Courageous Radiance

Brittany Dixon

Let’s get real—as wives and mothers, following Jesus is both the hardest and the best decision we’ll make. Join me in each episode as we lean into God’s Word, boldly apply its truths, and thrive anchored to Christ. courageousradiance.substack.com

  1. Strength in Surrender

    08/29/2025

    Strength in Surrender

    I want to affirm my husband and honor him as God calls me to. But if I’m honest, offering encouragement isn’t easy amongst the list of unmet expectations, a busy life, and a heart posture of, “No one does this for me, and I’m ok.” I’ve prayed the prayer that seems right: “Lord, change my husband, for Your kingdom come and will be done.” I’ve read the devotionals and done the other Godly things to check the boxes to coexist better. However, my heart remains frustrated at the unchanged things. And yet… maybe God is asking me to start with my own heart. Perhaps I’m going about this wrong. Surrender is where it begins. The outcome of my husband’s growth isn’t in my hands—and it won’t be from critiques or corrections. As wives, we’ve been given the role of a “helper corresponding to him” (Genesis 2:18). Our greatest strategy shouldn’t be striving harder to change him, but instead, in our imitation of Jesus, to die to ourselves and follow His high standard and example. When we release expectations that all too easily pivot into demands, we create space for God’s power to shape us from the core of our spirit. Romans 12:1 calls this our act of worship: offering ourselves as living sacrifices. God has equipped us to be strong, suitable, and surrendered helpers, upheld by His grace. By staying anchored in Jesus, we can hope that a deep heart shift will occur—first in us, and then in our marriages. Cheering alongside, Brittany This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit courageousradiance.substack.com

    23 min
  2. Grace in the Shaking

    07/24/2025

    Grace in the Shaking

    Perhaps you grew up believing the lie that ‘feelings are unsafe.’ Do you know how to feel what you’re feeling? If you are already comfortable in this, does it lead you to safe exposure with Jesus or pull you towards quick-fix, fast answers in substitutional comforts that are away from Him? As a mom of a rising senior, I hit the wall of emotion. I’m ready to stop pretending that everything is “fine,” in my heart. One season to the next, we balance our emotions and steady ourselves with something that stabilizes the pain. Our hearts are homesick for Heaven, and we can best stabilize ourselves in life’s shaking when we rest in grace. “Now may our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope through grace.” -2 Thessalonians 2:16 Grace holds us together in all life seasons. I’ve never experienced an earthquake, but I can imagine that you need to hold onto something for stability in the shaking. As disciples, in assignments and life seasons, as wives and mothers, we need an unshakeable anchor. The hope of the gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is our comfort and ability to confess that we are unshaken when we are shaken. I hope that this episode encourages you. Dive into the richness of this scripture and cling to Him. Cheering Alongside, Brittany This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit courageousradiance.substack.com

    14 min
  3. More than Just Habits

    04/08/2025

    More than Just Habits

    Does the thought of change thrill or concern you? Personally, I am a woman who craves order and consistency. I enjoy my normal habits (good and bad), for instance, my morning cup of coffee or time to decompress from daily stresses. I desire a known rhythm to count on for happiness (on any scale) amongst change and unknown circumstances. If not vigilant and aware of my tendencies, I will guard my habits and miss opportunities to respond to whatever the Holy Spirit reveals as the better thing. I wonder what my response would have been if Jesus had unconvincingly invited me to “follow me” before anyone knew who He was, as with His initial 12 disciples (Matthew 4:19). Would I have been the one to miss Jesus because He was inviting me to something unfamiliar? Would you follow this unknown Man?! What about now? He still invites us to “follow me”. The act of following is to surrender. Counter to the distorted truth of the gospel in progressive Christianity, it’s implied to follow in totality. Surrendering our life includes our heart and mind: Jesus wants all of us. Jesus invites us to cease identification with our former selves and to abandon reliance on tendencies and personalities. Jesus wants to be at the center of our lives, yet our unique temperaments and life experiences have shaped our journey and worldview. How do we both understand ourselves and surrender that revealed person to Jesus? The clear answer in scripture is to remain connected to Jesus (John 15:4-5), as a branch is connected to the tree trunk. There isn’t one productive, fruit/leaf-bearing branch that thrives without the tree. Likewise, we nestle all of us, the parts that should be cultivated and the things that need to be pruned, in the One who made us. Whether our tendencies lie in going ahead of God’s eternality or leaning too much into doubt of Him without a clear answer to all of the “Wh” questions, both tendencies reveal our sin and limitations. As disciples, we are more than our habits, strengths, and personalities. We are clingers of Jesus, who is greater than anything else we attempt to identify ourselves with. The resurrection of Jesus is our motivational coach, personal spiritual trainer, and foundation by which anchors our hope. Our life navigation GPS will frequently reroute to destinations we cannot see, through some low valleys and high mountain peaks. But, wherever the day or season takes us, our anchor to thrive is solely Jesus. But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ! Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, be steadfast, immovable, always excelling in the Lord’s work, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. -1 Corinthians 15:57-58 Be wherever Jesus is. Imagine an umbilical cord connecting us to Him—wherever He moves, we move. When He stays, we stay. If life is great, we worship. When life is crumbling, we praise. The essence of our lives is grounded on the basis of the resurrection. If you live by your planner (this is me), thrive on structure, and find comfort in organizing chaos, this will be both difficult and a burden reliever. When our systems start functioning like the god of our lives, we no longer leave room for Yahweh, the LORD. Challenge Question: If a relationship needs your presence and compromises productivity, how can Jesus’s peace comfort you as you pivot to respond? Cheering for you, -Brittany This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit courageousradiance.substack.com

    17 min

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Let’s get real—as wives and mothers, following Jesus is both the hardest and the best decision we’ll make. Join me in each episode as we lean into God’s Word, boldly apply its truths, and thrive anchored to Christ. courageousradiance.substack.com