Cold Hard Feelings

Evan
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Like the snowflake, no one person's story is the same as another. In mine, you'll find a winding road with twists and turns that led me here; sitting down, talking about it. 

Episodes

  1. 07/15/2025

    Breaking Free: My Journey Through Career Change and Personal Growth

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Sometimes walking away is the bravest choice you can make. After dedicating over eight years to a warehouse management position, I found myself trapped in an unsustainable cycle of overperformance and underappreciation that was slowly draining my spirit. What began as a fulfilling career where I thrived as a supervisor gradually transformed into a daily burden where giving 120% became the normalized expectation. The turning point arrived unexpectedly. In the aftermath of my grandmother's passing, a mysterious illness left me bedridden - as though my body was physically expelling years of accumulated stress. This moment of forced pause became the clarity I needed to recognize it was time for change. Despite the security of familiarity and the uncertainty of starting over, I gathered the courage to pursue a new opportunity that has since transformed my relationship with work. This raw, unedited episode marks my return to podcasting after an extended absence. I share the unfiltered reality of recognizing when to leave a situation that no longer serves you, the physical toll of workplace stress, and finding the strength to prioritize wellbeing over comfort. For anyone feeling trapped in a similar situation - dreading each workday before it even begins - this episode offers both validation and encouragement that better possibilities await when you honor your worth. Have you ever had to walk away from something comfortable to save yourself? Share your experience or thoughts on this episode - I'd love to hear your story. Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    16 min

  2. 11/25/2024

    Elevate Your Goal Setting with Exciting Self-Improvement

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Ever felt the rush of achieving a long-sought goal, only to find yourself yearning for the next challenge? Let's dive into the art of setting attainable goals and keeping life exhilarating. Inspired by my childhood quest to conquer Sonic 2 on the Game Gear, this episode of Cold, Hard Feelings is a testament to the power of realistic goal-setting. I'll share how goals—unlike fleeting dreams—are concrete milestones that propel us forward, infusing life with purpose and excitement. Whether you're aiming to up your game in Super Smash Bros or perfecting a handstand, it's all about making personal growth a thrilling adventure. In a world where the relentless pursuit of knowledge keeps boredom at bay, we explore the joy of continuous self-improvement. Drawing parallels to the fearless spirit of Sonic the Hedgehog, I discuss how setting goals and striving for them daily can transform life's journey into an electrifying experience. Embrace the thrill of trying, as we talk about overcoming obstacles with patience as your guide. Whether you're a passionate gamer or someone chasing self-betterment, this episode promises a rejuvenating perspective on how to make life's journey as fulfilling as it is fun. Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    14 min

  3. 11/25/2024

    7 Steps to Unwrapping Happiness: Embracing Fleeting Joys and Lasting Contentment

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Is happiness just a fleeting thrill like unwrapping a gift, or is there a deeper, more enduring emotion we should be seeking? Join us on Cold, Hard Feelings as we unravel the complex tapestry of happiness and contentment. You'll learn how to appreciate happiness as a transient, yet precious, emotion rather than a perpetual state. We promise to guide you through the art of cherishing these ephemeral moments while cultivating a more sustainable sense of contentment that embraces life's imperfections with grace. Throughout the episode, we take you on a journey using the relatable metaphor of owning a car. Just like a car requires maintenance and eventually ages, so do our lives, but that doesn't mean happiness has to disappear. Discover how the passage of time and inevitable changes can be met with acceptance and gratitude. By holding onto cherished memories and embracing change, you can nurture a lasting contentment that weaves through life's highs and lows. Tune in to learn how to create new positive memories and savor the joys that have shaped your life. Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    15 min

  4. 10/29/2024

    What is the Truth, and How Can We Use It?

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! What if the problems that weigh you down are just specks in the vastness of the universe? Join us on Cold, Hard Feelings as we confront this bold notion and explore how shifting your perspective can transform your life. We unpack the relentless rhythm of the sun rising and setting, a reminder that time marches on regardless of our troubles. By examining our habitual fixation on past events, we challenge you to break free from the cycle of negativity that ties yesterday's burdens to tomorrow's potential. Personal stories of triumph over depression illuminate the power of reframing one's thoughts, urging you to reclaim control over your future through actionable change today. In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we grapple with the complexities of the human experience and the profound truths often overlooked in our daily lives. We delve into the delicate balance of acknowledging difficulties while choosing not to let them define our future. Listen as we guide you through practical steps to address and resolve issues, emphasizing resilience and growth. With the certainty of the sun's rise and fall as our anchor, we invite you to embrace the opportunity each new day brings—an opportunity to live fully in the present and steer your life towards a more hopeful outlook. Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    8 min

