Dadicated Joe

Joe Carr

There's no manual for becoming a dad—but there should be. Dadicated Joe is a new dad's guide to navigating the wild ride of early fatherhood. From the moment you hear "we're pregnant" through those sleepless, life-altering early months, host Joe Carr (dad, husband, and co-founder of Serenity Kids) brings real talk, helpful tips, and shared experiences to the mic. This journey can be overwhelming—you shouldn't have to do it alone. New episodes every Tuesday.

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    49. Fail Well at Fatherhood with SAAD Devon Neisen of Imperfect Dads

    Fatherhood has a 100% failure rate. There is just no way to do it perfectly. Fatherhood gets healthier when you stop chasing a rigid role and start paying attention to what your family actually needs from you.  Devon Neisen brings so much honesty to that. We talk about his role as a stay-at-home dad, masculinity, the pressure of providing for your family, emotional presence, and what it means to be useful in a family without forcing yourself into some old script that no longer fits. There is nothing soft about this conversation. It is practical, honest, and grounded in the real work of showing up. This one is for dads who feel the tension between identity and responsibility. It is for men who are rethinking success, marriage, work-life balance, and what being a good father really looks like when life does not follow the plan you expected. If you have ever wondered whether your value as a dad is bigger than your paycheck, this will hit home. Inside this episode Why so many dads tie their value to being the breadwinner What stay at home dad life can reveal about masculinity and fatherhood How provider pressure affects marriage, identity, and emotional presence Why adapting to your family matters more than chasing the perfect dad role The difference between looking useful and actually being needed at home How dads can rethink success, purpose, and showing up for their kids  👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe Devon Neisen  Devon is married with 3 kids and is a homemaker.  His side hustle is The Imperfect Dads Podcast!  Devon believes that all dads care deeply about their family but rarely have the space to discuss how it's going.  The podcast creates a chance for dads to tell the stories of everyday life that make them proud and exhausted all at the same moment.  When not making sure the family needs are taken care of, Devon is hosting episodes with musicians, authors, and every day dads to learn about their lives! (​​A 9 year old daughter, 7 year old daughter and 4 year old son!)  Socials: https://www.instagram.com/theimperfectdadspodcast/ https://www.tiktok.com/@theimperfectdadspodcast Biotree/llinks to podcast: https://bio.site/Theimperfectdadspodcast

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    48. How to Raise an Autistic Kid to Thrive

    If you're raising an autistic child or have an autistic person in your life, then this episode is for you!   I was diagnosed autistic at 22 — not as a child, and for a long time, I felt broken before I ever understood I was autistic. What made that harder was not just the challenges themselves, but the shame that came from constantly feeling like I was broken or made wrong. But my inhibition, fast mind, creative problem-solving abilities, and my hyper-focus were all part of my autism. They were my superpowers, not problems. This episode is about what changes when we stop treating autism like a problem to fix and start helping autistic kids understand themselves differently. I share what I wish every autism parent knew: the way you talk about autism at home either builds your child's confidence or fills them with shame. The world will already tell your autistic kid they're different. Your job is to make sure they never believe different means broken. If you are raising an autistic kid, supporting one, or trying to understand your own autism more deeply, this will help. Inside this episode Why autism is an identity — not a disease to be treated or a disorder to be fixed How to help your kid harness their autistic superpowers instead of managing their deficits The "second language" approach to ABA therapy that actually works without shaming Why stimming, hyper-focus, and sensitivity are strengths worth celebrating How to raise an autistic child who can self-advocate with pride Learn more and find autism resources, support, and community through the Autism Society of America: https://autismsociety.org/ Lots of helpful videos at www.autismhopealliance.com  Read more about my Autistic journey at www.aspiepower.com 👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe

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    47. Become the King of Your House and Nagging will Cease

