Create with Franz

Franz Sidney - The Art of Living

A podcast dedicated to sharing actionable steps we can take to improve our well being and mental health, so we can create the life we want!

  1. 2d ago

    How to build new skills from scratch

    Mindset and money are crucial for self-reliance, but eventually, you have to build something with your own two hands. In this episode, we sit down with Dave Gulas, co-founder of EZDC 3PL and host of the Beyond Fulfillment Podcast. After 20 years in corporate sales, Dave decided to build a podcast from scratch with zero budget, zero tech skills, and zero permission. Today, nearly 300 episodes later, his show ranks in the top 1.5% globally. Dave joins us to expose the "permission trap"—why we hide behind endless research, courses, and credentials instead of just doing the work. He breaks down how to build genuine self-reliance by taking messy, imperfect action, showing up for "the reps," and turning self-taught skills into a powerful way to serve others. What you'll learn in this episode: Why confidence is built on evidence, not courses or coaches. How to break an intimidating new skill down before you break down. The power of tracking your inputs (what you control) instead of your outcomes (what you don't). How to start your "minimum viable rep" today with zero dollars. Topics covered: self taught skills, dave gulas, build confidence through action, how to start a podcast with no budget, personal growth, career transition tips, overcoming analysis paralysis, self reliance skills, beyond fulfillment, taking messy action   Eager to build your next skill? Grab a copy of Josh Kaufman's bestseller, The First 20 Hours: How to Learn Anything... Fast! On Amazon here: https://amzn.to/4w0nhVf Ready to master new skills whether you are 20 or 65? A practical method to acquire the exact expertise needed to outsmart the competition is what you need. Get your copy of Scott H. Young's Wall Street Journal bestseller, 'Ultralearning: The Essential Guide To Mastering Hard Skills And Future-Proofing Your Career' on Amazon here: https://amzn.to/3TCeNoV (Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate, I earn a small commission from qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you.) This is the first episode of a new series where we will explore what it means to become self sufficient or self reliant in all areas of our life. From health to finances emotional wellness, and then down deep into practical skills, this is goign to be an exiciting time to rebuild our future.  Did you like this type of conversation? What would you like us to discuss next? Leave your thoughts in the comments. To learn more about Dave's work visit: https://ezdc3pl.com/   🙏🏼 Thank you for investing your valuable time with us today. If this message spoke to your soul, you are now a messenger. Choose to be the light today and help someone to change their life, too. 🌅 Share the Light: leave a comment, hit subscribe and share this episode right now with one friend who needs an actionable solution. ✍🏼 Leave your legacy: write a quick rating and review on iTunes to help others find true wellness. This is a zero cost way to spread your message even further. ❤️ Thank you for being the reason this message reaches the world. God bless you!

    How to build new skills from scratch
  2. Aug 8

    How sound shapes the human experience

    What if sound is more than just a background track to our lives, but a fundamental tool for building brain function and human connection? Join us for an immersive conversation with Emmy-winning composer, jazz saxophonist, and educator Hayes Greenfield. With a career spanning over 70 film scores and decades of live performance, Hayes explores the "Human Premium"—the raw, tactile power of sound that transcends language barriers.  Beyond the stage, Hayes is transforming early childhood education and neurocognitive care through his Creative Sound Play initiative. Supported by leaders in neuroscience, his work demonstrates how intentional listening and sound-making bridge the educational gap by developing critical executive function skills. He shares how a teacher was able to calm down a 3 y.o. girl with a clucking sound, and how a non-verbal student spoke for the first time during one of the sessions held by Hayes, bringing the teachers to tears. Hayes reminds us that tuning into our sonic environment is a play-based pathway to a kinder, more mindful world. What will you do to incorporate sound into your skillset and daily habits? Topics Covered Sound, Music, Neuroscience, Executive Function, Early Childhood Education, Human Connection, Creative Sound Play, Community Building, Mindfulness, Neurodiversity, sound builds brain function, sound for connection.   Watch this interview here: https://youtu.be/wTI2cAzXRXA   Who is Hayes? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hayes_Greenfield Find Hayes here: https://www.hayesgreenfield.com 🙏🏼 Thank you for investing your valuable time with us today. If this message spoke to your soul, you are now a messenger. Choose to be the light today and help someone to change their life, too. 🌅 Share the Light: leave a comment, hit subscribe and share this episode right now with one friend who needs an actionable solution. ✍🏼 Leave your legacy: write a quick rating and review on iTunes to help others find true wellness. ❤️ Thank you for being the reason this message reaches the world. God bless you!     Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. We are not responsible for any actions taken based on the information provided.

