Courtship Code

Courtship Code
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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code. Resources: Www.captivatingcourtship.com Instagram: @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Like, Subscribe, leave a Review and Share!

  1. 05/06/2025

    #1 Reason High-Achieving Muslim Women Keep Attracting Situationships S8E10

    If you're a high-achieving Muslim woman with an anxious attachment style, chances are you've found yourself in the same painful cycle — deep emotional connections that feel like the start of something real… but never lead to marriage. In this episode, we unpack the #1 reason you keep attracting situationships and how your emotional openness can actually attract the wrong men if you don’t know how to qualify them for long-term commitment. We’ll explore: Why anxiously attached women are amazing at bonding, but often ignore signs of low commitment The hidden fears that keep you stuck in unaligned courtships longer than you should be Why emotional chemistry and compatibility aren’t enough How to spot marriage-readiness in the first 30 days The mindset shift you need to stop chasing and start choosing Plus, learn how the Captivating Courtship Code teaches you to effortlessly qualify a man for commitment so you never again waste your time on another unclear, emotionally exhausting situationship. 🎧 Tune in and take your power back in the courtship process. Resources & Links: 🔹 Register for the Free Training: Register Here 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now 🔹 Watch 3 Step Courtship Blueprint Training: Watch Now 🔹 Get the Captivating Courtship Playbook: Get Playbook 🔹 Join the FREE Facebook Group: Join Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now🔹 Follow us on Instagram for daily relationship insights: Follow Now🔹 Book a Marriage Match Blueprint Strategy Call: Book Yours Today

    22 min

  2. 04/25/2025

    Anxiously Attached Muslim Women Who Want Marriage S8E9

    In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the unique challenges faced by anxiously attached Muslim women in their journey to marriage. If you're tired of cycles of situationships and heartbreak, this episode is for you. We explore the three essential shifts you must make to break free and manifest the love you deserve: Get Clear on Your Vision of Love: Learn how to define what a healthy, fulfilling marriage looks like for you—and commit to it fully. Build Trust and Emotional Security: Discover how emotional management and cultivating trust can pave the way for a strong, stable relationship. Focus on Your Captivating Life: Understand how to stop chasing and rediscover your sense of self so that you attract love rather than losing yourself in it. Join us as we break down these key shifts and help you move from frustration to empowerment in your courtship journey. It's time to stop the patterns and create the marriage you deserve. 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now 🔹 Watch 3 Step Courtship Blueprint Training: Watch Now 🔹 Get the Captivating Courtship Playbook: Get Playbook 🔹Join The Courtship Blueprint Course: Join Now 🔹 Join the FREE Facebook Group: Join Now 🔹Discover the Key to Your Courtship Success: Take Quiz Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now 🔹 Follow us on Instagram for daily relationship insights: Follow Now 🔹 Book a Marriage Match Blueprint Strategy Call: Book Yours Today

    29 min

  3. 04/11/2025

    You’re Not Alone: How to Break Isolation & Build Your Village in Courtship S8E8

    Courtship can feel like a lonely road—especially for Muslim women navigating it with strong values, big dreams, and a desire to do things the right way. Whether you’re feeling like no one around you “gets it,” tired of getting advice that doesn’t align with your faith or goals, or silently questioning if you’re the only one struggling—this episode is your reminder: you’re not alone. In this episode of Patterned, we explore: ✨ Why isolation in courtship is so common for high-achieving Muslim women ✨ How lack of aligned support can lead to self-doubt, overthinking, and emotional burnout ✨ What it really means to have a "village" of women around you who understand and uplift you ✨ The role of sacred sisterhood in healing patterns, restoring confidence, and staying aligned with your values ✨ Practical ways to connect with community, even if you feel like you're the only one on this journey You’ll also learn how being in intentional, aligned spaces like coaching communities, pattern rewiring groups, and sisterhood circles can be the very thing that transforms your courtship experience—and helps you show up as your most confident, supported, and emotionally clear self. 💫 If you’ve ever felt like the only one trying to do courtship consciously, this episode is your sign to stop walking alone—and find your village. 🎁 Free Resources Mentioned: 🔹 Watch 3 Step Courtship Blueprint Training: Watch Now 🔹 Get the Captivating Courtship Playbook: Get Playbook 🔹Join The Courtship Blueprint Membership Community: Join Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now🔹 Follow us on Instagram for daily relationship insights: Follow Now 🔹 Book a Marriage Match Blueprint Strategy Call: Book Yours Today

