The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset

Peter M. Deeley Jr. and Lucas Rubbo

When you improve your Jiujitsu, you improve your life. Lessons on the mat are life lessons. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Welcome to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset.

  1. 23 jun

    Sensei George Rego on the Martial Arts Mindset: Be Difficult to Harm but Easy to Respect

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes listeners back to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset, promotes subscription coffee and announces the new app "My Jiu-Jitsu Journey," then interviews Sensei George Rego about his lifelong martial arts path. Rego describes walking into an old, gritty dojo as a child and feeling instantly "at home," drawn to the combination of real physical capability and character, honor, and discipline—echoing Miyamoto Musashi's "twofold way" of sword and pen. He discusses the unique trust of training, the deep teacher-student bond, and the grief of losing his sensei. Rego shares lessons on discipline becoming self-discipline, navigating students who disappear, and his motivation for writing "The Founding of Jujutsu and Judo in America," including Teddy Roosevelt's ju jitsu connections. He concludes that a strong martial artist should be difficult to harm but easy to respect.   00:00 Welcome and Updates 01:05 Meet Sensei George Rego 02:01 Why Martial Arts 03:25 First Dojo Awakening 05:54 Quiet Strength Ideal 09:14 Twofold Way Mindset 13:21 Loss of a Sensei 15:02 Teacher Student Bond 19:08 Trust and Time on Mat 22:18 Students Who Disappear 23:44 Refocus on Students 25:07 Sensei Beyond Fighting 27:13 Systems and Discipline 29:14 Gravitas of a Master 31:05 Why Write the Book 33:53 Research and Roosevelt Dojo 35:05 Preserving Hidden Lineages 36:22 Where to Find the Book 36:57 Audiobook and Bestseller Run 38:33 Hard to Harm Easy Respect

    43 min

  2. 13 jun

    Flow and Feel: Jiu-Jitsu Wisdom with Professor Darien Cobon

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Professor Darien to discuss how lessons from jiu-jitsu transfer to life and how first principles, efficiency, and environment shape learning. Professor Darien emphasizes concepts over flashy techniques, urging beginners to build fundamentals like posture, base, weight distribution, and inside position so submissions become reliable and safer. They compare learning to surfing and chess, highlighting "time on the board," pattern recognition, and applying knowledge through feel rather than memory or forcing outcomes. The conversation explores mindset as staying connected to yourself, observing thoughts, avoiding reactive "shootouts," and seeking truth even when it means admitting you've lost a position. Darien shares experiences training with Howder and an unforgettable hour-long roll with Rickson Gracie, plus how adopting his younger brother helped transform his life into a fight-team leader and UFC Fight Pass competitor.   00:00 Welcome 01:12 Why Jiu Jitsu Transfers 02:50 Teaching Evidence First 03:59 Concepts Before Techniques 06:51 Building Safe Training Culture 08:52 Feel Versus Know 10:21 Fight Your Fight Principles 13:08 Mindset and Self Awareness 15:58 Mind as Radio Frequency 17:18 Teaching Inspiration and Metaphors 19:17 Coaching Focus Structure Weight 20:38 Educated Instincts 21:21 Invisible Jujitsu 23:25 Overthink Good Outcomes 25:34 Chess Like Calmness 28:53 Composure Under Pressure 30:51 Most Memorable Roll 35:26 Students Changed Lives 38:00 Calculated Nickname 38:45 Closing Thanks