    How sound shapes the human experience
  3. Aug 1

    Why You Are Burning Out At 50 - and how to reclaim your peace with somatic therapies

    Are you a middle aged woman on the top of your career in a high-stakes environment? Maybe you are the one everyone depends on—meeting deadlines and managing teams with outward grace. But internally, the cost of "over-functioning" and now redesigning your role with AI in mind, has become unsustainable. If traditional productivity hacks like time-blocking and mindset reframes are making you feel worse,  if rest makes you feel guilty, it's time to look beneath the surface. In this episode, Dr. Julie Merriman explains why midlife burnout is a nervous system injury, not a lack of discipline. We dive into how somatic therapies and grounding help professional women move away from the urgency of "pushing through" to build a foundation of genuine internal calm.  You'll learn why chronic exhaustion physically blocks the cognitive flexibility needed for new digital tools and how to set boundaries based on your actual physiological capacity rather than just willpower.  Join us for a conversation about reclaiming your energy and approaching your next career chapter from a state of regulation and radiance, instead of guilt and exhaustion. Topics covered: symptoms of burnout in professional women, somatic therapy for stress, high achieving women over 50 burnout, nervous system regulation, compassion fatigue in leadership, midlife career reinvention stress, productivity advice for exhausted women, cognitive flexibility and AI, how to stop over functioning at work, signs of nervous system overwhelm, somatic healing for executives, burnout recovery for women 50 plus, why is time blocking not working Watch this episode here: https://youtu.be/rzUR9FAdt6A Find Julie Merriman here: https://www.juliemerrimanphd.com/   🙏🏼 Thank you for investing your valuable time with us today. If this message spoke to your soul, you are now a messenger. Choose to be the light today and help someone to change their life, too. 🌅 Share the Light: leave a comment, hit subscribe and share this episode right now with one friend who needs an actionable solution. ✍🏼 Leave your legacy: write a quick rating and review on iTunes to help others find true wellness. ❤️ Thank you for being the reason this message reaches the world. God bless you!     Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. We are not responsible for any actions taken based on the information provided.

    Why You Are Burning Out At 50 - and how to reclaim your peace with somatic therapies
  4. Jul 25

