Dateless in Delray

Susan Shoer
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Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On Dateless and Delray, you'll see why looking for love is no day at the beach.

  1. 22h ago

    Ep. 72 - Plenty of Stories: Reinvention, Fearless Love & Building Your Next Chapter with Robin Fisher Roffer

    Reinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and the founder of Big Fish Marketing, whose clients have included CNN, MTV, Discovery, and some of the biggest media brands in the world. Robin shares the lessons behind her bestselling books, including Make a Name for Yourself and her newest memoir, Plenty of Husbands, a candid and inspiring look at love, resilience, and finding your true path.From career pivots and personal reinvention to relationships, purpose, and the courage to embrace change at any age, Robin offers practical wisdom and unforgettable stories from a life spent helping others discover—and tell—their greatest story. Learn more at bigfishmarketing.com.

    39 min

  2. Jun 23

    Ep. 71 - Love Starts Within: How Healing Yourself Changes Who You Attract

    What if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener? This week, host Susan Shore sits down with two remarkable women from very different corners of the wellness world: Marla Past, full-spectrum health coach, author, hypnotherapist, and meditation teacher; and Julie Shanebrook, founder and CEO of ChillRx Med Spa in Delray Beach. Both have turned personal struggles into powerful careers helping others feel better from the inside out. Together, they explore the surprising and deeply personal connections between physical health, emotional well-being, self-confidence, and our ability to build meaningful relationships. The conversation covers: How cryotherapy, infrared sauna, and contrast therapy work — and why reducing inflammation can quiet anxiety and shift your entire outlookThe law of attraction and vibration: why becoming the person you want to attract is more than just a mantraMarla's journey from childhood obesity and decades-long battle with bulimia to becoming a guide for others navigating life's hardest transitionsJulie's breast cancer journey, how her own wellness tools carried her through, and her moving tribute to the women who came before herHyperbaric oxygen therapy and the science of healing from the inside outWhy "degunk" might be the most honest relationship advice you'll ever hearWhether you're recovering from heartbreak, reentering the dating world, or simply trying to feel more like yourself again, this episode is a reminder that the healthiest relationships start with a healthy relationship with you. Connect with our guests: Marla Past: marlapast.orgChillRx Med Spa: chillrx.net | Instagram: @ChillRxMedSpa | delray@chillrx.netEnjoyed the episode? Follow, leave a review, or reach out at susan@datelessindelray.com 

    1h 1m

  3. Jun 16

    Ep. 70 - Man Up: Why Nice Guys Finish Last with Elliott Katz

    A lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author Elliott Katz, some of those well-intentioned behaviors may actually be pushing women away.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan chats with Elliott, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, and How To Get Your Man to Wear the Pants So You Don't Have To, to explore the most common dating mistakes men make and why confidence, decisiveness, and leadership still matter in modern relationships. Whether you're dating, married, or simply trying to understand the opposite sex a little better, this lively conversation offers timeless insights into attraction, respect, and connection. Find out more at elliottkatz.com

    51 min

  4. Jun 9

    Ep. 69 - The Body Knows Best: Sara Perry on Desire, Intimacy, and Somatic Sexual Therapy

    What if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Sara Perry for a candid, thoughtful conversation about the parts of relationships most people avoid. Sara is a somatic sex coach and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She works with individuals and couples navigating trauma, chronic pain, and complicated relationships with intimacy—bringing a shame-free, consent-centered approach to pleasure and connection.Together, they explore what it really means to communicate desires, set boundaries, and create intimacy that goes beyond surface-level connection.In this episode, they discuss:• The truth about non-monogamy and why it’s often misunderstood• How somatic sex therapy helps people reconnect with their bodies• Why honesty—not chemistry—is the foundation of real intimacy• How to talk about desires, boundaries, and difficult topics without fearThis is an honest, eye-opening conversation about connection, communication, and giving yourself permission to want what you want.

    48 min

  5. Jun 2

    Ep. 68 - Love at First Click: Dirty Little Dating Secrets with Lopaze Lasane

    From ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets behind modern online dating. In this candid and entertaining episode, we dive into dating app frustration, attraction psychology, communication mistakes, and what it really takes to make love click in today’s swipe-right world.Plus, check out Lopaze’s book, Love at First Click: Dirty Little Secrets to Succeed at Modern Online Dating, and his Love Can’t Wait Podcast for more unfiltered conversations about dating, relationships, and modern love.

    39 min

  6. May 26

    Ep. 67 - Give Me Some Sugar: A Different Kind of Matchmaking with Patrick Fletcher

    Sugar dating. Luxury lifestyles. Clear expectations. Transactional romance… or just radical honesty about modern relationships?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Patrick Fletcher of Sugar Matchmaking — a premium, highly screened matchmaking service for affluent men and elite women — along with returning guest Nikki from the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, who shares her firsthand perspective as a sugar baby navigating this unconventional world.From mentorship and power dynamics to attraction, authenticity, money, and modern dating expectations, this conversation dives deeper into one of the most talked-about — and misunderstood — corners of today’s dating culture.Whether you’re fascinated, skeptical, curious, or quietly taking notes… this episode pulls back the curtain.Learn more about Patrick Fletcher and Sugar Matchmaking at https://sugarmatchmaking.com

    40 min

  7. May 19

    Ep. 66 - Sweet on You: Secrets of a Sugar Daddy with Marcus—The Truth Behind the Arrangement

    What really happens behind the velvet curtain of a “sugar” relationship—and why are more people quietly stepping into this world than ever before? In this provocative and eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with Marcus, the voice behind the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, to pull back the curtain on modern arrangements, power dynamics, and the unspoken rules that govern them.Marcus doesn’t hold back. From how these relationships actually begin, to what both sides really want (and often won’t admit), to the biggest misconceptions people have about sugar dating—this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. We get into money, control, emotional boundaries, and the fine line between fantasy and reality.Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or secretly intrigued, this episode offers a rare, insider perspective that challenges what you think you know about love, intimacy, and transactional relationships in today’s dating landscape.Want more unfiltered insights? Follow Marcus on https://www.patreon.com/SecretsofaSugarDaddyPodcast for exclusive content and one-on-one coaching on navigating the world of arrangements.Follow Dateless in Delray on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts—and if this episode makes you think (or rethink), please share it with a friend and leave a review.

    1h 3m

  8. May 12

    Ep. 65 - Laugh, Love & Level Up: Emotional Intelligence and Dating with Alla Esther Levy

    What does emotional intelligence have to do with dating? Quite a lot.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Alla Esther Levy—Certified Emotional Intelligence Strategist, Minister of Spiritual Healing, and founder of the EIEQ Institute—about how self-awareness, empathy, and emotional regulation can dramatically improve communication and connection in relationships.Alla also shares insights from her book Level of Crazy: A Five-Step Guide to Emotional Intelligence and Transformational Leadership, exploring how understanding our emotional patterns can help us grow, laugh at ourselves, and show up more authentically in love and life. Learn more about Alla’s work at: https://www.eieqinstitute.com

    50 min
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Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On Dateless and Delray, you'll see why looking for love is no day at the beach.

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  • Creator
    Susan Shoer
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    74
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024, Susan Shoer, All Rights Reserved
  • Show Website
    Dateless in Delray

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