    For years, I complained about my wife nagging me or criticizing me. What I finally saw was that I was acting like the house was hers, and I was just there to help. So when she gave me feedback it felt like it was coming from a boss instead of an equal.  This episode is about what changed when I stopped seeing myself as a guy trying to be fair and help my wife with her house, and started seeing the house as 100% my responsibility. That shift changed how I heard feedback, how I showed up in my marriage, and how much resentment I was creating without even realizing it. I talk about what it means to be the king of your house, not in a dominating way, but in a grounded, powerful way. I get into the Fair Play model, scorekeeping, victim mentality, and why a lot of relationship tension comes from men acting like they are subordinate instead of equal. If you are a dad trying to be more present, more powerful, and a better partner at home, its time for you to become king! Inside this episode • Why feedback at home can feel like criticism • The difference between helping and true ownership • How Fair Play exposes the invisible mental load • Why scorekeeping creates resentment in marriage • How victim mentality shows up in dads and kills marriages  • What it takes to become a fully equal partner at home Here are other important episodes that will help you become king: • The Fair Play episode This is the tool kit that teaches you the skills you need to be king of your house, and no longer rely on your wife to teach you or manage you.  End Your Wife's Resentment in 3 Steps - Dadicated Joe | Podcast on Spotify  • The keeping the spark alive after baby episode on how to strengthen your marriage after kids. Kings need to love on their Queen!   How to Keep the Spark Alive After Baby - Dadicated Joe | Podcast on Spotify• The healing your inner child episode so you can see how your past affects the way you show up now and become the King of your inner family https://open.spotify.com/episode/2FaI5VXJ5JmXgEKUHvUM92    • The childhood trauma and parenting episode so you can heal your old wounds and show up as a King instead of a wounded boy Above the Fold Equal partnership starts at home, and this shows dads how to stop helping and start owning their house and its needs 👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe

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    46 The Mistake That Destroys Fathers ft. Kenneth Braswell

    Fatherhood isn't just about parenting. It's about the kind of man I become. In this DadicatedJoe episode with Kenneth Braswell, we explore a deeper idea that has challenged how I think about fatherhood. Kenneth argues that many efforts to "fix fatherhood" miss the real issue. The problem isn't that men don't know how to parent. It's that many men do not know how to be men. Most of us were never taught the life skills that help us become grounded, responsible, powerful men we were meant to be, and our children and partners need.  We talk about growing up without a father, the patterns that lead men to disengage from their families, and why treating dads like boys often pushes them further away. We discuss how fatherhood is as much a community issue as it is a personal issue, so we can stop blaming men for not knowing how to be great husbands and fathers and instead build a society that encourages and supports men to become their best self. Kenneth also challenges one of the most common stereotypes about Black fathers and shares research showing that African American dads are often among the most engaged in day-to-day parenting. 👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe About Kenneth Braswell Kenneth Braswell is the CEO of Fathers Incorporated and Director of the National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse. He's touched millions of dads in over three and a half decades of national leadership, he has delivered more than 900 speaking and training engagements across 34 states and five countries, reaching over one million individuals. His work includes authoring books, hosting the I Am Dad Podcast, and leading innovative fatherhood campaigns. Honored by Oprah Winfrey on the OWN Network and recipient of the 2024 Leaphart Fatherhood Award from Morehouse College, Braswell is a powerful voice for Black fathers and families. He resides in Atlanta with his wife, Tracy, and their loving family. Website: https://fathersincorporated.com/ceo/ Listen to the I Am Dad Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-am-dad/id1638594601  Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kennethbraswell/?hl=en

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    45. When Natural Consequences Don't Work, Use Smart Discipline