    54 min

  4. 04/04/2025

    6 Steps to Go From Breakup to Bride for Muslim Women S8E7

    If you're fresh out of a breakup or caught in a cycle of almost-relationships, this episode is your roadmap to healing, alignment, and real commitment. In this powerful episode, I’m sharing the 6 transformative steps to go from heartbreak to high-value courtship — and eventually, to becoming a bride. These steps will help you stop wasting time on situationships, rebuild your confidence, and position yourself for intentional love with a commitment-ready partner. Whether you're healing from rejection, dating with confusion, or doubting if love is still possible for you — this is your sign that it is. Let’s walk the path from pain to partnership, together. How to trust yourself and love again after heartbreak Why increasing your self-worth is the foundation of aligned love How to meet matches who are emotionally available and marriage-ready The difference between dating and courtship How to create deep emotional connection with potential partners What it means to "stay on code" and hold your standards for commitment Heal Wounds to Learn to Trust Again Increase Your Self-Worth & Confidence Meet Aligned, Intentional Matches Court with Clarity (Not Confusion) Create Heart-Centered Emotional Connection Stay on Code for Commitment & Alignment Links Mentioned in This Episode:  Watch 3 Step Courtship Blueprint Training: Watch Now 🔹 Get the Captivating Courtship Playbook: Get Playbook 🔹Join The Courtship Blueprint Membership Community: Join Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now 🔹 Follow us on Instagram for daily relationship insights: Follow Now

    40 min

  5. 03/28/2025

    The First 30 Days of Courtship – The Most Important Mistake to Avoid S6E6

    In today’s episode of the Captivating Courtship Podcast, we’re diving into one of the biggest mistakes high-achieving women make in the first 30 days of courtship—and how it silently sabotages meaningful connection. If you’ve ever felt the need to prove your worth, push the relationship forward, or dismiss men too quickly—this episode will speak directly to your heart. Discover how masculine “doing” energy shows up in the early stages of courtship and how shifting into feminine alignment can help you attract emotionally available love with ease and clarity. Why high-achieving women unconsciously fall into masculine energy in the first 30 days of courtship How over-investing or overanalyzing too soon leads to emotional burnout and self-sabotage The difference between healthy observation and fear-based judgment How to receive love without performance, pressure, or proving your worth Simple mindset shifts to stay grounded in feminine energy while navigating new connections 🔑 What You’ll Learn: Why high-achieving women unconsciously fall into masculine energy in the first 30 days of courtship How over-investing or overanalyzing too soon leads to emotional burnout and self-sabotage The difference between healthy observation and fear-based judgment How to receive love without performance, pressure, or proving your worth Simple mindset shifts to stay grounded in feminine energy while navigating new connections Resources & Links: 🔹 Register for the Free Training: Register Here 🔹 Watch 3 Step Courtship Blueprint Training: Watch Now 🔹 Get the Captivating Courtship Playbook: Get Playbook 🔹Join The Courtship Blueprint Membership Community: Join Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code: Apply Now

    26 min

  6. 03/22/2025

    Why High-Value Muslim Women Never Beg for Love S8E5

    In this episode, we explore why high-value Muslim women never beg for love—and why you shouldn’t either. If you've ever found yourself overextending, emotionally chasing, or trying to prove your worth in courtship, this conversation will help you realign with your value. Discover how to embody confidence, trust in divine timing, and create space for the love that’s already written for you. What it really means to "beg for love" and how it shows up in courtship The mindset of a high-value Muslim woman grounded in taqwa, self-worth, and trust in Allah’s decree Why setting boundaries and walking away is an act of self-trust—not scarcity Three practical steps to stop chasing and start attracting aligned, marriage-ready love When a woman feels unseen or unworthy, she often tries to do more—but a high-value woman knows her worth is not up for negotiation. A high-value woman doesn't convince someone to choose her—she aligns with someone already seeking what she offers. Begging is rooted in fear and lack. Walking away is rooted in faith and self-respect. You were not created to chase what is already written for you. Choosing yourself is how you make space for the right partner to choose you, too. Resources Mentioned: The Simple 3 Step Courtship Blueprint Training The Courtship Blueprint Membership The Captivating Courtship Code In This Episode, You'll Learn:Key Takeaways:

