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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code.

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Courtship Code Courtship Code

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 25 Ratings

Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code.

Resources:
Www.captivatingcourtship.com

Instagram:
@zarajcaptivatingcourtship

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    Courtship for Anxiously attached High Achieving women S7E13

    Courtship for Anxiously attached High Achieving women S7E13

    If you are a high achieving woman that's anxiously attached you may find yourself overthinking interactions with men, having a hard time balancing your career and love life, or attracting emotionally unavailable men.

    You may find yourself subconsciously trying to control the outcome of the relationship and rushing the courtship process whenever relationship anxiety creeps in. This keeps you on the hot-cold, situationship relationship wheel.

    Being in this courtship loop may have you feeling frustrated, lonely, or even confused about how to break-free from sabotaging patterns so that you can attract the healthy, long-term commitment you truly want.

    In today's episode you will learn the actual problems you're facing in your dating and courtship experiences and what shifts you need to take, along with a practical solution that makes courtship and dating effortless and predicatable.



    Enrollment for The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program is NOW OPEN:

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching



    Links mentioned in this episode:

    The Captivating Courtship Code  - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.

    Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop. 

    Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.

    Have a question? DM us on Instagram @captivatingcourtship

    • 37 min
    Setting Boundaries and Uncovering Blindspots S7E12

    Setting Boundaries and Uncovering Blindspots S7E12

    What are your courtship blindspots? Are a lack of boundaries holding you back from the relationship you deserve? In this episode you will learn about how your courtship and dating blindspots are keeping you frustrated and from the relationship you want and how you can turn them around.



    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching program

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

    DM "QUIZ" on Instagram to access the NEW Love Loops Quiz

    Join the Love Loops Membership waitlist

    https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/7cbd8c30b3

    Captivating Weekend waitlist

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend

    • 36 min
    Captivating Weekend - Self Worth Sarah S7E11

    Captivating Weekend - Self Worth Sarah S7E11

    If you have achieved success in her career but struggle with feelings of inadequacy in your personal life, you may be a Self-Worth Sarah.

    When it comes to Self-Worth Sarahs, despite your accomplishments, you battle with low self-worth and often attract emotionally unavailable partners who reinforce your negative beliefs about yourself. 

    This may lead to codependency in relationships and feeling burnt out from unsuccessful dating experiences.

    In this episode, you will learn how to break this relationship pattern and step into your worthiness to have the love and life you deserve.



    Captivating Weekend

    www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend



    Links mentioned in this episode:

    The Captivating Courtship Code  - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.

    Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop. 

    Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @captivatingcourtship

    • 28 min
    Captivating Weekend - Anxious Ava S7E10

    Captivating Weekend - Anxious Ava S7E10

    Are you an Anxious Ava? If you are a woman who values your spiritual beliefs and is actively seeking a long-term committed relationship, however, your anxious attachment style leads you to overthink every interaction with potential partners, then you may be an Anxious Ava.

    Your anxiety causes you to appear clingy or needy. Despite your desire to find love, you struggle with managing your emotions and often feels discouraged by the lack of commitment from the men you date.

    In this episode we discuss the biggest pain points for the Anxious Ava type when experiencing relationship anxiety, and how to attract a partner you desire who is willing to commit to a serious relationship.



    Captivating Weekend

    https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend



    Links mentioned in this episode:

    The Captivating Courtship Code  - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.

    Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop. 

    Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.

    Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @captivatingcourtship

    • 20 min
    Captivating Weekend - Are you an Overwhelmed Olivia? Story time S7E9

    Captivating Weekend - Are you an Overwhelmed Olivia? Story time S7E9

    Are you an overwhelmed Olivia? If you are successful with a demanding career, balancing life and love can feel very overwhelming, and your romantic life may even take a backseat to your career. 

    Despite your professional achievements, you struggle with relationship anxiety and constantly finds yourself emotionally attached to men who are unavailable or unwilling to commit. 

    In this episode we discuss how to avoid feeling burnout from unsuccessful dating experiences, and how to deal with clinginess and neediness in relationships, along with experiencing low self-worth.



    Captivating Weekend Register Now:

    https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/captivatingweekend



    Links mentioned in this episode:

    The Captivating Courtship Code  - Become a member of the CCC community and get the 6 step proven process to attract commitment and high level coaching every step of the way.

    Love Loops Community Membership - Get a complimentary month to the Love Loops Community and break your relationship patterns. Step into your worthiness of unlimited love, and out of the burnout, breakup, and situationship loop. 

    Captivating Weekend - Join the 3-day immersive experience with like minded women who are serious about life and love. Learn tools and techniques to stop letting relationship anxiety block love, and create your 90 day attraction plan.

    Have a question? DM Zara on Instagram @captivatingcourtship

    • 30 min
    A Sneak Peek into Our Captivating Weekend Virtual Event S7E8

    A Sneak Peek into Our Captivating Weekend Virtual Event S7E8

    🌟 Ready to break free from relationship anxiety and find lasting love? 

    Join me for the Captivating Weekend virtual event! 🌟

    If you're a high-achieving woman who's tired of feeling overwhelmed and burnt out in your dating life, this workshop is for you. 

    Discover proven strategies to overcome self-sabotaging relationship patterns, cultivate confidence, and attract the love you deserve.

    For 3 days we will work together in an intimate event to help you get crystal clear on how to break your relationship patterns, create an offline plan to meet compatible partners, and design a life you love.

    Space is limited.

    Secure your spot today and take the first step towards a brighter, more fulfilling future. 

    DM, “CAP”, to register on Instagram @captivatingcourtship



    #CaptivatingWeekend #LoveAndFulfillment #Empowerment #RelationshipCoaching

    • 9 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
25 Ratings

25 Ratings

Zingie ,

Excellent & insightful

I started by listening to this podcast for abt a year consistently and when I finally got committed to realizing my love goals and admitted I didn’t know how to reach them myself and needed support I joined Captivating Courtship group coaching course. Best end of 2020 decision I’d made.

There’s a lot of info that I’ve learned on CC podcast that I either hadn’t heard of elsewhere or it lead me to dig deeper to research and learn more. I like that Zara J is not only positive about marriage and relationships but also balanced in her approach to talking to women about how to go about achieving our relationship goals while being high value and feeling cherished along the way. Her coaching is even better and has helped me transform into the woman who knows her worth and knows how to be in a positive & happy relationship with men where I feel at ease and it’s fulfilling my vision of love and marriage.

žulu ,

Not even close

She basically skims the surface of a topic without going deep, because she wants you to pay for her program on the website she advertises.

Hanan Brown ,

Leveling up in love

This podcast is full of gems that help me self reflect and provide tools to leveling up in my love life. Thanks Zara 😊

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