  5. 10/14/2024

    Cultivating Patience for Life's Everyday Struggles

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Can patience truly transform the way you navigate life's obstacles? Discover how this powerful skill can help you make more thoughtful decisions and overcome challenges with grace. Join us for "Cold, Hard Feelings," an insightful episode focused on developing patience in daily life. We'll dive into real-life scenarios, from job loss to relationship troubles, illustrating how patience isn't innate but cultivated through practice, perseverance, and discipline. You'll hear personal insights about accepting situations as they are and planning your next steps mindfully. This episode is full of practical advice designed to enhance your emotional resilience. As we wrap up our discussion, we turn our attention to the interplay between emotions and the concept of truth. We appreciate all your feedback—both positive and negative—as it fuels our growth and future episodes. Don't miss out on the teaser for our next episode, where we'll uncover the nuances of truth. Listen in for a thought-provoking journey that promises to equip you with tools to navigate life's challenges with greater composure and mindfulness. Share your thoughts, engage with our content, and get ready for more enlightening discussions ahead! Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    17 min

  6. 09/30/2024

    From Campfire Joy to a Night of Chills

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Ever wondered what happens when a spontaneous road trip turns into an unexpected thriller? Join us as we recount an unforgettable journey that began with playful banter and ended in a heart-pounding nightmare. From navigating around a closed bridge to gathering friends Leslie, Jasmine, Ian, and Travis, our adventure kicks off with a series of light-hearted moments and scenic hikes. As night falls, the camaraderie deepens around a campfire with s'mores and a lively game of truth or dare, capturing the pure joy and laughter of shared experiences.  But hold onto your seat because things take a shocking turn! Hear about a terrifying chase that led to frantic 911 calls, mistaken identities, and a punch in the face. Inside a small hut, amidst blood and confusion, we desperately try to piece together what's happening with our friends seemingly lost and pursuers closing in. Just when hopelessness threatens to overwhelm, a startling twist reveals the intensity of friendship and fear, all within the confines of a gripping nightmare. This episode is a rollercoaster of emotions you won't want to miss! Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    14 min

  7. 09/16/2024

    The Hidden Power of Suffering

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Have you ever wondered why pain and suffering seem to be such integral parts of our personal growth? In this episode, we dissect the profound impact these challenging experiences have on our development. Join us as we unpack the notion that pain serves as the initial catalyst for change, while suffering acts as the aftermath that teaches us invaluable lessons. From the physical agony of a broken arm to the emotional turmoil of a breakup, we share relatable stories that illustrate how enduring these hardships can prevent future mistakes and spur significant growth. We also dive into how embracing new challenges, such as embarking on a podcasting journey, demands practice and resilience despite initial setbacks. Failure isn't just a bump in the road; it's an essential part of the learning process, and sometimes, it can even be fun! We explore this idea through personal anecdotes about recording mishaps and public speaking blunders. By drawing parallels with mastering new skills like martial arts or video games, we highlight the necessity of experiencing defeat to fully appreciate victory. Whether it's the endless hours spent perfecting a combo in a fighting game or the persistent effort to improve in any area of life, we emphasize that consistent effort and perseverance are key. This episode is a rallying cry to embrace your failures, use them as stepping stones, and persist with unwavering determination on the path to perfection. Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    20 min

  8. 09/02/2024

    Unlocking the Secrets to a Powerful Morning Routine: From Night Owl to Early Riser

    Leave a like or subscribe for more! Can you really function on minimal sleep and still have a productive day? Join us as we challenge conventional sleep wisdom and reveal the secrets to mastering an early morning routine, even if you’ve been a night owl your whole life. From personal anecdotes of childhood sleep struggles to adult victories over morning inertia, this episode is packed with honest reflections and actionable advice. Discover the key strategies that can help you leap out of bed and stay up, ensuring you’re always ahead of the game whether it’s for work, social life, or personal health. We’ll dive into the essential habit of not just waking up, but staying up, and how it forms the bedrock of productivity. You’ll get practical tips like placing deterrents to keep you from sneaking back under the covers and learn about energy-boosting drinks and supplements that can supercharge your mornings. Ever wondered how pre-workout supplements can give you a better gym pump and a head start to the day? We’ve got you covered. The essence of our discussion boils down to one powerful act: getting up and staying up, setting the tone for a successful and balanced lifestyle. Check out my episodes, and if you like what you hear, give me a shout out and spread the word!

    16 min
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About

Like the snowflake, no one person's story is the same as another. In mine, you'll find a winding road with twists and turns that led me here; sitting down, talking about it. 

Information

  • Creator
    Evan
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Cold Hard Feelings
  • Show Website
    Cold Hard Feelings