Dating Greatly

Yvonne Rake

Dating Greatly is the podcast for women who dream of a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship! We explore topics around conscious dating and relationships, the psychology of men and women, healing childhood trauma, healthy sexuality, and manifesting true love. We serve you heart-opening stories, thought provoking conversations and practical relationship tips from men and women that have been where you are! Whether you're single or partnered, this podcast will empower you to have the best relationships of your life! Love, Yvonne

  1. 08/01/2025

    Ep 35 - Are You At Risk Of Attracting A Narcissist?

    Get Your FREE Framework: Know Yourself, Find Him & Attract Your Dream Partner w/o the overwhelm and wasted time of modern dating Today we dive deep into a topic that's been on everyone's radar: narcissism in dating and relationships. For this important and often uncomfortable topic, I was super selective about who I'd bring on the show. It was important to me to have someone with the clinical knowledge necessary to explain narcissism, as well as someone who had personal experience with it and is able to view the subject through a compassionate lens. Chelli Pumphrey ticked all those boxes! Chelli is a licensed professional counselor with over 30 years of clinical experience, and the author of "Insight is 2020: How to Trust Yourself to Protect Yourself from Narcissistic Abuse and Toxic Relationships."  In this episode, Chelli and I pull back the curtain on the buzzword "narcissism," getting to the heart of what it truly means (and what it doesn't!). We explore how to spot red flags in dating, what might make you suceptible to a narcissist, and most importantly, what you can do to protect your heart and spirit from narcissistic abuse. Love, Yvonne ----------------- Get Yvonne's FREE Framework: Know Yourself & Find Him and Attract A High-Quality Man That Enhances Your Already Amazing Life. No More Wasting Time On Meaningless Conversations And Low-Quality Connections! Add the Dating Greatly Playlist to your Spotify! It's an inspiring, feisty and sensual playlist, curated by my guests, sure to get you dancing in your kitchen! ----------------- Key Themes Explored:  Narcissism Beyond the Buzzword: Chelli breaks down the actual definition of narcissism, differentiating between narcissistic traits (which we all have a little bit of!) and a full-blown personality disorder. Chelli clarifies why it's become such a prevalent topic, often used to validate confusing and harmful relationship experiences.  Spotting a Narcissist in Dating: Learn about "love bombing," a common tactic narcissists use to reel you in, as well as "mirroring" to feign a soulmate connection. We discuss the subtle red flags that can be easily missed, especially when you're caught up in the excitement of a new romance. Why You Might Be Susceptible (It's Not What You Think!): Chelli shares what traits can make empathetic individuals more vulnerable to narcissistic abuse. We also touch on how anxious attachment styles can amplify this susceptibility. ----------------- GET THE BOOK! Insight is 20/20: How To Trust Yourself To Protect Yourself From Narcissitic Abuse & Toxic Relationships Connect with Chelli Website FB IG 6-Week Women's Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Group Online Membership Community For Survivors Connect with Yvonne Want to effortlessly attract your Dream Partner with my support? Go here: https://www.lifecoachyvonne.com/ or here: IG Youtube More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Tiffany Rochester- When And How To Introduce A New Partner To Your Kids- Ep 32 Lilli Brewley-Discover Your Dating Archetype And Find True Love- Ep 31 Ana Lopez- What Your Sexual Preferences Say About You- Ep 18 For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    1h 4m
  2. 04/22/2025