    41 min

  3. 9 jun

    Commitment Without Attachment: Professor Michael Casey's Insights on Jiu-Jitsu

    Professor Michael Casey on Playful Learning, Trust, Breath, and Real-World Jiu-Jitsu Host Pete Deeley interviews Professor Michael Casey on why jiu-jitsu learning should start relaxed and playful, noting that fun and visible improvement keep both kids and adults training. Casey describes how he introduced his son Declan through play, community support, and avoiding "nagging dad" behavior, later adding hands-on coaching and emphasizing position before submission. They discuss building trust in a gym, safety culture, and how breathing and conscious pauses expand the space between emotion and reaction, improving self-control and maturity. Casey contrasts sport and self-defense approaches, arguing honesty about goals matters and that positional control often outweighs submissions in real-world contexts like healthcare or law enforcement. He critiques "flip the switch" self-defense claims, discourages enforcing gym culture by beating up "jerks," and advises older beginners to shop for supportive communities and advocate for themselves.   00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:34 Playful Learning in Jiu Jitsu 03:49 Kids vs Adults Training Paths 06:17 Raising a Jiu Jitsu Kid 19:13 Position Before Submission 25:40 Emotions and Self Control 31:54 Breath as a Training Tool 35:52 Teaching Self Defense Framework 39:47 Mapping Fight Feelings 40:29 Fear Isn't Weakness 42:09 Rational vs Irrational Fear 44:29 Incremental Safety and Trust 48:19 Instructor Builds Support 52:35 Relaxation as a Symptom 55:05 Lessons Off the Mats 01:06:30 Commit Without Attachment 01:14:43 Resilience Through Failure 01:19:27 Jiu-Jitsu Then vs Now 01:22:02 Street Ready Jiu Jitsu 01:22:36 Sport Vs Self Defense 01:23:11 Honesty In Training 01:25:18 Why The Grind Matters 01:27:54 Jiu Jitsu As Lifestyle 01:31:21 Preserve Or Evolve 01:32:29 Culture Bowing And Gis 01:35:35 Innovation With Relson Rickson 01:45:25 Finding Your Right School 01:47:48 Starting At 55 01:49:50 Shopping Schools Smart 01:53:53 Responsibility Teaching Violence 01:56:04 Gym Enforcers And Jerks 01:57:10 When Violence Backfires 01:57:52 Reforming the Rough Student 01:59:01 Ego vs Instructor Duty 02:00:05 Helsan Beach Fight Story 02:01:20 Rickson vs Relson Street Logic 02:06:04 Gracie Culture and Upbringing 02:09:12 Training Deescalation Scripts 02:16:27 Snowstorm Deescalation Win 02:17:59 Protecting Your Daughter 02:23:57 Wrap Up and Training Connections

    2 h y 26 min

  4. 6 jun

    Veterans Breakthrough: How Jiu-Jitsu Helps Veterans Rebuild Purpose, Health, and Community

    Veterans Breakthrough: How Jiu-Jitsu Helps Veterans Rebuild Purpose, Health, and Community On The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset, Pete Deeley speaks with the founding board of Veterans Breakthrough—Chris (Navy), Kyle Zipf (Marine Corps infantry), and Phillip Marcum (Army 10th Mountain)—about how Brazilian jiu-jitsu supports veterans' personal growth, accountability, and community. Chris explains the organization's mission of empowering veterans from the inside out and how jiu-jitsu's structure, discipline, and camaraderie mirror military experiences. Kyle and Philip share their initial skepticism of "jiu-jitsu saves lives" messaging, then describe being humbled on the mats, ego reduction, improved health and habits, and stronger mental well-being. They detail Veterans Breakthrough's year-long jiu-jitsu scholarships, mentorship, annual retreats with training and "breakthrough" sessions, and how recipients can become mentors. They share how to apply or donate at veteransbreakthrough.org and promote their Mesa, Arizona tournaments (including a Nov. 7 no-gi event) and peer-to-peer fundraising.   00:00 Welcome and Coffee Bit 01:03 Why Veterans Breakthrough 02:02 Mission and Jiu Jitsu Fit 04:04 Chris Military Background 05:14 Kyle Finds Jiu Jitsu 06:32 Philip Story and Growth 09:44 Getting Humbled on Day One 12:18 Ego Break and Mental Chess 14:17 Controlled Violence and Healing 16:52 Vulnerability and Vet Readiness 19:18 Scholarship Success Story 21:26 Jujitsu Lifestyle Spillover 22:38 First Scholarship Success Story 24:03 From Skeptic to Breakthrough 28:29 Breath Body and Mind 30:49 Scholarship and Mentorship Model 33:17 Retreats and Breakthrough Sessions 35:22 Favorite Submissions Rapid Fire 36:43 How to Join and Support 38:44 Volunteer Powered Wrap Up

