dad easy

Nick Pags

Dad Easy is a podcast about stepping into fatherhood with honesty, intention, and heart. Created by Nick and Bea as a private audio journal for their future kids, it’s become a space for real, unfiltered conversations about the fears, questions, and growth that come with becoming a dad. Each episode explores identity, partnership, and purpose—without pretending to have all the answers. Whether you’re a new dad, aspiring dad, or just curious about fatherhood, Dad Easy reminds you that you don’t have to do it alone.

  1. 10/21/2025

    Why Parenting Doesn't Change You... It Exposes You

    Nick dives into the first month of fatherhood — the sleepless nights, nonstop rocking, and the wild emotions that come with bringing a newborn home. Between feeding struggles, learning about tongue ties, and figuring out what “normal” even means anymore, he’s realizing that parenting doesn’t change who you are — it amplifies what’s already there. From setting boundaries with family to communicating with your partner, everything gets turned up a notch. He opens up about the good, the hard, and the lessons learned along the way, especially when it comes to teamwork and communication with Bea. This episode is all about taking a look at yourself before stepping into dad life. Because when everything gets amplified, the habits and relationships you have now are the ones that’ll define your experience later. Some Topics In This Episode: The first month of fatherhood and sleepless nights Discovering and dealing with Zion’s tongue and lip ties (who knew?!) How parenting amplifies your existing strengths and weaknesses Setting healthy boundaries with family and loved ones Why communication struggles often surface after having a baby Navigating different conflict styles between partners Balancing teamwork and independence in a new family dynamic Emotional and mental adjustments in early parenthood Finding time for health, fitness, and personal priorities Preparing for fatherhood by improving key areas of your life Follow Nick & Bea 🎧 More dadeasy content:  https://www.youtube.com/@dadeasypodcast

    12 min
  2. 10/14/2025

    Dads Need to Hear This in the First 3 Weeks Post Partum

    Becoming a father changed everything. In this raw solo episode, Nick opens up about the whirlwind first month after the birth of his son, Zion. From an unexpected home birth that tested every emotion to the sleepless weeks that followed, Nick shares the powerful lessons, emotional breakdowns, and moments of awe that shaped him as a new dad. He talks about holding space for his wife during labor, the painful reality of breastfeeding, the emotional and physical weight of early parenthood, and what it truly means to show up as a husband and father. Nick reveals how fatherhood is forcing him to grow, reclaim his confidence, and rediscover purpose in ways he never imagined. Some Topics In This Episode: The decision to have a home birth and how it unfolded Catching his son during birth and the emotional aftermath Supporting his wife through postpartum recovery The shock and struggle of the first month as new parents Why breastfeeding can be even harder than giving birth The mental and emotional toll of being a present father Balancing ego, emotion, and support in a relationship Rediscovering strength and discernment as a man Understanding the father’s unique role in child development Why new dads need to celebrate themselves too Navigating family opinions, advice, and expectations Finding beauty in the chaos of early parenthood Follow Nick & Bea 🎧 More dadeasy content: https://www.youtube.com/@dadeasypodcast

    1h 15m
  3. 10/07/2025

    Zion is Born! The Honest Take of Our Home Birth (from Our Bed)

    Becoming new parents has been nothing short of life-changing for Nick and Bea. In this episode, they open up about the raw emotions of welcoming their baby boy, Zion, into the world. From the overwhelming rush of love to the unexpected challenges of feeling replaced and navigating sleepless nights, their reflections capture the beauty and complexity of this transition. Nick shares his thoughts on adjusting to a new family dynamic, while Bea speaks openly about the strength and gratitude she feels after pregnancy and birth. Together, they discuss how their home birth experience, complete with unexpected chaos (including a flooded house), taught them lessons about trust, timing, and resilience. From the importance of slowing down to the profound realization that their baby’s timing was perfect, Nick and Bea find wisdom in every moment, even through their extreme sleep deprivation!   Some Topics In This Episode: The overwhelming first moments of meeting their baby, Zion Nick’s vulnerable confession about feeling replaced in Bea’s eyes How gratitude keeps them grounded in the toughest moments The importance of paternity leave and slowing down for family Daily changes in newborns and the emotional rollercoaster they bring Bea’s reflections on pregnancy, body image, and recovery The reality of sleep deprivation and how parents adapt Learning to let go of outside expectations and distractions Bea’s instinctual “mom mode” and newfound strength The chaos of their home flooding right after birth Why birth is a powerful metaphor for trust and timing in life Lessons they hope to carry forward as parents and individuals Follow Nick & Bea 🎧 More dadeasy content: https://www.youtube.com/@dadeasypodcast

