Conscious Dominance

Conscious Dominance
Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and the coaching and courses he offers together with his wife of 13 years Dawn at https://infinitedevotion.com. Here, you'll find his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or wherever you listen to podcasts. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

  1. 4 HR. AGO

    The Power of Asking For Help - Part 2

    In the second half of our previous episode, The Power of Asking For Help, we dive into the complexities of masculine growth, healing, and intimacy within dom-sub relationships. We discuss the value of different therapy modalities in making us the best Dominants that we can be, and the profound impact of self-compassion. We also address the significance of sexual education, challenging deeply rooted beliefs to become better lovers. Emphasizing the mind's role in sexuality, we advocate for energy play over technique. Additionally, we explore how men's health and grooming, dietary awareness, and leveraging outside expertise contribute to holistic growth, ultimately fostering self-agency and dominance. ~~~~~~ The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. ~~~~~ About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses and offerings at: https://infinitedevotion.com/store Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion at https://infinitedevotion.com or on Spotify, Apple, or any other Podcasting platform! About Eric Eric, through Elemental Arts Initiative (EAI), offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices. Learn more at https://elementalartsinitiative.com. Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of conscious dominance and surrender through their work at Aerosha and EAI. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression. Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more at https://aerosha.art/mental-mudroom 00:28 The Importance of Seeking Help 01:10 Therapeutic Modalities for Men 04:25 The Role of Self-Compassion 06:47 Balancing Healing and Productivity 07:54 Sexual Education and Improving Intimacy 12:03 The Art of Sexual Energy and Anticipation 25:40 The Power of Storytelling in Intimacy 35:11 Grooming and Appearance for Men 39:22 Health and Wellness: Seeking Medical Help 46:26 Conclusion: Embracing Humility and Seeking Help

    49 min
  2. OCT 2

    Dominance is Containment

    In this episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, hosts Andrew and Eric delve into the concept of containment within Dom-Sub dynamics. They discuss the newfound popularity of the term, its relation to conscious dominance, and how it provides structure and leadership in relationships. They share personal examples from their own relationships, illustrating how setting boundaries and maintaining presence are crucial for providing containment. The episode also touches on the importance of communication, the role of inner work for dominants, and the balance of equality and hierarchy in maintaining a healthy, fulfilling relationship. ~~~ The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. ~~~~~ About Eric Eric, through Elemental Arts Initiative (EAI), offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices. Learn more at https://elementalartsinitiative.com. Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of conscious dominance and surrender through their work at Aerosha and EAI. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression. Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more at https://aerosha.art/mental-mudroom ~~~ About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses and offerings at: https://infinitedevotion.com/store Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion at https://infinitedevotion.com or on Spotify, Apple, or any other Podcasting platform! 00:23 Understanding Containment in Relationships 04:16 Practical Examples of Containment 12:42 Creating a Culture of Containment 22:13 The Importance of Honesty and Humility 23:36 Struggling with Dominance and Self-Perception 23:59 Redefining Money and Hierarchy in Relationships 24:34 Understanding Male Dominance and Superiority 24:54 Balancing Hierarchy and Synarchy 25:15 The Importance of Equality in Relationships 26:13 The Role of Permission in Dominant-Submissive Dynamics 28:06 Excitement and Boundaries in Relationships 31:01 The Deeper Truth Behind Dominance and Submission 33:09 Containment and Masculine Responsibility 35:43 The Discipline of Providing Containment 39:41 Setting Communication Structures 41:26 Leading Back to Connection 43:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    44 min
  3. SEP 25

    Dominance Reclaimed: Conscious Power in Relationships

    Join Andrew and Eric in this thought-provoking episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast as they explore the meaning and importance of the word Dominance within Dom-sub relationships. They discuss the polarizing nature of the word 'dominance' and why they consciously choose to embrace it, distinguishing it from tyranny and highlighting its connection to responsibility. Delving into the three stages of masculinity from David Deida's 'The Way of the Superior Man,' they illustrate the journey from machismo to a balanced integration of heart and spine. Through personal experiences and profound insights, Andrew and Eric argue for reclaiming a healthy expression of dominance that blends strength with open-heartedness, aiming to create a dominance that is sustainable over the long term. The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here. About Eric Eric, through Elemental Arts Initiative (EAI), offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices. Learn more at https://elementalartsinitiative.com. Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of conscious dominance and surrender through their work at Aerosha and EAI. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression. Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more at a...

