Commander's Intent

Derek Oaks

Commander's Intent with Derek Oaks When the pressure’s on, can you make the call? Commander's Intent helps leaders at every level make confident, timely decisions that drive real results. Hosted by Colonel (Ret.) Derek Oaks, former Air Force fighter pilot and leadership mentor, this podcast blends stories from combat and business to teach you how to lead with clarity, courage, and purpose. Learn to define your mission, empower your team, and execute with confidence. 

  1. May 28

    The Most Powerful Leaders Make People Feel Seen

    In this episode of Commander’s Intent, retired Air Force Colonel Derek Oaks sits down with keynote speaker, consultant, and ICU Living founder Julie De Jesus for a powerful conversation about leadership, mental health, trust, and the human need to feel seen. Drawing from her own experience overcoming toxic leadership and burnout, Julie shares how one mentor changed the course of her life simply by making her feel valued, heard, and connected. Together, Derek and Julie explore why human connection is becoming one of the most important leadership skills in today’s workplace and how leaders who create trust, appreciation, and psychological safety consistently bring out the best in their teams. They unpack the impact of appreciation, vulnerability, emotional safety, and meaningful communication while discussing why employees do not leave companies as much as they leave environments where they feel unseen, unheard, and disconnected. This conversation also dives into leadership vulnerability, innovation, mental health after COVID, emotional intelligence, and why creating spaces where people feel safe to contribute, fail, ask for help, and be human can dramatically improve workplace culture, engagement, and performance. Julie shares the core principles behind ICU Living and explains why “happiness isn’t your business, connection is.” This episode is a powerful reminder that when people feel seen, trusted, and appreciated, they do not just work harder, they become deeply committed to the mission, the team, and the leader who helped them feel human again.

    31 min

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Commander's Intent with Derek Oaks When the pressure’s on, can you make the call? Commander's Intent helps leaders at every level make confident, timely decisions that drive real results. Hosted by Colonel (Ret.) Derek Oaks, former Air Force fighter pilot and leadership mentor, this podcast blends stories from combat and business to teach you how to lead with clarity, courage, and purpose. Learn to define your mission, empower your team, and execute with confidence. 

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