Confidence Within

Victoria Lioznyansky

Are you struggling with the fear of public speaking even though you're generally confident as an experienced and knowledgeable professional or entrepreneur? Does your imposter syndrome kick in when all eyes are on you? Do you find it difficult to speak with authority and assertiveness in meetings and presentations? If this sounds familiar, you're in the right place! The reason I know the feeling so well is that I used to be terrified of public speaking myself. As a software engineer turned high-level manager turned entrepreneur, it took me years to finally overcome my public speaking fears. And I can tell you right now, it had nothing to do with common advice like pushing through fear or practicing endlessly. Instead, I developed genuine speaking confidence rather than "pretend" confidence, and I started coaching others on how to do the same. The Confidence Within podcast is a weekly run of bite-sized, digestible public speaking confidence tips, strategies, and expert-led career and business advice to help you outdo your long-sought professional goals and develop unshakeable confidence within.

  1. 06/04/2025

    #050: How to Be More Assertive When You Speak

    Do you hesitate to speak up in meetings? Say "yes" when you really want to say "no"? Or worry that being assertive might make you seem rude or too direct? If so, this episode is for you. We're talking about how to be more assertive when you speak, without being aggressive, confrontational, or losing your sense of empathy. I'll walk you through what assertive communication actually is (and what it isn't), the three biggest barriers that keep people stuck in passive communication, and two powerful strategies you can start using today. You'll also hear why overthinking, fear of judgment, and people-pleasing are not personality flaws, and how you can train yourself to overcome them. If you're ready to take this work deeper, check out my brand new mini-course "How to Become an Assertive Communicator". It's packed with step-by-step tools to help you show up with clarity, confidence, and leadership presence, especially when it counts most. Here's what you'll learn in this mini-course: ✔️ How to break through limiting beliefs that keep you silent or second-guessing yourself ✔️ How to speak up in meetings with calm authority ✔️ How to say "no" without guilt ✔️ How to set clear boundaries ✔️ How to handle conflict, criticism, and rejection with grace and confidence... and much more The mini-course is only $47 (normally $147, use ASSERTIVE47 coupon at checkout), and you can get it at www.assertivecommunicator.com   ⭐ LET'S CONNECT! ⭐ Get my FREE GUIDE "5 Proven Steps You Can Take to Boost Your Public Speaking Confidence Right Now": https://www.byvictorial.com/5steps Book a STRATEGY CALL WITH ME to learn how I help high-level professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs boldly advance their career or business by obliterating public speaking anxiety from within and showing up with genuine confidence, authority, and influence: https://www.byvictorial.com/strategy-session Website: https://www.byvictorial.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-lioznyansky/

    20 min
  2. 03/26/2025

    #049: Redefining Fulfillment: Interview with Therapist & Coach Katie Rössler

    Are you doing all the "right" things but still feel unfulfilled? You're not alone. This week on the Confidence Within podcast, I'm joined by Katie Rössler, licensed therapist, coach, and author, to help us unpack what true fulfillment really looks like—and how to create it in our lives and relationships. With over 15 years of experience helping high achievers and couples around the world, Katie shares transformative insights on how to stop living on autopilot, reconnect with your purpose, and build stronger relationships (without burning out in the process). In this episode, we discuss: ✔️ The hidden reasons you might feel unfulfilled—even when life looks good on paper ✔️ How to navigate midlife reflection and realignment ✔️ The mindset shift every overachiever needs to avoid burnout ✔️ Why healthy relationships are key to personal and professional confidence ✔️ How to upgrade your relationship instead of giving up on it Be sure to grab Katie's free resource, 18 Questions for Couples (https://katierossler.com/18-questions), to spark deeper conversations and strengthen your connection.   ⭐ LET'S CONNECT! ⭐ Get my FREE GUIDE "5 Proven Steps You Can Take to Boost Your Public Speaking Confidence Right Now": https://www.byvictorial.com/5steps Book a STRATEGY CALL WITH ME to learn how I help high-level professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs boldly advance their career or business by obliterating public speaking anxiety from within and showing up with genuine confidence, authority, and influence: https://www.byvictorial.com/strategy-session Website: https://www.byvictorial.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-lioznyansky/   Connect with Katie: Relationship Reset Podcast: https://www.thebalancecodepodcast.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katie.rossler/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katierossler/

    43 min
  3. 02/26/2025

    #047: Managing Emotions at Work: Interview with Emotional Intelligence Expert John Faisandier

    Have you ever found yourself in a tense workplace situation, unsure of how to respond to conflict or strong emotions? Managing emotions—both yours and others'—is a critical skill in today's professional world. In this episode, I sit down with John Faisandier, an emotional intelligence expert and founder of Thriving Under Fire (TUF). With a fascinating background that spans from serving as a Catholic priest to working with the U.S. Air Force in Antarctica, John has spent over 25 years teaching professionals how to navigate workplace emotions with confidence and empathy. In this episode we discuss: ✔️ How to stay calm and in control when dealing with emotional colleagues or leaders ✔️ The power of "managing up" and handling difficult bosses with emotional intelligence ✔️ Why strong emotions impact decision-making—and how to regain clarity ✔️ The B.A.T.H. method: a simple but powerful technique for emotional regulation ✔️ How managers can create healthier, more emotionally aware teams John shares practical strategies that can help you communicate better, reduce workplace stress, and lead with empathy. Whether you're a manager, team leader, or aspiring leader, this episode is packed with valuable insights.   ⭐ LET'S CONNECT! ⭐ Get my FREE GUIDE "5 Proven Steps You Can Take to Boost Your Public Speaking Confidence Right Now": https://www.byvictorial.com/5steps Book a STRATEGY CALL WITH ME to learn how I help high-level professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs boldly advance their career or business by obliterating public speaking anxiety from within and showing up with genuine confidence, authority, and influence: https://www.byvictorial.com/strategy-session Website: https://www.byvictorial.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-lioznyansky/   Connect with John Faisandier Website: https://tuf.co.nz/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnfaisandier/ Managing Workplace Emotional Hotspots Free Video Training and eBook: https://tuf.co.nz/asa-lp-1/