    Sound: a bridge to the Divine

    I had the great experience of sitting down with Jeralyn Glass, an internationally acclaimed opera star turned sound healing pioneer and author of Sacred Vibrations. Following the tragic loss of her son, Jeralyn transitioned from the stages of Broadway to the forefront of holistic medicine, discovering how crystalline sound can act as a powerful healing tool for the mind and body. From a scientific perspective, sound healing is rooted in the principles of entrainment and vibro-acoustics. Every organ and cell in the human body vibrates at a specific frequency; when we are stressed or ill, these frequencies can fall out of "tune."  Jeralyn explains how coherent sound waves can physically interact with the nervous system to shift brain states from active Beta waves to restorative Alpha and Theta patterns. This process measurably lowers cortisol, reduces blood pressure, and stimulates the vagus nerve, moving the body out of a "fight or flight" response and into a state of cellular repair. We dive into the science behind Alchemy Crystal Singing Bowls and how specific vibrational frequencies can lower blood pressure, reduce stress hormones, and assist patients ranging from veterans to those in hospice care. Jeralyn—who has shared her expertise on The Kelly Clarkson Show and worked with icons like Jhené Aiko, SZA, Bruce Lipton, Greg Braiden and Kobe Bryant—shares how to treat your own body as a "vibrating instrument." Tune in to learn how to integrate "Music as Medicine" into your daily life through simple humming, movement, and intentional listening. If you listen to the end, in the audio podcast version, not the YouTube one, you will be able to enjoy Jeralyn's amazing voice in five musical pieces (One being a meditation) ————————————————————————————————————— Also, there is a small but important correction I wish to make. Talking about the power of music and how it is often divinely inspired, the story came to my mind of how Naomi Randall composed the beloved hymn, 'I am a child of God.' Thanks to my fashion design focused mind, I instead said it was Naomi Campbell, who is a great model but *not* the composer of this hymn, bless her.  For those who might be interested, here is how the hymn words came to the original Naomi: "That evening, I got down on my knees and prayed aloud, pleading that our Heavenly Father would let me know the right words. Around 2:00 A.M. I awakened and began to think again about the song. Words came to my mind. . . . I immediately got up and began to write the words down as they had come to me. Three verses and a chorus were soon formed. I gratefully surveyed the work, drank of the message of the words, and returned to my bedroom where I knelt before my Father in Heaven to say 'Thank you!'" (Source: https://www.ldsliving.com/the-powerful-stories-behind-i-am-a-child-of-god-i-need-thee-every-hour-3-other-beloved-hymns/s/88514_)  Copyright note: the copyright to "I Am a Child of God" is owned by Intellectual Reserve, Inc., a corporation established by the LDS Church to hold its intellectual property. Intellectual Reserve allows copying or downloading of the music and lyrics of the song for incidental, noncommercial church, or noncommercial home uses.   I also mentioned the Christmas Truce. During the recording, which is not scripted, I could not remember any details about it, as this idea came as we were talking. However, the Christmas Truce recounts the story of German and British soldiers who sung together Silent Night at Christmas. During the editing process, I found a Sainsbury's advert made with the Royal British Legion, which accurately describes how the scene unravelled. I dare you not to cry when you watch it and think of how the power of music brought these brave young men together that week. In some areas, men from both sides ventured into no man's land on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day to mingle and exchange food and souvenirs. There were joint burial ceremonies and prisoner swaps, while several meetings ended in carolling. Watch the Sainsbury's advert here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWF2JBb1bvM  I am in no wya affiliated...     Topics Covered Definition of music as medicine, The origins of sound healing, Science of crystalline sound and singing bowls, Vibrational frequencies for mental focus, Music as a prescription for stability, Physical health benefits of sound, journey through grief, Using the human voice as a healing tool, Mindfulness in musical consumption, Highlights from the Source - Be Inspired App, I am a child of God, how music touches the soul, music as connection. Watch this episode here: https://youtu.be/fgDyxEFX0Xc   The Source - Be Inspired app is available for download. Sacred Vibrations is now available anywhere you buy books. Affiliate Amazon Book Link: https://amzn.to/4uvoCT1 Jeralyn Glass Website: http://www.jeralynglass.com/ Crystal Cadence Website: http://www.crystalcadence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crystalcadencela/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crystalcadencela/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeqJQkuTKj6u8ZiUAFGVC3w   🙏🏼 Thank you for investing your valuable time with us today. If this message spoke to your soul, you are now a messenger. Choose to be the light today and help someone to change their life, too. 🌅 Share the Light: leave a comment, hit subscribe and share this episode right now with one friend who needs an actionable solution. ✍🏼 Leave your legacy: write a quick rating and review on iTunes to help others find true wellness. ❤️ Thank you for being the reason this message reaches the world. God bless you!   Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. We are not responsible for any actions taken based on the information provided.   Quotes: 'The sounds we produce create a bridge between the seen and the unseen, the Earth and the Divine…the celestial realms are then connected to the Earth.'

    Sound: a bridge to the Divine
  5. Jul 18

    Is Artificial Intelligence making you comfortably numb?

