether it's through a photo or a face-to-face greeting. Vulnerability Wins: Starting a relationship "from ground zero" with total honesty is the best way to avoid "the ship sailing" on a potential connection later. The "McCoy" Update: Even a submarine veteran can be overwhelmed by the anxiety of a crowded airport, but a pack of puppies at the park makes it all worth it. Connect with Us: Follow our journey as we navigate business, school, and life in Lakewood, CA. If you have a "dating app horror story" or a favorite "met in real life" moment, we want to hear it!  Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    30 min

  2. MAR 2

    Coffee and Cuddles S4 Ep 2 Riddle Me This

    Have you ever been minding your own business, perhaps blissfully watching TV, when your partner hits you with a total curveball like, "Would you still love me if I was a toaster?" This week, Craig (Coffee) and Anna (Cuddles) dive into the "Twilight Zone" of relationship riddles and those bizarre hypothetical questions that seem designed to land someone in the doghouse. The duo explores why these "impossible questions" exist, whether they are actually "emotional safety tests," and how to navigate the murky waters of vulnerability without resorting to kitchen appliance analogies. In This Episode, We Discuss: The "Toaster" Trap: Why partners throw out absurd hypotheticals and why there is rarely a "correct" answer that avoids a bit of backlash.Deciphering the Code: How questions about growing wolf ears or turning into a red panda are often just a "vulnerability mask" for asking, "Am I still lovable if I change?"Communication Styles: Craig explains why men often work better with facts and details, while Anna discusses the deeper emotional connection women might be seeking through these riddles.The Struggle of Overthinking: Anna shares her personal journey from being "locked in indecision" in the grocery store aisle to becoming more "go with the flow."Behind the Scenes of a 7-Year Relationship: A look into the groundwork required to make communication look effortless and the "playful rut" of trying to out-nice each other.Health Update: Craig shares an honest update on his journey with Mounjaro, managing side effects, and his recent progress.Notable Quotes: "The answer that you think is the right answer ninety-nine percent of the time will be the wrong answer... because it’s a question that truly has no answer." — Anna"I can't deal with crazy... obviously you're not a lampstand. You're not a traffic cone. You're a human being, and I would like to treat you as such." — CraigMilestone Alert! We are closing in on 1,000 downloads! We’ve officially crossed the 750 mark over 60+ episodes, and we couldn't have done it without you. Please keep sharing the podcast with your friends, family, and even people you don't like—we appreciate every single one of you. Tune in next week and God bless! Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    36 min

  3. FEB 15

    Coffee and Cuddles S4 Ep 1 Weight For It

    Welcome to the Season 4 premiere of Coffee and Cuddles! In this special edition, Coffee (Craig) and Cuddles (Anna) trade their usual espresso for tea as they navigate the highs and lows of a new health journey. The duo dives deep into the reality of starting GLP-1 medications—not just for weight loss, but for managing long-term health.  From the "food noise" that suddenly goes silent to the unexpected side effects like "Ozempic face," irritability, and extreme fatigue, they share a raw, honest look at what happens after the first shot. It’s a conversation about teamwork, lifestyle changes, and why having a supportive partner makes all the difference when the "hangry" moods hit.  What’s In This Episode? Season 4 Kickoff: Why we’re drinking tea and doing it all without Annette Funicello. The GLP-1 Journey: Craig shares his experience starting Mounjaro at a 2.5mg dose to lower his A1C. The "Food Noise" Factor: Understanding how these drugs shut off the brain's constant craving for snacks. The Reality of Side Effects: Dealing with extreme exhaustion, the loss of interest in favorite foods (even coffee!), and mood swings. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work: Anna discusses how she supports Craig through irritability and the "weepy" moments of the first week. PSA on Health: Why you must consult a doctor and have a medical team behind you before starting any major medication or diet program. Coffee Corner: Craig geeks out over his new espresso machine ritual—even if his body is currently saying "no" to the caffeine. +2Key Takeaways "You still have to put in the work. You still have to watch what you're eating, you still have to exercise... It doesn't just melt away without effort." +1"If you are choosing to take this journey, you need to have people who are going to be understanding and have your back no matter what."  Mentions & Resources Local Love: Shout out to Liz and Hannah at the Cover Street Starbucks in Long Beach! Cooking Tip: Stop buying jarred sauce—Craig insists you make your own marinara!  Disclaimer: We are not medical experts or doctors. This episode is based solely on our personal research and experiences. Always consult with a licensed professional before making medical decisions.  Connect with us! Reach out on social media with your questions or your own health journey stories.  Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    31 min

