Coffee Can't Fix Everything

The Healthy Project Media Co

Grab a cup of coffee and join Corey Dion Lewis, community health champion and founder of Healthy Project Media, for candid conversations about mental health. On Coffee Can’t Fix Everything, we sit down with guests from the community—leaders, advocates, and everyday people—to have real, unfiltered discussions about mental health, wellness, and the struggles we all face. No scripts. No pre-planned topics. Just open and honest dialogue over a good cup of coffee. Because while coffee helps, it can’t fix everything.

  1. Navigating Life Transitions with Patricia Barbee

    1월 19일

    Navigating Life Transitions with Patricia Barbee

    Support the show Help sustain independent mental health conversations https://buymeacoffee.com/coreydionlewis Stay connected Sign up for the Healthy Project Media newsletter for new episodes and resources www.healthyprojectmedia.com In this powerful episode, host Corey Dion Lewis sits down with Patricia  Barbee (Patty), Executive Director of Project Bridging and educator, for an honest conversation about navigating life's transitions. From morning routines to major life changes, Patty shares her wisdom on helping youth and adults alike move through difficult transitions with grace and intention. They discuss the importance of mentorship, positive reinforcement, love languages, and why sometimes you just need to "be positive or be quiet." KEY TOPICS:• Understanding transition in childhood and adulthood• The power of mentorship and community• Love languages beyond romantic relationships• Positive consequences and reinforcement• Getting out of your own way• Why asking questions matters• Building routines that support growth ABOUT THE GUEST:Patricia Adrienne Barbee is an educator and the Executive Director of Project Bridging, a program focused on middle school students during their critical transition years. With over 20 years in early childhood education, Patty is passionate about advocating for children and helping them navigate life's changes. MEMORABLE QUOTES:"Be positive or be quiet.""If you care, you will learn.""Give yourself time to adjust to things.""You're worth it. Get you some help and get you some people who love you." RESOURCES:Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/coreydionlewisNewsletter: www.healthyprojectmedia.com Coffee Can't Fix Everything is a mental health podcast that breaks stigma through authentic conversation. If you or someone you know needs help, please reach out to a mental health professional. CHAPTER MARKERS:00:00 - Introduction & Welcome00:09 - Meet Patricia Barbee: Educator & Advocate01:39 - The Shoe Game & Personal Style02:34 - Corey's Journey: Turning 42 & Transitions03:30 - What Makes Transition So Hard?04:40 - Learning from Early Childhood: Daily Transitions05:55 - The Role of Mentorship in Transition06:36 - Middle School: The Lost Land08:00 - Love Languages & How We Receive Care09:45 - Asking the Right Questions11:27 - "Be Positive or Be Quiet"12:41 - Fighting Through the Quicksand14:53 - From Wasting Time to Investing in Yourself16:41 - It's Okay to Say "This Isn't For Me"18:04 - Consequences: Positive & Negative19:52 - Believing in Yourself More Than Outside Voices20:52 - Patty's Personal Transitions: Loss & Healing22:00 - The Power of Positive Reinforcement23:03 - Every Day is a Fresh Start25:42 - Morning Routines & Self-Care27:38 - Building Your Village29:04 - Learning to Be Yourself30:47 - Not a Morning Person: Embracing Your Process32:26 - Final Advice: Give Yourself Time34:11 - Closing Thoughts: You're Worth It Mental health resources https://www.iowahealthieststate.com/back-the-blackCall or text 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (24/7, free, confidential) https://988lifeline.orgNational Alliance on Mental Illness (education and support) https://www.nami.orgMental Health America screening tools and resources https://www.mhanational.orgTherapy for Black Men directory https://therapyforblackmen.orgFind a therapist near you https://www.psychologytoday.com

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  2. 2025. 03. 05.