    As the world debates if AI will take our jobs, playwright and CTO Doug Clarke is worried about something much quieter: is AI taking our humanity and replacing our friends and therapists?  In this frank chat, we dive into the meaning of our relationship with artificial intelligence through the unique intersection of Hollywood innovation and the Off-Broadway stage.  Doug shares his journey from building high-level tech systems at DTS and IMAX to writing deeply vulnerable plays like Soulmate and Anxious Attachment. We explore the seductive danger of AI companions—tools that never tire, never withdraw, and never ask anything of us—and why that "perfect" consistency is actually a barrier to the healing found in human struggle. If we are relying more and more on Artificial Intelligence as a friend of therapist, Doug - who has been having therapy for years with a real person - offers a wise perspective: set up healthy boundaries! What you will learn from him: The Difference Between Convenience and Growth: Why the "messiness" of human relationships is a requirement for emotional maturity. AI as an Emotional Anesthetic: How those with anxious attachment styles are at risk of using technology to soothe surface-level pain while leaving the underlying wounds unaddressed. The Architecture of "Human Premium" Art: How to lean into live, emotional experiences that digital models can never replicate. Practical Boundaries: How to use AI as a high-efficiency tool without letting it become an emotional escape.   About Doug: Doug serves on the executive committee of the Television Academy's Science and Technology peer group, where he puts together educational programs on the principles of agentic AI in their industry. He is also a playwright. Last year his first play, Soulmate, opened in Los Angeles and then ran off-Broadway in New York. It's a story about grief, depression, and how love can become its own kind of haunting when we don't know how to heal through its loss.  Quotes: AI is becoming, for a lot of people, the most consistent presence in their lives. An AI chatbot is always available to you. It does not get tired of you. It does not get tired at all. It does not withdraw. It does not have its own needs that compete with yours. For a person whose history with other humans may have felt inconsistent, frustrating, or painful, the consistency and presence AI offers can feel like relief.  It can develop into a feeling that can be compared to a kind of love. But what it's doing is quietly keeping us from developing the greater sense of who we are in a world that we share with billions of others. How we need to work hard to truly see, accept, and love others. We are walking into something we are not built for: the slow replacement of the harder, messier, and more honest work of human connection with a simple comfort.  A comfort not found in nature. A comfort that asks nothing of us in return. AI by itself isn't the problem.  The problem is what happens when we start to depend on it to avoid the exact human experiences we need in order to grow, and to stay connected to the people around us. For those with an anxious attachment style, AI is a near perfect anesthetic, because it soothes the surface without ever coming close to the wound underneath.  Topics covered: AI, Anxious Attachment, and the Future of Human Art, is AI good for Therapy, need of human connection, AI friends, emotional growth,    Find Doug here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/douglasaclarke/ Watch this episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/5vsP5gg3Oqs   Suggestions: Wondering about the attachment styles Doug mentioned? Grab the definitive guide to understanding human connection, breaking anxious patterns, and building real-world security: Attached by Amir Levine. This best selling book, featuring over 23k reviews,  is found by clicking the link below (Please note this is an *affiliate* link so I earn something like 5 cents if you actually buy it!) https://amzn.to/3SWGTLs   Trade the chatbot for a blank page. Break the habit of venting to an AI therapist and practice true emotional self-reliance by processing your thoughts by hand with a classic Leuchtturm1917 Hardcover Journal. https://amzn.to/4yndhHw (Please note this is also an *affiliate* link so I earn something like 5 cents if you actually buy it!) This notebook opens flat, doesn't bleed through and is offered in many lovely colours. You are worth it!