    We try not to use punishment or reward as ways to motivate our child's actions because it diminishes their intrinsic motivation and harms the parent/child relationship. See my episode on how we use an evidence-based approach that utilizes natural consequences.  But there are times when natural consequences alone don't work. Like if she refuses to get in the car and I say, "OK, well then we're not going to the store." She says, "Fine, I don't wanna go to the store anyway." And then what? I don't want to yell, threaten, or bribe her, but I still need her to do the thing.  Enter, Smart Discipline. It quickly transformed those daily power struggles through a system that allows her to choose to comply and teach herself accountability from an early age. I teach you the basics in this episode, and there's a link to the book at the bottom.  I also discuss the emotional side of discipline. Kids are still going to have feelings when they face consequences, and part of the job is holding space for those feelings while still maintaining the boundary. Key Topics Discussed • The Smart Discipline system for encouraging cooperation • How house agreements create clear expectations for kids • The X chart that lets children choose between compliance or a consequence • Why discipline works better when kids feel ownership of the decision • Supporting kids' emotions while still enforcing boundaries • Why calm delivery and consistency from parents matter Resources Mentioned Book: Smart Discipline: Fast, Lasting Solutions for Your Peace of Mind and Your Child's Self-Esteem https://www.amazon.com/dp/0066212391?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_KMHF53J6SAFYXWHZN0KM  Get a copy of our Smart Discipline Chart System:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/17UCfohJ9Wz32B8lFaziwf3Mv4mSfX1eU/edit?usp=sharing&ouid=108707302923123148655&rtpof=true&sd=true Watch: Why We Don't Punish or Reward Our Daughter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAF35tAQxh4&list=PLV-0dTh77R_nI1i3WZ7kYeagM51WeC2-h  Watch: The Parenting Mistake That Makes Tantrums Worse https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7dE_MOlwXk&list=PLV-0dTh77R_nI1i3WZ7kYeagM51WeC2-h&index=28 👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe

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    44.How Kids' Shoes Can Damage Long-Term Health with Barak "the Barefoot Guy"

    Most parents focus on the obvious stuff: food, sleep, discipline, and school. But there's another factor that shapes how our kids' bodies develop that almost nobody talks about: their feet. The shoes we put on our kids can affect how their entire body functions for the rest of their life. I tracked down a foot health expert Barak Argov, " the barefoot guy" to learn more about this. He said the best way to talk about foot development was on a hike, so we walked and talked about our foot-health journeys. I also got to test the amazing minimalist shoes Barak designed himself, that he sells at the first-ever barefoot shoe store in Austin, Always Barefoot. Barak has a degree in Physical Education from Wingate College in Israel and has been in barefoot shoes since 2011 (way before it was cool). He spent years studying natural movement and how modern shoes change the way our feet function. He explains why the foot is the foundation of the body, how shoe ridgitty, raised heels and narrow toe boxes interfere with natural development, and why those changes impede optimal performance and often can show up later as bunions, joint pain, back pain, and many other issues. For parents with babies and toddlers, learning about this is a powerful way you can help impact their health and development for life!  Questions This Episode Answers How do modern shoes affect children's foot development? Can bad shoes lead to long-term pain or posture problems? what kinds of issues might be caused by unhealthy footwear?  What kind of shoes should young kids actually wear? How do I find the right shoes for my kid?  Why do narrow shoes and lifted heels change how the body moves? What should parents know about foot health before age four 👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe      About Barak Argov        Website: www.allwaysbarefoot.com        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allwaysbarefoot/        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allways_barefoot/

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    43. Why We Don't Punish or Reward Our Daughter

    I was punished constantly as a kid. I was undiagnosed as autistic and literally incapable of following a lot of the strict rules at school and at home. What punishment taught me wasn't responsibility. It taught me to fear authority, to lie when I needed to, and to focus enormously on pleasing others to avoid getting in trouble. And left me with a deep sense of shame when I constantly fell short, which has taken years of therapy to heal.  In this episode, I explain why we chose not to use punishment or rewards with our daughter. If kids only behave because they're afraid of you, they'll only behave when you're watching. And if they're doing the right thing for a treat, you'll eventually need a bigger treat. That's not character. That's control. And not only does it not work very well, it's also actually a lot harder on us!  Instead, we use an evidence-based that focuses on natural consequences. So if they're using a toy dangerously, we take away the toy. If they make a mess, they clean it up. The point isn't to cause suffering or prove a lesson through pain, it's to help her understand cause and effect and build intrinsic motivation. I don't want a compliant kid who behaves because she's afraid of me. I want a daughter who tells the truth when she messes up because she trusts me. 👇 In this episode, we explore: • What punishment actually teaches kids • Why fear-based discipline fails long-term • How natural consequences build independence • Why rewards damage intrinsic motivation • How to discipline without shame Resources mentioned:  If you're deep in toddler behavior right now, go watch the Toddler Tantrums episode. It'll give you more context on what's actually happening under the surface.  Also there are times when natural consequences don't work, so checkout my upcoming episode on "Smart Discipline" to see what to do for those moments.  Watch on YouTube The Parenting Mistake That Makes Tantrums Worse: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7dE_MOlwXk&list=PLV-0dTh77R_nI1i3WZ7kYeagM51WeC2-h&index=23  And if you want to go deeper into shame-free discipline, check out Janet Lansbury's No Bad Kids and the work from Big Little Feelings. Both are great foundations for raising kids without fear-based control. 👉 Get 15% off your first Serenity Kids order with code: DADICATED15 https://myserenitykids.com/ Being Dadicated isn't about having all the answers. It's about showing up. It's about committing to the kind of dad—and man—you want to be, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Joe Carr is a dad to Della, husband to Serenity, co-founder of Serenity Kids baby food, and the voice behind Dadicated Joe. Follow Joe Carr on social media  Instagram: @dadicatedjoe  TikTok: @dadicatedjoe  YouTube @dadicatedjoe

