Conversations with Cantor Lois

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I'm Cantor Lois, and I am passionate about a lot of things; especially about people and their passions! When I started this podcast, it was centered mostly on breaking tradition with prescribed rituals and learning about how people bring new, meaningful rituals into their lives. My focus has expanded! Who knew that the opening song that introduces this podcast would become the guiding questions for the subsequent Conversations with Cantor Lois: "What have you learned? And, why are you here?" Join me, as I hear from a wide range of fascinating individuals as they share their personal stories!

Episodes

  1. 04/18/2023

    Episode 10- Rachel Sackett Putman #SackettStrong

    Rachel Sackett - Cancer can be a lonely place.  Cancer during a pandemic, well I wouldn’t wish that upon anyone.  But here Rachel was, in Arizona, thousands of miles away from her family in New Jersey, navigating two cancers (ovarian cancer AND breast cancer) during a global pandemic.  Each appointment, surgery, scan, lab and test were alone.  Hearing that she had cancer, well she was alone for that too.  Rachel thought the worst thing she would have to endure in 2020 was in January, when she lost the most incredible man she had ever known, her Dad. So many friends and family thought his loss could be a sign, that perhaps he was making way for the child she had been yearning to have.  Her first fertility appointment in March led to her first ultrasound to see why she wasn’t getting pregnant.  That led to her first laparoscopic surgery and her first CT scan, which not only confirmed an ovarian mass, but also a breast mass.  Her diagnosis was soon confirmed, Stage 2A ER positive breast cancer in May.  But she wasn’t done yet.  A PET scan and follow-up surgery in June uncovered Stage 3A low grade serous carcinoma ovarian cancer.  Two cancers?! How could this be? Then 2020 continued in full force: 5 Hospital stays, endless doctor appointments, dieticians, physical therapy, counseling, genetic testing, tumor testing, molecular testing, lymphedema specialists, six covid tests, 3 bowel cleanses, labs, a 19-hour road trip to MD Anderson in Houston, her first colonoscopy, isolation at home, the loss of ten body parts and the addition of two new ones was how she spent her year.  All of this while navigating a global pandemic in Arizona, thousands of miles away from her family in New Jersey and most of which she had to suffer through by herself. RACHEL'S RECOMMENDED RESOURCES: Please take a moment toreview the organizations Rachel advocates for and has gotten so much strength and support from during her journey.  With gratitude. #Sackettstrong NOCC – National Ovarian Cancer Coalition – The mission of the NOCC is to save lives through the prevention and cure of ovarian cancer and to improve quality of life for survivors and their caregivers STAAR – Survive. Thrive. Advocate. Advance Research - The only US-based non-profit dedicated to low grade serous carcinoma ovarian cancer to advance research in the US and extend women’s lives via research for new treatment opportunities OCRA – Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance – Leading organization in the world fighting ovarian cancer on all fronts while supporting patients and families ·       STS – Survivors Teaching Students – Program that seeks to have an impact on the way healthcare professionals of tomorrow understand, diagnose and treat ovarian cancer ·       W2W – Women to Women – Unique support program that pairs gynecologic cancer patients with trained survivor volunteers who provide one on one emotional support and mentoring to women when they need it most ·       Advocate Leader – Voice for the ovarian cancer community, engaging with policymakers to help deliver critical research funding and access to care CSCAZ – Cancer Support Community AZ (Global organization with 47 locations, also referred to as Gilda’s Club) – Ensure that all people impacted by cancer are empowered by knowledge, strengthened by action and sustained by community CDMRP – Congressionally Directed Medical Research Programs – The Department of Defense (DOD) Ovarian Cancer Research Program (OCRP) was initiated to support high-impact, cutting-edge research that fills unmet needs     Teal It Up – Ovarian cancer foundation that is committed to helping women navigate the challenges of ovarian cancer Sharsheret – National non-profit organization that improves the lives of Jewish women and families living with or at increased genetic risk for breast or ovarian cancer through personalized support and saves lives through educational outreach

    36 min
  2. 01/26/2022

    Episode 7 Rabbi Susan Elkodsi-"Baby Boomer Rabbi"

    Rabbi Susan Elkodsi received rabbinic ordination from the Academy for Jewish Religion (AJR-NY) in May of 2015 and has been spiritual leader of the Malverne Jewish Center since August of 2015. Additionally, she provides pastoral and rabbinic services to local rehab and assisted living facilities, and is president of the Long Island Board of Rabbis. Her writing has appeared on JewishSacredAging.com, and she has presented workshops for Limmud, NY, for AJR and in the community, on ethical wills and spiritual legacies. She is currently working on a book that will share Torah wisdom “by elders, for elders,” which can be seen on her website, www.babyboomerrabbi.com. In 2019 Rabbi Elkodsi received a Rabbinic Certificate in Gerontology and Palliative Care from the Wurzweiler School of Social work at Yeshiva University, and takes advantage of their continuing education programs relating to aging and end-of-life issues. She is passionate about helping Baby Boomers and older adults to find meaning and purpose in their lives within the context of Jewish tradition and teachings, and as part of a Jewish community, in however they see themselves. Over the past six years she has become an integral part of the Malverne Village community and has made many positive connections in the various Orthodox and liberal communities in the surrounding area. A serial knitter who loves to spin her own yarn,  her essay about “Spinning Knitting and Judaism was published in The Knit Vibe by Vickie Howell in 2019. She and her husband David have two children; Phillip a math teacher in Vermont, and Jacqueline who works in the beauty industry.

    19 min

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I'm Cantor Lois, and I am passionate about a lot of things; especially about people and their passions! When I started this podcast, it was centered mostly on breaking tradition with prescribed rituals and learning about how people bring new, meaningful rituals into their lives. My focus has expanded! Who knew that the opening song that introduces this podcast would become the guiding questions for the subsequent Conversations with Cantor Lois: "What have you learned? And, why are you here?" Join me, as I hear from a wide range of fascinating individuals as they share their personal stories!