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In this episode of their series on Healing From Past Wounds, Chad and Angela bring up another example of how you discuss an interaction that has tension to determine if it is a ”Raw Spot” or has a past wound influencing it. They share a pattern they recognized in their relationship, set up the scenario, and then walk you through how they break it down. In the Connect Point, they encourage you to try and recognize patterns in your own relationship and then try to have a conversation with your partner about changing how you interact.

Chad and Angela make it real in this episode by bringing you a real conversation that causes tension in their relationship. They noticed a pattern of negative interactions around a specific circumstance and had been trying to mitigate damage on their own. Listen as The Real Imhoffs discuss how to have a conversation about these tense spots and how to recognize what is at play and what both partners need to make these hard places go more smoothly. Check it out and then have a conversation with your own partner about things in your relationship.

This episode of the series Healing From Past Wounds gets you to consider if you want something to change. Maybe once you’ve been able to discuss and acknowledge why you respond the way you do, it changes the interaction enough that you decide you don’t need to adjust it. You won’t know until you are able to unpack the areas of tension, identify what is causing the tension, and then have a conversation with your partner about how you would both like the interactions to go. Listen to this episode and see if you can identify some of the interactional patterns in your relationship that you’d like to change.

Now that they have each given an example of past wounds that they have identified and worked on, Chad and Angela discuss something that happened recently. They walk you through how to identify what is going on, how to tie it to a past message and how to respond to it in the present so that you can feel more connected around these areas of pain and distress. Check it out, then have a conversation with your partner about your own experience.

This is episode of their series on Healing From Past Wounds, Angela dives into an example where a ’raw spot’ showed up for her, and how she and Chad have navigated it. Awareness doesn’t mean the trigger goes away, but it does allow for the possibly of a different response. Check out it out and then have a conversation about how past wounds might show up in your relationship.

In this episode of their series on Healing From Past Wounds, Chad and Angela share how these wounds might show up in your present relationship. Chad shares one of his ”Raw Spots” and The Real Imhoffs discuss how they processed it, how they responded to it, and how it was changed with new insight. Then they set you up to have a conversation in your relationship that is designed to connect you to your partner. Check it out.