    Ep 34- A Psychic's Guide To Manifesting Your Soulmate

    Time to get a little woo woo! This episode is all about manifesting real love and ditching dating desperation for good! I've got Intuitive Guide, Rachel Strivelli, on to share her psychic, tree-hugging wisdom and show us how manifesting the right way can totally change your dating game. We chat about staying grounded, loving who you are, saying a big YES to what you want, and truly believing that your person is out there and they WILL find you. Rachel shares her own story of going from feeling desperate to attracting her husband without even trying.  If you're single and feeling a little "ugh" about dating, this convo will leave you recharged, empowered, and dancing to your own drum. And who knows, you might even hug a tree! Love, Yvonne ----------------- Get Yvonne's Free Dating Guide: Unlock Your Power & Attract Your Dream Partner- no dating apps required! Add the Dating Greatly Playlist to your Spotify! It's an inspiring, feisty and sensual playlist, curated by my past guests, sure to get you dancing in your kitchen! ----------------- In this episode we explore:  Common Mistakes In Manifesting: frantic, desperate energy in manifesting, the tree metaphor for stability and balance in manifesting Applying Manifestation to Dating: Rachel's journey from desperation to meeting her husband, the importance of stability and being open to opportunities Impact of Psychic Abilities on Relationships: understanding and responding to red flags, benefits and downsides of intuition in Rachel's dating life Exercises and Practical Steps for Manifesting: the analogy of every flower having a pollinator in dating, grounding techniques and returning to self ----------------- GET THE BOOK! Talk To The Trees: Wake Up To Wisdom, Wonder and Calm Connect with Rachel Website- https://www.rachelstrivelli.com/ FB- https://www.rachelstrivelli.com/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/rachelstrivelli/ FREE Workshop- You Are Intuitive Connect with Yvonne Need one-on-one support?  https://www.lifecoachyvonne.com/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/datinggreatlywithyvonne Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfOqABp2OmSv6Q4GE0sfkUg More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Tiffany Rochester- When And How To Introduce A New Partner To Your Kids- Ep 32 Lilli Brewley-Discover Your Dating Archetype And Find True Love- Ep 31 Ana Lopez- What Your Sexual Preferences Say About You- Ep 18 For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    49 min
  3. 03/21/2025

    Ep 33- The Truth About Divine Feminine Energy And How You Can Harness Its Power

    Oh, to be a woman! On today's episode, I have the pleasure of chatting with Elise Nicole Kirkpatrick, a Feminine Authenticity & Embodiment mentor, about what it truly means to be a woman in today's world. Elise's insights call for a shift from hustle culture to a more balanced approach, emphasizing the importance of replenishing our inner resources in order to receive everything we dream of. We explore the balance between embracing femininity and maintaining masculine energies to achieve personal and romantic goals. Additionally, we reflect on how the women in our lineage embodied femininity while navigating a huge societal transition from homemaker to breadwinner. Join us for a conversation that inspires optimism on the journey to discovering love and staying true to who you are—a powerful, radiant, and soft woman. Love, Yvonne ----------------- Get Yvonne's Free Dating Guide: Unlock Your Power & Attract Your Dream Partner- no dating apps required! If you haven't added the Dating Greatly Playlist to your Spotify yet, do it! It's a truly inspiring, feisty and sensual playlist, curated by my past guests and myself, sure to get you dancing in your kitchen! ----------------- In this episode we explore:  Hyper Masculinity and its Impact: masculine characteristics versus feminine essence, the balance between doing and being Burnout and the Sacred Edge: signs of reaching or surpassing the sacred edge, practices to nurture feminine energy and avoid burnout Dating and Relationships: the role of control and surrender in relationships, encouraging masculine provisions in dating, benefits of surrender for relationship dynamics Practical Exercises and Tips: mirror exercise for boosting self-worth, the importance of nurturing self-intimacy, aligning personal desires with feminine energy Connect with Elise Nicole Website- https://www.elisenicolekirkpatrick.com/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/__elisenicole__ Worthy Woman Visualization Meditation- https://elise-nicole-kirkpatrick-aeba.mykajabi.com/Worthy-Woman-Meditation Connect with Yvonne Need personalized support?  https://www.lifecoachyvonne.com/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/datinggreatlywithyvonne Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfOqABp2OmSv6Q4GE0sfkUg More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Tiffany Rochester- When And How To Introduce A New Partner To Your Kids- Ep 32 Lilli Brewley-Discover Your Dating Archetype And Find True Love- Ep 31 Ana Lopez- What Your Sexual Preferences Say About You- Ep 18 For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    56 min
  4. 02/14/2025

