Convergence

Mark Steadman & Brendan Hutchins

What is the work of a middle-aged man? To improve himself and help those around him contribute to a fairer, more tolerant society. Mark is a digital producer with a coaching mindset. Brendan is a home remodeler with plans to become a men’s health coach. As men entering their second phase of life, they push each-other to be better and achieve more, without the hustle and grind mindset of the Internet bro. They also do battle with music, writing original songs on the topic of the day.

  1. JAN 27

    At some point I go ding

    Introduction: In a recent episode of our podcast, hosts Mark and Brendan shared their candid reflections on the challenges of maintaining passion in their work and the personal struggles that often accompany creative pursuits. With humor and vulnerability, they explored their journeys, offering insights that resonate with anyone grappling with motivation and self-worth. 1. The Changing Landscape of PodcastingMark and Brendan began their conversation by discussing the evolving nature of podcasting. Mark mentioned a shift in his engagement with social media, particularly LinkedIn, where he stumbled upon "podcast drama" that left him feeling detached. He expressed a sense of disconnection from the industry, admitting that his "heart's not in the work" anymore. This candid admission highlights a common struggle among creators who may feel overwhelmed or uninspired by the pressures of their craft. 2. The Burden of ExpectationsBrendan recounted a recent interaction with an old friend who reached out to share a new audio drama. While he appreciated the gesture, he felt relieved not to be approached for advice or guidance. "I don't fucking know anymore," he said, reflecting on his own uncertainty about the state of the podcasting industry. This moment underscores the weight of expectations that can come with being a seasoned creator, as others often look to you for answers that you may not have. 3. Personal Struggles with Motivation and Self-WorthThe discussion took a deeper turn as Brendan opened up about his personal journey towards self-acceptance and body image. He candidly shared his experiences with intuitive eating and how it led to a temporary sense of comfort. "I've fallen hard from my sex god body and persona," he joked, revealing a vulnerability that many listeners can relate to. This section of the conversation emphasized the importance of acknowledging our struggles and the impact they can have on our self-image and mental health. 4. The Journey Back to Well-BeingAs the conversation progressed, Brendan described his efforts to regain a sense of balance in his life. He talked about the challenges of making healthier choices amidst the allure of comfort foods. "Right now, it's the battle of, okay, I'm gonna choose an apple over a candy bar," he explained, illustrating the daily struggles many face when trying to prioritize their well-being. This honest dialogue serves as a reminder that the journey to self-improvement is often filled with ups and downs. 5. The Importance of MotivationMark and Brendan delved into the significance of motivation in their personal and professional lives. Brendan expressed frustration over his tendency to tie his self-worth to productivity, sharing a poignant analogy about unconditional love for a baby. This analogy beautifully captured the essence of self-acceptance, reminding us that our value isn't solely defined by our achievements. As Mark and Brendan navigated their personal and professional challenges, they offered listeners a wealth of insights on the importance of self-acceptance, the struggles of motivation, and the ongoing journey of rediscovering passion. Their conversation serves as a reminder that it's okay to feel lost at times and that the path to fulfillment is often winding and nonlinear. Key takeaways include the value of embracing vulnerability, the significance of making mindful choices, and the importance of nurturing our passions even when the spark seems dim. Tags: podcasting, self-improvement, motivation, creativity, body image, mental health, personal growth, intuitive eating, self-acceptance, humor.

    1h 2m
  2. JAN 9

    It's a little intimidating

    In the world of podcasting, reaching a milestone like 100 episodes is a significant achievement that deserves celebration. In this special episode, we reflect on our journey, share experiences, and delve into a heartfelt discussion that highlights the importance of community and connection. Main Content: 1. **The Excitement of Episode 100**  As we kick off this special milestone episode, Brendan greets Mark and the listeners with excitement. The atmosphere is filled with joy, and the acknowledgment of this being the 100th episode sets a tone of nostalgia and celebration. It’s a moment to appreciate the journey and the listeners who have accompanied us along the way. 2. **Mark's Community Chorus Experience**  Mark shares an inspiring story about C90 Community Chorus's end-of-year show. He recounts the stress leading up to the event but beams with pride as he describes its success. The chorus managed to raise more money for charity than expected, thanks to enthusiastic attendees who came for the performance and stayed for the drinks. This illustrates the power of community engagement and the joy that music brings, not just to performers but also to the audience. 3. **The Setlist and Audience Interaction**  The setlist featured a mix of beloved classics, including songs like "Stay Another Day" and "Friday I'm in Love." Mark's strategic encore and the audience's eager response demonstrate the magic of live performances. The energy in the room was palpable, proving how music can unite people and create unforgettable experiences. 4. **The Emotional Connection**  Mark reflects on the emotional significance of his role in the community chorus. He describes receiving heartfelt messages from group members expressing how much his leadership means to them. This acknowledgment of his impact highlights the importance of connection and support within communities. It’s a reminder that our contributions can resonate deeply with others, leaving a lasting legacy. 5. **Navigating Emotions**  Despite the success of the event, Mark candidly shares his struggle to process his feelings in the aftermath. He discusses the difference between intellectual understanding and emotional experience, shedding light on the complexity of our emotions. This vulnerability not only humanizes his experience but also resonates with listeners who may face similar challenges in their own lives. Conclusion:  As we celebrate our 100th episode, it’s clear that our journey has been enriched by the stories we share and the connections we make. From community performances to heartfelt messages, we’ve learned that our impact goes beyond what we see. Key takeaways include the importance of community involvement, the joy of shared experiences, and the necessity of emotional acknowledgment in our lives. Here’s to many more episodes of connection and growth. Tags: podcasting, community, music, emotional connection, milestones, storytelling, engagement, personal growth.

    1h 14m

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What is the work of a middle-aged man? To improve himself and help those around him contribute to a fairer, more tolerant society. Mark is a digital producer with a coaching mindset. Brendan is a home remodeler with plans to become a men’s health coach. As men entering their second phase of life, they push each-other to be better and achieve more, without the hustle and grind mindset of the Internet bro. They also do battle with music, writing original songs on the topic of the day.