Convo with the Collum's

Zion 61

Real conversations that create real connection! We will talk about emotional intelligence, practical relationship tools, spiritual growth and how to live with vulnerability and authenticity in your every day. Whether you are just starting on a growth journey, looking for tools, or simply hoping to hear real, authentic conversations, we invite you to stop and listen. Sometimes it's just worth a laugh...

Episodes

  1. 1d ago

    Why do good questions matter?

    The conversation explores the value of asking good questions, the impact of hard questions, and the role of questions in coaching and relationships. It delves into the connection between righteousness, peace, and joy, as well as the agenda of safety and curiosity in conversations. The conversation explores the transformative power of curiosity in relationships, parenting, and personal growth. It delves into the role of curiosity in spiritual mentorship and the impact of hard questions on personal development. The journey of self-discovery through curiosity is a central theme throughout the conversation. If you're looking for someone to ask the hard questions, email us at Britt@collumcollective.com If you would like to support this convo, you can donate here. For more information on what we offer go to our website here. Takeaways The power of good questions in fostering curiosity and understandingThe importance of creating a safe space for open dialogue and exploration Curiosity fosters a deeper understanding of oneself and others.The value of good questions lies in their ability to challenge and affirm personal beliefs. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Good Questions11:40 The Art of Asking Open-Ended Questions24:36 Navigating Opposition and Peace31:26 The Agenda of Safety and Curiosity36:44 Curiosity and the Image of God52:53 Curiosity and Spiritual Mentorship01:00:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery

    48 min

  2. May 3

    No sons, no limits. Empowering women

    The conversation covers the topics up coming events, empowering women, challenging belief systems, and questioning tradition. It delves into the importance of empowering women, the impact of belief systems on personal growth, and the process of questioning traditional norms and values. The conversation delves into the themes of trust and support in marriage, the impact of religion and theology on relationships, and the shifting theology and perspectives on women. It explores the dynamics of trust and support in marriage, the influence of religious beliefs on relationships, and the evolving perspectives on women within theological contexts. The conversation delves into the themes of parenting with humility and understanding, gender and spiritual identity, empathy and validation, emotional intelligence and religion, empowerment and modeling, championing spouses and partnerships, understanding and valuing individuality, stewardship and influence, parental responsibility and influence, equipping and empowering women, creating safe spaces and feedback, purpose and legacy, and support and understanding. The overarching takeaways include the importance of parenting with humility and valuing individuality in children. Click here to support more conversations. Takeaways Empowering WomenChallenging Belief Systems Trust and support in marriageThe impact of religion and theology on relationships Parenting with humilityUnderstanding and valuing individuality Chapters 00:00 Retreats and Cohorts08:00 Challenging Belief Systems15:58 Questioning Tradition21:43 Trust and Support in Marriage38:17 Shifting Theology and Perspectives on Women45:54 Parenting with Humility and Understanding51:07 Championing Spouses and Partnerships56:26 Equipping and Empowering Women01:03:21 Purpose and Legacy01:08:43 Spiritual Identity and Legacy

    55 min

  3. Mar 27

    What's new for '26

    The conversation covers the exciting things happening in 2026, including the consolidation of coaching efforts, the launch of a new website collumcollective.com, and the offering of retreats and courses. It also delves into the importance of gender-inclusive spaces and the vision for online content and courses. The conversation covers the development of an intensive program focused on identity, personal growth, and spiritual development. It also discusses the challenges of launching and marketing the program, as well as the importance of community and connection. Takeaways Consolidation of coaching efforts and the launch of a new website under the name 'Column Collective'Offering of retreats, courses, and the vision for online content and courses Intensive ProgramMarketing Challenges Chapters 00:00 Vision for Online Content and Courses17:59 Developing an Intensive Program on Identity and Growth23:04 Marketing and Advertising Challenges28:26 Cohesive Platform and Sharing Information34:04 Website Launch and Social Media Presence

    34 min

  4. Feb 16

    50/50 relationship

    Help us grow this conversation by liking, sharing, commenting and subscribing. You may even financially support here. The conversation delves into the importance of relational intimacy, encompassing emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. It explores the impact of family of origin on intimacy, the role of purpose in connection, and the responsibility in relationships. Additionally, it discusses emotional processing, transparency, and vulnerability, emphasizing growth and intentionality in fostering intimacy. The conversation delves into the differences in communication between men and women, highlighting the societal assumptions that create different dynamics for each gender. It then explores the relevance of spiritual connection in relationships, emphasizing the importance of a secure belief system and the hierarchy of spiritual connection in relationships. The power of prayer and partnership in relationships is also discussed, emphasizing the need for specificity in requests for partnership and the impact of spiritual intimacy in friendships and relationships. The conversation delves into the power of prayer and spiritual connection in relationships, highlighting the importance of emotional and spiritual intimacy. It then explores the themes of responsibility and vulnerability in relationships, emphasizing the significance of emotional vulnerability and spiritual partnership. The dynamics of 50-50 in relationships are discussed, along with the importance of self-worth and healthy relationships. Throughout the conversation, the focus remains on equipping healthy families and fostering spiritual and emotional connection in relationships. Takeaways Relational intimacy involves emotional, spiritual, and physical connection.Vulnerability and courage are essential for intimacy in relationships. Men and women communicate differentlySpiritual connection in relationshipsThe importance of a secure belief systemThe power of prayer and partnership in relationships Spiritual intimacy in relationshipsThe importance of emotional and spiritual connection in relationships Chapters 00:00 Growth and Intentionality49:05 Hierarchy of Spiritual Connection in Relationships and Identity01:01:16 The Power of Prayer and Spiritual Connection01:08:19 Responsibility and Vulnerability in Relationships01:15:02 Emotional Vulnerability and Spiritual Partnership01:22:06 The Dynamics of 50-50 in Relationships