    Ep 32 - When And How To Introduce A New Partner To Your Kids

    Dipping your toes back into the dating pool while co-parenting? In this episode of Dating Greatly, I'm joined by co-parenting expert, Tiffany Rochester. Together, we delve into the art of co-parenting while dating, the ins and outs of step-parenting, and the big question—should you or shouldn't you tell your date that you have kids? We also tackle the crucial topic of introducing your kids to a new partner—the when and the how, as well as maintaining effective boundaries with your ex.  Join us for an enlightening chat packed with valuable insights and information from the source. By the end of this episode, you'll feel empowered and equipped to handle the dating world as a co-parent! Love, Yvonne PS: if you haven't added the Dating Greatly Playlist to your Spotify yet, do it! It's a truly inspiring, feisty and sensual playlist, curated by my past guests and myself, sure to get you dancing in your kitchen! Follow Tiffany on Insta @coparentingcompanion or Linkedin Join Now! The next Co-Parenting Intensive Reset starts soon! Doors close Feb 25, 2025   In this episode you will learn about how:  Healthy communication with your ex: respectful communication, chat gpt, and designated communcation channels Introducing new partner: your children's pace, meeting the new partner, telling co-parent first Early separation period: the importance of recognizing the challenge of the first two years of separation, pros and cons of legal advice, children require explanation Dating as a parent: waiting for stability before sharing, owning your role as parent, be up front For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Soni Pelty- Breaking Cultural Norms: What My Arranged Marriage Taught Me About Self-Love- Ep 29 Stefanie Wilson-Ditching Dating Apps- Ep 23 Celeste Moore- Dating As A Single Parent- Ep 21   Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    1h 1m
  5. 01/29/2025

    Ep 31 - Discover Your Dating Archetype And Find True Love

    Ladies! If you've ever felt like you're doing all the work in your relationship and still not getting the love and validation you crave, this episode of Dating Greatly is for you! I sit down with fellow dating coach, Lilli Bewley as she spills the beans on why even the most self-aware women find themselves in a cycle of "doing for love" and repeating negative patterns in their relationships.  Lilli shares how her awesome Dating Archetype Quiz can help and how even a Goddess Woman has healing to do before she becomes irresistibly magnetic! You're going to love this one! Love, Yvonne PS: if you haven't added the Dating Greatly Playlist to your Spotify yet, do it! It's a truly inspiring, feisty and sensual playlist, curated by my past guests and myself, sure to get you dancing in your kitchen! Follow Lilli on Insta @lillibewley or TikTok take the Dating Archetypes Quiz   In this episode you will learn about how:  Trauma can cloud our dating choices: following your "gut" in dating isn't always reliable if you have unresolved trauma The progression of feminine dating archetypes: are you the Fortress, Goddess or Magnetic woman? Achievement-based love vs. Being-based love: many women learn to receive love through achievement and doing rather than simply being Self-love means speaking up for your needs: real self-love isn't just about self-care activities, but about actively expressing your needs and maintaining boundaries in relationships, even when it's uncomfortable For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Soni Pelty- Breaking Cultural Norms: What My Arranged Marriage Taught Me About Self-Love- Ep 29 Stefanie Wilson-Ditching Dating Apps- Ep 23 Celeste Moore- Dating As A Single Parent- Ep 21   Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    41 min
  6. 12/20/2024