  4. FEB 1

    Coffee & Cuddles Season 3 Ep 20 Unpacking the Boxes

    Welcome back to another riveting episode of Coffee and Cuddles! This week, Craig (AKA Coffee) and Cuddles are diving into the metaphorical attic of our lives. We’re talking about the "stuff" we carry—not just the physical U-Haul boxes from past moves, but the mental and emotional baggage that follows us from relationship to relationship. Have you ever left a box unpacked for years, only to realize you didn't really need what was inside?. We explore why we hold onto bad decisions, old fears, and creepy emotional "slimes" instead of letting them go. From the "Schoolhouse Rock" inspiration of unpacking adjectives to the literal heart-break of a shattered coffee mug, we discuss how old triggers can create an avalanche in our current lives. In This Episode, We Discuss: The Metaphorical Attic: Why we shove painful emotions into dark corners and hope they simply disintegrate.The Trigger Trap: How a simple loud voice or a broken dish can send us down a rabbit hole of past trauma.The Keep, Toss, Donate Framework: A system for deciding which parts of your history belong in your future.The Fire Ritual: Why writing down your fears and watching them burn can be a powerful way to reclaim your peace.The Airport Suitcase Test: If you were at the check-in counter and your emotional luggage was overweight, what is the one thing you would leave behind forever?.A new chapter doesn't mean you have to have zero history, but it does mean choosing which parts of that history you actually want to live with. Connect with Us:We love our "three or four" regulars and everyone else joining the CNC trend!. If you have questions, advice, or just want to share what you’re leaving at the airport counter, find us on Facebook, Instagram, Threads, and Twitter @CoffeeAndCuddles. Remember: This is just our two cents—your mileage may vary!. Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    31 min

  5. JAN 25

    Coffee and Cuddles S3 Ep 19 Hear Ye

    Are you listening, or are you just hearing? This week, Coffee and Cuddles dive deep into the art of active listening. Drawing from her experience as a second-grade teacher, Anna shares how a classroom mishap led to a re-evaluation of how we communicate with one another. From the classroom to the doctor’s office, this episode explores why looking at someone isn't always enough and how we can better "hear" the people in our lives. Plus, stay tuned for Anna’s saga with seasonal allergies and her quest to find a doctor who truly listens. The Art of Active Listening Listening vs. Looking: Just because someone is looking at you doesn't mean they are processing what you’re saying.The Classroom Perspective: Anna recounts having to re-teach a lesson because students weren't actively listening during instruction.Clarifying Questions: One sign of a good listener is the use of follow-up or clarifying questions to ensure understanding.The "Middle" Gap: Missing the middle of a conversation can lead to major disagreements or hurt feelings.Practical Tips for Focus Eyes on the Speaker: Maintaining eye contact is a foundational step in giving someone your full attention.Empty Hands: Removing distractions—like pens or rubber bands—helps the brain focus on the speaker.Body Stillness: Keeping your body still and turning your "voice off" allows your ears to do their job. Visual Focus: A parent's tip: if a teacher indicates something on a board or paper, your eyes must follow that indicator while your ears listen. Life Update: The Allergy Saga The Raspy Voice: Anna addresses her raspy voice, clarifying it is seasonal allergies, not the flu or strep.Doctor-Patient Communication: A discussion on the frustration felt when a doctor seems focused on other patients rather than the one in the room. "Just looking at somebody doesn't necessarily mean that you're hearing what they're saying." — Anna Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    19 min

  6. JAN 17

    Coffee and Cuddles S3 ep 18 How Much Space is Healthy?

    In this episode, Craig and Cuddles talk about how much space in a relationship is healthy, especially when you live in a tiny home, an ADU, a van, or just feel on top of each other all the time. They share real stories from their own relationship, how they cool off after arguments without checking out, and why a little breathing room can actually bring couples closer instead of pushing them apart.​ You’ll hear them dive into relationship conflict, cooling‑off time, and what “I need space” can look like in a healthy marriage or partnership. They also talk about kids needing space on crowded playgrounds, creative ways to get outside, and how finding a new church community at Arbor Road Church helped refill their emotional and spiritual tanks.​ ​ Episode Topics: How much space in a relationship is healthy and when “I need space” is a good thing​Cooling off after an argument without using the silent treatment​Finding alone time in tiny homes, ADUs, and van life situations​Why kids also need space and how parks, beaches, and places like Discovery Cube Orange County ​​Faith, community, and finding space that refuels you at Arbor Road Church ​​Long‑term relationship lessons from nearly seven years together, plus past dysfunctional relationships​How do you ask for space in your relationship without starting a fight?​Share your “I need space” strategies, tiny‑home or van‑life tips, and kid‑energy burn‑off ideas with the show on social or by sending a message. Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    21 min

