Damns Given with Nick Richtsmeier

Nick Richtsmeier

Brains On. Hearts Open. Forward Motion. For the Trustbroken Economy The world has gotten very good at telling you what's wrong. The platforms are extractive. The institutions are hollow. The algorithm is running the show. Your attention is the product. And somewhere along the way, the message landed: the real decisions are being made somewhere else, by someone else, and there's not much you can do about it. That message is a lie. But it's a convincing one. And when it sinks in deeply enough, disengagement becomes the default. Businesses hold out for someday. Ideas sit in limbo. Leaders optimize for survival instead of building for what they actually believe. We become spectators in a life we're supposed to be living. Damns Given is for the people who refuse to go that quietly and want the practical tools how to play a different game. Hosted by strategist, author, and Trust-Made Growth® founder Nick Richtsmeier, this is a show about what it actually takes to build something real — a venture, a community, a career, a life — in an economy designed to extract everything it can before you notice. Each episode goes one layer beneath the surface conversation to find what's actually true and what's actually worth doing about it. We've talked to a former OpenAI insider about the AI industry's incentive to frighten you. An urban economist about how we've spent 50 years designing cities for dissatisfaction. A negotiation strategist who walked away from a million-dollar platform because it was stealing his focus. Engineers navigating an identity crisis nobody named. Leaders learning that trust isn't a feeling, it's a biological reality with rules you can learn. The questions the podcast will both answer, and keep bringing you back to: Why does every system keep producing the same problems, and what does it take to actually change one?What does it cost to build on a foundation of extraction, and what becomes possible when you don't?How do you lead when the people around you are two to three times more lonely, anxious, and overwhelmed than they appear?What happens when you stop optimizing for the algorithm and start building for the humans who actually have to trust you?What does it mean to give a damn in an economy that seems to punish anyone for doing so? No doomscrolling dressed up as insight. No performing for the feed. No quippy takes recycled from LinkedIn. Just honest conversation with thinkers, builders, and leaders who are navigating this moment with their eyes open and their agency intact. The game isn't over. The people who still care will decide what comes next. Come think with us. Find every episode, the Super Show Notes, and the Trust-Made community at DamnsGiven.com

  1. Move Fast and Build Things with Chris McAdoo

    3d ago ·  Video

    Move Fast and Build Things with Chris McAdoo

    Send us Fan Mail "What is the most human, natural, joy-filled way we could solve this problem?" Chris McAdoo has been a musician, a brand strategist, a startup advisor, and an artist since he was 13 years old. He's worked with national lab scientists sending things to space and artists introducing their work to the world for the first time. And he's noticed something: it's the same conversation every time. Why don't people love the thing I made the way I love it? In this episode of Damns Given, Nick and Chris go deep on what's actually going on between craft and market — and why the answer isn't to make better work. The work is fine. The gap is context. The gap is relationship. The gap is the hard turn from seeking attention to paying it. They cover the brief window in internet history when showing up was enough and why that era socialized a generation into believing the algorithm would find their people for them. Why the people building extractive platforms don't actually like people — and how that shapes everything about what those platforms do and don't do. Why the inefficiencies we disrupted out of existence were load-bearing — and what we're left holding now that they're gone. Why the house concert in Knoxville probably made more money than the venue tour. Why your customer persona named Suzy is useless and the conversation with the real Debra who came to your show on a Thursday night is everything. And what it means to ask, as Nick puts it: what's the most human, natural, joy-filled way we could solve this problem? Nick closes with a reflection that came out of a conversation with a colleague: this economy, this uncertainty, this K-shaped gap — it's already creating discomfort whether you acknowledge it or not. Moving toward discomfort isn't going to make things worse. You're already uncomfortable. You might as well grow. Chris McAdoo: chrismcadoo.com | chrismcadoospeaks.com | fightingshapeimpact.com More at damnsgiven.com | TrustMadeGrowth.com | CultureCraft.com Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    49 min
  2. The Crisis Leaders Mistake as Midlife

