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Courtship Code Courtship Code
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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code.
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Hot Cold Relationship Burnout S6E49
Are you feeling burnout from hot-cold relationships, situationships, and feeling like you are always on the edge of commitment? If so, there's a secret you are missing in dating and courtship that took me years to discover.
In today's episode you will learn how anxiously attached women can get off the hot-cold relationship treadmill and finally attract commitment. Not only will you have a better understanding of how to navigate courtship with more ease, you will learn the missing piece that will allow you to attract the guy you want without pressure, chasing or pursuing when he goes warm or cold.
ENROLLMENT FOR CCC OPENS OCTOBER 30TH - NOVEMBER 8TH.
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https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/ccc-waitlist
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
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Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
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Anxious Overthinking & Sabotaging Relationship Patterns S6E48
Want to attract commitment yet find yourself feeling burnout, in situationships or breakups? If you find yourself anxiously overthinking
then your relationship patterns are sabotaging your relationship success.
In this episode we explore the biggest gap in your courtship and dating process, the commitment bridge. You will learn why you have a difficult time crossing the bridge to commitment, why women with an anxious attachment more often are in kinda-sorta relationships AKA situation ships and what to do about it, and what steps and tools you can use to keep you grounded during the courtship process so you no longer attach and instead move towards commitment with your guy, side by side.
To learn more about the New Love Loft VIP day experience email, "VIP" to captivatingcourtship@gmail.com or DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
To get the New Free training and learn out to cross the commitment bridge and break cycles of burnout, breakups, and situationships email, "5 STEPS" to captivatingcourtship@gmail.com or DM @zarajcaptivatingcourtship on Instagram
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
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From anxiously attached to trusting the Courtship Process and Letting Go of Control S6E47
Do you find it difficult to stop anxious overthinking during the courtship process? If you find yourself getting deeply emotionally attached whenever the need for security and validation surface and it's sabotaging your love life, this episode is for you.
Oftentimes, when you find yourself feeling fear and other emotions around a potential relationship going left, you may emotionally react and become needy, clingy, or combative and unintentionally push the man away or try to control the courtship process in order to speed things up and get the commitment you desire. This is a fast track to ruining the path to commitment. When you are on the bridge of trust as we teach in CCC you must stop repeating past relationship patterns, allow yourself to fully connect with a man's heart, and navigate the courtship process with intention so the bridge feels safe to cross for both parties. This will help you attract love.
On today's episode we're discussing how high achieving women can manage anxious attachment during the courtship process and let go of trying to control the process.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com -
How to Communicate to Connect from the Heart S6E46
Do you have difficulty allowing yourself to be fully authentic, vulnerable, and feel safe connecting with a man's heart? When you are attempting to attract commitment from sabotaging relationship patterns, child trauma, or unhealed wounds you will have a hard time communicating from your heart without fear of rejection, disappointment, or being judged. This is way, learning how to communicate and connect from the heart is one of the most powerful ways you can transform your love life and deepen emotional connections that lead to a healthy relationship.
As a woman, your feminine essence is your superpower. It allows you to influence, create safety, and captivate a man's heart effortlessly. Knowing how to tap into your super in a way that is purely authentic, heart-centered, and connected to your core will ground you in your worth and make you even more attractive to the best relationship for you. When you are reacting out of fear of hurt, guarded, or treating relationships transactionally you won't create the healthy, loving connection you desire with a man. This is Wounded Princess Energy. Potential partners won't be able to deny this aspect of your authentic value when you can fearlessly communicate and connect from your heart as the Captivating Queen you are.
In this episode you will learn how to communicate and connect with a man's heart and how you can empower yourself through your feminine essence to transform your love life and all of your relationships.
ENROLLMENT FOR CCC OPENS SEPTEMBER 15-22. GET ON THE WAITLIST NOW.
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com -
Selling Yourself on Settling S6E45
Have you been selling yourself on settling? In this episode we discuss what it actually means to sell yourself on settling, why you do it, and how to stop so that you can attract the healthy relationship you deserve.
Too often, women confuse settling with status, accolades, or even ego driven desires. However, actual settling is much deeper and has a greater mental, emotional, and spiritual impact. When you sell yourself on either settling to stay single or settling for less than you deserve in a relationship, you will never have the type of relationship you deserve, even if you attract commitment. When you decide to settle, you train yourself on a subconscious level to believe you are not worthy or deserving of what your heart and soul truly desires for your love life.
You can have the relationship your heart craves. You must simply decide it's inevitable and do the work required to make it happen now. In this episode you will learn the key steps to stop selling yourself on settling and get on the path to the relationship you deserve.
ENROLLMENT FOR CCC OPENS SEPTEMBER 15TH
GET ON THE WAITLIST NOW
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com -
Feeling Burnt Out w/ Courtship & Dating S6E44
Have you been feeling burnt out with courtship and dating? The feeling of "burnout" is often linked to deeper emotions that's causing you to want to shutdown, avoid or simply do nothing with your love life. While it's understandable to feel frustrated or disappointed at times, being burnout is typically the result of managing your beliefs, emotions, and actions during the courtship process.
Wanting a relationship is normal. Every human wants to feel understood, connected and loved. Yet, if you have been single for some times or newly broken-up the stress of uncertainty and lack of control over the outcomes in your love life may cause you to react to situations in a way that's the total opposite of your true relationship desires. This is why getting to the root of burnout so that you don't avoid, shutdown, or make emotionally reactive decisions with potential partners can quickly transform this feeling and put you on the path to enjoying courtship, better dating experiences, and believing in love again.
In this episode we discuss why you are feeling burnt out, what to do about it, and steps to burnout around moving forward.
JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CODE:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Links mentioned in this episode:
Free Love Loops Roadmap
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/F5jLDLyy
Love Loops Masterclass:
https://captivatingcourtship.mykajabi.com/offers/mkpumLKR
Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code coaching:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching
Join The Worthy Woman coaching community:
https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/worthywaitlist
Find Your Path to Love:
www.captivatingcourtship.com/queenofcourtship
Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship.com
Customer Reviews
Excellent & insightful
I started by listening to this podcast for abt a year consistently and when I finally got committed to realizing my love goals and admitted I didn’t know how to reach them myself and needed support I joined Captivating Courtship group coaching course. Best end of 2020 decision I’d made.
There’s a lot of info that I’ve learned on CC podcast that I either hadn’t heard of elsewhere or it lead me to dig deeper to research and learn more. I like that Zara J is not only positive about marriage and relationships but also balanced in her approach to talking to women about how to go about achieving our relationship goals while being high value and feeling cherished along the way. Her coaching is even better and has helped me transform into the woman who knows her worth and knows how to be in a positive & happy relationship with men where I feel at ease and it’s fulfilling my vision of love and marriage.
Not even close
She basically skims the surface of a topic without going deep, because she wants you to pay for her program on the website she advertises.
Leveling up in love
This podcast is full of gems that help me self reflect and provide tools to leveling up in my love life. Thanks Zara 😊