Dateless in Delray

Susan Shoer
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Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On Dateless and Delray, you'll see why looking for love is no day at the beach.

  1. 2D AGO

    Ep. 54 - From Heartbreak to Hope: Dating, Generations & Emotional Intelligence with Dr. Corey Seemiller

    What happens when a relationship expert experiences the kind of heartbreak she never saw coming? In this deeply honest episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Dr. Corey Seemiller—award-winning leadership professor, global generational expert, and TEDx speaker—to talk about love, loss, and rebuilding after everything falls apart. Despite widespread professional success, Corey’s long-term relationship ended abruptly, forcing her to confront heartbreak in a very personal way. Drawing on her research into emotionally intelligent relationships, attachment styles, boundaries, and generational dynamics, Corey shares how she transformed pain into clarity—and applied the same tools she taught in the workplace to dating, healing, and finding love again. The conversation explores why so many smart, accomplished people struggle in relationships, how emotional intelligence shapes romantic success, and what it really takes to move forward with hope instead of fear. Corey also discusses her book, The Soulmate Strategy: My Imperfect Plan to Conquer Heartbreak and Find True Love, launching February 10, 2026, a candid, research-backed roadmap for healing and opening yourself up to love again. A powerful episode for anyone navigating heartbreak, dating after loss, or learning how to build healthier, more intentional relationships—at any stage of life. Find it on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Soulmate-Strategy-Imperfect-Conquer-Heartbreak/dp/B0FD8S2S4L or wherever you buy your books.

    49 min

  2. FEB 3

    EP. 53 - Connection with Intention: From Networking to AI with George Dubec & Joann Coffey

    What if better dating isn’t about swiping more—but connecting smarter?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer explores modern love at the intersection of human connection and technology with George Dubec and Joann Coffey. George, a master networker with over 40 years in the singles world and a 46-year marriage, explains why networking principles and real-world introductions often outperform dating apps. Joann brings a forward-looking lens on AI and technology in dating, along with deep life perspective shaped by raising 12 children. Together, they unpack compatibility vs. chemistry, standards vs. fear, and what it really means to date with intention in a tech-driven world.If you’re navigating modern dating and want clarity without losing the human element, this episode is for you.

    50 min

  3. JAN 27

    Ep. 52 - Two Singles, Two Playbooks: Desire, Faith & Dating in South Florida

    What happens when two singles are dating from very different playbooks—but hoping for something real?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Carrie Brudner and Ryan Edwards for two candid, contrasting conversations about love, attraction, and intention in midlife.Carrie, in her 50s, knows exactly what she wants: a younger, great-looking man who has it all—confidence, chemistry, and lifestyle alignment. Ryan, in his mid-40s, is searching for something very different: a kind, grounded partner who shares his Christian values and vision for a meaningful relationship.On the surface, their dating goals couldn’t look more different. But as the conversations unfold, surprising common threads emerge—desire for connection, clarity, authenticity, and a relationship that actually works in real life.This episode explores:How age, attraction, and values shape dating choicesWhat men and women say they want vs. what they’re really seekingWhere modern dating creates tension—and where it reveals shared hopesWhy being clear about your non-negotiables matters more than everIf you’ve ever wondered whether love is about chemistry, compatibility, faith, timing—or all of the above—this episode will resonate.

    40 min

  4. JAN 20

    Ep. 51 - Fewer Dates That Suck: Dating, Mindset & Laughing Through the Chaos with Deborah Mallow

    Dating can be exhausting—the apps, the expectations, the overthinking, and the moments that make you wonder why you even left the house. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with happiness and mindset expert Deborah Mallow, author of 6 Steps to Fewer Days That Suck, to talk about how small, practical mindset shifts can make modern dating feel lighter, healthier, and far less draining.Together, they explore why dating hits our mental health so hard, how overthinking sabotages promising connections, and why self-kindness and humor are underrated relationship tools. Deborah shares science-backed strategies to stop spiraling after a bad date, let go of perfection, and recover faster from rejection—without fake positivity or pretending dating doesn’t sting sometimes.If you’re tired of dating burnout and ready for fewer days (and dates) that suck, this episode delivers clarity, compassion, and a much-needed laugh.

