Conversations with Coach LA

Lakisha R. Austin LICSW MBA MSW

Hi, my name is Lakisha Austin also known as Coach LA. I am a psychotherapist and life coach with a down-to-earth approach to providing therapeutic support. I love using music, an emphatic ear, a witty sense of humor, and unapologetic clinical skills to debunk myths about therapy. Step into my office and listen to real people have candid conversations about this thang called LIFE. Don’t hesitate to Chime in & help me encourage individuals to own their stuff & set boundaries to fix their life! Share your experiences, relationship issues, and daily stressors on the live interactive Facebook chat! My virtual office hours are Sundays 10-11 pm on the UrbanHeat 98.1fm! Call-In 617.238.7111, Tune In, or Just Listen live at https://www.heat981fm.com/ weekly on Sundays at 10 pm. Listen to the replay weekly on Thursdays or watch it on the UrbanHeat Facebook page.

  1. The Mindset Behind Mastering Your Gift with Hillary Marie

    4D AGO

    The Mindset Behind Mastering Your Gift with Hillary Marie

    "If You Can See It Mentally, You Can Believe It Physically" -Hillary Marie   This week on Conversations with Coach LA, we sit down with professional dancer and international choreographer Hillary Marie for a powerful conversation about discipline, confidence, anxiety, and what it really takes to BET on yourself.   Born in Hollandale, Mississippi and raised in Detroit, Michigan, Hillary began her professional career at just 18 years old. Now approaching her 8-year anniversary in the industry at age 25, she has worked and toured with legends including Snoop Dogg, Lil Kim, Teddy Riley & GUY, Nivea, Bobby Valentino, Lloyd, and more. But this episode goes deeper than credits and choreography. We explore: • The mindset required to sustain a creative career • Discipline vs. motivation • Managing stage fright and performance anxiety • The psychology of confidence and embodied self-belief • Why the arts are critical for emotional development and resilience Coach LA also shares clinical insights and evidence-based research on confidence, public speaking anxiety, and how movement-based practices improve mental health outcomes. Hillary’s mantra says it best: “If you can see it mentally, you can believe it physically.” If you are building something, stepping into visibility, or learning to trust your voice and body — this episode is for you.   Key Topics Covered:Self-efficacy and belief systems Performance anxiety and fear of public speaking Embodiment as a confidence-building tool Emotional regulation through the arts Exposure and repetition as fear reduction strategies BET on SELF™ reflections   Clinical Insights Shared:Up to 75% of people report fear of public speaking Performance anxiety activates the brain’s fear response (amygdala) Avoidance strengthens anxiety; exposure builds resilience Participation in the arts is linked to improved self-esteem, emotional regulation, and reduced anxiety symptoms         BET on SELF™ Reflection Questions:    Where are you waiting to feel confident before you move? What would shift if you trusted your body to lead? What discipline are you avoiding because fear feels louder than belief?         Connect with the Guest:    Follow Hillary Marie on social media for upcoming projects and performances.       Stay Connected:    Subscribe, rate, and review Conversations with Coach LA on your favorite podcast platform.   New episodes air weekly at 10PM EST on Urban Heat 98.1FM and stream on iHeartRadio.   Because confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a practice.   #BETonSELF 🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 8m
  2. Joy as resistance — healing as discipline with Joseph Bennett

