Cozy Notes

Xuan Klevecka

Grab a cuppa (no judgment if it’s lukewarm), and let’s talk about slowing down, savoring the everyday, and finding joy in life’s small moments—without pretending we’ve got it all together. xuanklevecka.substack.com

  1. 11/11/2025

    Are You Addicted to the Chaos? Let’s Talk Cortisol Addiction

    When life finally feels calm… do you get a little twitchy?Like you’re waiting for the next shoe to drop—or worse, you create something to stress about? In this episode, we’re unpacking cortisol addiction—what happens when your body becomes so used to stress that it actually starts craving it. From overcommitting and doomscrolling to picking up everyone else’s problems, many of us are unintentionally addicted to chaos. Let’s talk about how it happens, the signs you might be stuck in that pattern, and the small, practical ways to calm your nervous system so you can finally feel safe slowing down. In this episode: * What cortisol addiction is and how it develops * Why calm can feel uncomfortable after chronic stress * Signs you might be addicted to chaos (and how to recognize them) * Simple tools to regulate your nervous system and create white space * How to reframe rest as productive and essential Go Deeper with Unrushed: A Cozy Guide to Intentional Living If this episode resonated, my eBook Unrushed: A Cozy Guide to Intentional Living will help you take the next step. It’s your gentle roadmap for slowing down, breaking the cycle of chaos, and finding peace in the everyday moments of your life. Inside, you’ll find cozy reflections, mindset shifts, and practical ways to reset your nervous system and design a life that feels grounded, calm, and aligned. Grab your copy of Unrushed here If you found this episode helpful, would you share it with a friend or leave a quick review? It helps this cozy little podcast reach more women who are ready to live slower, softer, and more intentionally. xo, Xuan This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit xuanklevecka.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min
  2. 11/04/2025

    Feeling Burnt Out? You Might Be Focusing on the Wrong Things

    Do you ever feel like you’re constantly putting out fires—responding to everyone else’s needs, juggling endless tasks, and ending each day wondering if you actually did anything that mattered to you? In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between what’s urgent and what’s important—and how to stop living in reaction mode so you can start designing your days with intention. Because just because something feels urgent doesn’t mean it deserves your energy. In this episode:✨ Why urgency has become our default mode (and how it leads to burnout)✨ How to identify what’s truly important—and what’s just noise✨ Real-life examples of urgent vs. important tasks✨ How to create boundaries around your time and energy✨ Simple shifts to move from reactive to intentional living Go Deeper with Unrushed: A Cozy Guide to Intentional LivingIf you’re ready to slow down, simplify, and start focusing on what actually matters, grab my eBook Unrushed: A Cozy Guide to Intentional Living — your gentle roadmap to building a calm, intentional life that feels good from the inside out. Inside, you’ll find practical tools, mindset shifts, and cozy reflections to help you move from busy and burnt out to present and peaceful. Grab your copy of Unrushed here If this episode resonated, would you share it with a friend or leave a short review?It helps this cozy little podcast reach more women who are ready to live slower, simpler, and more intentionally. xo, Xuan This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit xuanklevecka.substack.com/subscribe

    5 min
  3. 10/29/2025

    13 Cozy Ways to Feel Human Again

    Ever notice how everything online feels the same lately?Same sounds, same trends, same outrage.It’s like the whole internet’s yelling — and we’ve forgotten how to just be. In this episode of Cozy Notes, I’m sharing 13 cozy, grounding things to do when the internet feels loud and life feels overstimulating. These are simple, soulful practices to help you feel human again — to reconnect with real life, real people, and real peace. I recorded/filmed this one outside at the park, because honestly? That’s where I’ve been finding my calm lately — in quiet, imperfect moments between errands, drop-offs, and homeschool class runs. So grab your headphones, step outside with me, and let’s slow down together. ✨ In this episode: * Why everything online feels repetitive (and what that’s doing to our nervous systems) * 13 cozy ways to unplug and reconnect with real life * How to find joy in simplicity again * The power of real connection — from pen pals to porch sits * Why slowing down is the new rebellion ☕ Mentioned in this episode: * Postcrossing — the postcard exchange site I mentioned * My ebook: Unrushed: A Cozy Guide to Intentional Living — your gentle roadmap to living slower, simplifying your days, and finding joy in the everyday again. 💛 If this episode spoke to you: Share it with a friend who needs a cozy reminder to slow down — or leave a quick review on your favorite podcast app. It helps this little cozy corner of the internet grow and reach more women who are ready to live slower, simpler, and more intentionally. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit xuanklevecka.substack.com/subscribe

    36 min
  4. 10/23/2025

    The Fear of Letting Go Is Worse Than the Letting Go

    We spend so much energy clinging—to old routines, roles, expectations, or even identities—because we’re afraid of what might happen if we let go. But most of the time? The fear itself is far worse than the letting go. In this episode, I’m talking about why releasing things (even good things) can feel so scary, why it’s actually an act of self-trust, and how to start letting go with more ease. Because once you do, you realize how much lighter, freer, and more peaceful life can feel. In this episode:✨ Why our brains cling to the familiar, even when it’s not working✨ How the anticipation of letting go feels bigger than the action itself✨ What letting go can look like in real life (hint: it’s not always dramatic)✨ How letting go builds self-trust and creates emotional space✨ What’s waiting for you on the other side of fear Ready to Let Go and Realign? Join The Cozy Fall Reset 🍂If this episode resonated and you’re craving a slower, more intentional way to move through the season, I’d love to invite you to join The Cozy Fall Reset—a 5-day guided experience to help you reflect, release, and realign your life with what truly matters. Together, we’ll focus on creating space for calm, clarity, and joy as we head into the busy months ahead. Join The Cozy Fall Reset If this episode spoke to you, would you share it with a friend or leave a short review?It helps this cozy little podcast reach more women who are ready to slow down, simplify, and live with intention this season. xo, Xuan This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit xuanklevecka.substack.com/subscribe

    4 min

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Grab a cuppa (no judgment if it’s lukewarm), and let’s talk about slowing down, savoring the everyday, and finding joy in life’s small moments—without pretending we’ve got it all together. xuanklevecka.substack.com