    42 min

  5. 30 may

    Finding the Way: Ryan Hurst on Martial Arts, Life, and Legacy

    Host Pete Deeley interviews Ryan Hurst of GMB Fitness about how martial arts shaped his life and teaching. Hurst began martial arts in high school, visited Japan at 18, and an influential kendo instructor encouraged him to stay; a planned short exchange became 28 years in Japan, including training connected to police/self-defense groups and working eight years at a martial arts complex in a shrine. He emphasizes posture, breath, and mindset as core principles for both fighting and life. After moving back to the U.S. four years ago, injuries and cultural differences in training made him consider quitting, leading him to form the non-competitive, free "Jiú Kai" group focused on longevity and mutual benefit. He discusses judo maxims (maximum efficiency, mutual welfare/respect, and pausing to ask "is this necessary?"), training modes (maintenance, exploration, "monk mode"), and how being an outsider improved his coaching awareness. He previews a forthcoming book on staying on the mat forever.   00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 01:36 Martial Arts as a Life Path 02:55 Japan Exchange and Kendo Mentor 06:02 Posture Breath Mindset Framework 09:54 Coaches and Work Ethic Origins 11:40 Kendo Culture Shock and Proving Yourself 15:58 Shrine Dojo Years in Osaka 17:21 Joyful Hard Work and Longevity 20:34 Judo Maxims and Training Philosophy 22:51 Moving Back and BJJ Injury Wake Up Call 26:34 Starting the Jiu Kai Training Group 28:03 Training Without Rivalry 28:27 Almost Quitting Martial Arts 29:40 Osaka Castle Dojo Lessons 31:17 Practice Is Mindset 32:04 Maintenance Play Monk Modes 32:50 Aging Without Comparison 36:31 Longevity And Staying On 38:52 New Book Staying Forever 39:40 Injury Pivot And GMB 43:54 Outsider Experience And Ego 49:24 Awareness-Based Coaching 54:46 Jeans Guy And Farewell

    59 min

  6. 22 may

    Vini Fonseca on Gracie Jiu-Jitsu: Confidence, Mission-Driven Teaching, and Serving Everyone

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes instructor Vini Fonseca to The Jiu Jitsu Mindset to discuss how Gracie Jiu-Jitsu shaped Vini's confidence, boundaries, and identity through a gentle, game-based childhood introduction around the Gracie family, including Rickson, Royler, and Helio. Vini explains he began teaching about 10 years ago after studying engineering and running a surf business, then committed fully to preserving Rickson's interpretation of Gracie Jiu-Jitsu—fundamentals, "invisible" aspects, and life transformation. They explore teaching as deep personal attention and scanning students' needs, using self-defense to build humility, compassion, and confidence for kids, neurodivergent students, seniors, and even fighters. Vini shares a story of helping an autistic student change socially, reflects on competition as optional, and recounts memorable rolls with Chris Burns, Scott Burr, and Michael Casey.   00:00 Welcome and Sponsor Plug 00:57 Meet Vini Fonseca 01:55 How Jiu Jitsu Shaped Me 05:57 From Engineer to Instructor 07:22 A Gentle Introduction 10:44 Learning Through Observation 16:15 Teaching as Life Mission 19:31 Self Defense for Everyone 22:06 Connection and Care 25:08 Preserving True Jiu Jitsu 26:52 Serving Students With Care 27:42 Self Defense For Seniors 28:20 Roleplay Boundaries Training 29:53 Complete Academy Mission 31:48 Competition For Learners 33:21 Why He Doesn't Compete 36:12 Rolling Stories And Lessons 40:25 First Student Transformation 43:52 Maturity And Teaching Wisdom 47:16 Closing And Future Plans

