Dating After Divorce

Belinda Youll

The Dating After Divorce podcast is for the Queen who is ready to thrive in life and love after divorce. Host and dating mentor, Belinda Youll, delivers you expert tips, wisdom and strategies to help you attract the long lasting love you deserve. If you're ready to embody your Queen energy and attract your King, hit that follow button and get ready to call in the relationship of your dreams! Follow Belinda on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenbcollective/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenbcollective

  1. 01/07/2025

    Beyond the 'New Year, New You' BS: Why Real Transformation Happens in the Shadows, Not Under Spotlights

    Feeling the pressure of 'New Year, New You' dating resolutions? In this episode, we're challenging the surface-level transformation promises flooding your social media feed this January. Discover why real dating transformation has nothing to do with vision boards or dating app makeovers - and everything to do with the quiet choices you make when no one's watching. Learn why 'becoming' must precede dating, and how to make the micro-choices that actually lead to attracting aligned love. Through real examples and practical guidance, uncover how to break free from the cycle of empty dating resolutions and step into true queen energy that naturally magnetizes the right relationship. Plus, get actionable steps for making 2025 different by doing things differently. Perfect for divorced women who are tired of quick-fix dating advice and ready for genuine, lasting transformation. Includes powerful journaling prompts and a framework for making aligned choices in your dating life." CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    17 min
  2. 12/31/2024

    The Hidden Gift of 2024's Dating Disappointments: How Your 'Failed' Relationships Are Actually Preparing You for Extraordinary Love

    As we step into 2025, are you looking back at your dating life in 2024 feeling disappointed, exhausted, or wondering if it was all just a waste of time? In this powerful episode, I share why your dating 'failures' might actually be the foundation for your greatest love story yet. Through my own raw and real dating story, I reveal how a seemingly devastating dating disappointment became the catalyst that led me to meeting my forever person. Learn about the four hidden gifts within every dating disappointment, and discover how to transform your 2024 experiences into powerful preparation for extraordinary love. If you're ready to shift from feeling defeated to feeling empowered about your love life, this episode is your guide to starting 2025 with renewed hope and clarity. Plus, get a practical journaling exercise to help you extract the wisdom from your past experiences and step into your Queen energy. Perfect for any divorced woman who's tired of feeling like she's failing at love and ready to see her journey through new, more empowered eyes. CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    22 min
  3. 12/17/2024

    All I Want For Christmas Is.....Anyone?: Your guide to Avoiding A Holiday Dating Hangover

    Feeling the pressure to couple up this holiday season? In this episode we’re diving deep into why the holiday season often triggers us to lower our standards or rush into relationships we're not truly aligned with. Whether you're feeling the weight of another Christmas single or battling the urge to text your ex, this episode offers practical strategies for you to maintain your queen energy when the pressure feels intense. These strategies will help you not just survive the holiday season but use it as a catalyst for becoming even more anchored in your worth. JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love! CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    10 min
  4. 12/10/2024

    Single At Christmas (Again?): How To Go From Surviving Solo To Thriving Single These Holidays

    Dreading another holiday season without your person? In this raw and real episode, I share my journey through 8 years of single Christmases before meeting my fiancé, and the perspective I wish I'd had sooner. You'll learn why those 'lonely' holidays were actually preparing me for the extraordinary love I have now, how to shift from surviving to savouring this season, and practical strategies to maintain your queen energy when it feels like everyone else is coupled up. Whether you're navigating family gatherings solo or facing another New Year single, this episode will help you reframe your current chapter and find unexpected magic in this season of your life. Perfect for divorced women who: - Are feeling the weight of another holiday season alone - Find themselves comparing their journey to others - Want to enjoy this time of year but struggle with loneliness - Need strategies to maintain their worth during triggering situations - Are ready to shift from surviving to thriving this holiday season JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love! CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    20 min
  5. 12/03/2024

    Reclaiming Joy After Divorce: Re-discovering Who You Are Outside Your Previous Marriage

    In this empowering episode, I take you on a journey from survival mode to soul-aligned joy after divorce. Through my raw story of losing myself in a toxic relationship to rediscovering my authentic self as a single mom of two, I provide a practical roadmap for women who've forgotten what lights them up outside of being someone's wife. You'll discover: - Why "identity fusion" after marriage makes it hard to know who you are anymore - Three powerful exercises to uncover your authentic interests and passions - How to date yourself and find joy, even with limited time and resources - The secret to turning your Friday nights alone into opportunities for self-discovery - Why rediscovering joy is crucial before entering the dating scene again Whether you're a busy single mum with barely a moment to yourself or someone with an empty house that feels too quiet, this episode gives you practical, doable ways to start reconnecting with the woman you were before marriage—and discovering the even more magnificent woman you're becoming. JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love! CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    15 min
  6. 11/27/2024

    Why Self Care Must Be Your Priority In Your Next Chapter After Divorce

    In this episode I reveal why self-care is the necessary foundation for your Next Chapter after divorce and why it’s crucial to you ultimately attracting an aligned relationship that lasts, with the right man for you. Through my personal journey from outsourcing my happiness and ending up in a toxic relationship to discovering true self-worth, I share with you the "Self-Care 6" framework that changed everything for me. Learn why keeping promises to yourself is the blueprint for how others treat you, and discover how to stop using relationships as band-aids for unmet needs. You'll discover: - Why rushing into dating after divorce often leads to repeating painful patterns - The four classes of self-care and why some "feel-good" activities are actually self-sabotage - How to build magnetic self-worth through daily, consistent actions - The exact framework I used to go from relationship dependency and a toxic relationship to attracting aligned love - Why self-care is the missing piece in your journey to lasting love Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' program, where I guide you through the essential first steps of creating a life you love before attracting the love you deserve. JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love! CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    16 min
  7. 11/12/2024

    Reframing Failure: Why Divorce Is Not The End Of Your Love Story

    In this transformative episode, I challenge the notion that divorce equals failure, sharing my powerful journey from being divorced at 33 and a single mama again at 40, to creating and attracting a life and love story better than I ever imagined at 45. Through raw honesty and deep wisdom, I reveal how what seems like failure can actually be your greatest initiation into love and life. You'll discover: - Why your "failed" relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest love story - How to trust in endings and see them as powerful new beginnings - The exact mindset shift that took me from rock bottom to living my dream life - Why nothing that is meant for you will ever pass you by - How to transform your divorce from a painful ending into an exciting new chapter If you're struggling to see beyond your divorce, feeling like you've failed at love, or wondering if it's too late for your happy ending, this episode will show you why your divorce can actually be the beginning of your greatest love story. Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' program, where I guide you through the exact 3-step process I used to transform my own divorce into the catalyst for creating my dream life and relationship. 🎧 Ready to rewrite your love story? Listen now and discover why your divorce isn't the end – it's your invitation to begin again. JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love! CONNECT ON SOCIALS: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SUPPORT THE SHOW: If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it. Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

    14 min

About

The Dating After Divorce podcast is for the Queen who is ready to thrive in life and love after divorce. Host and dating mentor, Belinda Youll, delivers you expert tips, wisdom and strategies to help you attract the long lasting love you deserve. If you're ready to embody your Queen energy and attract your King, hit that follow button and get ready to call in the relationship of your dreams! Follow Belinda on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenbcollective/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenbcollective