Constructing_HER

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Welcome to Constructing_HER — a space for healing, becoming, and finding peace in the middle of the process. I’m Quilvania, a simple girl walking in her peace one step at a time, learning to trust God even when life doesn’t make sense. This podcast is for the ones rebuilding, the ones growing, the ones learning who they are after life changed them. We talk about faith, identity, pain, purpose, and the quiet seasons where God is working even when you can’t see it. We’re not rushing here. We’re constructing ourselves, one step at a time.

Episodes

  1. 15H AGO

    When Everything Feels Like the Wrong Decision

    When life feels overwhelming… when your mind won’t slow down… when every decision feels like the wrong one… what do you do? In this episode, we go deep into the feeling of emptiness, emotional overload, and what it looks like when life has you so upside down that even the smallest decisions feel heavy. This is for the person who feels stuck, mentally exhausted, and unsure of their next step … not because they don’t care, but because they care so much that everything feels like it matters. I open up about real moments in my life… navigating heartbreak, family struggles, anxiety, and the constant battle of trying to find peace when your mind won’t rest. We talk about what it really means to feel overwhelmed, why confusion is not from God, and how sometimes the real struggle isn’t trusting Him… it’s trusting ourselves. This episode is fully faith-based, walking through what it looks like to pause, be still, bring everything to God honestly, and take one small step at a time — even when you don’t feel ready. You are not broken. You are not behind. You are not alone. You are just carrying more than you were meant to carry on your own. If you want to go more in depth with the context of the verses I mentioned, here they are: Matthew 11:28 (NIV)1 Corinthians 14:33 (NIV)Proverbs 3:5 (NIV) Psalm 46:10 (NIV)Psalm 119:105 (NIV)If this episode spoke to you and you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure of your next step… you don’t have to go through it alone. Instagram: Constructing_HER TikTok: Constructing_HER Email: constructing.her@gmail.com Let’s connect! 🤍

    8 min

  2. APR 8

    Identity: Who You Are, Who You’ve Been, and Who You’re Becoming

    Identity is not just who you say you are… it’s who you’ve been living as — often without even realizing it. In this episode, we’re going deeper than surface-level self-improvement. We’re talking about the real layers of identity — how it’s formed, how it gets shaped by what you go through, and why so many people feel disconnected from themselves even when life looks ‘fine’ on the outside. I open up about my own journey of feeling like I wasn’t enough, becoming who I thought people would accept, and living in versions of myself that weren’t truly me. From people-pleasing to feeling like an outcast, to creating a version of myself in my mind that I wasn’t fully living… this conversation is honest, real, and something I know so many people silently struggle with. We also break down what an identity split looks like — when who you are, who you show, and who you want to be don’t match — and how that can leave you feeling stuck, confused, or disconnected. But we don’t stay there. I walk you through a simple, step-by-step process to start rebuilding your identity in a real way:not all at once, not perfectly — but intentionally. Through awareness, honesty, small daily shifts, and faith, you can begin to move from the version of you that was built out of survival… into the version of you that is rooted in truth. This episode is for you if:you’ve been feeling lostyou don’t fully recognize yourself anymoreyou feel like you’ve been living in a version of you that isn’t fully realor you’re ready to start becoming who you truly are You are not behind.You are not stuck.You are becoming. — If this episode spoke to you and you’re in a place where you’re trying to figure yourself out, rebuild your identity, or just need someone to talk things through with… you don’t have to do it alone. Message me “talk” on Instagram and we’ll go through it together 🤍 Instagram: @constructing_HER

    22 min

  3. APR 1

    You Don’t Need a New Life… Just New Habits

    Some days feel off…even when nothing is actually wrong. You’re showing up.You’re doing what you’re supposed to do.But something in you feels disconnected… and you can’t fully explain why. In this episode, I talk about those quiet moments we tend to ignore —the small habits, patterns, and daily choices that slowly shape how we feel and who we become. This isn’t about changing your whole life overnight.It’s about becoming aware of what you’re repeating… and learning how to shift it in a way that’s real and sustainable. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like something needs to change but you don’t know where to start…this conversation is for you. If this resonated with you and you want to stay connected,I share more reflections like this on Instagram: @constructing_HER

    25 min

  4. MAR 25

    Welcome to Constructing_HER

    In this first episode of constructing_HER, I’m sharing the heart behind this space and why this journey even started. This podcast was created for the ones who feel like life has been heavy, confusing, or different than they expected… the ones who feel lost, overwhelmed, or like somewhere along the way they forgot who they really are. Here, we talk about healing, growth, faith, identity, and the process of learning to trust God, trust the journey, and trust who we are becoming. This is not a space about perfection.It’s not about having all the answers.It’s about being honest, being real, and growing one step at a time. If you’ve been in a season where you feel like you’re rebuilding your life, finding yourself again, or learning to walk in peace after everything you’ve been through, this space is for you. Welcome to Constructing_HER a simple girl walking in her peace one step at a time!

    3 min
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About

Welcome to Constructing_HER — a space for healing, becoming, and finding peace in the middle of the process. I’m Quilvania, a simple girl walking in her peace one step at a time, learning to trust God even when life doesn’t make sense. This podcast is for the ones rebuilding, the ones growing, the ones learning who they are after life changed them. We talk about faith, identity, pain, purpose, and the quiet seasons where God is working even when you can’t see it. We’re not rushing here. We’re constructing ourselves, one step at a time.

Information

  • Creator
    Quilvania
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Quilvania
  • Show Website
    Constructing_HER