    Ep 30- This Prayer Will Change Your Love Life

    In this supernatural episode of Dating Greatly, Yvonne sits down with minister and bestselling author, Alice Ludwig to chat about what to do when you've done all the things, but there's still a blockage to love inside of you.  Alice guides us through the realms of supernatural love, the complexities of boundary-setting, and the importance of spiritual guidance. It's an episode brimming with hope, laughter, and actionable advice, as Alice reminds us all to trust in a higher power and never underestimate the power of love and prayer.  The presence of Divine Love was unmistakable in this episode, especially with the strange glitches that occured in this episode. It was strange, magical and filled me with awe. If you're resistant to the concept of God, I encourage you to give this episode a listen and open your mind to the possibility of there being something greater than ourselves that can not only help you heal wounds you haven't been able to heal, but also help you attract the love of your life! AMEN TO THAT! Love, Yvonne Follow Alice on Insta @aliceludwig316 or visit Seeword Ministries get her book: Breakthrough- Single to Married   In this episode you will learn about:  Vision vs. Fantasy in Relationships: distinguish between having a shared vision with your partner and getting caught up in romantic fantasies. Forgiveness and Healing: Alice emphasizes the critical role of forgiveness—for oneself and others—in maintaining healthy relationships. Importance of Grace, Love, and Boundaries: Alice discusses the significance of grace and love in relationships Spiritual and Personal Growth: Reflecting on her personal journey, Alice underscores the importance of spiritual beliefs and personal growth in fostering healthy relationships. For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Soni Pelty- Breaking Cultural Norms: What My Arranged Marriage Taught Me About Self-Love- Ep 29 Stefanie Wilson-Ditching Dating Apps- Ep 23 Emily LaVoie- Get Over Your Negative Body Image- Ep 20   Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    50 min
  7. 11/22/2024

    Ep 29- Breaking Cultural Norms: What My Arranged Marriage Taught Me About Self-Love

    Today we are joined by the fabulous relationship coach, podcast host, and author Soni Pelty. We get real and raw as Soni talks about her unbelievable journey from an arranged marriage in conservative Dubai to discovering her true self... 22 years later. Soni shares the difference between self-care and self-love and what many women get wrong when it comes to healing, and how setting boundaries and putting yourself first can transform your relationships. From dealing with family pressures and a rocky marriage to finding her voice and learning to date, Soni's story is a ride! If you're curious about how to break free from cultural or societal norms and discover who you actually are, this episode is a must-listen! So grab your cuppa, get comfy, and strap in for our eye-opening chat with Soni Pelty. Love, Yvonne 90min Love Reset Intensive with Soni- leave past patterns behind, reclaim your self-worth, and start attracting the love you deserve! The 90-Minute Love Reset is a transformative, one-time coaching session designed to help you reset your love life with powerful clarity and confidence. Follow Soni Pelty on Insta@limitlesslovewithsoni Get her book HERE: Dating From Self-Love Listen to Raw & Real Podcast   In this episode you will learn how to:  Self-Care vs. Self-Love: Understand the fundamental differences between self-care and self-love. Navigating Cultural Expectations in Relationships: Gain insights into the challenges and dynamics of arranged marriages, especially within conservative cultures. The Importance of Self-Discovery and Healing Patterns: Learn about the journey of self-discovery and the significance of healing generational and cultural patterns that affect one's love life. Building Self-Worth and Authenticity in Dating: Discover the steps to building self-worth and embracing authenticity in dating. For more info, links and transcript go to https://lifecoachyvonne.com/podcast More episodes I think you'll LOVE: Stefanie Wilson- Ditching Dating Apps & Toxic Relationships- Ep 23 Maria Pendolino- You're Not Supposed To Say This On A First Date- Ep 25 Emily LaVoie- Get Over Your Negative Body Image- Ep 20   Intro Song: Bensound- Summer

    1h 6m

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Dating Greatly is the podcast for women who dream of a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship! We explore topics around conscious dating and relationships, the psychology of men and women, healing childhood trauma, healthy sexuality, and manifesting true love. We serve you heart-opening stories, thought provoking conversations and practical relationship tips from men and women that have been where you are! Whether you're single or partnered, this podcast will empower you to have the best relationships of your life! Love, Yvonne