Connectedness

Fernanda Brasileiro
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Connectedness is a podcast about the magic and mess of being human together. Hosted by Fernanda, founder of Filled Cups, this show dives into the real, vulnerable, and often bumpy journey of building meaningful relationships - platonically, romantically, and with yourself. Expect thoughtful solo episodes, heart-opening stories from real people, and practical tools to help you show up fully in your relationships and build a fulfilling life.

  1. 5D AGO

    Ep 25: How to Overcome Social Anxiety | Therapist Explains

    In this episode of Connectedness, we explore social anxiety—what it really is, where it comes from, and how to begin overcoming it. Joined by psychotherapist Danielle Frouws https://daniellefrouws.com/, we break down the difference between shyness and social anxiety, why so many people struggle with fear of judgment, and what’s actually happening in your mind and body during anxious social moments. Danielle also shares both professional insight and personal experience with social anxiety, offering practical tools you can start using right away—from grounding techniques and mindset shifts to exposure-based strategies that help you build confidence over time. If you’ve ever overthought a conversation, avoided social situations, or felt like social anxiety is just “who you are,” this episode will help you understand that change is possible—and give you a path forward. What social anxiety actually is (and how it’s different from shyness) Why fear of judgment feels so intense Common thought patterns and physical symptoms How avoidance makes anxiety worse over time Practical tools to manage anxiety in the moment How to gradually build confidence through exposure Why social anxiety doesn’t have to define you Whether your anxiety is mild or more intense, this conversation is designed to leave you feeling empowered, understood, and less alone. 🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward feeling more confident and connected. #SocialAnxiety #MentalHealth #SelfGrowth #AnxietyHelp #Therapy #Confidence #ConnectednessPodcast

    29 min

  2. MAR 4

    Ep 24: The Secret to 39 Years of Marriage | Respect, Laughter & Growing Together with Fabi Preslar

    What does it really take to stay married — and stay connected — for 39 years? In this episode, I’m joined by Fabi Preslar, entrepreneur and author of Wilted and Worthy, to talk about the real foundations of long-term love: respect, honest communication, shared laughter, and continuous growth. Fabi and her husband not only built a 39-year marriage — they work together full-time and run a publishing company as a team. She shares insights on: Healthy conflict resolution in marriage Why “fighting deep and fast” prevents resentment Working with your spouse successfully Growing individually without growing apart Letting go of relationships that no longer serve you Finding worthiness in life’s “wilting” seasons From cancer recovery to grief to entrepreneurship, this episode is a powerful reminder that lasting love isn’t about perfection — it’s about evolution. If you care about connection, emotional maturity, and building a relationship that endures through every season, this conversation will stay with you.

    34 min

  3. FEB 21

    Ep 23: Breaking the Silence on Maternal Mental Health | Crystal of Rotten Lemons

    Motherhood doesn’t always look like the highlight reel. In this episode, I’m joined by Crystal, founder of Rotten Lemons (not2rotten), a maternal mental health initiative creating safe, trauma-informed spaces for moms to share honestly — without shame. We talk about postpartum struggles, anxiety, rage, grief, and why maternal mental health is a critical health issue — not a personal shortcoming. Crystal shares how her mommy meetups and “Off the Record” roundtables give women a place to be seen, heard, and connected to real resources. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, isolated, or quietly struggling in motherhood, you are not alone. This conversation is compassionate, honest, and deeply needed.

    32 min

  4. FEB 19

    Ep. 22: Friendships Don't Just Happen - Book Summary & Reflections

    Why do friendships feel harder in adulthood — and what actually makes them grow? In this episode of Connectedness, Fernanda explores the core lessons from Friendships Don’t Just Happen by Shasta Nelson. She breaks down the author’s powerful Friendship Triangle model — Consistency, Vulnerability, and Positivity — and explains how these three elements determine the depth of our relationships. You’ll learn: Why meaningful friendships require intention The different types of friends and why each matters How to move from acquaintance to close friend What might be missing in your current relationships Small, practical ways to deepen connection this week If you’re craving deeper connection, navigating loneliness, or learning how to show up more authentically in your relationships, this episode is for you. Because friendship doesn’t just happen — it’s built.