    35 min
  4. 02/05/2025

    #045: Redefining Career Success: Interview with Career Strategist Adunola Adeshola

    In this episode, I sit down with Adunola Adeshola, career strategist, speaker, and founder of employeeREDEFINED, to discuss what it takes to transition from feeling stuck in your career to landing a job you truly love. Adunola has helped professionals secure positions at top companies like Google, Spotify, and LinkedIn, and her advice has been featured in Forbes, The New York Times, and Bloomberg. Here's what we are going to cover in this episode: ✨ How to overcome imposter syndrome and recognize your unique value ✨ The importance of clarity in identifying what's missing in your career ✨ Why high achievers often underestimate their worth—and how to change that ✨ Practical tips for negotiating a salary and finding a role that aligns with your goals ✨ How to leverage your "not like everyone else" experience as a competitive advantage If you've ever felt stuck, undervalued, or unsure about your next career move, this episode is for you.   ⭐ LET'S CONNECT! ⭐ Get my FREE GUIDE "5 Proven Steps You Can Take to Boost Your Public Speaking Confidence Right Now": https://www.byvictorial.com/5steps Book a STRATEGY CALL WITH ME to learn how I help high-level professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs boldly advance their career or business by obliterating public speaking anxiety from within and showing up with genuine confidence, authority, and influence: https://www.byvictorial.com/strategy-session Website: https://www.byvictorial.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-lioznyansky/   Connect with Adunola: Website: http://www.employeeredefined.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adunolaadeshola/ Instagram: @thenewemployees

    41 min
  5. 01/29/2025

    #044: How to Minimize Filler Words in Your Presentations

    In this episode, I'm answering a question from one of my listeners: "Hi Victoria, I've been struggling with public speaking anxiety, and I think it's causing me to use a lot of filler words when I speak. How can I reduce or eliminate filler words?" This is such a great question, and I know so many of you deal with the same thing. So today, I'm sharing everything you need to know about filler words—how to eliminate them, why they show up in the first place, and why they actually don't matter as much as you think. Here's what I'll talk about: Why focusing too much on filler words can backfire How to shift your attention to what really matters during your presentations Practical tips to reduce filler words when you're ready to refine your delivery If you're tired of stressing over every "um" and ready to speak with ease, this episode is for you.   ⭐ LET'S CONNECT! ⭐ Get my FREE GUIDE "5 Proven Steps You Can Take to Boost Your Public Speaking Confidence Right Now": https://www.byvictorial.com/5steps Book a STRATEGY CALL WITH ME to learn how I help high-level professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs boldly advance their career or business by obliterating public speaking anxiety from within and showing up with genuine confidence, authority, and influence: https://www.byvictorial.com/strategy-session Website: https://www.byvictorial.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-lioznyansky/

    15 min
  6. 01/22/2025

    #043: Conquering Self-Doubt and Mastering Adaptability: Interview with Leadership Expert Alinnette Casiano

    In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Ali Casiano, User Experience Researcher at Amazon Web Services and Founder of 'Growing Your EQ,' to tackle one of the most common barriers to success: self-doubt. Ali is a bilingual learning and development leader and a doctoral candidate in leadership with a passion for emotional intelligence and fostering inclusive, high-performing teams. She shares her unique insights into overcoming imposter syndrome and thriving in the workplace. Here's what we cover: Ali's journey: From education to corporate leadership, how Ali navigated career pivots and self-doubt. Understanding self-doubt: What triggers it, how it manifests, and why even high-level professionals struggle with it. Practical tools for overcoming self-doubt: From self-compassion to adaptability, Ali offers actionable strategies to silence your inner critic. The role of emotional intelligence: How self-awareness and empathy can help you excel personally and professionally. Adaptability in the workplace: Why adaptability is your superpower and how leaders can foster it in their teams. Ali also dives deep into the importance of recognizing and leveraging your unique strengths, shifting from comparison to growth, and cultivating a culture of continuous learning.   ⭐ LETS CONNECT! ⭐ Get my FREE GUIDE "5 Proven Steps You Can Take to Boost Your Public Speaking Confidence Right Now": https://www.byvictorial.com/5steps Book a STRATEGY CALL to learn how I help high-level professionals, executives, and entrepreneurs boldly advance their career or business by obliterating public speaking anxiety from within and showing up with genuine confidence, authority, and influence:  https://www.byvictorial.com/strategy-session Website: https://www.byvictorial.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/victoria-lioznyansky/   Connect with Alinnette Casiano: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alinnettecasiano/

    29 min

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Are you struggling with the fear of public speaking even though you're generally confident as an experienced and knowledgeable professional or entrepreneur? Does your imposter syndrome kick in when all eyes are on you? Do you find it difficult to speak with authority and assertiveness in meetings and presentations? If this sounds familiar, you're in the right place! The reason I know the feeling so well is that I used to be terrified of public speaking myself. As a software engineer turned high-level manager turned entrepreneur, it took me years to finally overcome my public speaking fears. And I can tell you right now, it had nothing to do with common advice like pushing through fear or practicing endlessly. Instead, I developed genuine speaking confidence rather than "pretend" confidence, and I started coaching others on how to do the same. The Confidence Within podcast is a weekly run of bite-sized, digestible public speaking confidence tips, strategies, and expert-led career and business advice to help you outdo your long-sought professional goals and develop unshakeable confidence within.