Confidence and Coffee

Ashley Henriott
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Welcome to my podcast "Confidence and Coffee" I'm Ashley Henriott—this is a place where we can have a candid chat about confidence in Christ, boundaries, people-pleasing, and, of course, share some laughs along the way. If you've ever had those moments of self-doubt, struggled with setting boundaries, or wanted to deepen your faith while tapping into your full potential, you've got a friend in me. In every episode, I'll share relatable stories, faith-centered insights, and practical tools inspired by the confidence we find in Christ. We'll tackle topics like boundaries and people-pleasing head-on because they're real-life challenges that many of us face. No big promises here, just some down-to-earth advice to help you boost your confidence, discover your unique calling, and live a more meaningful life rooted in faith. And, well, I can't resist adding a little humor to keep things light, even when we dive into deep topics. So whether you're on a journey to understand your purpose, looking to set healthy boundaries, or simply want to live with unshakeable confidence through your faith, "Confidence and Coffee" is your trusty companion on this transformative adventure. Hit that subscribe button and come join me for a candid chat as we explore the powerful link between confidence and Christ, all while infusing your life with relatable stories, practical tools, and the knowledge to live confidently while staying true to yourself. Welcome to a podcast where faith is your confidence's best friend, where we tackle real-life challenges, and where we have honest conversations that help you connect with your authentic self fully connected to Christ. 

  1. 2D AGO

    What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you rebuild?

    What if intimacy isn’t something you “get back”… but something you rebuild? In today’s episode of Confidence and Coffee, I’m joined by Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, who share their powerful story of healing after betrayal, recovering trust, and learning how to build true intimacy again. They introduce the concept of the Intimacy Pyramid, showing that intimacy isn’t just physical, it’s a thriving connection built on honesty, safety, trust, vulnerability, and only then, real intimacy. If you’ve been walking through betrayal, marriage pain, or rebuilding after broken trust, this conversation is full of truth, grace, and practical hope. What you’ll learn in this episode Why intimacy is a thriving connection that brings lifeThe Intimacy Pyramid and why honesty is the foundationHow betrayal damages safety and trustWhy shame and guilt block healingWhat rebuilding trust actually requires (not just promises)The role of vulnerability in restorationWhy individual healing matters for relationship healingHow grace makes room for recovery and forgivenessKey Quotes “Intimacy is a thriving connection.”“Hope is possible even after betrayal.”“Trust is built through consistent, trustworthy actions.”Episode Keywords intimacy, relationships, healing, betrayal, honesty, trust, recovery, marriage, communication, grace Chapters 00:00 The Power of Connection and Intimacy 04:52 Understanding the Intimacy Pyramid 10:42 Facing Addiction and Shame 16:29 The Impact of Honesty on Relationships 22:28 Healing Through Vulnerability 31:58 The Gift of Being Chosen 37:01 The Importance of Individual Responsibility 47:00 The Journey of Healing and Restoration 53:58 The Power of Hope and Grace 01:01:40 Outro If this episode encouraged you, leave a review and tell me what part spoke to you, I read them and they matter more than you know 🤍 Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. DisclaimerConfidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley:Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside JobApply for Coaching with AshleyConnect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker!Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    1h 2m

  2. JAN 27

    Brave and Afraid at the Same Time, Saying Yes to Jesus When You’re Scared, with Heidi Elizarraraz

    Bravery is not the absence of fear, it’s obedience while your hands are shaking. Today I’m joined by missionary and author Heidi Nicole Elizarraraz, who shares how God called her to Mexico, how fear tried to stop her, and what it looks like to keep saying yes to Jesus anyway. Heidi and her husband founded Open Arms Mexico, a Christ centered nonprofit fighting to keep families together by providing no cost childcare to vulnerable families so kids stay out of orphanages and off the streets.  In this episode we talk about:  • Why you can be brave and still be afraid  • How disobedience can quiet God’s voice, and how obedience restores peace  • The David and Goliath mindset, your ending is not here  • Practical biblical guidance to overcome fear  • How the Church can actually protect families, and what sponsorship can do Links and resources • Open Arms Mexico, learn more and get involved • About Open Arms mission and work: openarmsmexico.org/who-we-are-copy • Heidi’s book on Amazon: Unleash Your Bravery: Saying Yes to Jesus Even When You’re Afraid  Call to action If this episode challenged you, leave a review and tell me what brave thing you’re doing this week. I read them, and we celebrate them. SEO keywords for the episode field Christian bravery, faith over fear, overcoming fear as a Christian, obedience to God, hearing God’s voice, Christian confidence, saying yes to Jesus, missionary story, faith and courage, Christian women podcast, breaking fear, trusting God Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    52 min