    Is Artificial Intelligence making you comfortably numb?
  6. Jul 11

    The ADHD marriage reset: from conflict to growth

    Is ADHD creating a gap between you and your partner?  Maybe you cannot organize household tasks and chores, bills, appointments and shopping. You then get blamed by your partner for 'not caring', forgetting everything that is not written, being 'lazy' and 'not being there.' The accusations escalate and you become offended and defensive. Your partner might act like your parent taking over all the duties that you seem unable to take responsibility for. In the end, your relationship cracks. You stop taking holidays together and doing anything with your partner because it ends up in a fight. You burn out and wonder if your relationship is over.  But this doesn't have to be the end of the story. My guest Dr. Connie McReynolds returns to the show to share how couples can move past the "chore wars" and the "parent-child" dynamic toward a partnership built on understanding and hope. With 30 years of experience in neuro-feedback and psychology, Connie reveals how retraining the brain can turn chronic frustration into a deeper, calmer connection. Here is your roadmap to connection: Recognize the Root: Realizing the problem isn't "laziness"—it's executive function. Shift the Narrative: Moving from "You don't care" to "How does your brain work?" Release Resentment: Learning to stop judging the wiring and start supporting the person. Professional Path: How neuro-feedback and specific tools can bridge the gap. What is ADHD then? It's not a character flaw; it's a brain-wiring challenge that can be retrained. Join us to learn how to stop being roommates in conflict and start being partners in growth.   Topics covered: ADHD relationship success, neurodiverse marriage solutions, overcoming ADHD resentment, ADHD couple communication, neurofeedback for relationships, conflict, tasks, arguments about chores.   For more information go to https://www.conniemcreynolds.com/ and https://www.clarityessential.com/ FREE self check: https://www.clarityessential.com/free-self-check Affiliate link to buy her amazing book ion DHD in children: https://amzn.to/4dRRhwj PS I actually bought and read this book and loved the clear explanation of how a child or teen with ADHD may learn better, understand and follow instructions, and thrive in the education system. As an undiagnosed adult suffering from those symptoms, you might find this book helpful to clarify what's going on inside your mind when you feel frustrated, overwhelmed and unable to follow what others are telling you. Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/YQKAmTQdFDA   🙏🏼 Thank you for investing your valuable time with us today. If this message spoke to your soul, you are now a messenger. Choose to be the light today and help someone to change their life, too. 🌅 Share the Light: leave a comment, hit subscribe and share this episode right now with one friend who needs an actionable solution. ✍🏼 Leave your legacy: write a quick rating and review on iTunes to help others find true wellness. ❤️ Thank you for being the reason this message reaches the world. God bless you! Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. We are not responsible for any actions taken based on the information provided.

    The ADHD marriage reset: from conflict to growth
  7. Jul 4

    Why trends kill creativity when you are buying art

    Have you ever looked at a piece of art in your home and felt… nothing? In a world of fleeting trends and mass-produced convenience, many of us end up with spaces that look "correct" but feel completely disconnected from who we actually are. We buy what is fashionable or what fits the sofa, yet we remain spiritually hungry for a deeper connection to our surroundings. The solution isn't to buy more art, but to understand the "why" behind your own intuition. Sonya Sparks, founder of the Sparks Gallery in San Diego, believes that art is the ultimate path to a meaningful life—provided it reflects your true personality. After a decade of observing how people interact with original works, Sonya developed a unique framework that categorizes collecting styles, helping people move past "decorative" purchases and toward meaningful, lifelong connections. In this episode of Create with Franz, Sonya shares the story of her own journey into the art world and explains how your personality type dictates the art that will truly make you happy. We discuss how to stop following the "rules" of interior design and start listening to the intuitive pull of the human story behind the canvas. If you are tired of living in a space that feels like someone else's catalog, this conversation will give you the tools to reclaim your identity through the power of original art. In this episode, you will learn: Why collecting based on fashion leads to "aesthetic disconnection" and how to break the cycle. How Sonya's unique approach reveals what your preferred art style says about your inner world. Why "human-made" art creates a social bridge that factory prints can never replicate. How to use the "Sparks Gallery Quiz" to find your specific collecting personality. Take the free quiz at sparksgallery.com/quiz to discover your own collecting style before or after listening to the episode! Looking for mentoring and learning how to approach galleries with your artwork?  https://www.gatewaytogalleries.com/g2g-waitlist       Topics covered (SEO) How to find your art style, Sonya Sparks, Sparks Gallery quiz, art and personality types, original art for home decor, art collecting for beginners, meaningful interior design, Southern California art scene, why buy original art, art as identity, Sparks Gallery San Diego, building an art collection, art psychology, how to approach art galleries, art mentoring.     Bio: Before founding Sparks Gallery in 2013, Sonya studied both business and art, curating exhibitions for institutions like the Oceanside Museum of Art and the National Sculpture Society. Her work and programs have been featured in media outlets including Art Business News, Art&Object, Art World News, Modern Luxury (Power List), and Good Morning San Diego. Find Sonya here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sonyasparks/ Watch this episode here: https://youtu.be/JxWaE0x9CWA

    Why trends kill creativity when you are buying art
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