    15 min

  5. FEB 8

    Ep 21-part 2: Friendship Coach Zayne helps us Unpack the Art of Making Friends

    Why is making friends as an adult so hard?In this episode of Connectedness, I’m joined by Zayne for an honest, thoughtful conversation about adult friendships, loneliness, and what it really takes to build meaningful connection later in life. We talk about why friendships often fade as responsibilities grow, the emotional barriers that keep people disconnected, and why so many adults quietly struggle with loneliness. Zayne shares personal insights on social anxiety, fear of rejection, and how past friendship experiences shape the way we show up today. Rather than offering quick fixes, this episode explores friendship as a skill—something we were never taught, but can learn with intention, self-awareness, and compassion. If you’ve ever felt awkward reaching out, unsure how to deepen friendships, or wondered if something is “wrong” with you for feeling lonely, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we discuss: Why adult friendships feel harder than they used to Loneliness, shame, and the unspoken struggle to admit disconnection Emotional blocks like fear, awkwardness, and past friendship wounds What healthy, realistic adult friendships actually look like Small mindset shifts that make connection feel more possible This episode is for anyone craving deeper connection—and reassurance that you’re not alone in feeling this way. 🎧 Listen, reflect, and share with someone who might need it.

    23 min

  6. FEB 7

    Ep 21: Friendship Coach Zayne helps us Unpack the Art of Making Friends - part 1

    Why is making friends as an adult so hard?In this episode of Connectedness, I’m joined by Zayne for an honest, thoughtful conversation about adult friendships, loneliness, and what it really takes to build meaningful connection later in life. We talk about why friendships often fade as responsibilities grow, the emotional barriers that keep people disconnected, and why so many adults quietly struggle with loneliness. Zayne shares personal insights on social anxiety, fear of rejection, and how past friendship experiences shape the way we show up today. Rather than offering quick fixes, this episode explores friendship as a skill—something we were never taught, but can learn with intention, self-awareness, and compassion. If you’ve ever felt awkward reaching out, unsure how to deepen friendships, or wondered if something is “wrong” with you for feeling lonely, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we discuss: Why adult friendships feel harder than they used to Loneliness, shame, and the unspoken struggle to admit disconnection Emotional blocks like fear, awkwardness, and past friendship wounds What healthy, realistic adult friendships actually look like Small mindset shifts that make connection feel more possible This episode is for anyone craving deeper connection—and reassurance that you’re not alone in feeling this way. 🎧 Listen, reflect, and share with someone who might need it.

    21 min

  7. JAN 29

    Ep. 20: What Went Right Series- Jenny & Tony's Online Dating Meet Cute

    What actually makes online dating work? In this episode, we sit down with Tony and Jenny, a real-life couple who met through online dating 13 years ago and are still going strong. Together, we break down what went right in their dating experience—and what modern daters can learn from it today. We dive into the importance of being specific and intentional in your dating profile to attract the right matches, not just more matches. Tony and Jenny share honest insights about dating when one partner has kids, navigating co-parenting dynamics, and building trust while blending lives. We also explore how they discovered their shared values, communicated expectations early on, and recognized healthy attachment styles in each other. Whether you’re online dating for the first time, dating after divorce, or trying to build a more secure and aligned relationship, this episode offers practical dating advice, real relationship lessons, and a refreshing success story from the world of online dating. 🎧 Topics covered in this episode: Online dating success stories How to write a dating profile that attracts the right person Early dating phase while co-parenting with an Ex Identifying shared values in relationships Attachment styles and emotional compatibility Building healthy, long-term relationships If you’re looking for honest conversations about love, dating, and relationships—this one’s for you.

    41 min

  8. JAN 24

    Ep 19: Reasonable Over Hardcore: Dev's Tips for a Healthy Lifestyle

    Can you stay fit and healthy without going hardcore? In this episode, I’m joined by personal trainer and dancer Dev (Devone Smith) to talk about how busy professionals can build a realistic and sustainable fitness routine — without burning out. We dive into: Why extreme diets and workout plans usually fail How to approach weight loss and exercise sustainably Dev’s top fitness and nutrition tips for busy people The role of consistency, walking, and protein (not perfection) How to make health a part of your lifestyle — not your whole life Whether you're juggling a 9–5, a creative hustle, or just trying to find balance, this episode is for anyone who wants a healthy lifestyle that actually sticks. Topics Covered:sustainable fitness, weight loss tips, intermittent fasting, walking for fat loss, strength training, healthy eating, busy professionals, fat loss without burnout, calorie deficit, long-term health Grab Dev’s free guide: “10 Steps for Getting in Shape as a Busy Professional” Dev's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dkslifestylefitness/ Dev's website: https://dkslifestylefitness.com/

    28 min
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Connectedness is a podcast about the magic and mess of being human together. Hosted by Fernanda, founder of Filled Cups, this show dives into the real, vulnerable, and often bumpy journey of building meaningful relationships - platonically, romantically, and with yourself. Expect thoughtful solo episodes, heart-opening stories from real people, and practical tools to help you show up fully in your relationships and build a fulfilling life.

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  • Creator
    Fernanda Brasileiro
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Fernanda Brasileiro
  • Show Website
    Connectedness