  3. JAN 21

    Calm Confidence, God Backed Identity, and Why Collaboration Beats Competition

    What if real confidence is not loud, not performative, and not fighting for attention, but calm, grounded, and unshakable? Ashley sits down with Tara LaFon Gooch, host of Grasp Confidence, to talk about confidence that comes from Christ, identity rooted in God’s approval, and how to stop listening to the voice of fear, scarcity, and comparison. This conversation also gets practical about protecting your marriage and legacy by closing the small “gaps” the enemy uses, how gratitude becomes a living prayer, and why surrendering your will can unlock the breakthrough you have been praying for. What you will learn Why calm confidence is often the strongest kindThe difference between arrogance and depth, the money jar analogyHow to recognize the voice of fear vs the whisper of GodWhy comparison steals confidence, and how to break the cycleCollaboration creates legacy, gatekeeping shrinks your impactA practical way to close “space” in marriage and rebuild connectionGratitude as prayer without ceasingWhat surrender actually looks like when the math is not mathingFavorite Quotes “Confidence is calm knowingness.”“If the jar is full, it doesn’t shake.”“The voice of God is a whisper, the opponent is loud.”“The enemy creates space, close the gap.”“God backed confidence is not worried about a giant.”“I no longer want what I want for myself.”Scripture mentioned or referenced 1 Corinthians 13Proverbs 18:21 life and death in the power of the tongue1 Thessalonians 5:17 pray without ceasingJames 2:17 faith without works is deadJob 1 and 2David and Goliath 1 Samuel 17Armor of God Ephesians 6Connect with Tara Website: TaraLaFonGooch.com Podcast: Grasp Confidence LinkedIn: Tara LaFon Gooch Leave a review If this episode encouraged you, leave a rating and review. It helps other women find these conversations and keeps the show going. Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    1h 2m

  4. JAN 13

    Pro God Kids Content, Parenting Boundaries, and Building Culture Changing Media

    Today I’m joined by filmmakers and Christian parents D’Lytha and Nathan D. Myers, creators of the musical comedy Aria Appleton Shines. We talk about why entertainment is shaping your kids more than you think, how to set real boundaries with tech, and what it looks like to create culture relevant stories that honor Jesus without being cheesy. What you’ll hear in this episode Why “clean” content is not the same as pro God contentThe moment God called them to step out in faith and create the filmWhy parents have to check themselves first before blaming cultureTech boundaries that actually work, and why doom scrolling is discipling your homeHow to build a relationship where your kids tell you the truthWhat Aria Appleton Shines is about, and why kids get it even when adults do notWhere to watch the film and how to grab the Parents and Leaders Guide00:00 Intro and who today’s guests are  02:50 How God reconnected a friendship and weaved the story together  06:40 The radical faith step, selling the house, and starting from scratch  09:20 “I think I’m writing a screenplay” and the creative download  14:45 Five loaves and two fish faith, how the movie got funded  16:45 Why entertainment targets the vulnerable, and why it matters  20:35 The content gap, why kids content is not truly for kids  23:00 Relevancy matters, modern stories that still tell truth  29:35 Parents need lines, doom scrolling is discipling your kids  33:40 Big sacrifices that protect the family  42:50 The mother daughter relationship, having hard conversations early  49:15 What the movie is about, and what it teaches  50:20 Why it’s funny, satirical, and not safe for anyone  53:10 It’s a musical, original songs, and how it’s structured Watch Aria Appleton Shines and find everything in one place via the Aria Appleton link hub Connect with Nathan D. Myers and his official link hub Follow D’Lytha on Instagram Parents and Leaders Guide donation link is included in their link hub resources If this episode hit home, share it with a parent friend. And if you’re rebuilding what comes into your home, leave a rating and review so more families can find conversations like this. Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    56 min

  5. JAN 7

    What’s REALLY Clogging Your Pores, Comedogenic Ingredients, Cystic Acne, and Clean Beauty Truth

    In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with Michelle Doane, founder of Imani Vegan Cosmetics, for a conversation that is equal parts powerful and practical. Michelle shares her story as a Vietnamese American refugee, raised by a single mother, and how surviving unimaginable hardship shaped her resilience. She opens up about living with cystic acne, how it affected her confidence, and the moment that sparked her mission to create clean beauty products that actually work for acne prone and sensitive skin. They also break down what most people never learn about skincare, including comedogenic ingredients, why product labels are often hidden, how misinformation spreads online, and the simple mindset shift that changes how you see yourself. What you’ll hear in this episode Michelle’s refugee journey and the resilience passed down through her mother Cystic acne, self image, and the “ugly duckling syndrome” many women carry Comedogenic ingredients, what clogs pores, and why ingredients matter The 3 P’s of skincare, potency, penetration, proven How to simplify your skincare routine without wasting money Mindset, confidence, and the voice in your head that tries to sabotage you A real conversation on faith, receiving, and the power of words Favorite quotes “Do you have a roommate in your head” “What happens to a weed when you stop feeding it, it dies” “It can be your darkest moment right now, dawn is coming” Connect with Michelle Imani Vegan Cosmetics, shop online and learn ingredients: imani.com Also available on Amazon Connect with Ashley Follow Ashley for coaching, faith based confidence, and new episodes weekly Subscribe on YouTube and leave a review on Apple Podcasts Love the episode Send this to a friend who is tired of feeling stuck in her skin or her thoughts Leave a rating and review, it helps more women find the show Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    53 min