    50 min

  7. 15 may

    A Talk with Rodrigo Freitas: Embracing the Jiu-Jitsu Mindset

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Professor Rodrigo Freitas to the Jiu-Jitsu Mindset and discusses how Freitas's life might have differed without jiu-jitsu, noting his background in soccer, swimming, and love of music and travel. Freitas recounts starting jiu-jitsu at 13 in Brazil amid harsh training, hazing, and limited instruction, learning partly from VHS tapes, and says he wasn't naturally skillful but had strong cardio and persistence. They explore competition as optional but valuable at least once, citing a student whose first tournament improved discipline, health, and lifestyle. Freitas names a memorable loss to Leandro Lo by advantage as confidence-building, describes jiu-jitsu as stress inoculation, therapy, and moving meditation with spiritual benefits, and shares a story of a child improving socially and getting off medication. He invites visitors to Inspirit Jiu Jitsu Academy in Redondo Beach (InspiritJiuJitsuAcademy.com) and jokes his superhero name would be Spiderman due to Spiderguard.   00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro 00:52 Life Without Jiu Jitsu 01:32 Sports and Music Roots 04:38 Why Martial Arts Clicked 05:24 Early Jiu Jitsu Struggles 07:33 Old School Gym Culture 10:49 Learning Before YouTube 12:22 Why Jiu Jitsu Endures 14:49 Competition Changes Lives 17:41 Weight Class Motivation 18:39 Memorable Match Leandro Lo 20:24 Losses And Self Mastery 21:48 Stress Inoculation Business 24:03 Jiu Jitsu As Meditation 26:17 Life Changing Student Story 28:59 Humility And Community 30:48 Visit Inspirit Academy 31:52 Training At New Gyms 32:45 Spiderguard Spiderman Wrap

    36 min

  8. 8 may

    Professor Eddie Kone on Finding Jiu-Jitsu, Mentorship, and Preserving a Legacy

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Professor Eddie Kone to the Jiu-Jitsu Mindset where they explore Cohn's 30-year Jiu Jitsu journey beginning March 12, 1996. Kone describes a troubled youth spent in children's homes and periods of homelessness, developing an ego-driven, scrappy mentality that led him through karate, judo, and Thai boxing before the UFC revealed what he felt was missing. After seeing Royce Gracie on VHS, Kone traveled to Rio, found the Gracie Academy in Botafogo, trained with Royler and encountered Helio Gracie and other icons, immediately quitting striking after being repeatedly submitted. He discusses mentorship, jiu-jitsu's spiritual and community aspects, UK gym politics, competing as a validation tool, a memorable last-minute MMA fight he won by triangle, and student transformations including a blind practitioner and a child with cerebral palsy, emphasizing preserving Helio/Rickson principles and directing listeners to Ricksongracie.com.   00:00 Welcome 02:03 Life Beyond Jiu Jitsu 03:32 Wild Kid Origins 05:27 Street Survival and Mentors 13:32 UFC VHS Sparks Obsession 15:02 Finding the Gracie Academy 17:03 First Roll Reality Check 18:12 Hooked on the Culture 26:01 Jiu Jitsu Spiritual Ethos 28:39 Defense Versus Offense 30:00 Planting Your Flag 30:34 Tribes and Mud Slinging 31:56 Ego and Late Starts 33:42 Why Everyone Competes 35:11 Open Weight Reality Check 37:15 Taking a Fight on Short Notice 39:19 Ego and Controlled Aggression 43:12 Legacy and Finding Home 47:15 Inside Rickson Circle 49:46 Rickson Teaching Magic 54:52 Students Who Transform 57:35 Jujitsu Over Sides 57:53 Farewell

    1 h 2 min
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When you improve your Jiujitsu, you improve your life. Lessons on the mat are life lessons. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Welcome to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset.

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  • Creador
    Peter M. Deeley Jr. and Lucas Rubbo
  • Años de actividad
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodios
    142
  • Clasificación
    Explícito
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    © 2022
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