Coparent Academy Podcast

Linda VanValkenburg and Ron Gore
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Lifechanging Coparenting

  1. 12/15/2025

    #187 - Stop Ruining Christmas for your Children

    Let us hear from you! The weeks between Thanksgiving and New Year’s are often fraught with peril for coparents. But does conflict have to be inevitable? In this episode, we strip away the sentimentality to look at the practical side of holiday coparenting. Whether you have a court order or are just winging it, we discuss how to manage expectations, communicate in advance, and prevent your children from becoming pawns in a holiday power struggle. Takeaways: Setting expectations: Don't promise what you can't deliver.Why communication in November saves headaches in December.How to make the most of your time (even if you don't wake up with them on the 25th).

    25 min

  2. 12/01/2025

    #186 - 3 Key Mistakes to Avoid in Family Law Mediation

    Let us hear from you! Are you preparing for family law mediation? In this video, Ron Gore, family law attorney and mediator, breaks down the three biggest mistakes he sees parents make after conducting more than 100 mediations per year.  Many people enter mediation with the wrong mindset or without the necessary preparation, leading to expensive delays and added stress. In this video, you will learn: The Wrong Focus: Why seeking validation, payback, or total closure is a mistake.Misunderstanding the Law: Why you need a reality check on the applicable law and the relative strength of your evidence before you walk in the door.Missing Information: The critical financial and scheduling details you must have available to reach meaningful agreements that can be turned into final orders.Don't let these errors derail your custody or divorce agreement.  If you find this information helpful, please share.  This content is family law education, not legal advice. To obtain legal advice, please contact a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    10 min

  3. 11/10/2025

    #185 - How to Prepare for Your Family Law Mediation

    Let us hear from you! Going to divorce or custody mediation? Don't go in unprepared. Drawing on experience from more than 100 mediations per year, attorney and Coparent Academy co-founder Ron Gore explains exactly how to set yourself up for success. We cover: (1) Understanding what mediation is, (2) How to frame your negotiating positions, and (3) The critical importance of gathering all facts before you start. Plus, understand why even family law attorneys prefer to settle their own cases. This content is family law education, not legal advice. To obtain legal advice, please contact a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

    13 min

  4. 11/03/2025

    #184 - How to Get the Most Out of Your Coparent's Deposition Testimony

    Let us hear from you! You paid for the deposition, now make it count! The deposition transcript is one of the most expensive and important documents in your family law case. Attorney Ron Gore explains how you, the client, can maximize its value by assisting your attorney in a highly organized way. This video outlines how to: Read the transcript strategically (twice!).Organize notes by specific litigation issues.Identify three key categories: admissions, provable lies/mistakes, and negative facts for your side.Identify the communications, documents, recordings, and witnesses that will help your attorney take the next steps. Learn the essential process of using page and line number references and setting up a structured folder system to prepare your case for settlement or trial. Don't let your investment go to waste! Notice: This is coparenting and legal education not legal advice. For legal advice consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction to discuss the details of your case.  #DepositionTranscript #FamilyLawStrategy #LegalEvidence

    9 min

  5. 10/27/2025

    #183 - How NOT to Waste Money Deposing Your Coparent

    Let us hear from you! Make your coparent's deposition worth every penny. This expert guide from family law attorney Ron Gore details how clients can become their legal team's best asset. Stop the frustrating cycle of repeating yourself and help your lawyer connect the facts to the law with a highly organized system. We cover: Full Disclosure: Why even your "bad" texts matter.Organization: Using the "Day in the Life" method.Tech Strategy: Utilizing technology before and during the deposition.Demeanor: How to stay professional and assist your attorney in the moment.A well-prepared deposition is crucial in a family law case—don't miss these critical steps! [Like, Subscribe, Share to help others!] Notice: This is coparenting and legal education not legal advice. For legal advice consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction to discuss the details of your case.  #FamilyLawHelp #LegalStrategy #CustodyTips

    12 min

  6. 10/20/2025

    #182 - How to Prepare for Your Child Custody Deposition

    Let us hear from you! Your deposition in a family law case is one of the most important moments in the litigation process. Are you prepared? In this episode, we break down how to perform well at your deposition, save time/money, and increase the likelihood of a reasonable outcome. In this crucial, you will learn: The absolute necessity of telling your attorney everything (even the embarrassing parts).How your attorney uses "issue spotting" to prepare you for the topics you’ll face.Why having reasonable expectations can help you reach key agreements before the deposition.The importance of knowing your facts cold: daily schedules, medical providers, and your own desired outcomes.How to participate properly: listening carefully, answering only what's asked, not trying to think ahead of the current question, respecting silences, and letting your attorney object.A strong deposition performance can shorten your litigation and lead to a better resolution for your family.  Learn how to do coparenting well. Visit CoparentAcademy.com.

    15 min

  7. 10/13/2025

    #181 - Depositions: The Most Important Discovery Tool in Family Law

    Let us hear from you! Written discovery is slow, filtered, and easily obstructed. Learn why a deposition—a face-to-face, real-time interview under oath—is the most important tool in preparing for a custody trial. Discover the strategic value of essentially unlimited follow-up questions, reasons why you may want a videographer, and the attorney's ethical duty to uncover all facts, both good and bad, about both parents to help the court determine what's in the child's best interest.

    13 min

  8. 10/06/2025

    #180 - Managing Extracurriculars With a High Conflict Coparent

    Let us hear from you! Watch this episode on YouTube. Struggling to manage your child's extracurricular activities with a high conflict coparent? This video provides a detailed 12-step strategy to move from hoping for cooperation to planning for its absence. Learn how to make your ex's cooperation irrelevant and ensure your child doesn't miss out. In this guide from Coparenting Academy, we cover: How to review your court order (sole vs. joint custody)How to  propose a new activityWhy parenting apps like Our Family Wizard are criticalThe "two sets of equipment" rule for high conflictManaging schedules, finances, and transportation without conflictWhen and how to use the court to enforce your child's rightsStop the cycle of frustration. This practical plan will help you document every step, protect yourself, and put your child's best interests first. RESOURCES & COURSES For more in-depth courses and articles on navigating high conflict coparenting, visit: https://www.coparentacademy.com Disclaimer: This episode provides education, not legal advice. You should consult with an attorney about your specific situation.

    18 min
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Lifechanging Coparenting

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  • Creator
    Linda VanValkenburg and Ron Gore
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    187
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    © 2026 Coparent Academy Podcast
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