    53 min
  4. 10/01/2025

    The Hidden Risks of Birthing Centers They Don’t Talk About

    At the tail end of their pregnancy, Nick and Bea have made a big decision: they’re moving forward with a home birth. This episode is the Part 2 to episode 10, where they share why the birthing center no longer felt right, what shifted their mindset, and how finding the right midwife and doula gave them the confidence to make the switch. The conversation covers everything from prepping the house and testing the birth tub to navigating family dynamics and keeping stress low. Along the way, Nick opens up about the emotional ups and downs of becoming a dad, while Bea explains how research and intuition played a role in choosing home birth. It’s an honest, laid-back look at what it takes to prepare for one of life’s biggest moments. Some Topics In This Episode: Why Nick and Bea switched from a birthing center to home birth The emotional impact of reaching 37 weeks pregnant What birthing centers provide (and what they don’t) Midwives vs. doulas explained The role of team dynamics in shaping a birth experience Why the placenta process became a dealbreaker Corporate policies vs. personalized care in birthing centers How intuition and research shaped their final decision Preparing the home environment for labor Deciding who to share their birth plans with Understanding risks and relative statistics around birth timing The importance of trusting yourself and your partner in the process Follow Nick & Bea 🎧 More dadeasy content:  https://www.youtube.com/@dadeasypodcast

    1h 16m
  5. 09/23/2025

    Why We Ditched the Hospital for a Home Birth

    Our birthing plan flipped - and it’s a controversial topic. Nick and Bea dive into one of the most personal and controversial parenting topics: where to give birth. From hospitals to birthing centers to home births, they share their journey of research, conversations with professionals, and soul-searching that led them to completely change their birth plan at 35 weeks. They explain the pros and cons of each option, the surprising statistics they uncovered, and why they ultimately decided a home birth felt right for their family. This episode is both an intimate look into their decision-making process and a broader conversation about the importance of informed choices in birth. Some Topics In This Episode: Why they initially kept their birth choice private The importance of listening to your own intuition in major life decisions Hospital vs. home vs. birthing center: what’s really different The role of doulas and midwives explained Why interventions like C-sections and inductions are more common in hospitals How the birth environment affects safety and oxytocin production The partner’s role as protector and supporter during birth Misconceptions around due dates and “overdue” babies Real-life story of a friend pressured into a C-section Statistics comparing birth outcomes across different settings Their decision to shift from birthing center to home birth at 35 weeks Why they’re planning a Part 2 episode to continue the conversation Follow Nick & Bea 🎧 More dadeasy content:  https://www.youtube.com/@dadeasypodcast

    54 min
  6. 09/16/2025

    The Babymoon That Changed Everything at 36 Weeks Pregnant

    It’s been three months since our last recording, and wow… so much has happened. Bea is now 36 weeks pregnant, which means the countdown is officially on. From the massive changes of the third trimester, to traveling for our baby showers in Brazil and New York, to suddenly being buried under 27 packages of gifts (#winning), life has been nothing short of chaotic. Bea opens up about nesting stress, snoring, and the overwhelming need to prepare, while Nick wrestles with career uncertainty and the emotional weight of fatherhood approaching fast. Together, they laugh, vent, and reflect on the rollercoaster of the past few months. This episode has it all, from intentional babymoon (complete with unexpected horse therapy insights) to long conversations about birth plans, fears, and how to stay connected as a couple. This week is an honest look at the messy, beautiful, and sometimes hilarious side of late pregnancy. Some Topics In This Episode: Why it’s been three months since the last recording Traveling to Brazil, Puerto Rico, and New York while pregnant Hosting two baby showers and being showered with gifts The reality of nesting and last-minute preparations Postpartum recovery items Bea still needs to organize Nick’s perspective on fatherhood and career stress How pregnancy has shifted their relationship dynamic The emotional rollercoaster of the final trimester Snoring, cravings, and pregnancy body changes The importance of communication and outside support in relationships Their intentional babymoon experience and what they learned Big conversations before birth: values, fears, and support Follow Nick & Bea 🎧 More dadeasy content: https://www.youtube.com/@dadeasypodcast

    1h 6m

About

Dad Easy is a podcast about stepping into fatherhood with honesty, intention, and heart. Created by Nick and Bea as a private audio journal for their future kids, it’s become a space for real, unfiltered conversations about the fears, questions, and growth that come with becoming a dad. Each episode explores identity, partnership, and purpose—without pretending to have all the answers. Whether you’re a new dad, aspiring dad, or just curious about fatherhood, Dad Easy reminds you that you don’t have to do it alone.