    Jun 18 ·  Video

    The Crisis Leaders Mistake as Midlife

    Send us Fan Mail Damns Given Episode 2.20 - only two episodes of Season 2 yet to go! A lot of people are waking up right now to systems they've been inside of for years without fully seeing them, many of them leaders in tech, marketing, and professional services, and it's producing something that looks a lot like grief. Bargaining with the extractive economy. Fighting it. Sometimes just quietly depressed by it. The quiet despair under the surface is deeper than your LinkedIn feed is going to acknowledge. Nicholas Whitaker spends his days helping people work through exactly that. He's a coach who works heavily with people in tech and corporate America going through what he calls an awakening — a sudden class consciousness about the systems they're embedded in. He's also the founder of the Rebellion Collective, a community built for people trying to reclaim their time, energy, and attention from systems designed to extract all three. This conversation goes deep into what's actually different this time — why this isn't just a classic midlife crisis dressed up in new language, but what Nicholas calls a meta crisis: multiple systems collapsing simultaneously, compounding faster than most people have the tools to metabolize. This meta-crisis is an echo of host Nick Richtsmeier's Five Interregna, described in the first chapter of his book The Damn Rules, available Sept 2026. You can get the first chapter for free at https://damnrulesbook.com The two Nick's talk about the psychological effect of the panopticon, the shift from external colonization by media and social platforms to the colonization of the last things that were still ours — creativity, critical thinking, self-trust. They talk about why the instinct to blog about it, sub-stack about it, or perform outrage about it usually isn't the answer. And they talk about what actually is: stillness, presence, noticing your own nervous system, and slowly building capacity so that courage and confidence become byproducts rather than goals you're chasing directly. Nick closes with a reflection on legacy, stewardship, and why the work might outlast both of them — and why that's not a discouraging thought, but a genuinely freeing one. Nicholas Whitaker: https://www.rebelliancollective.com — including a free capacity audit worth taking  More at https://damnsgiven.com  and https://CultureCraft.com Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    50 min
  3. Consulting is a Little Bit F'ed

    Jun 9 ·  Video

    Consulting is a Little Bit F'ed

    Send us Fan Mail "In this AI-soaked era, the primary thing we're buying — anytime we're buying anything — is thinking. Consultants, you need a way for people to test the quality of your thinking. Efficiently. With a low financial impact." Nobody sat down and decided to build a consulting offer that was bad for them, bad for their clients, and bad for their industry. It happened anyway. And if you're in consulting, fractional work, agency work, or any kind of advisory role — you're probably working inside a system that came from one of two tainted pools: the agency model or the McKinsey model. Both are imploding in real time. Neither was built for the world we're in now. In this episode of Damns Given, Nick Richtsmeier gets practical. He walks through exactly what goes wrong with the two dominant approaches to getting hired as a consultant — the scoping process that produces 97-bullet-point SOWs nobody reads, and the audit tool that clients pay $5,000 for only to receive a boilerplate proposal recommending they hire you for the work they wanted to hire you for in the first place. He names both for what they are and explains why they exist — and why they need to stop. Then he gets to the fix. The entry level offering. Short. High impact. Structured around thinking with your client rather than selling at them. Priced low enough that nobody has to go through procurement. Valuable enough that the deliverable is worth more than what they paid. A way for people to test the quality of your thinking before anyone commits to a long engagement — which in an AI-soaked world where thinking is the primary thing anyone is buying, is the only sale that actually makes sense. This one is for consultants, fractionals, coaches, and agencies who are tired of the broken cycle and want a way out of it. And it's for founders and leaders who are hiring these people and want to know how to structure the front end of those relationships so everyone ends up doing better work. Trust Forge — Nick's four-week live workshop on offering design — is at trustmadegrowth.com/trustforge Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    17 min
  4. Only Two Ways to Grow a Business Now - Pick One.

    Jun 2

    Only Two Ways to Grow a Business Now - Pick One.

    Send us Fan Mail The American economy is in contraction. That's different than recession. Most people who've been paying attention know it by now. We've got to spend less time debating it, negotiating with it, pretending it's not happening, like bad bargainers at a funeral. And start acting on what to do about it.  Nick walks through the two games that every business, every market, every economy runs on: the Extractive Game and the Expansive Game. Not as a moral judgment about which kind of person you are, but as a structural reality about which direction your decisions are flowing. Because the direction matters enormously. It determines what you make, how you run your operations, how you build relationships — and whether those three layers are stacked in a way that builds something or slowly hollows it out. He traces the Extractive Game from Standard Oil to Facebook to your content marketing problem — showing how each one starts at the production layer, taking something communal and making it singularly owned, then builds an operations layer designed to make everything dependent on the thing it grabbed, then covers the whole thing with influence peddling and PR. And he shows how the same logic — in miniature, without the malice — slips into small businesses every day when fear is driving. Then he traces the Expansive Game in the opposite direction — starting at the relationship layer, winning by attention and clarity, distributing power through networks, and building production that actually comes from knowing the people you're building for. He uses the independent bookseller as the clearest example of a business running the expansive game right — and it's more useful than any Silicon Valley case study. This is a preview of the core framework from Nick's book The Damn Rules, launching this fall at DamnRulesBook.com.  If this episode speaks to you and you want to go deeper: podcast@culturecraft.com Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    35 min
  5. The Hot Topic Knockout: Brad Farris Is Back and Nothing Is Safe