    41 min

  7. 03/14/2025

    The #1 Thing Keeping You Stuck in Cycles of Disappointment in Love

    If you’re a high-achieving Muslim woman struggling with courtship, feeling frustrated by inconsistent men, and wondering why you keep getting ghosted, rejected, or why things never seem to move forward, this episode is for you. In this episode, we uncover: The real reason you feel stuck in cycles of disappointment in love Why trying to control courtship is actually pushing marriage further away How to embody Captivating Queen Energy to attract a commitment-ready man The mindset shifts that make marriage happen faster The truth is, successful courtship is not about waiting passively or trying to force things to happen. It is about aligning with trust, attraction, and taking high-quality courtship actions without stress or overthinking. If you have not made it to 90 days of courtship in 12 months or more, join The Courtship Blueprint—a community designed to help you master the skills to meet men, embody attraction, and learn to trust and surrender by taking courtship 30 days at a time. Sign up for our FREE 5-Day Training: "The Simple 3-Step Courtship Blueprint for High-Achieving Muslim Women"This proven framework will show you how to attract a compatible, marriage-ready man without stress or wasting time. What You’ll Learn in This 5-Day Training: Day 1: How to Surrender and Trust the Process to Attract a Compatible Husband Day 2: How to Meet Marriage-Ready Men Day 3: How to Make Heart-Centered Connections Day 4: The First 30 Days of Courtship—What Works & What Doesn’t Day 5: The Path to Marriage Without Wasting Time Join the free training now: Click Here

    39 min

  8. 02/21/2025

    The #1 Courtship Mistake Keeping You Stuck in Confusion S8E3

    Have you ever found yourself deeply connected to a man—feeling the attraction, the chemistry, and the emotional bond—only to realize months or even years later that he’s still not ready to marry? You keep waiting, hoping, and trying to make things work, but deep down, you know this relationship isn’t leading to marriage. This is the #1 mistake keeping high-achieving Muslim women stuck in confusion: staying in relationships that aren’t going anywhere. In this episode, I’m breaking down: ✔️ Why so many women waste time in relationships that don’t lead to marriage ✔️ How to stop chasing commitment and start making high-quality courtship decisions ✔️ The Captivating Courtship Code (CCC) process that helps women take back their power and attract a commitment-ready husband If you’re tired of uncertainty and ready to step into a confident, aligned approach to courtship, this episode is for you! Why women stay in relationships that don’t lead to marriage and how to recognize the early signs The biggest mindset shift you need to start making confident courtship decisions The difference between men who are commitment-ready vs. men who waste your time The 3 essential elements of a crystal-clear Vision of Love that helps you attract marriage A real-life CCC success story of a high-achieving woman who broke free from waiting for the wrong man and got married within months How you can start making empowered, high-quality courtship decisions today This free training, “How to Qualify, Court, Commit: A Workshop for High-Achieving Muslim Women Ready for Marriage” is happening soon, and you don’t want to miss it!Save Your Seat Now: Register Now This exclusive training will show you: ✅ How to qualify the right men for marriage and avoid dead-end relationships ✅ The exact steps to move from courtship to marriage without pressure or fear ✅ The mindset shifts and courtship strategy that have helped countless women attract commitment-ready men Spots are limited, so register now! 🔹 Register for the Free Training:Register Here 🔹 Get the Captivating Courtship Playbook: Get Playbook 🔹Discover the Key to Your Courtship Success:Take Quiz Now 🔹 Join the Captivating Courtship Code:Apply Now 🔹 Follow us on Instagram for daily relationship insights:Follow Now 🔹 Book a Marriage Match Blueprint Strategy Call:Book Yours Today  If you enjoyed this episode, please:✔ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify – it helps more women find this podcast! ✔ Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it. ✔ Take a screenshot and tag me on Instagram @captivatingcourtship – I’d love to hear your biggest takeaway! You deserve a relationship that leads to real commitment and marriage—and I’m here to help you make that happen. Let’s break the cycle and start making empowered relationship decisions today! Listen now and get ready to transform your love life. Save Your Seat for the Free Training  What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Free Training: How to Qualify, Court, CommitResources & Links:Loved This Episode? Here’s What to Do Next:

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Join Relationship coach, author and experienced matchmaker, Zara J., every week as she delivers courtship and dating advice for ambitious, high achieving, and successful women looking to break up with past relationship trauma and low self worth, and learn how to embody feminine energy, authenticity, and court compatible men for commitment. Using a combination of spirituality, psychology, and matchmaking techniques, Zara created the Captivating Courtship Code. Resources: Www.captivatingcourtship.com Instagram: @zarajcaptivatingcourtship Like, Subscribe, leave a Review and Share!

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    Courtship Code
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2025
  • Episodes
    317
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