    1h 7m

  5. Feb 7

    Her Time Inside

    If you feel led to continue to support these conversations, please help by subscribing, sharing, commenting or contributing here. This conversation delves into the experiences and insights gained from volunteering and working inside a prison. It explores the journey from volunteering, the initial experience inside the prison, leading an academy, understanding the correctional system, diverse structures of correctional facilities, learning curve and initial realizations, impact of trauma and power dynamics, community and resourcefulness, and deeper awareness and realization. The conversation delves into the weight of compassion, the power of courage in shifting culture, and the transformative impact of learning from incarcerated individuals. It also explores the need for a shift in perspective and the dangers of comparison, emphasizing the value of freedom and the understanding of persecution and conviction. The conversation delves into the impact of personal experiences, male presence, healthy relationships, and the need for restoration and freedom. It also explores the stigma of the criminal justice system and the importance of preventing hard experiences. The impact on children and the passion for humanity are also highlighted. Takeaways Impact of trauma on incarcerated individualsDiverse structures and dynamics of correctional facilities Courage and hope are contagiousThe impact of punitive measures on hopeThe need for a shift in perspective and motiveAvoiding the trap of comparison The need for healthy relationships and male presenceThe importance of experiencing and preventing hard experiences Chapters 00:00 Journey to Volunteering in Prison06:04 First Experience Inside the Prison13:23 Understanding the Correctional System19:29 Learning Curve and Initial Realizations27:18 Deeper Awareness and Realization34:08 Shifting Culture Through Courage50:10 Perception and Responsibility59:35 Reflection on Past Behavior01:05:15 Healing Through Healthy Relationships01:10:23 Stigma of Criminal Justice System01:16:04 Opportunity for Restoration

    58 min

  6. 12/31/2025

    Self-defeating games discussion

    The conversation delves into the topic of self-defeating behaviors, exploring the definition, impact of fear, and the dynamics of hiding behind judgments and spreading lies and gossip. It also highlights the internal, external, and vertical manifestations of self-defeating behaviors, emphasizing the role of fear and the need for empathy and compassion. The conversation delves into the importance of preserving connection in relationships and the impact of self-defeating behaviors on communication. It explores the dynamics of blended families, honest communication, and the role of accountability in maintaining healthy relationships. Additionally, it addresses the influence of self-defeating behaviors on communication and the need for setting boundaries. The conversation delves into the exploration of self-defeating behaviors, blame shifting, negative attention seeking, victim mentality, self-sabotage, emotional processing, getting them before they get you, understanding self-defeating behaviors, compassion, emotional intelligence, and self-worth course offering. If these convos are helping and you feel lead to support more click here. Takeaways Self-defeating behaviors can manifest internally, externally, and verticallyHiding behind judgments is often the number one self-defeating behavior of humanity Preserving connection in relationshipsThe impact of self-defeating behaviors on communication Understanding self-defeating behaviorsThe impact of unprocessed emotions Chapters 00:00 Spreading Lies and Gossip27:37 Preserving Connection in Relationships53:14 Blame Shifting and Offloading Responsibility onto God59:23 Getting Them Before They Get You01:08:07 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Worth Course Offering

    1h 7m

  7. 12/11/2025

    What is spiritual bypassing?

    How does the pretty process of religion get in your way? Join us as we discuss the topic of "spiritual bypassing" and how it robs you of not just real vulnerability but also authenticity. If you find value in this convo, please like, share, subscribe and comment. You may also support these conversations by capturing the link in the video or here.

    49 min

  8. 11/14/2025

    The dangers of a "how to" culture

    We live in a time where most everyone seems desperate for an answer on "how to" get it right. How to do "IT" and avoid mistakes or hurt, rejection or disappointment, failures and getting it wrong. In this convo, we literally process the reality of our present day dilemmas where, in an information age, people seem more hungry than ever to be told "HOW TO" do life. Join us as we share concerns and insights on the topic of a how to culture. If this stirs you, please help us by sharing, liking and subscribing. You may also donate HERE to support this content.

    53 min

  9. 11/04/2025

    Experiences with horses

    Utilizing horses in the process of helping people or even discovering ourselves has been not only impressionable, but also profoundly impactful. We share a few of our favorite memories with horses as we journey this life helping people discover truth. If these conversations are impacting you and you feel lead to support what we are doing, you can donate here.

    49 min

  10. 10/11/2025

    Womens retreat recap

    We discuss the amazing Wyoming women's retreat and share interviews from participants about their experience. We also discuss what it looks like when being seen, heard or known is only partially engaged and how safe spaces afford authentic opportunities.

    1h 8m

  11. 09/25/2025

    The why behind Convo with the Collum's

    We dive into our reasons for capturing this conversation with some of our own story and how its compelled us to share what we learned from it. Healthy people make healthy relationships. And healthy relationships make healthy families. We hope to equip, empower or encourage you in your own emotional intelligence journey.

    1h 18m
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Real conversations that create real connection! We will talk about emotional intelligence, practical relationship tools, spiritual growth and how to live with vulnerability and authenticity in your every day. Whether you are just starting on a growth journey, looking for tools, or simply hoping to hear real, authentic conversations, we invite you to stop and listen. Sometimes it's just worth a laugh...

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  • Creator
    Zion 61
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Zion 61
  • Show Website
    Convo with the Collum's

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