    46 min

  5. JAN 6

    Ep. 50 - Old School Matchmaking Meets Modern Love: Rose Lambert on Dating and the Future of Connection

    Dating has always reflected the times we live in—from blind dates and advice columns to apps, algorithms, and artificial intelligence. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with renowned Palm Beach matchmaker Rose Lambert to explore how matchmaking has evolved, what technology gets right (and wrong), and why human intuition still matters more than ever.With decades of experience helping accomplished men and women find lasting love long before dating apps existed, Rose shares how timeless matchmaking principles translate into today’s fast, swipe-driven culture. She also discusses her expanding mission to help younger daters navigate choice overload, dating fatigue, and emotional readiness in a digital-first world.This conversation bridges past and future, blending wisdom, strategy, and modern insight to answer a timely question: how do we create meaningful connection in an age of endless options?A must-listen for anyone curious about where dating has been—and where love is headed next.

    58 min

  6. 12/30/2025

    Ep. 49 - When Trust Breaks: Healing Betrayal Trauma & Redefining Relationship Worth with Mr. Jay

    Betrayal doesn’t just break trust in a relationship—it can shake your sense of safety, identity, and self-worth. In this powerful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Mr. Jay, relationship coach and betrayal trauma practitioner, to explore why betrayal cuts so deeply and what real healing actually looks like. Together, they unpack betrayal blindness, the hidden ways trust erodes, and how unresolved trauma can follow us into future relationships if left unexamined. Mr. Jay shares insight into rebuilding self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and transforming pain into clarity and growth.This episode is for anyone navigating heartbreak, betrayal, or the fear of trusting again—and for those ready to move forward with strength, awareness, and intention. Learn more about Mr. Jay’s work at mrjayrelationshipcoach.com.

    36 min

  7. 12/19/2025

    Ep. 48 - Speak Your Heart: Communication, Connection & Conscious Dating with Laurie Schloff

    What if the secret to better dating—and deeper relationships—has nothing to do with chemistry, and everything to do with communication? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer talks with Laurie Schloff, Founder of Partners in Communication, Inc., and author of Smart Speaking and He & She Talk. Laurie is one of the nation’s top communication coaches, known for helping people express themselves clearly, listen with empathy, and communicate with confidence in every aspect of life—including love. Together, Susan and Laurie explore how our words, tone, and body language shape everything from first impressions to lasting connection. They share tools for speaking with intention, listening to truly understand, and navigating dating’s trickiest moments with courage and clarity. They discuss how to communicate authentically on dates and avoid misfires; the art of listening to connect—not just to respond; and how to express your needs without fear or apology. If you’ve ever wondered why good communication feels harder in love than in life, this episode will help you find your voice, speak your truth, and build real connection—one conversation at a time.

    42 min

  8. 12/09/2025

    Ep. 47 - Becoming the Woman Who Receives Love: Faith, Healing & Divine Alignment with Kim S. Anderson

    In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with powerhouse mentor, bestselling author, and faith-driven entrepreneur Kim S. Anderson. From her early career in NBA communications to leading Savvy Media, homeschooling four children, and empowering women around the world, Kim’s journey is one of reinvention, resilience, and purpose.Together, Susan and Kim explore the deeper work required to attract healthy love—breaking old patterns, rebuilding self-worth after heartbreak, and shifting from “waiting for love” to becoming truly ready to receive it. Kim shares insights from her signature program, The Pathway To Your Divine Perfect Mate, an 8-step system designed to help women heal, grow, and align with the relationship they deserve.This episode is a powerful blend of faith, strategy, and truth-telling for anyone navigating midlife transformation, singleness, dating, or rediscovering their worth.A must-listen for women ready to step confidently into their purpose—and into the love story meant for them

    52 min
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Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On Dateless and Delray, you'll see why looking for love is no day at the beach.

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  • Creator
    Susan Shoer
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    56
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2024, Susan Shoer, All Rights Reserved
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