    May 29

    The Hot Topic Knockout: Brad Farris Is Back and Nothing Is Safe

    Send us Fan Mail Brad Farris is back. And if you weren't here for the original run of the show under the old name Working Broken, here's what you need to know: Brad is one of the sharpest executive coaches working today, he was Nick's own executive coach for an extended stretch, and when the two of them get in a room together — even a virtual one — nothing stays safe for very long. This episode opens with something genuinely useful: Brad's honest account of how the pressurization of the COVID era made him play small, and the moment earlier this year he decided that was over. How fear contracted his social circle. How his social circle contracting made things scarier. How that compounded until he realized this was not his best self — and what happened when he dropped it. He's traveling more, seeing people in person, landing bigger deals. The correlation is not a coincidence. From there Nick and Brad play the first ever Hot Topic Knockout — a bracketed game where ten things the internet tells you to care about go head-to-head until only the one that actually matters survives. The bracket includes: Tim Cook's successor and the One Disney speech, tariffs being illegal, the end of entry-level hiring, the OpenAI bubble, middle manager burnout at a 10-year low, social media's big tobacco moment, Oracle's Larry Ellison doing what Larry Ellison does, macro economic signals and gas prices, and the cost of tokens. Along the way they cover why Brad thinks you should go back to 1995 and be a generalist who meets people. Why the real crisis in organizations isn't at the middle manager level, it's at the top, where leaders are navigating fog with no clear destination. Why agile is a response to a goal, not a substitute for one. Why risk management with trust is the only thing that works now — and why American business is terrible at it.  And OF COURSE what the winner of the knockout game actually is... Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    56 min
  6. My One Big Lesson On Culture - and Why It's So Easily Ignored

    May 27

    My One Big Lesson On Culture - and Why It's So Easily Ignored

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Damns Given, Nick walks through the Trust-Made Growth framework's take on culture — one of the six core factors that determine whether a venture is ready to grow or quietly working against itself. He goes back to the literal definition of the word: culture is what you put in a petri dish, the organic matter from which everything else grows. In organizational terms it's simpler and harder than any offsite can address. Culture is just what an organization does, how it works, and what it is without pressure or influence. He talks about how systems self-reinforce — why a good person in a bad team eventually becomes a bad player, because the system wins. How a leader's unspoken resistance to articulating values doesn't create a blank space, it creates a vacuum that people fill with their own interpretations, producing exactly the fractured, directionless behavior the leader didn't want. And why the only thing Trust-Made Growth is actually looking for in a culture is minimal resistance to organic growth — not kombucha fountains, not Silicon Valley theater, just healthy soil that lets things grow. The weeds tell you everything. A garden full of weeds doesn't mean you have a weed problem. It means the soil is broken. Questions about how this applies to your venture? Reach out at culturecraft.com or find the Trust-Made community at trustmadegrowth.com Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    9 min
  7. Revenue Models: The Hidden Operating System of Your Venture

