Comfortable being Uncomfortable

Dakarai J Mills
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Hi, my name is Dak, and welcome to Comfortable being Uncomfortable, where I talk about a vast majority of topics ranging from politics, relationships, entertainment & Travel. By the end of each episode, I hope you walk away with a greater understanding and challenge you to always think outside the box.

  1. 09/25/2024

    Is Politics Just a Reality Show? AI: Friend or Foe?

    In this conversation, Dak and Bob LeMent explore the intersection of politics and entertainment, discussing how recent presidential debates resemble reality shows. They delve into the implications of age in leadership roles, the need for accessible healthcare, and the shift from traditional media to streaming services. The discussion also covers the relevance of award shows, the impact of binge-watching on viewer experience, and the challenges posed by copyright laws in the creative industry. Ultimately, they reflect on the evolving landscape of television and the importance of community-focused content. In this engaging conversation, Dak and Bob explore various themes ranging from the commitment required to watch TV shows to the implications of AI on society and the economy. They discuss the challenges of the global economy, including food waste and inflation, and conclude with a light-hearted debate about the best types of pizza. The dialogue is rich with insights and humor, making it a thought-provoking listen.

    1h 11m

  2. 08/21/2024

    Challenging Societal Norms: Building Authentic Connections

    In this conversation, Dak interviews Kyleigh about her experience growing up in the Mormon church, leaving the church, and finding her spiritual path. They also discuss the importance of regulating emotions and the impact of being in the closet. Kylie shares her journey of self-discovery and her challenges in finding acceptance and support from her family and community. They also touch on the power of vulnerability, the need for open communication, and the importance of embracing all emotions. In this conversation, Kyleigh Weathers discusses her journey of self-discovery and healing after a traumatic injury. She shares how she transitioned from being a recreation therapist to starting her own coaching business, focusing on helping people navigate secure relationships. Kyleigh emphasizes the importance of knowing oneself, practicing secure attachment, and creating emotional safety in relationships. She also highlights the need to challenge societal norms and stereotypes to build fulfilling and authentic connections. The conversation touches on marriage, parenting, and the power of choice. Check out Kyleigh's Website, Queerly Attached, and take the quiz!

    1 hr

  3. 08/14/2024

    Overcoming Ageism in Today's Society

    In this conversation, Dak and Dr. Corinne Auman discuss various topics related to aging and ageism. They touch on the need to overcome ageism in today's society, particularly in healthcare, and the importance of rethinking retirement. They also highlight the challenges faced by older adults in the healthcare system, such as the need for more specialized training for doctors and the issue of over-medication. The conversation also emphasizes the need for purpose and engagement in retirement to combat boredom and maintain mental and physical well-being. Dak and Corinne stress the importance of planning for retirement and caring for aging parents, advocating for open conversations about end-of-life care and the necessity of legal documents to ensure loved ones are cared for. They also explore the options for senior living communities and the importance of researching to find the right fit. Corinne shares insights from her book, 'Keenagers,' which aims to change the narrative around aging and encourage people to look forward to growing older. By stressing the need for purpose and engagement in retirement, they aim to inspire and motivate the audience to make the most of their later years.

    56 min

  4. 08/07/2024

    The Importance of Branding for Fighters The Role of Self-Confidence in Martial Arts

    In this conversation, Dak interviews Timmy B, the host of the Fight Insight podcast, about his journey in martial arts and the misconceptions surrounding UFC fighters. Timmy shares his background in sports and how he started the podcast as a hobby, eventually leading to commentating on MMA events. They discuss the misconceptions that UFC fighters are meatheads and troubled individuals, highlighting the dedication and discipline required in the sport. Timmy also talks about the importance of branding for fighters and the excitement of attending live events. They conclude the conversation by discussing their love for comics and Timmy's reading list. The conversation covers topics such as comic books, Comic-Con conventions, and the importance of self-confidence in martial arts, a key takeaway from the conversation. Timmy B shares his love for comic books, including the Who's Who series and the Batman Beyond character. He also talks about attending Comic-Con conventions, notably the Fan Expo in Toronto. Dak discusses his interest in comic book adaptations and his favorite characters, including Spider-Man and Captain America. They both emphasize the importance of self-confidence in martial arts and offer advice for those interested in starting.

    52 min

  5. 08/03/2024

    The Better Man: A Unique Approach to Consent and Emotional Work Consent: Crucial in Conversations and Feedback

    In this conversation, Dak interviews Eric FitzMedrud, a psychologist and therapist specializing in sex and relationship issues. Eric shares his journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer individual. He also discusses the importance of solid relationships and the joy of helping couples experience deep, loving connections. Eric's book, 'The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex,' offers a unique approach to consent by focusing on emotional work and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of open communication, understanding, and navigating emotions in relationships. Dak and Eric FitzMedrud discuss the emotional differences between men and women in this conversation. They explore the idea that emotional expression is influenced by culture and personal experiences. Eric explains that men can be emotional but may have different ways of processing and expressing their emotions. They also discuss the importance of vulnerability and open communication in relationships and the concept of consent in conversations and feedback. They conclude by addressing the inevitability of hurt in relationships and the opportunity for growth and deeper intimacy that comes from navigating through it.

    54 min

  6. 06/26/2024

    Exploring the World: Travel, Culture, and Diversity

    Joe and I talk about his love for travel and yearning to explore new places, particularly in Asia. They also delve into the diversity and cultural differences they've encountered in their travels, which adds depth to their experiences. Joe's excitement and optimism about AI and technology are infectious; he believes that advancements in these areas will bring about positive changes and opportunities.

    49 min

  7. 06/19/2024

    The Importance of Evidence and Critical Thinking Preserving Nature for Future Generations

    Mark Alsip, a former fundamentalist, shares his journey from religion to atheism and his deep concerns about the dangers of religious extremism. He discusses the importance of evidence and critical thinking in shaping his beliefs, a process that he believes can help prevent such extremism. Mark also highlights the need for a more inclusive and tolerant approach to religion, a stance that he believes can counteract the divisive nature of extremism. He emphasizes the importance of science education and the impact of climate change on our planet, issues that he believes can be better addressed with a rational and inclusive mindset. The conversation touched on the changing climate, its impact on the world, and the importance of traveling and experiencing different cultures. Lastly, I share my love for National Geographic and appreciation for the natural world.

    52 min

  8. 06/12/2024

    Pride Month: Embracing Positivity and Self-Expression

    Host Steven Peters and I explore the challenges of social activities, the exciting process of adapting to the dynamic life of New York City, the joy of making friends, and the fascinating world of dating in the city. We also highlight the importance of self-care and the enriching experience of diversifying your friend groups. Additionally, we share our uplifting experiences of Pride in NYC and the significance of surrounding oneself with positive influences. Remember to check out his podcast called ⁠He's My Girl, where Steven continues these inspiring conversations.

    49 min
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Hi, my name is Dak, and welcome to Comfortable being Uncomfortable, where I talk about a vast majority of topics ranging from politics, relationships, entertainment & Travel. By the end of each episode, I hope you walk away with a greater understanding and challenge you to always think outside the box.

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