    Leading Through Life: Navigating Disappointment, Balance, and Growth

    In this episode of Coffee Can’t Fix Everything, we sit down for a raw and insightful conversation on the realities of leadership, parenting, and personal growth. We dive into the mental health challenges that come with leading in both professional and personal spaces, the impact of burnout, and how to develop emotional resilience in the face of setbacks. Our guest shares their journey through leadership challenges, self-doubt, and the lessons they've learned about balancing work, faith, and family. Whether you're a nonprofit leader, entrepreneur, working parent, or someone striving for personal and professional growth, this conversation will leave you with valuable insights on staying grounded, navigating rejection, and leading with authenticity. Show Notes:00:00 - Welcome to Coffee Can’t Fix Everything an introduction to today’s guest02:20 - The realities of leadership: balancing passion with the unexpected challenges07:03 - Burnout and work stress: why setting boundaries is key to long-term success10:37 - Dealing with disappointment and navigating rejection as a leader15:43 - Parenting and leadership: lessons from raising kids while leading a career20:28 - The power of faith and mental health in staying resilient through tough times24:33 - The importance of self-reflection and how to develop a growth mindset28:05 - Emotional intelligence and staying in control of your emotions in high-pressure moments32:00 - The power of mentorship, community leadership, and giving back37:09 - The reality of nonprofit management and work-life balance40:27 - Final thoughts: How to stay anchored in your values and keep moving forward Tune in for this real, unfiltered conversation about leadership, mental health, and the everyday struggles that come with trying to make an impact. If you enjoy the episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it! Support the Podcast & Stay Connected: ☕ Love the show? Buy me a coffee! → https://buymeacoffee.com/coreydionlewisFollow Coffee Can’t Fix Everything for more real conversations on mental health and leadershipLearn more about our guest and their workConnect with us on social media for updates and behind-the-scenes content🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts!

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  3. 2025. 02. 13.

    Forgiveness vs. Healing: Overcoming Trauma with Courageous Fire

    In this episode of Coffee Can’t Fix Everything, I sit down with Courageous Fire, a survivor, advocate, and author of The Other Child. We unpack the complicated relationship between forgiveness and healing—why they aren’t always the same and why choosing self-compassion over forced forgiveness can be the key to true healing. Courageous shares her journey of surviving domestic violence, breaking free from toxic relationships, and redefining what healing looks like on her terms. We discuss how childhood trauma impacts our ability to forgive, the importance of self-forgiveness, and the first steps to reclaiming our power. If you've ever felt pressured to "just forgive and move on," this episode challenges that mindset and offers a fresh, empowering perspective. Tune in to hear Courageous Fire’s insights and learn how to shift the focus from forgiveness to healing. Episode Highlights: 🔹 [00:00] – Welcome to Coffee Can’t Fix Everything + Introducing Courageous Fire🔹 [00:28] – The meaning behind Courageous Fire’s name and her journey🔹 [00:52] – Forgiveness vs. Healing: Why they aren’t the same🔹 [02:08] – The pressure to forgive in religious and societal settings🔹 [03:20] – How forced forgiveness can lead to further trauma🔹 [06:01] – Courageous Fire’s story: Surviving domestic violence🔹 [07:45] – Self-forgiveness: The first step to healing🔹 [08:33] – Why survivors blame themselves and how to shift the perspective🔹 [12:09] – The power of reclaiming your identity after trauma🔹 [16:31] – The “Mufasa Moment” – Recognizing your inner strength🔹 [19:12] – When is the right time to forgive?🔹 [22:06] – How to reframe self-worth to embrace healing🔹 [25:09] – The Other Child: How labels can help identify and process trauma🔹 [30:45] – First steps for people ready to start their healing journey🔹 [32:22] – Where to find Courageous Fire’s book and final words of encouragement Key Takeaways: ✅ Forgiveness is often pressured but isn’t always necessary for healing.✅ Self-forgiveness is crucial in overcoming trauma.✅ Trauma survivors often blame themselves for what was done to them.✅ Healing begins when you recognize your worth and reclaim your power.✅ True healing happens on your own timeline—not when others expect it. 📩 Enjoyed this episode? Leave a review and share it with a friend! Resources & Links: 📖 Get Courageous Fire’s book This Is for the Other Child National Mental Health Resources (U.S.) National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) – Free mental health support and education.https://www.nami.org MentalHealth.gov – Government resource for mental health education and support.https://www.mentalhealth.gov  Crisis Text Line – Free 24/7 support via text. Text HELLO to 741741https://www.crisistextline.org  988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – Free 24/7 support for those in crisis or distress. Call 988https://988lifeline.org The Trevor Project – Mental health and crisis support for LGBTQ+ youth. Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678https://www.thetrevorproject.org RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) – Support for survivors of sexual violence. Call 800-656-HOPE (4673)https://www.rainn.org SAMHSA National Helpline – Free and confidential treatment referral and support. Call 1-800-662-HELP (4357)https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline Black Mental Health & Trauma Resources Therapy for Black Girls – Mental health support for Black women & girls.https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com Therapy for Black Men – Directory of therapists specializing in Black men’s mental health.https://www.therapyforblackmen.org The Loveland Foundation – Mental health resources & therapy funds for Black women & girls.https://thelovelandfoundation.org Black Mental Health Alliance – Free resources & support for the Black community.https://blackmentalhealth.com Domestic Violence & Trauma Support National Domestic Violence Hotline – Free, 24/7 support for domestic abuse survivors. Call 800-799-7233 or text START to 88788https://www.thehotline.org National Resource Center on Domestic Violence – Education & support for domestic violence survivors.https://www.nrcdv.org Resilience (Sexual Assault Services) – Trauma-informed support for sexual violence survivors.https://www.ourresilience.org Find a Therapist Psychology Today – Therapist Directoryhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists Open Path Collective – Affordable Therapyhttps://openpathcollective.org Inclusive Therapists – Culturally responsive therapy resourceshttps://www.inclusivetherapists.com