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    42. How Much Screen Time Should Kids Have with Dr. Susan Linn

    "You are talking about a seven-year-old being addicted to something that was designed to manipulate her." That's uncomfortable to hear. It's also what this week's DadicatedJoe guest, Dr. Susan Linn, said to me. Screen addiction starts earlier than many parents are aware of, and at the same time, we have to acknowledge the real pressure families face. Because screens are everywhere, work demands are high, exhaustion is real, and drawing firm boundaries often feels harder than ever. Excessive screen time is linked to attention issues, poor school performance, sleep disruption, and emotional regulation challenges, which is why I wanted to speak with an expert. Dr. Susan Linn has spent decades studying how media and Big Tech shape children's behavior, attention, and values, and advocating for change. As a psychologist, writer, researcher, and Harvard lecturer, she explains how digital culture is designed to pull children into consumerism and brand loyalty, and how games and devices are built to create dependence for stimulation and soothing. In this eye-opening episode, we unpack the truth behind educational claims, why ad-free does not automatically mean harmless, and how using screens as rewards can quietly increase their power. We also talk about practical screen time boundaries, what health guidelines actually recommend for babies and toddlers, and how parents can reduce screen dependence without constant battles. 👇 In this episode, we explore: How does excessive screen time affect a child's brain development? What are the official screen time guidelines for babies and toddlers? Is screen addiction real in young children? Do educational apps actually help kids learn? How can parents set healthy screen time boundaries in a tech-saturated world? If screen time is already becoming a battle in your house, go watch my episode with Tucker Max on Raising Kids Without Screens. It'll give you a very different lens on what's actually possible. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zweLLC9wkm8&list=PLV-0dTh77R_nI1i3WZ7kYeagM51WeC2-h&index=21  About Dr. Susan Lin  Susan Linn, a psychologist, an author, and an award-winning ventriloquist, is a world-renowned expert on creative play, and the impact of tech and commercial marketing on children. She is Research Associate at Boston Children's Hospital, and Lecturer on Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.   A passionate advocate for children, Dr. Linn was Founding Director of Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood (now called Fairplay) from 2000-2015. She has lectured on the importance of creative play, the impact of tech, media, and marketing on children, and on puppetry as a therapeutic tool, Dr. Linn's books have been praised in publications as diverse as The Wall Street Journal and Mother Jones. Her most recent book, Who's Raising the Kids? Big Tech, Big Business and the Lives of Children received a rave review from The New York Times, which called it "engrossing and insightful." Check out Dr. Susan Linn's latest book, Who's Raising the Kids?: Big Tech, Big Business and the Lives of Children. And to learn more about Susan's incredible work, visit her website https://www.consumingkids.com/

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There's no manual for becoming a dad—but there should be. Dadicated Joe is a new dad's guide to navigating the wild ride of early fatherhood. From the moment you hear "we're pregnant" through those sleepless, life-altering early months, host Joe Carr (dad, husband, and co-founder of Serenity Kids) brings real talk, helpful tips, and shared experiences to the mic. This journey can be overwhelming—you shouldn't have to do it alone. New episodes every Tuesday.