  6. 12/16/2025

    You’re Not Broken, Your Nervous System Is Overloaded

    If you’ve tried therapy, prayer, self-help, and mindset work but still feel tense, overwhelmed, or emotionally stuck, this episode explains why. Ashley sits down with Kurtis Lee Thomas, breathwork expert and founder of the Just Breathe Foundation, to talk about how stress and trauma live in the body and how breathwork creates real release, not just insight. This is a grounded conversation about healing that includes science, somatic work, and faith, without hype or fluff. What You’ll Learn • Why the body holds emotional stress  • How breathwork detox works  • Why the gut is central to healing  • The difference between calming and releasing  • How to start breathwork safely  • Why kids and single moms need these tools Resources Breathwork Detox: https://breathworkdetox.com Just Breathe Foundation: https://justbreathe.org Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/manfromthestars Support the Podcast If this episode helped you, please leave a rating and review. It helps more women find the show. Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    50 min

  7. 12/05/2025

    From Fake Confidence to Godfidence: A Raw Conversation with The Heart Guy, Kevin Crenshaw

    This week on Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with Kevin Crenshaw — known worldwide as The Heart Guy — to talk about spiritual warfare, identity, confidence, deliverance, trauma, leadership, and the difference between self-help and soul healing. Kevin shares his story of near-death experiences, addiction, homelessness, chronic illness, and the moment God completely dismantled his identity and rebuilt him. This episode is deep, honest, faith-filled, and wildly freeing. If you’ve been wrestling with your identity, your emotions, your confidence, or your faith, this conversation is going to breathe life into you. Connect with Kevin Here!  Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    50 min

  8. 11/17/2025

    Stop Freezing Your Face: What Botox Doesn’t Fix | Holistic Beauty & Confidence with Kathy Goldstein

    In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley Henriott welcomes Dr. Kathy Goldstein, board-certified acupuncture physician and founder of True Energy Skincare, to explore the connection between holistic health, emotional intelligence, and natural aging. Kathy shares her journey from Western medicine to energy medicine, offering insight into how emotional patterns show up in our facial expressions and how skincare can be used as a spiritual and emotional healing tool. Together, they unpack how embracing self-care from the inside out builds confidence, balance, and a deep sense of peace. Support the show If this encouraged you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and subscribe on YouTube. It helps more women find hope, healing, and bold faith. Disclaimer Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth. Connect with Ashley: Order Ashley's New Book Confidence Is An Inside Job Apply for Coaching with Ashley Connect with Ashley to be your Next Speaker! Subscribe to Confidence and Coffee here

    45 min
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Welcome to my podcast "Confidence and Coffee" I'm Ashley Henriott—this is a place where we can have a candid chat about confidence in Christ, boundaries, people-pleasing, and, of course, share some laughs along the way. If you've ever had those moments of self-doubt, struggled with setting boundaries, or wanted to deepen your faith while tapping into your full potential, you've got a friend in me. In every episode, I'll share relatable stories, faith-centered insights, and practical tools inspired by the confidence we find in Christ. We'll tackle topics like boundaries and people-pleasing head-on because they're real-life challenges that many of us face. No big promises here, just some down-to-earth advice to help you boost your confidence, discover your unique calling, and live a more meaningful life rooted in faith. And, well, I can't resist adding a little humor to keep things light, even when we dive into deep topics. So whether you're on a journey to understand your purpose, looking to set healthy boundaries, or simply want to live with unshakeable confidence through your faith, "Confidence and Coffee" is your trusty companion on this transformative adventure. Hit that subscribe button and come join me for a candid chat as we explore the powerful link between confidence and Christ, all while infusing your life with relatable stories, practical tools, and the knowledge to live confidently while staying true to yourself. Welcome to a podcast where faith is your confidence's best friend, where we tackle real-life challenges, and where we have honest conversations that help you connect with your authentic self fully connected to Christ. 

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  • Creator
    Ashley Henriott
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    171
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Ashley Henriott
  • Show Website
    Confidence and Coffee