    May 22

    Revenue Models: The Hidden Operating System of Your Venture

    Send us Fan Mail Damns Given Episode 2.15: "What is one way you can become more knowledgeable about the business case for whatever you're selling? One notch more knowledgeable. The more we think about these economic tools as mechanisms for value delivery, the more we get into the loamy soil of trust — which is where all the good things grow." It's common for leaders to think their biggest strategic decisions happen in leadership meetings. They don't. They happen in the revenue model—the underlying structure of how money flows through a business—and most ventures have never seriously looked at theirs. Nick Richtsmeier opens this episode with two client stories that have no business being in the same conversation. A solopreneur content marketer working from home in Idaho. A SaaS company with 25 employees and an engineering arm in India. Completely different scale, completely different problems... except they share the same root cause.  Neither of them understands the business case for what they're selling into, and because of that, both of them keep making the same decisions over and over, wondering why nothing sticks. Nick breaks down how revenue defines a structure for decisioning, even when  and especially when you don't attend to it. It's why most specialists — content marketers, HR consultants, compliance experts, operations people — have built their entire practices without ever learning to speak the language of the businesses they're selling to.  He walks through the death of per-seat SaaS pricing and what's replacing, and he makes the case that learning to read a P&L is one of the highest-leverage things a non-financial specialist can do right now. The subscription addiction era — build a thing, get as many subscribers as possible, extract maximum value before anyone notices — is over. What comes next requires something the extraction economy never asked of anyone: genuine understanding of the financial reality of the person on the other side of the table. **Chapters ** 00:00 Two Case Studies 10:03 The Importance of Financial Leadership 14:27 Your Takeaway Question Join Nick for the revenue model free MasterClass: https://www.trustmadegrowth.com/c/trust-made-training-events/escaping-the-funnel-growth-models-and-building-from-trust Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    16 min
  8. Two Basic Rules for Being Online without Losing Your Mind

    May 17

    Two Basic Rules for Being Online without Losing Your Mind

    Send us Fan Mail "Trust doesn't look like attention." In fact, the things that steal our attention, grab it out of the agorithmic haze are some of the most trust-breaking things we face. Just because something is good at dragging us into its orbit, doesn't mean its building trust. In fact, often quite the opposite. A lot of people are trying to spend less time online. And brand leaders have questions of what to even do with extractive social platforms (like this one) and whether to keep playing in these sands. Well Nick has decried these platforms more than most, and yet—he's here. What's up with that? In this brief episode, Nick explains why he broke his own rules, and what it cost him to figure out a better way.  He offers two simple guidelines for founders, fractionals, coaches, and executives who need to be online but refuse to be owned by it Nick walks through what the feed actually does to your brain (and your prospect's brain) and your business clarity, why LinkedIn is more aggressive than you think, why his most viral moment (2 million views) was also his most useless one. Finally he offers the framework of a Trust-Made library of content: what it looks like, and why it works in ways the algorithm chasing and numbers boosting never will. **Chapters:** - 00:01 “I’m Breaking My Rules” - 02:38 Two Rules for Social Media - 06:15 Choosing Your Space - 08:43 Why Nick Regrets the Word “Trust” - 09:53 Building Your Library Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

    15 min
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Brains On. Hearts Open. Forward Motion. For the Trustbroken Economy The world has gotten very good at telling you what's wrong. The platforms are extractive. The institutions are hollow. The algorithm is running the show. Your attention is the product. And somewhere along the way, the message landed: the real decisions are being made somewhere else, by someone else, and there's not much you can do about it. That message is a lie. But it's a convincing one. And when it sinks in deeply enough, disengagement becomes the default. Businesses hold out for someday. Ideas sit in limbo. Leaders optimize for survival instead of building for what they actually believe. We become spectators in a life we're supposed to be living. Damns Given is for the people who refuse to go that quietly and want the practical tools how to play a different game. Hosted by strategist, author, and Trust-Made Growth® founder Nick Richtsmeier, this is a show about what it actually takes to build something real — a venture, a community, a career, a life — in an economy designed to extract everything it can before you notice. Each episode goes one layer beneath the surface conversation to find what's actually true and what's actually worth doing about it. We've talked to a former OpenAI insider about the AI industry's incentive to frighten you. An urban economist about how we've spent 50 years designing cities for dissatisfaction. A negotiation strategist who walked away from a million-dollar platform because it was stealing his focus. Engineers navigating an identity crisis nobody named. Leaders learning that trust isn't a feeling, it's a biological reality with rules you can learn. The questions the podcast will both answer, and keep bringing you back to: Why does every system keep producing the same problems, and what does it take to actually change one?What does it cost to build on a foundation of extraction, and what becomes possible when you don't?How do you lead when the people around you are two to three times more lonely, anxious, and overwhelmed than they appear?What happens when you stop optimizing for the algorithm and start building for the humans who actually have to trust you?What does it mean to give a damn in an economy that seems to punish anyone for doing so? No doomscrolling dressed up as insight. No performing for the feed. No quippy takes recycled from LinkedIn. Just honest conversation with thinkers, builders, and leaders who are navigating this moment with their eyes open and their agency intact. The game isn't over. The people who still care will decide what comes next. Come think with us. Find every episode, the Super Show Notes, and the Trust-Made community at DamnsGiven.com

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