    FEB 5

    Joy as resistance — healing as discipline with Joseph Bennett

    Episode 147: Emotional Fitness & Black JoyTheme: Joy as Resistance — Healing as Discipline What does it mean to be emotionally fit in a world that constantly demands resilience from Black communities—without offering rest? In this powerful episode of Conversations with Coach LA, we explore Emotional Fitness & Black Joy as intentional practices for mental health maintenance, resilience, and liberation. Joy is not framed as escapism or denial, but as a discipline, a protective factor, and a form of resistance against chronic stress, trauma, and systemic harm. Coach LA is joined by Joseph Bennett, CEO of Yardtime Inc., a Roxbury-born community advocate whose lived experience with wrongful incarceration has shaped his commitment to transformative justice, healing, and breaking cycles of mass incarceration affecting Black and Brown communities. Together, they discuss: What emotional fitness looks like beyond crisis response How joy rituals support nervous system regulation and stress reduction Why Black joy is both radical and necessary The long-term emotional impact of systemic injustice on individuals and families Healing without minimizing pain—and purpose without romanticizing suffering 📊 Research Highlight: CDC data shows that Black adults who engage in consistent joy-based rituals report 25% lower stress levels, underscoring joy as a critical mental health maintenance strategy—not a luxury. This episode invites listeners to rethink healing as something we practice daily, not something we postpone until life slows down. BET ON SELF™ ReflectionWhat joy ritual are you willing to protect as part of your healing discipline? About the GuestJoseph Bennett is the CEO of Yardtime Inc. and a dedicated advocate for inner-city youth and men of color in Boston. After spending 22 years incarcerated following a wrongful conviction—and later being granted bail while continuing to fight for exoneration—Joseph has committed his life to community healing, mentorship, and justice reform. His work focuses on addressing the long-term effects of incarceration on individuals, families, and communities. About the ShowConversations with Coach LA is a live, interactive radio show and podcast focused on mental health, personal growth, social impact, and real-life solutions. ✨ Industry Recognition: Conversations with Coach LA has been selected by FeedSpot panelists as one of the Top 90 Boundaries Podcasts on the web, recognizing its impact in mental health dialogue, emotional wellness, and boundary-centered conversations. 🔗 https://podcast.feedspot.com/boundaries_podcasts/ 🎙️ Host: Coach LA (Lakisha R. Austin, LICSW, MBA) 📻 Airs on: Urban Heat 98.1FM 🎧 Available on: iHeartRadio & all major podcast platforms 🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 6m
  3. On my Mama; On my Hood: Mother Wounds, Fashion, Motherhood & Legacy

    JAN 22

    On my Mama; On my Hood: Mother Wounds, Fashion, Motherhood & Legacy

    Episode Title: We Get It From Mama: Mother Wounds, Fashion, Motherhood & Legacy In this episode, we explore: What a mother wound is—and how it shows up in adulthood How motherhood can re-activate unresolved emotional patterns Fashion as a tool for self-reclamation and healing Identity loss and rediscovery after childbirth Breaking generational cycles without dishonoring our roots   Key Takeaways: You can love your mother and still heal the wound Healing is about naming impact, not assigning blame Self-expression—including how we dress—can be a powerful form of recovery Legacy is not just what we inherit, but what we intentionally pass on   BET on SELF™ Reflection: What beliefs about womanhood, motherhood, or self-worth did you inherit—and which ones are you ready to release? 🎧 Listen, reflect, and share this episode with someone who’s doing the work.   🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 19m
  4. Healing in Public: The City that Failed Us with Charles Rheddick and Joe Teixeira

    JAN 15

    Healing in Public: The City that Failed Us with Charles Rheddick and Joe Teixeira

    This episode of Conversations with Coach LA marks the opening of Season 9, Chapter 50 — Heal. Elevate. Evolve., with a powerful and necessary conversation on healing in public.   Coach LA is joined by filmmakers Joe Teixeira and Charles Rheddick to discuss their documentary The City That Failed Us All, which examines the lasting impact of the 1979 shooting of Darryl K. Williams and the decades-long silence that followed for those who witnessed the tragedy.   The conversation centers on community and racial trauma, the psychological toll of witnessing violence without aftercare, and the long-term effects of institutional neglect. Through storytelling, lived experience, and clinical insight, the episode reframes healing as an act of truth-telling, accountability, and legacy-building.   This show invites listeners to reflect on their own unacknowledged trauma, consider the cost of silence, and explore what it means to choose healing even when systems fail.   This ain’t a mid-life crisis — it’s a mid-life clarity. 🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 19m
  5. “What Will You Leave Behind?” with Dr. Rebecca Dupas

    11/20/2025

    “What Will You Leave Behind?” with Dr. Rebecca Dupas

    If you’re tuning in for the replay, you’re in the right place. This episode of Conversations with Coach LA is one of those rare gems that lingers long after the mic drops. In this Season 8 installment, Coach LA sits down with the incomparable Dr. Rebecca Dupas—poet, author, educator, and legacy-builder—to unpack the stories we inherit, the ones we write for ourselves, and the impact we choose to leave behind. Expect: ✨ Soul work ✨ Laughter and truth-telling ✨ Legacy reflections ✨ A poetic blueprint for becoming Whether you’re journaling, driving, cleaning, or just looking for a conversation that feels like a hug and a wake-up call—this is your replay moment. Press play. Take what you need. Share with someone who could use a reminder that their story still matters. Learn More about Dr.Rebecca Dupas at www.RebeccaDupas.com 🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 12m
  6. Boundaries and Brotherhood with author, Eric "EJ" Jones