  7. JAN 10

    Coffee and Cuddles S3 Ep 17 Time or Something Like That

    The hosts kick off 2026 with laughter, food cravings, and a surprisingly deep dive into how time affects everything—from relationships to sandwiches. What starts as a chat about tacos spirals (as usual) into lessons about communication, forgiveness, and letting go of grudges. Between stories of soggy apples, holiday schedules, and spicy chicken rating scales, Craig and Coffee remind us that how we spend our time—especially with loved ones—matters most. Key Topics Discussed Welcome to 2026: The hosts’ hilariously chaotic return and why they “warned you” about it.A Tale of a Turkey Sandwich: How time (and apples) taught Craig an unexpected culinary lesson.Time and Relationships: Why resolving conflicts quickly can strengthen bonds—and why “forgiven and forgotten” should mean exactly that.“Hallway Arguments”: Craig’s story about breaking an old habit of silent treatment and choosing open communication instead.The White Boy Spice Scale: Coffee’s curiosity about just how spicy Church’s Chicken is, leading to an AI-powered taste test rating.The Cayenne Incident: A childhood story that ends in a lifelong avoidance of one fiery ingredient.Listener Challenge: How do you handle time in conflicts—talk it out right away or let it cool off first? Memorable Moments “If you’re going to put fresh fruit on a sandwich, eat it the day you make it.”“We don’t edit these—we just wrap them and release them into the universe.”“Forgiven and forgotten means you never get to bring it up again.”“On a scale of one to White Boy, how spicy is Church’s Chicken?” Takeaway Time changes everything—sometimes for the worse (like a two-day-old apple slice), sometimes for the better (like a healed argument). The hosts remind listeners that forgiveness, communication, and humor go a long way toward making relationships last. Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    21 min

  8. 12/30/2025

    Coffee and Cuddles S3 Ep 16 End of the year review

    After a brief hiatus (or "hibernation"), Craig (aka Coffee) and Anna Marie (aka Cuddles) are back! In this episode, the duo catches up on where they’ve been, navigating significant health challenges, and the importance of being your own advocate at the doctor's office. They also dive into the hilarity of teacher life before winter break, baffling Gen Alpha slang (what is "Skippity"?), and the joy of new toys—including a fancy espresso machine and a retro Pole Position arcade game. Plus, a little end-of-year advice on vehicle donations and tax write-offs. Key Topics & Takeaways: Life Update: The hosts apologize for the recent absence, citing work stress ("brain is goo") and health issues as the main culprits.   Medical Advocacy: Craig shares his struggle with arthritis and pain management, emphasizing the importance of not accepting "conservative" treatment when you are in pain. Key Mantra: "Do not borrow trouble"—don't stress about bad outcomes before they actually happen.   Teacher Tales: Anna Marie discusses the chaos of the classroom before the holidays, how quickly kids forgive (and forget) arguments at recess, and the struggle to understand new slang like "Rizz".   Holiday Haul: A look at their favorite recent gifts:Craig: A tabletop Pole Position arcade game (and why he’s in trouble for playing it too much).   Anna Marie: A new espresso machine that has turned her into an at-home barista (and might be fueling Craig's insomnia).   End-of-Year Tips: A PSA about donating old vehicles to organizations like "Kars 4 Kids before the tax year ends—and why it’s better than having strangers knock on your door asking to buy your car.   Memorable Quotes: "Everybody repeat this phrase with me: Do not borrow trouble." — Craig    "I don't need conservative. I need relief." — Craig    "Sometimes it's crazy, sometimes it's mundane, but it's never boring." — Anna Marie    "I know my limitations, I know what I'm capable of... putting up with their ideas." — Anna Marie    Mentioned in this Episode: Organization: Cars for Kids (Vehicle Donation)    Location: Sandy’s on the Beach (Huntington Beach) – Recommended for the cheesecake!   Game: Pole Position (Tabletop Arcade)    Connect with Us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/coffeeandcuddles67/Spotify: Click here to listenListen, rate, and subscribe! We are aiming to be back on a weekly schedule in the New Year! Send a text Support the show listen to all episodes on spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0mpZTxFGmEGcDIVKkvuYsa?si=243a2e2be7b84990

    26 min
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We talk about coffee, brewing,drinking, etc. We also talk about couples and cuddles stuff. This is not a relationship primer. What works for us, may not work for you.We dont fit into just one category.

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  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
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