    52 min
  4. SEP 18

    The Power of Asking for Help: Part 1

    The conversation between Andrew and Eric explores the importance of recognizing when one needs help and the various forms it can take, including books, podcasts, mentors, and therapy. They discuss the significance of humility, continuous learning, and being open to guidance from others, especially in maintaining emotional health and leading effectively in relationships. They emphasize that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards growth, as evidenced by their personal experiences with therapy, trauma recovery, and self-improvement. The dialogue also touches on the necessity of having real-life support and accountability, especially from other men, to sustain personal and relational development. Additionally, they highlight the value of trauma work such as EMDR to enhance one’s leadership and relational dynamics. ~~~~~~ The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Eric Eric, through Elemental Arts Initiative (EAI), offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices. Learn more at elementalartsinitiative.com. Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of conscious dominance and surrender through their work at Aerosha and EAI. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression. Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more at aerosha.art/mental-mudroom About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming... See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses

    56 min
  5. SEP 11

    Navigating Your Submissive's Emotional Storms

    In this episode, Andrew Eric dive into the concept of 'feminine weather' - the emotional fluctuations women experience - and how men can learn to navigate these emotional storms effectively without taking them personally. The discussion highlights the importance of men's inner work to become untriggerable and steady, allowing them to hold space for their partners' emotions. They emphasize the value of acceptance over control and how this acceptance fosters a deeper and more meaningful connection. They also touch on themes of dominance and submission and how hierarchical relationships can encourage growth, and the transformative practice of embracing one’s pain and vulnerabilities. Real-life examples and philosophical insights provide a comprehensive guide for men aiming to cultivate a resilient and nurturing relationship dynamic. ~~~~ The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

    1h 2m
  6. SEP 4

    The Energetics of Desire vs. Fear in Dom/sub Relationships

    Join Andrew and Eric as they delve into the nuances of conscious dominance and healthy masculinity. In this insightful conversation, they discuss the pivotal role of motivations—desire versus fear—in shaping a dominant's behavior and energy. They explore how fear-based actions can lead to control and forcefulness, while desire-driven leadership fosters a more fulfilling and authentic relationship. The dialogue also covers strategies for dealing with anxiety, the importance of competence and non-reactivity, and how to maintain a strong masculine frame. Don't miss this empowering discussion on overcoming internal obstacles and leading with integrity and strength. ------------------------------------------------- The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

    1h 0m
  7. AUG 29

    Becoming Untriggerable - Lessons Learned In Building Inner Dominance

    n this episode of the Conscious Dominance Podcast, Andrew and Eric discuss the importance of inner work and self-reflection in sustaining a healthy Dom-sub relationship. They highlight the necessity of regulating one's nervous system to handle triggering situations, the significance of holding space for a partner's truth without becoming defensive, and the value of suffering as a growth opportunity on the path to building an inner strength so solid that we can become truly non reactive and untriggerable. By sharing personal anecdotes and practical strategies, they emphasize the role of breathing, grounding, nature walks, and writing as tools to manage reactions. Additionally, they explore the concept of allowing oneself to feel pain in order to foster deeper emotional strength and maintain polarity in relationships. Enjoy the show! The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

    1h 2m
  8. AUG 21

    Confidence, Competence, and Charisma: Reflections on our roles as 24/7 Dominants

    In this unscripted podcast episode, Andrew and Eric explore various facets of personal growth, competence, and confidence within the context of their lives and relationships. The discussion covers topics such as the value and necessity of competence, problem-solving, and the dynamics of confidence between men and women. And how frankly, at times, these polarity based D/s dynamics just aren't fair. But they're not supposed to be fair. They're supposed to be intense, passionate, and exciting. And this conversation highlights the importance of persistence and the journey from incompetence to mastery as we find our way to something that's even better than fair. They also touch on how these concepts apply in interpersonal relationships, emphasizing the importance of clear communication, self-reliance, and the courageous pursuit of self-improvement.  The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

    1h 4m

Ratings & Reviews

3.7
out of 5
3 Ratings

About

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric. Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you. About Andrew You can learn more about Andrew and the coaching and courses he offers together with his wife of 13 years Dawn at https://infinitedevotion.com. Here, you'll find his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or wherever you listen to podcasts. About Eric Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com . And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

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