    11/13/2025

    Boundaries and Brotherhood with author, Eric "EJ" Jones

    “Say NO to Silence” — A powerful exploration of Black men’s mental health, fatherhood, mentorship, and storytelling. This episode dives into how creative expression and community connections become pathways to emotional liberation and generational healing. Guest BioEric “EJ Spin” Jones is an author, DJ, and documentary storyteller dedicated to uplifting the voices of Black men through mentorship and art. His projects highlight the strength, humor, and humanity often missing from mainstream narratives. Whether behind the decks or behind the lens, EJ Spin’s mission is clear: amplify the truth and inspire transformation. Episode HighlightsThe emotional reality of Black fatherhood and redefining “strength” Mentorship as a mental health practice How storytelling becomes therapy for the soul The power of saying “no” — to silence, burnout, and societal expectations How Black men can reclaim their emotional voice and rewrite their narratives Key StatisticsOnly 26% of Black men who experience depression receive treatment (APA, 2024). Black men are 60% more likely to die by suicide than Black women (CDC, 2023). Community mentorship programs have been shown to reduce depressive symptoms by 45% in Black youth and young adults (NIMH, 2022). Expressive storytelling increases self-efficacy and emotional resilience among Black men by up to 40% (Harvard School of Public Health, 2023). BET on SELF™ Reflection“What have you said NO to lately that created more peace in your life?” Coach LA invites listeners to reflect on the boundaries they’ve set and the emotional breakthroughs they’ve allowed by saying no to overextending, performing, and people-pleasing. Affirmation: “My ‘no’ protects my peace, and my peace is my power.” Coach’s CornerIn this week’s closing reflection, Coach LA reminds us that emotional suppression isn’t strength — it’s survival. And while survival built us, healing will sustain us. Quote: “You can’t lead your legacy from an empty soul. Healing is the most revolutionary act of leadership you’ll ever take.” Call to ActionIf this episode moved you, share it with a brother who needs this reminder: 🖤 You are seen. 🗣️ You are heard. 💪🏾 You are allowed to heal. 🎧 Subscribe to Conversations with Coach LA wherever you get your podcasts. Follow @therapist_coachla | @conversations_withcoachla | @heat981fm 🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 14m
  7. Dreaming in Color: Creative Entrepreneurship featuring FunnyMan Mike James

    11/06/2025

    Dreaming in Color: Creative Entrepreneurship featuring FunnyMan Mike James

    In this episode, Coach LA sits down with nationally touring comedian FunnyMan Mike James — a storyteller whose blend of southern humor, family insight, and cultural perspective has made him one of Nashville’s most magnetic voices. Together, they explore the business of funny — how laughter becomes legacy, and how creative entrepreneurs can protect their peace, build their platforms, and still keep it real. This is more than comedy — it’s a conversation about staying authentic in an industry that profits from imitation, about parenting through purpose, and about how humor can heal the hustle. 🧠 Key TakeawaysLaughter as Legacy: Comedy is more than performance — it’s preservation of culture and healing through humor. Creative Hustle: Turning a gift into income without losing authenticity takes vision, discipline, and vulnerability. Fatherhood & Focus: The importance of balancing family, mental wellness, and personal purpose. #BETonSELF™ Strategy: How to build a career that feels good and pays well by investing in yourself first. 💜 BET on SELF™ Reflection“Dreaming in color means seeing your own potential in high definition — vivid, unapologetic, and fully yours.” Ask yourself: What’s one creative gift you’ve been dimming to fit in? What would it look like to turn that brightness back up this week? 🎯 Action Step: Write down 3 ways to monetize or share your talent this month — and choose one to act on immediately. 🎧 Coach’s Corner: “From Laugh Lines to Bottom Lines”Coach LA reminds listeners that self-care is business capital. Creatives often burn out chasing success, but the real win is sustainability. Invest in your rest, community, and wellness like you invest in your craft. Fact: Creatives are 25% more likely to experience anxiety or depression when income depends on performance (Creative Wellness Survey, 2023). Your talent needs time, space, and grace to grow — not just applause. 📊 Cultural & Clinical InsightsCreative Economy: Generates over $1 trillion annually (NEA, 2024). Representation Matters: Only 6% of mainstream comedy specials feature Black headliners (Variety, 2023). Laughter Therapy: Reduces stress hormones by 40% and increases dopamine (APA, 2022). 💡 Memorable Quotes“Comedy is therapy with a punchline.” – Mike James “If your dream makes you laugh and sweat at the same time, it’s probably the right one.” – Coach LA 🔗 Resources & LinksGuest: FunnyMan Mike James – @funnymanmikejames Watch Mike’s DryBar special “Southern Comfort” (Top 10 for 5 consecutive weeks) Listen to more episodes: Conversations with Coach LA on iHeartRadio Join the #BETonSELF community: IamCoachLA.com    🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 6m
  8. Bounce Back Magic: The Reinvention Blueprint featuring Vick Breedy

