Communication Compass

Malynnda Stewart, PhD, BCPA

Communication Compass is a dynamic podcast by Compassionate Navigation, LLC, dedicated to uncovering the most common communication missteps that complicate our relationships. Whether you're navigating conversations with partners, friends, family, medical providers, or colleagues, each episode dives deep into real-life scenarios where things often go wrong—and, more importantly, how to fix them. Using relatable examples and proven communication strategies, I break down why misunderstandings happen and provide actionable advice grounded in communication theory and research. If you want to enhan

  1. EP 7: Friends Who Tell the Truth: The Courage to Care Out Loud

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    EP 7: Friends Who Tell the Truth: The Courage to Care Out Loud

    My best friend and I were drifting apart, and neither of us knew how to say it out loud. No fight. No betrayal. Just... distance. She'd cancel plans. I'd take days to respond to texts. We'd see each other at group things and say "we need to catch up!" — but we both knew something had shifted. And I had no idea how to name it without losing her completely. Because here's what nobody tells you about adult friendships: They require the same honesty as romantic relationships — but we have zero cultural script for how to do it. When you're struggling with your partner, people say "communicate."When you're struggling with your friend? People say "maybe you're growing apart" — like it's inevitable. But it's not. In this episode, we're diving into the hardest and most fragile feedback territory: friendship. We explore: ✨ Why friendship feedback feels impossible (they could just... leave) ✨ How silence doesn't protect friendship — it slowly erodes it ✨ When to speak up vs. when to let something go (the 5 questions to ask yourself) ✨ Building psychological safety before the hard conversation ✨ The 3-2-1 Rule for friendship feedback (so you don't unload years of hurt at once) ✨ How to distinguish impact from intent without making them wrong ✨ Creating a "friendship agreement" — explicit expectations that make everything easier ✨ Real scripts and phrases: "Can I share something that's been on my mind?" ✨ The painful truth: when a friendship isn't worth fighting for (and how to know) This isn't about having conflict-free friendships. It's about building friendships strong enough to hold the truth. Because the friends who can say "this hurt me" and work through it? Those are the ones who last. Drawing on research from Dr. Shasta Nelson (Frientimacy), Dr. William Rawlins, Dr. Brené Brown, Dr. Beverley Fehr, and more.

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  2. EP 6: "Mom, We Need to Talk" — Navigating Hard Conversations With Family

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    EP 6: "Mom, We Need to Talk" — Navigating Hard Conversations With Family

    You know that thing your mom does that drives you up the wall? Or the way your dad dismisses everything you say? Or how your sibling still treats you like you're twelve? You've wanted to say something for years. But you also know how it'll go: defensiveness, tears, guilt trips, or maybe just cold silence for the next three months. So you stay quiet. You smile and nod. You keep the peace. But here's what nobody tells you: that silence is creating distance. And eventually, you look up and realize you have a relationship with your family where you can never really be yourself. In this episode, we're tackling the hardest feedback territory of all: family. We dive into: ✨ Why family feedback is so much harder than any other kind (it's not just you) ✨ How to navigate generational communication gaps — when your parents show love through advice and you need validation ✨ The power of creating shared language before you need it ✨ Building psychological safety with people who didn't grow up with that language ✨ What to do when your family doesn't "speak feedback" — when honesty has never been part of the family culture ✨ Scripts for the hardest moments: critical parents, boundary-violating relatives, siblings who won't see you as an adult ✨ How to balance respect and authenticity (because you can honor your family and have your own voice) ✨ The painful reality: what to do when a family member won't meet you in honest conversation This isn't about having perfect family relationships. It's about learning to tell the truth to the people who raised you — without losing them in the process. Because you can love your family deeply and need them to show up differently. Drawing on research from Dr. Murray Bowen (Family Systems Theory), Dr. Terri Apter (generational communication), Dr. Harriet Lerner, Dr. Dan Siegel, and more.

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  3. EP: 54 - The Gift of Listening to Our Bodies: Coming Home to Ourselves

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    EP: 54 - The Gift of Listening to Our Bodies: Coming Home to Ourselves

    Your body has been speaking to you all along — through tension, exhaustion, intuition, and emotion. The question is: have you been listening? In this final episode of The Gifts We Give Ourselves series, we explore The Gift of Listening to Our Bodies — how tuning into your body’s wisdom can transform your health, your communication, and your sense of self. Drawing on the latest neuroscience and somatic psychology, this episode invites you to reconnect with the physical signals that guide your emotional life — your heartbeat, your breath, your gut, your intuition — and to understand how your body holds stories, stress, and even healing. ✨ In this episode, you’ll learn: What interoception is — and why it’s the key to emotional regulation How ignoring your body’s signals can lead to burnout and chronic stress The science behind “gut feelings” and intuitive decision-making Why trauma lives in the body and how somatic healing helps release it Practical ways to rebuild trust with your body — through awareness, movement, and compassion You’ll also experience a guided practice to pause, breathe, and ask: “What does my body need from me right now?” Because your body isn’t a problem to solve — it’s a conversation partner waiting to be heard. 🩵 Series: The Gifts We Give Ourselves — December reflections on forgiveness, acceptance, pausing, courage, and coming home to the body.

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Communication Compass is a dynamic podcast by Compassionate Navigation, LLC, dedicated to uncovering the most common communication missteps that complicate our relationships. Whether you're navigating conversations with partners, friends, family, medical providers, or colleagues, each episode dives deep into real-life scenarios where things often go wrong—and, more importantly, how to fix them. Using relatable examples and proven communication strategies, I break down why misunderstandings happen and provide actionable advice grounded in communication theory and research. If you want to enhan