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  4. 2025. 01. 13.

    Asking for help isn’t failure—it’s survival.

    In this heartfelt episode of Coffee Can't Fix Everything, we sit down with Max to have an open conversation about mental health, the challenges of asking for help, and the barriers many face in seeking therapy. From breaking the stigma around mental health in the LGBTQ+ and Black communities to discussing communal burnout, Max shares their insights as a mental health advocate, executive director, and gender doula. We explore why seeking help can feel so difficult, the impact of inclusive mental health care, and how community support plays a vital role in healing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating their mental health journey or supporting others through theirs. Show Notes:0:00 - Introduction to Season 2 and welcoming Max to the show1:27 - The host’s personal journey to therapy and confronting the fear of asking for help3:17 - Max’s experience with therapy and its transformative impact5:18 - LGBTQ+ mental health advocacy and addressing barriers to care7:40 - Cultural challenges in accessing mental health support in marginalized communities10:28 - What authentic allyship looks like in action15:21 - The power of pronouns and small gestures in creating safe spaces18:23 - The stark difference in mental health resources between urban and rural areas20:45 - How leaders and advocates can balance busy lives with seeking help26:33 - Unlearning toxic masculinity and embracing vulnerability as a strength28:13 - Building community support to normalize mental health care32:53 - Max’s advice to those hesitant to ask for help Mental Health Resources: National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI): www.nami.orgCrisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 for free, 24/7 crisis supportTherapy for Black Men: www.therapyforblackmen.orgThe Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth): www.thetrevorproject.orgOne Iowa (LGBTQ+ Resources): www.oneiowa.orgPsychology Today’s Therapist Finder: www.psychologytoday.comRemember, you are not alone, and help is available. Let’s break the stigma one conversation at a time.

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  5. 2024. 08. 26.

    Jill 2.0: Embracing Change and Finding Resilience

    In this Coffee Can't Fix Everything episode, Corey sits down with Jill, who shares her transformative journey of becoming "Jill 2.0." From dealing with the unexpected loss of her father to navigating a rare kidney disease, Jill opens up about the challenges and changes she faced in her life. Together, they discuss the power of resilience, the importance of prioritizing family, and the courage it takes to redefine oneself in the face of adversity. Jill offers insights into how embracing change, even when difficult, can lead to growth and a more fulfilling life. Chapter Markers: 00:00 - Introduction and Welcome01:23 - The Power of Change: Jill's Early Life and Resilience03:29 - Coping with Loss and Health Challenges07:47 - Redefining Identity and Prioritizing Family13:31 - The Importance of Vulnerability and Accountability16:54 - Moving Beyond Comfort: Advice for Those Stuck in Their "Crap"20:28 - Empowering Change and Reclaiming Control24:29 - The Fluidity of Change and Embracing Imperfection28:06 - Advice for the Future Self: Speaking Truth to Power30:51 - Closing Thoughts and Upcoming My City My Health EventMental Health Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health, please consider reaching out to the following resources: National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)Mental Health AmericaSubstance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)Crisis Text Line - Text "HELLO" to 741741Therapy for Black GirlsRemember, coffee can't fix everything, but talking about mental health is a great start. Join us for more conversations like this by subscribing to our channel and sharing this episode with someone who might need it. See you next time!

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소개

Grab a cup of coffee and join Corey Dion Lewis, community health champion and founder of Healthy Project Media, for candid conversations about mental health. On Coffee Can’t Fix Everything, we sit down with guests from the community—leaders, advocates, and everyday people—to have real, unfiltered discussions about mental health, wellness, and the struggles we all face. No scripts. No pre-planned topics. Just open and honest dialogue over a good cup of coffee. Because while coffee helps, it can’t fix everything.