    10/30/2025

    Bounce Back Magic: The Reinvention Blueprint featuring Vick Breedy

    What if your biggest setback was actually your setup for the next chapter? In this week’s episode, Coach LA sits down with powerhouse author and self-care advocate Vick Breedy, creator of the Selfish Women’s Group and Genetically Resilient brand, to talk about what it really takes to reinvent your life after change. From divorce to discovery, from burnout to boundaries — Vick shares her raw, unfiltered journey of transformation and what she calls her “#BounceBackMagic.” Together, the two explore the emotional architecture of resilience, how to pivot with purpose, and why protecting your peace is an act of power, not guilt. This is not just an interview — it’s a blueprint for anyone ready to design their next season on their own terms. 🧭 Key TopicsWhat it means to pivot when the plan falls apart How to cultivate resilience that sticks The truth about selfishness and self-preservation Why identity must evolve after adversity Building your “Reinvention Blueprint” step by step How to embrace #BounceBackMagic in your everyday life 💡 BET on SELF™ Reflection“Sometimes reinvention isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about remembering who you were before the world told you to shrink.” Coach LA invites listeners to grab a journal and complete the Reinvention T-Chart: Left column: What I’m releasing Right column: What I’m stepping into Then write your Next Chapter Headline in one bold sentence. Share it online with #BETonSELF and tag @Therapist_CoachLA to inspire others in their own pivot story. 🎧 Coach’s CornerCoach LA breaks down the psychology of reinvention through self-belief. Drawing from clinical insight and lived experience, she reminds us that pivots are not failures — they’re recalibrations. The secret to resilience is giving yourself permission to evolve and grace to grow. “You can’t step into your next chapter still negotiating your worth in the old one.” 📊 Quick Stats & Research NuggetsAccording to the APA, resilience is one of the strongest predictors of post-traumatic growth — people who intentionally practice adaptive coping recover faster and thrive longer. Nearly 60% of adults make a major life pivot by age 45, most often triggered by relationships or career change. Women who engage in community-based support groups like SWG report 45% higher self-esteem and 32% fewer depressive symptoms than those who isolate (Journal of Positive Psychology, 2023). 💬 Notable Quotes“It’s when we feel our weakest that we must be our strongest.” — Vick Breedy “Your comeback is not a redo — it’s a redesign.” — Coach LA 🔗 Connect with Vick Breedy🌐 www.VickBreedy.com 📚 Follow @VickBreedy on Instagram & Facebook 💎 Join The Selfish Women’s Group community 🎯 Connect with Coach LA📻 Listen live: Urban Heat 98.1 FM / iHeartRadio 🌐 www.IamCoachLA.com 📲 Follow @Therapist_CoachLA | @Conversations_withCoachLA 💜 Join the BET on SELF™ Confidence Challenge & subscribe for weekly reflections   🎙️ Thanks for tuning in to Conversations with Coach LA! Don’t forget to subscribe and turn on your notifications so you never miss a new episode—dropping every Thursday wherever you get your podcasts. You can also listen live every Sunday at 10PM on Urban Heat 98.1FM or via iHeartRadio. Want to join the conversation or share your story? We’re always looking for inspiring voices! Email us at admin@weroclives.com to be considered as a future guest. This show is brought to you by Resiliency and Optimism Changes Lives, LLC, where we champion self-awareness, mental wellness, and transformational growth through therapeutic coaching and community empowerment. If you're looking for a therapist or support on your healing journey, visit our website or reach out—we're here to help you BET on SELF:🌱 Believe. Empower. Transform. Because when you bet on yourself, you invest in your peace, your power, and your purpose.   Opening Theme song created by Daniel Laurent   www.daniellaurent.com  Closing Theme Song created by Nancia produced by Jay Hunt -SmokeHouse Media

    1h 13m

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
3 Ratings

About

Hi, my name is Lakisha Austin also known as Coach LA. I am a psychotherapist and life coach with a down-to-earth approach to providing therapeutic support. I love using music, an emphatic ear, a witty sense of humor, and unapologetic clinical skills to debunk myths about therapy. Step into my office and listen to real people have candid conversations about this thang called LIFE. Don’t hesitate to Chime in & help me encourage individuals to own their stuff & set boundaries to fix their life! Share your experiences, relationship issues, and daily stressors on the live interactive Facebook chat! My virtual office hours are Sundays 10-11 pm on the UrbanHeat 98.1fm! Call-In 617.238.7111, Tune In, or Just Listen live at https://www.heat981fm.com/ weekly on Sundays at 10 pm. Listen to the replay weekly on Thursdays or watch it on the UrbanHeat Facebook page.